posted January 20, 2021 03:48 PM            

Hiraku, I just meant that the qualities of Gemini - short term attention, variety, lack of emotional depth, due to its ruler Mercury - put into a Venus, COULD make a person to cheat and those that I've known, have cheated.

I have a Gemini Mars and this qualities are present in my actions. I know a bit of any topic you want to talk with me, but just a bit. Just a few subjects I can take them in depth. I started the faculty of Letters and ended up with Economics degree and now I'm thinking about starting a master about culture. Geminis are best at journalism because they take information and they communicate it further. Which makes them good writers, because they can read a lot of topics, but that doesn't mean that they are qualified in that topic.
Because this is a Gemini Venus, they will be superficial in relationships. They don't really know how to love. They are very fun to be around and anyone can have a great time with them, but they are thinking rational when it comes to love, and love is a feeling. Their love is a *conditioned* (if that's the right word) one because they love the mental connection and a person is more than the abilities they posses.

Meanwhile, the downfall of a Taurus Venus is the materialism that they can get into and the comfort that they seek, could make them to stay in a relationship for the sake of not going through a break up and search for another.

posted January 20, 2021 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
@mee_chryssa
Allow me to list people I know who've cheated. Tell me how many Gemini Venus you see: 2 Taurus (one of them has a Taurus stellium (Sun/Mercury/Venus/Mars)), 2 Leo, 2 Scorpio, 2 Virgo, 1 Pisces, 1 Sagittarius, 1 Aquarius, 1 Gemini (*note that this guy has a stellium Sun/Moon/Venus all in Gemini).

You cannot say a person will cheat just because they have Venus in Gemini. That's stereotype and it's based on only 3 Gem Venus you know. People cheat for a variety of reasons...some out of insecurity, loneliness etc... not just because they're bored. You said Taurus could be the stabiliser. While I agree Taurus loves stability and is generally loyal but as I listed above, the Taurus stellium guy I know has been cheating on his wife (and unashamed as he's very open about it) for the past 2+yrs. He's planning a child with his wife but no intention of leaving his lover. Scorpio Venus is another sign well-known for loyalty and faithfulness... but I know 2 who cheated.

Astrologically you need to also look at how their Venuses are aspected. E.g. Venus-Uranus individuals can have unstable affection. They can move on from partners very quickly as shown by my friend who has Leo Venus square Uranus. I've seen her crying over her boyfriend one minute and then kissed another guy the next. The Aqua Venus gal has the same aspect. She's known to find another boat before she jumps ship. Also Venus-Neptune people can be easily disappointed in love. This may also prompt them to cheat. The Sag Venus I mentioned above was a serial cheater. His Venus conjunct Neptune square Mars sextile Pluto. Another serial cheater (the one with the Gemini stellium) has Venus conjunct Sun/Moon/DSC opposite Neptune square Saturn trine Pluto.

I would also analyse their Moon/Mars to see the propensity of cheating. You can't just point at one planet and one sign.

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posted January 21, 2021 01:17 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Can you elaborate more about "too comfortable in a relationship"? Do you mean, the relationship becomes a lil bit boring after times with Taurus venus?

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I believe it is all about compatibility. My friend who was dating a Taurus Venus says he only met her on Saturdays and all he wanted to do was to stay in and watch TV. There was also no surprise elements in their relationship (no flowers, sudden gifts or sweet nothings etc). Some may be ok with this but not for her Leo Venus. It sounds boring to me as a Gemini Venus as well. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Even though as a Taurus sun I also like certain predictability but Venus is how we do love.

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Yes, yes, yes, about insecurity of Gemini venus, oh, I can tell but the constant reassurance can be exhausted because it can be easily turned into drama. I can feel that for my Gemini venus ex, but at that time, I couldn't stay for longer because our relationship was too toxic for me.

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posted January 21, 2021 03:07 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Yes, they want it, but with all Gemini placement I've found (not just venus), themselves can't easily deliver it to the relationship. There will always a moment where they are being so unstable that shocks you and sometimes shakes your trust.

Now I understand why Gemini and Scorpio once falls in love. Odd pairs but surprisingly I've found many. Also Gemini and Taurus couples.

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posted January 21, 2021 03:28 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
We were talking about just the Venus sign. I didn't go any further with this because the question was how they can be differentiated. And between Taurus Venus and Gemini Venus, the Taurus is more grounded and the Gemini is not.
If someone has their personal planets in water sign could make them emotional and somehow involved in a relationship.
Scorpios are prone to cheating because is a sexual sign ruled by Mars. The Sagittarius Venus is the most unfaithful one and I don't think there is a stabilizer for this. ) joking here... maybe there is
Also, one of the Gemini Venus I gave as an example is a Leo Sun, so that's how she behaved. One minute was sad and the next minute she was sleeping with a guy.
Having Mars in Taurus conjunct Venus could point to a person who is more sexual than a person that have this two planets in different signs (Venus in Taurus or just Mars in Taurus and the other in other sign) or even out of degree conjunction.

