posted December 28, 2020 11:00 PM
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Dumuzi:
[b] i also find detached people somewhat soothing, so there's that, like people who are quiet and introspective and can be detached are very easy for me to get along with i feel very comfortable with someone who can be a bit cold, i find it grounding provided they also have some of feeling there this is why i tend to like earth moons in western and people with water placemement.
I felt this deeply. I've commented somewhere before the same thing with different words. The part with the detached people makes sense in both our cases. You don't have clingy placements/signs/aspects plus your Moon, NN in 7th H and in Aries too. I have Uranus opposite Sun and DSC, NN in 7th H and Saturn in 8thH Aqua. But I have lots of water that isn't afflicted by Uranus/Saturn/Mars/Jupiter including a watery Moon so it makes sense that I need others to have water/earth Moon. Why would you like it though? Have you observed if you are attracted to early/late degrees of water/earth signs? I'm eyeing your Mars, Neptune, Jupiter in 5th H and Pluto in the 1st H. They are in different degrees of earth/water signs.
I read both your replies. I also agree about being honest about that you want/feel/can offer etc. It is so simple and easy to do and it also makes everything simple and easy for all people involved I don't know why so many people prefer pretending and lying, it won't last anyway.
When it comes to cheating though, it seems majority of people are referring to a longlasting monogamous relationship not a short and/or open one. [/B][/QUOTE]
i've been in a longterm relationship but it was always open, i've never been fully monogamous, though i think i could be potentially with the right person at this point in my life
yeah i'd rather lay everything out there and just see what happens, i don't want to deal with ******** in close relationships
i like the way earth moons are stable and i like water placements because they're something i don't have
with the water they tend to turn to air signs in vedic (which is what i lack in vedic where i have water but no air) and the earth moons go to fire signs
so i suppose generally earlier degrees but sometimes not
interestingly enough i tend to find people who are void in an element i have (there's someone with an air void in my life currently, my ex was an earth void these voids remain in vedic in my chart and theirs with elemental switches) and then have the one i lack
it just happens that way
i want the differences, it feels balanced
some of them hit my pluto, sun, or mars typically though im also fine with squares to my venus ive noticed from cancer pisces stuff too is fine and scorpio ive encountered a lot of
i tend to find plutonic types as well