posted December 18, 2021 09:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Absolutely 🙏🏿🙏🏿.We all have feelings.

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Yes, minus most sociopaths and especially psychopaths. They experience anger, rage, frustration, but that's about it. Otherwise, they are completely numb and gray.

Then again, I can't imagine too many ASPD types being at an astrology forum. Generally the above folks are not into esoteric type stuff at all, but usually extremely material focused. Occasionally you do get some that are into the occult, Satanism, or the like, but these are the more rare types.

posted December 18, 2021 12:12 PM            

@ Galactic : 🎄🔔
Could it maybe be that you meant 'dependent' instead of 'co-dependent' ?

Because 'co-dependent' is, at least as far as I heard so far, somebody who is dependent on somebody elses dependency/addiction.
So indirectly also dependent, like co/com means 'together with'.
For example family members or spouses feeding their morbidly obese (just to take an example)
loved one to unconciously keep him/her dependent and not be left alone themselves
as soon as he/she would lose weight
and could leave the house to make some friends or get a job...
And to prevent the family dynamics to become flexible and moving/changing with the help of open communication and/or even better a family therapy/counseling in that case.

But maybe I misunderstood something or the expression is used differently in the US (?)

Astrological question : 🌌💫

There seem to be different theories about areas within sings and houses.

One astrologer had once told me that the very beginning of the sign
had the strongest energy of the sign
(chart owner did everything to 'reach' the sign with his planet energy,
so lots of motivation),

the other said the end
(the planet went through the whole sign,
so much experience and full of the energy of the sign),

some say the middle
(most pure energy of the sign, uninfluenced by the neighbours).

And then there is the theory of anaretic (the very last within the sign) degrees,
having to solve some (karmic?) issues there urgently, in the last 'minute'...

Or maybe a mix of all 4 theories somehow ?
I tend to mix them, looking what fits individually, but I'm not so experienced. 🤷

Maybe a complex subject for a seperate thread though...

posted December 18, 2021 03:40 PM            

Hi HeavenlyLove,

Co-dependent is a psychological term that means when people are too dependent on an outside relationship for a sense of fulfillment and happiness--to the point that is detrimental to their well being. Typically they tend to be too clingy and needy in a connection, and their insecurity levels tend to be very high (and they can become controlling because of that).

A good example is I talked to a guy last night that broke up with his girlfriend because she was telling him that he can't have female friends, even though they were just platonic. He's an Aquarius Sun, and wasn't about to put up with that controlling behavior and so broke up with her.

posted December 18, 2021 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by saronna:
This is hard when its your boyfriend & ghosts you. If your boyfriend ghosts maybe you are not meant to be & you will find a faithful boyfriend

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You got it backwards. She was the one ghosting and not being good at communication. He got upset with that and retaliated.

posted December 18, 2021 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I don’t see being annoyed with people who don’t respond in time and disappear sometimes as clingy or co-depended.
If I answer the messages, I would expect the other person should do also. Doesn’t matter if it’s bf, friend or somebody random.
Many people have a tendency to ghost nowadays. So it’s normal to try to find out if your potential date is reliable up front.

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Yeah, I agree. That's why I clarified at the end of my post this:

posted December 18, 2021 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Sometimes I don't respond and will disappear it depends on who it is though. If I just started talking to someone I don't feel like I'm obligated to respond right away. But if it's someone who I've talked to for awhile whether it's a friend or whatever I'll respond right away.

There are times when I just don't like being bothered at all though. And I don't feel like I should have to explain myself to someone I just started talking to.

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I understand all the above. But an interesting question to ask, is how do you feel when others do that to you? If that ever makes you feel kind of upset, disappointed, or the like, then wouldn't it be a bit hypocritical to do that to others?

The beginning of spiritual wisdom is to always ask self, "How would I feel if someone did or didn't do what I'm thinking of doing or not doing to another?" It's also related to empathy.

posted December 18, 2021 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
I understand all the above. But an interesting question to ask, is how do you feel when others do that to you? If that ever makes you feel kind of upset, disappointed, or the like, then wouldn't it be a bit hypocritical to do that to others?

The beginning of spiritual wisdom is to always ask self, "How would I feel if someone did or didn't do what I'm thinking of doing or not doing to another?" It's also related to empathy.

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posted December 18, 2021 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
You didn't answer the question though. I've sure others have done that to you right? How did you feel? If it was always a reaction of, "well whatever" and you truly felt that way, then sure, go with that.

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posted December 18, 2021 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by saronna:
[b]This is hard when its your boyfriend & ghosts you. If your boyfriend ghosts maybe you are not meant to be & you will find a faithful boyfriend

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You got it backwards. She was the one ghosting and not being good at communication. He got upset with that and retaliated.

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posted December 18, 2021 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do you have Venus square Uranus in your chart?

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It's even worse than that. I have Libra Moon with Aqua Venus in the 7th square Scorpio Uranus in the 4th.

I tend to attract and be attracted to erratic, extremist, going from attached/loving to cold and detached, hot and cold types--the very types prone towards ghosting and inconsiderate communication styles--sometimes because they are also the type to get overwhelmed by life, others, themselves, or what not, easily.

posted December 18, 2021 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
It's even worse than that. I have Libra Moon with Aqua Venus in the 7th square Scorpio Uranus in the 4th.

I tend to attract and be attracted to erratic, extremist, going from attached/loving to cold and detached, hot and cold types--the very types prone towards ghosting and inconsiderate communication styles--sometimes because they are also the type to get overwhelmed by life, others, themselves, or what not, easily.

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posted December 18, 2021 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by saronna:
This is hard when its your boyfriend & ghosts you. If your boyfriend ghosts maybe you are not meant to be & you will find a faithful boyfriend

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Oh, thank you Saronna, that's so sweet. 🎀🎄🎀

I'm very happy with my husband, he is very faithfull, but he's indeed ghosting me since years.

He has left his body already but is still living with me here in our house on earth, while at the same time in another dimension somehow (very exceptional circumstances).

He's now waving friendly to all of you, 👋🙂
wishes a heartfelt Merry Christmas ! (I'm serious)

🎄🎅🎅🔔🎅🎅🎅🎄🎅🎅🎅🔔🎅🎅🎄

posted December 19, 2021 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Yes, minus most sociopaths and especially psychopaths. They experience anger, rage, frustration, but that's about it. Otherwise, they are completely numb and gray.

Then again, I can't imagine too many ASPD types being at an astrology forum. Generally the above folks are not into esoteric type stuff at all, but usually extremely material focused. Occasionally you do get some that are into the occult, Satanism, or the like, but these are the more rare types.

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