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I was with a jackass (Scorpio Venus) for longer than I should and my friend also was cheated on repeatedly by her Sag Venus ex-husband. We both have plenty of chances to cheat and dump their sorry ***** but we didn’t (blinded..that’s all I can say) so I feel sad we are often being labeled as cheaters instead. 😭 Her Venus is conjunct Mars/Saturn and I believe the Saturn energy grounds her love nature. My Venus forms a t-square with my Pisces Mars and Sag Moon/Neptune. I’m less resilient than her. I tend to move on quicker when things go south. What I think is IF that person has a lot of Gemini in their chart like the example I mentioned, then their propensity to cheat is much higher. But that’s just one e.g. I have.

I agree Taurus Venus feels more grounded. They tend to be more constant and they build up slowly and steadily. Gemini Venus, on the other hand, appears flighty and flirty. I may come across this way too but I’m actually just socialising; I don’t cross the line. I’m not interested in any of them but maybe some think I’m interested. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But if I fall in love I’m committed, I stop looking.

posted January 21, 2021 06:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I believe it is all about compatibility. My friend who was dating a Taurus Venus says he only met her on Saturdays and all he wanted to do was to stay in and watch TV. There was also no surprise elements in their relationship (no flowers, sudden gifts or sweet nothings etc). Some may be ok with this but not for her Leo Venus. It sounds boring to me as a Gemini Venus as well. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Even though as a Taurus sun I also like certain predictability but Venus is how we do love.

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posted January 21, 2021 06:52 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Check! Total silence vs talkative. 👍 (are you all Taurus venus agree?)

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I agree on this. Taurus is more reserved and Geminis like to talk. Communication is important to them.

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Materials, the Gemini venus with Taurus mars is crazy for materials and perfumes, the Taurus Venus with Gemini sun is more laid back about it.

Neck, The Gemini venus with Taurus mars is openly saying, "I like it", doesn't care about writing a song or poem for someone. The Taurus venus with Gemini sun doesn't say anything but feels tickled, so the response is trying to avoid it, he is the one who writes poem or sing a song for someone.

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I guess that the neck is a sensitive spot for me.
When they have the same signs but different planets, it gets difficult.

I know only a Gemini Sun with Taurus Venus which is conjunct to mine, I guess the grounded appearance when choosing clothes? I can relate to this. I have many jumpers (sweaters) that I like to be comfortable in. He also is very talented. He makes great portraits. I wanted to get one from him for myself. I know another taurus Venus, but he is an Aries Sun with Pisces Mercury and he paints really well too. So artistic talent when it comes to Venus Taurus. I also play the guitar and have some songs written. I love music.
A friend of mine with Sun Gemini, Taurus Mercury liked many expensive things. She has an Aries Venus so she liked to be glamorous, she has breasts implants. And the guy I dated with Gemini Sun and Venus, with Taurus Mars, wanted a lot of expensive things. I remember his mother couldn't give him something for his car, an expensive one at that time, even if he was 22 years old, didn't work or have a stable income, he was ****** that his mother couldn't give him.

I didn't find artistic talent when it was a Taurus Mercury or Mars, but more of a materialistic/grounded/high quality view on things. I don't know if I'm right about this.

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Appearance, both person I observe, have plump body, they love foods.

What do you think, dates with Taurus venus is about foods, while dates with Gemini venus is about variety?

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posted January 21, 2021 12:46 PM            

Possessiveness can be an issue because Tarrus Venus takes there time to pick the right person once they pick that person they don't want to let go.

Laugh away if you may..the best companion I ever had was my loyal Brown Female Tabby cat.

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posted January 21, 2021 03:40 PM              

She loves me and I love her, pretty straightforward and simple.

But preferring animals to people is sometimes a reaction to potential fear of being potentially hurt by people since people are far more complex beings and are more apt to disappoint, upset, and/or hurt you than an animal.

posted January 22, 2021 12:47 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
I do this. I actually thought recently that people don't see it this way. To entertain a Taurus, someone has to take them out for dinner or stay inside and watch a film and cuddle. I am a girl and I didn't make this kind of gifts, but yes, it can get boring for someone that wants to have a more exciting life and with my afflicted Venus, I guess I am more like this than I should normally be, adding the Taurus Moon. A friend that has a Taurus South Node noticed how I don't take risks and he said that I should do it more often. I even have a formula for this. If the possibility for something to go well is more than 70%, I'll do it. The fixed and grounded and stable Taurus ))
Anyway, I think that I want to stay inside more because I'm a Pisces. And usually I enjoy going out to concerts and stuff like that, I think this is because of my Pluto in the 5th house. And Jupiter opposite Saturn is square to Venus so I go back and forward from indulging and being self confident to low self esteem and feeling judged. I think this aspect makes me drive with high speed at times, which is pretty dangerous.

