posted December 27, 2020 05:39 PM            

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Originally posted by efaki94:

alot of pressure i know
hahaha
i dont know why but if you make some searches they say its the most unfaithful moon
but you r right one placement doesnt make u cheater
i just wanted to hear from somebody with this moon
that he can be monogamus too.
haha
sorry if its sounds silly.

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posted December 27, 2020 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
people have different views on what's cheating 🤔 what's yours?

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posted December 27, 2020 06:18 PM            

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Originally posted by efaki94:

well
i think that the cheating is of course
the sex or kiss with another person
but also romantic feelings
or fantasies abour another one.
but the fantasies and the feelings is
something that u cant control always
so i think its less "bad" in some way

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posted December 28, 2020 07:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

i agree on the first two not the second two, i also dont consider stuff like flirting cheating that's why i asked

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well i would call the second one
more like emotional cheating not exactly cheating
and i agree with u
about flirting

posted December 28, 2020 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i also find detached people somewhat soothing, so there's that, like people who are quiet and introspective and can be detached are very easy for me to get along with

i feel very comfortable with someone who can be a bit cold, i find it grounding provided they also have some of feeling there this is why i tend to like earth moons in western and people with water placemement.

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I felt this deeply. I've commented somewhere before the same thing with different words. The part with the detached people makes sense in both our cases. You don't have clingy placements/signs/aspects plus your Moon, NN in 7th H and in Aries too. I have Uranus opposite Sun and DSC, NN in 7th H and Saturn in 8thH Aqua. But I have lots of water that isn't afflicted by Uranus/Saturn/Mars/Jupiter including a watery Moon so it makes sense that I need others to have water/earth Moon. Why would you like it though? Have you observed if you are attracted to early/late degrees of water/earth signs? I'm eyeing your Mars, Neptune, Jupiter in 5th H and Pluto in the 1st H. They are in different degrees of earth/water signs.

I read both your replies. I also agree about being honest about that you want/feel/can offer etc. It is so simple and easy to do and it also makes everything simple and easy for all people involved I don't know why so many people prefer pretending and lying, it won't last anyway.

posted December 28, 2020 11:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Dumuzi:
[b] i also find detached people somewhat soothing, so there's that, like people who are quiet and introspective and can be detached are very easy for me to get along with

i feel very comfortable with someone who can be a bit cold, i find it grounding provided they also have some of feeling there this is why i tend to like earth moons in western and people with water placemement.

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I felt this deeply. I've commented somewhere before the same thing with different words. The part with the detached people makes sense in both our cases. You don't have clingy placements/signs/aspects plus your Moon, NN in 7th H and in Aries too. I have Uranus opposite Sun and DSC, NN in 7th H and Saturn in 8thH Aqua. But I have lots of water that isn't afflicted by Uranus/Saturn/Mars/Jupiter including a watery Moon so it makes sense that I need others to have water/earth Moon. Why would you like it though? Have you observed if you are attracted to early/late degrees of water/earth signs? I'm eyeing your Mars, Neptune, Jupiter in 5th H and Pluto in the 1st H. They are in different degrees of earth/water signs.

I read both your replies. I also agree about being honest about that you want/feel/can offer etc. It is so simple and easy to do and it also makes everything simple and easy for all people involved I don't know why so many people prefer pretending and lying, it won't last anyway.

When it comes to cheating though, it seems majority of people are referring to a longlasting monogamous relationship not a short and/or open one. [/B][/QUOTE]

i've been in a longterm relationship but it was always open, i've never been fully monogamous, though i think i could be potentially with the right person at this point in my life

yeah i'd rather lay everything out there and just see what happens, i don't want to deal with ******** in close relationships

i like the way earth moons are stable and i like water placements because they're something i don't have

with the water they tend to turn to air signs in vedic (which is what i lack in vedic where i have water but no air) and the earth moons go to fire signs

so i suppose generally earlier degrees but sometimes not

interestingly enough i tend to find people who are void in an element i have (there's someone with an air void in my life currently, my ex was an earth void these voids remain in vedic in my chart and theirs with elemental switches) and then have the one i lack

it just happens that way

i want the differences, it feels balanced

some of them hit my pluto, sun, or mars typically though im also fine with squares to my venus ive noticed from cancer pisces stuff too is fine and scorpio ive encountered a lot of

posted April 26, 2021 08:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Sauerkraut:
hmm on second thought, not sure what you are asking exactly? someone who wants what is taken is technically not a cheater..

a handful of people in question that i no longer associate with for various and obvious reasons:

- guy with aries venus in 3rd (sag mars 12th) who “stole” his current fiance from her long term bf. he told me the story in a very conquest-ish way. although he is faithful in action, he has many crushes and finds it a conquest for any of them to like him back
- guy with scorpio venus in 7th (libra mars 6th) who cheated on all his girlfriends with new girls, exes, married girls.. it didnt matter to him, no barriers could stop him and actually excited him. a serial “monogamist” with serial affairs
- girl with leo venus (cancer mars) who loved flirting inappropriately with guys who were taken. she would meet up with them “innocently” and publicly praised their relationships, however she would make snide remarks about their wives or girlfriends to me. she is also a serial “monogamist” who isnt exactly loyal. it seem like she strayed when not getting the attention but still talked about how great her relationship was
- guy with leo venus (virgo mars) who was/is in a good loving marriage and constantly tried to hit on me behind his wifes back. both him and his wife were loved by many close to them who thought they were the epitome of a great marriage. it got very awkward for me as i was cool with the wife. i removed myself from them and that whole circle of friends
- guy with virgo venus (libra mars) who cheated on his girlfriends with exes whenever the current one was on the outs
- guy with capricorn venus (aquarius mars) who married his long term girlfriend expressed to me that humans arent meant to belong to one person, although his wife doesnt need to know this

i guess the pattern here is that cheaters gonna cheat, conquesters gonna conquest, people gonna people? the actual cheaters on my list all have venus and mars in adjacent signs but i dont think thats a thing and is also only true for my small bit of data..

i have aries venus in 5th square cancer mars in 8th. when i was younger (late teens/early 20s), you could say i liked conquests. i didnt particularly care for the person afterwards and whether they were taken or not didnt matter. that didnt necessarily excite me and actually appalled me mostly. i hated disloyal liars. i just didnt care because it had nothing to do with me - feed my sad sad ego > my hypocritical idealistic spout. fortunately i became more conscious of these ways and realized that was not cool at all. i have always been loyal in relationships though, even when they were casual.

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