posted April 26, 2022 02:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
sashavittoria:

Oh my gosh these transits feel so dragged out! I really had to remind my self that it shorter than a Pluto transit. It feels so long because I have never paid so much attention to it. I like Saturn transits better. LOL I was not even phased by Saturn squaring my Moon Pluto and Lilith.

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My 11th house sun is trinned by Mars and squared by Saturn. So my popularity and fitting in has always fluctuated. Not very phased anymore but traumatic when you are school aged.

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As an adult losing interest in being friends with people who are just drama or whatever, has helped me forgive people in childhood. If people are no longer comfortable with a friendship for whatever reason, I truly believe that needs to be respected.

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Ok, that makes me feel better. I need to look back and reflect more on past Chiron transits so I can figure out what to expect. This combined with Pluto in Aqua is a little nervewracking. I can't believe you like Saturn transits! I don't know if I feel the same.

I have the exact same thing going on (11th house sun squared by Saturn) except Mars is sextile instead of trine. I completely relate - popularity fluctuates and I had some persistently traumatizing school environments, though not helped by my general rebelliousness and aggression. I never expect to fit in anywhere anymore and I kind of like it that way, but it can really be a self-fulfilling prophecy.

posted April 26, 2022 04:02 PM            

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@librapurr

I have zero in planets in Libra (unless my earth sign counts)
I have a lot of Libra's in my life to fill the void (boss, my 2 assistants, dad, sister, late grandma, second cousins, precious nephew)

My chart is even steven with blessings and challenges related to the 11th house.

When it comes to empty houses I realize no news is good news! I have an empty 7th and 4th house. Having planets square my moon and cancer Jupiter makes me think what if I had a planet squaring a planet in my 4th house right now and consider my self lucky.

Ahh yeah it's mainly one friend in the group that has me running. Maybe I would have less problems if I was more blunt. Maybe if I had Virgo in my chart I would say. "ever think about writing in a dairy or getting more friends?" LOL

It takes me long time to tell someone they are bugging me or that their shhh stinks.

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posted April 27, 2022 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:

Ok, that makes me feel better. I need to look back and reflect more on past Chiron transits so I can figure out what to expect. This combined with Pluto in Aqua is a little nervewracking. I can't believe you like Saturn transits! I don't know if I feel the same.

I have the exact same thing going on (11th house sun squared by Saturn) except Mars is sextile instead of trine. I completely relate - popularity fluctuates and I had some persistently traumatizing school environments, though not helped by my general rebelliousness and aggression. I never expect to fit in anywhere anymore and I kind of like it that way, but it can really be a self-fulfilling prophecy.

You Scorpio moons can forgive after awhile but you never forget! I appreciate what you're saying about respecting boundaries. I need to do better at that. When faced with rejection I tend to persist, and I'm trying to stop that. Even though rejection hurts so bad and I just want to fix it. But you can't.

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hmmm maybe I don't mind Saturn transits because to this day I felt like Saturn oppose Venus was one of the worst astrological experiences I ever experienced.
I am convinced that Venus is tied to self esteem. Anytime my self esteem is lowered, a planet is opposing or squaring my Venus.

I was not getting along with my family, not comfortable in my skin. Had to deal with trauma from my past that was keeping me from relationships. Went though a period where I felt like a total outcast. I had no idea what I wanted to do after high school too. My sister also told me my fashion and appearance had me looking like "I give up"

But I feel like Saturn makes us stop wasting time.
I was wasting time with a guy. But once Saturn squared my Venus it ended. And then I met my husband.

Oh my mars actually sextiles my sun. Sorry about the typo. (Aries Sun, and Aquarius Mars)

posted April 29, 2022 06:00 PM            

My friends from very early childhood(like 1993) want to meet up for a road trip! I cannot believe the responses! Everyone sounds seriously down to take time to do one!

THEN my other friends. I realize how big of a pain in the ass it is to be friends with them! I am on the verge of coming up with another excuse. One girl is too obsessed with me(Cancer), the other is too one sided with friendship(Pisces)....I wont get into it now! The other(Aries) I am starting to realize that she has probably tried to get out of hanging out but the other girl(Pisces) was too persistent like can't get a ride..., Stawr will pick you up then!

posted May 20, 2022 11:49 PM            

I had to tell husband how burned out I was with our intimacy life. And how I basically give zero sh!+s now. I have givin him so many warnings...for me to not get to this point.

at first he tried buying me more **** ...when he realized I was still not content (duh) he has started initiating whats app video chats with me. I still refuse to *** on our sessions. He has to earn it, and he has ways to go. We will meet again this way again on Monday.

posted May 21, 2022 10:01 AM            

Chiron in Aries hits my most dominant sign and squares the Capricorn planets at the same time. I struggled with a health issue and had two surgeries, the first surgery lasted over 6 hours and the second surgery another two hours. It was nasty but I had to get it done and got through it. Im currently recovering and concentrate much more on healthy eating and on developing more routine in my everyday life.

posted May 21, 2022 10:51 AM            

I have Chiron Cancer 11 degrees.