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I’m ok to stay in and cuddle but not all the time every time, at least not the whole day. What the Leo Venus told me was they felt like an ‘old couple’ together, lol. He didn’t even meet her on V-day, said he had to go home and read up about work and I thought that was really bad. She also got him gifts for Xmas and V-day while he got her nothing. I’m not sure if this is his Taurus Venus or he didn’t like her that much.

posted January 22, 2021 05:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I’m ok to stay in and cuddle but not all the time every time, at least not the whole day. What the Leo Venus told me was they felt like an ‘old couple’ together, lol. He didn’t even meet her on V-day, said he had to go home and read up about work and I thought that was really bad. She also got him gifts for Xmas and V-day while he got her nothing. I’m not sure if this is his Taurus Venus or he didn’t like her that much.

Lol, how do you calculate the 70%? I’m not much of a risk taker either but I’m intuitive so I may sometimes do things out of my norm e.g. the time I quit my full time job and went freelance. Now I may be venturing into biz... my Sag Moon perhaps.

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posted January 22, 2021 05:44 PM            

My daughter is a Taurus Venus. She is also heavily Gemini. She does love banter and wit, but this girl can handle and enjoys very deep conversations and paths of thought. She adores things of a sensual nature- very tactile. She, so far, is quite loyal in nature... though in day to day stuff she is not above bending the truth to fit her needs. Very sexual and sensual in nature, but also has a square to her Venus from her Mars.

I have had many friends and partners with both Venuses. I actually find both very affectionate, though most of them also had strong Cancer placements. The biggest difference I noticed was in the things they like to discuss, and how they go about it. Geminis like words and flitting about like birds from topic to topic. Taurus' like depth and can hold a topic for quite some time.

posted January 22, 2021 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Gemini Venus here, who has always wanted a stable, happy, committed relationship.

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posted January 22, 2021 07:03 PM            

(Best friend is Gem Sun, step dad a Leo Sun, mentor an Aries Sun, friend a Taurus Sun)

I would say all of them have these things in common:

They will never, ever admit they have a crush on their person of interest. They prefer to be chased, pursued, and enjoy taking a submissive role in the courting process

They, more than any other Venus sign I have ever interacted with, LOVE to induce jealousy in their person of interest, under the impression this will spurn their POI to action

They all are wonderful conversationalists that can talk about anything

They all delight in unpredictability in their partners and friends

All of them are obsessed with music/making playlists for the people they like/are very nostalgic for certain songs in their life

None of them have been able to maintain a long term relationship for very long (why? who knows)

All of them have a vested interest in philosophy

They all have that one "One Who Got Away" (that person never gave into their wishes/played hard to get/moved on)

I know like..... 3 Venus in Taurus people? But I'm not very close to them so I don't feel as qualified to answer that question as much as Venus in Gemini)

posted January 23, 2021 03:56 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
If there are 10 things that have to happen for the thing that I want to happen and 4 of them are a huge risk and highly unlikely to happen as I think, I won't do it.

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posted January 23, 2021 04:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Lol, ok maybe I’ll try this risk analysis method some day. The way I assess mine is asking myself what’s the worst that can happen. Haha...

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posted January 23, 2021 04:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Me too.
Unfortunately no Relationship so far.
I'm too emotional.
I can't control my emotions very well.
People always see my weaknesses due to that and take as advantages.
That's why I'm not successful.
I never cheated or left anyone yet.
I'm not any young boy.
I'm near 40.
Venus Conjunct Moon in Gemini 2nd House.

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posted January 23, 2021 06:19 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
))) I did that too, but life has a twisted way of making that bad thing happen when I ask this.

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posted January 23, 2021 07:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
So you gotta ask yourself even with the worst that can happen will you still be willing to do this? Because there is no way you can be risk-free all the time and still get whatever you want. You will miss out a lot of things in life. Sometimes you lose the prize but you gain the experience. Let's say I intend to invest $20k in shares. If I lost this money can I still survive and will I be OK with it. If yes I'll take the risk.

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posted January 23, 2021 11:11 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
My conjunction is at the beginning of the 8th house. I'm very careful, because of what I've witnessed my whole life, and also because I was almost killed when I was small (by a man). I want to know that if they get angry, they won't try to hurt me physically. I want to know that they won't gaslight me, or screw with my family (what's left of it).

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