So Chiron Aries will rx 11 degrees again.

posted June 02, 2022 03:32 AM            

Experiencing unrequited love, agape love and ultimately learning self-love

Transit Saturn has been opposing my Chiron since February 2022 and until January 2023. I’ve heard this labeled as a heartbreak transit by “magi” astrologers

posted June 06, 2022 09:40 PM            

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Show your injuries
During this time a particular sore point of yours is disturbed, a sensitivity or vulnerability that you may not be aware of. So it may well be that you react as you have perhaps always reacted to such situations: You are distressed, hurt, you distance yourself and forget the incident as quickly as possible. If you do not react by withdrawing as you usually do, but instead show that you have been hurt, you will earn the freedom to behave differently in this, for you, typical situation. That is, of course, easier said than done, but this influence offers you an outstanding opportunity to stand far enough outside yourself to show your injuries. If you recognize the situation in question and react to it, you will win new strength and confidence.
Astro.com

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posted June 26, 2022 07:36 PM            

I'm actually surprised by my husband. He told me when we are on the road and he has time off he wants to go other places.(like see his out of state grandparents I've never met) Because whenever he comes homes his mother and oldest sibling just give him stuff to do. Pet sit, assemble furniture, use his truck for furniture or anything they are getting rid of, go up to the cottage and go in the crawl space.

I thought it was tacky of his mom and sister too. Especially since he is a very grown man. It seems kind of exploitative to me. Knowing that he craves her validation and his Virgo stellilum makes him want to be helpful and useful.

OMG as soon as he got a truck, they would want him to drop everything excessively.

My husband saw me get fed up with how much they asked us to pet sit. He thought I was dramatic at first. He even told me "then don't go with me!" and then would get upset with me when I wouldn't.

I also had to put my foot down that if we already have plans, we are not dropping our plans if they ask us to do something last minute. I will not be treated as a second class citizen in these situations. Because this happened when we had a planned date. Then he was burned out by the time we had our date. I was livid, and let him know I had enough.

I have also told him that I don't think he has enough boundaries with his family. And how I think it's weird that he always says yes at such short notice.

A few years ago I told him, if he wants to be ordered around by his family that it is going to be on him and not on me. I am not going to put up with it.

Last year he asked me if he could go up north with his mom to help her. This was a month before our wedding, and I told him only if he gets things done for our wedding that he said he would. He did get it done, so he went.

So I am surprised that while I've said my piece two years ago.. and if that's how he wants to spend free time that's his choice, that he came to that conclusion himself.

I know some families have too much pride when they just want to spend time with members. My mom kind of did that with me. "you haven't come over to do laundry in a while" "I don't need to have laundry to see you, how about we just make plans."

Also this year he fessed up to me, that his family never making plans to come out and visit him, kind of hurts his feelings. He has had his travel job for 3 years now. Even my parents came out to visit him.

Just the fact that they planned a trip to Spain when they knew he would be home seems kind of secretly petty. They of course ask when he is coming home. He told them that the focus is our 1 yr anniversary. PLUS whenever we are here, we plan on staying at his Dad's(his mom's ex husband) So now that we are dog sitting we aren't staying at his Dad's.
When he tells his dad he is coming home they just make plans to golf. His dad doesn't start badgering him.

My husband is seeing the pattern of "hey you're home, do stuff for us"

Chiron is squaring his Capricorn Neptune 14 degrees and N. Node 16 degrees in his 4th house.

I think having his Neptune square, I think he is starting to see what I see with his family.

Plus he's had to hear a lot of things he doesn't want to hear with adjusting to being married.

His family kind of does this thing where they act like they are better than everyone else. I've definitely let him know that they ain't. And that their beliefs are superior to others. And keep up with appearances in a very middle class kind of way. Very conforming people.

posted July 03, 2022 08:39 PM            

I can give the benefit of the doubt a bit, like they are curious or whatever...It has never sat with me well when people ask why? after I say no to them. It just comes across as the person being entitled. Whenever someone ever asks me why or why not. On the inside I am yelling "BECAUSE I DON'T F()(KING HAVE TO!"

posted July 03, 2022 08:56 PM            

Like telling me where I should be getting my wedding dress from...which was super insulting by the way since I already told them I was going to David's Bridal. (which some Brides would be insulted to be told to go to David's Bridal!)

Having a field day with my bridal registry, because THEIR SON/BROTHER is never ready to own a house. The invitations did not go out yet. My shower was in May, and it was like the first day of April when they were on my ass.

Oh and the fact that the sister still comes over to play with the dogs when I was sitting is effing dumb, and having to make small talk with someone who clearly despises me...

YEAH I THINK I'LL PASS

Oh look we were rude and now this person doesn't care about impressing us.

posted July 09, 2022 05:38 PM            

I think it was last year, his ex girlfriend(of 3/4 years) accused him of violating her. She moved on to someone else before him, but when he got a new GF that's when she posted the FB status about him.

I wasn't there but...It just seemed like she wanted to ruin his life having to hear about him being with someone else. He broke up w/ his last GF a few months ago but remain friends with benefits.

He has been expressing himself about his self worth lately and how he is not making enough money.