posted August 06, 2022 07:20 AM            

Mars conjunct Cancer Ascendent, 10th Venus in Aries

I also would be considered having an exhibitionist kink because I like the public/outdoors, and general PDA. Neither do I want to the blinds closed.

posted August 08, 2022 03:09 PM            

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Originally posted by rockwell:
What would happen if Mars was conjunct Pluto, Moon or/and Saturn? Would it change the basic nature of Mars in lets say for example in Libra?

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With Pluto on Mars,it would likely add more focus and obsessive tendencies. The Mars energy would not be the type to let anything go easily. Some anger issues.

Pluto conj Saturn would inhibit energy levels and show challenges that are difficult to overcome or require a tremendous commitment in overcoming. A very frustrating energy of delays and reversals.

Pluto-Moon would not be a very secure placement or transit as it would suggest the erosion of comfort zones or the breaking apart of all things that we define as part of our 'security'. An insecure period/time.

posted August 08, 2022 03:24 PM            

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Originally posted by rockwell:
What would happen if Mars was conjunct Pluto, Moon or/and Saturn? Would it change the basic nature of Mars in lets say for example in Libra?

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I think it totally would a little bit.

posted August 08, 2022 03:52 PM            

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"I have fantasies (strong sexual fantasies). But there isn't much interest in actually engaging with people on the "real time " level beyond kissing, fondling and foreplay."

And this is exactly why Mars in Libra is in its fall. Aries23degress you've just confirmed an old cliche about Mars in Libra.

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My thinking is that the sex drive depends on the partner concerned for Libra Mars? The more turned on they are with the partner, the higher the drive?

Coz I realize that I know a number of Libra Mars guys who are absolutely into sex. But they all mention that the more the partner conforms to their aesthetic taste(or ideals of what they find attractive), the higher the drive to have sex.

Venus seems to be more influential here. Ambiance is everything. And lots of foreplay seems to get them "on"

posted August 09, 2022 12:03 PM            

I am starting to suspect that they are horndogs with wondering eyes.

They seem to have mommy/caregiver kinks.

Whether they are attractive or not they are physically manipulative when it comes to sex. Not in the mood? They'll fix that.

posted August 09, 2022 01:28 PM            

I had to edit what I said earlier when I realised that it really wasn't very accurate because yes, I do know of two exes with Mars in Cancer that were very into sex.

And the other Mars in Cancer friend I know is very much into masturbation. He says he does it almost every day. So the drive is there, but what is missing is the partner 🤔

You are right about the Mars in Cancer "working on getting you in the mood for sex"🤣. I laughed my head off because that was the case with an ex.

posted August 11, 2022 05:17 PM            

The chemistry between them is so intense and jumps right out of the screen for the viewer. Some actors just have that with each other. Whilst others don't🤷🏿‍♂️. These two do.

So I looked at their charts because I wanted to see what connections (if any) were between Ven/Mars between them.

Good Ven/Mars inter-relations often make it easy to be around each other. It's not always strictly sexual (as these aspects can be present in best friends, parent-child relationships and co-workers etc). It just makes you two very much at ease in each other's company.

The two actors both individually have Ven/Mars natal aspects. And then have a Ven/Mars double whammy with each other by synastry.

I just wanted to add that between lovers, positive Venus/Mars aspects can help create harmony that can translate to sexual chemistry.If other parts of the two charts are incompatible,these aspects help to smooth the rough edges and draw the two people to each other again and again.

posted August 13, 2022 12:59 AM            

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I had to edit what I said earlier when I realised that it really wasn't very accurate because yes, I do know of two exes with Mars in Cancer that were very into sex.

He would start off doing stuff to "change my mind" when I was not in the mood. And be very persistent at it until I gave in and (admittedly) enjoyed it.

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Tommy Lee (who OP referenced earlier) has Cancer Mars and is certainly a highly sexual man! 🔥 And Pam (his ex-wife) is a Cancer Sun w/ Libra Mars.

posted August 14, 2022 11:20 PM            

Scorpio Venus
Sagittarius Mars

The most I've ever been turned on was by guys who have Scorpio placements. One had his Mars exactly conjunct my Venus, and also moon in Scorpio. It was the sweetest, deepest, most loving sex, always followed by cuddling and often falling asleep in his arms. We were together for a year, and it ended badly unfortunately. Another man has moon in Scorpio. It was also very very loving sex. Once we just laid there looking into each other's eyes afterward and just breathed. We just dated a few months and are good friends now. Both of these men were Aquarius suns, so my Sag Mars also found their quirky fun energy irresistible. But I do have Juno and my DC in Aquarius.

My first boyfriend ever was a Sag sun (like me) who was incredibly flirtatious with every single girl. No thank you! 20-something years later, he keeps messaging me that he is so sorry. I seem to have a pattern of men doing this in general. Coming back and apologizing and/or wanting to be with me again.

I'm starting to realize, now that I'm older, that my moon sign (Virgo) really needs to be satisfied if I'm to be with someone long-term. I was married 14 years to a Virgo. Someone with strong earth placements with a little fire but also depth is perfect for me. The search continues! I'm dating an Aries, Cancer rising, Libra moon now. He has a Cap SN, Juno and DC, his Virgo IC conjunct my moon. We'll see! 😄

posted August 15, 2022 04:54 AM            

The Venusian part of me likes well-groomed partners. I try to stay attractive, so my partner should too. To me, it's a form of respect to make an effort for one another.
I honestly admit that I don't want a smelly partner who does not take care of himself. My partner should be in good shape. Not too big, but not a bodybuilder either. An athletic figure would be nice! With Venus in Taurus, I love sensuality, especially touch and like to explore every corner of my lovers body. Venus in the 7th house makes me very partner-oriented. I wanna know what he likes :P As crazy as it sounds, but what turns him on turns me on. Also I will not control my partner's every step, but loyalty is a must with Venus in Taurus.

Mars in Aries makes me love competition. A partner who doesn't immediately say yes to everything appeals us. I love to chase. With Mars in Aries petrol and speed runs through our veins. Even as a woman, I have a high sex drive. We can often and a lot. Maybe it won't be one big session, but several in a row.

posted August 15, 2022 05:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
- My thinking is that the sex drive depends on the partner concerned for Libra Mars? The more turned on they are with the partner, the higher the drive?

Coz I realize that I know a number of Libra Mars guys who are absolutely into sex. But they all mention that the more the partner conforms to their aesthetic taste(or ideals of what they find attractive), the higher the drive to have sex.

Venus seems to be more influential here. Ambiance is everything. And lots of foreplay seems to get them "on"

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I understand this. It's the same with my Venus in the 7th house.

posted August 16, 2022 08:06 AM            

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Mars in Libra/Venus in Cap.

Why skinny? Because of the Venus in Capricorn ?😏

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posted August 16, 2022 09:40 AM            

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Yes.

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Capricorn likes *high cheekbones*, long legs and dark features

posted August 23, 2022 01:30 PM            

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I have the infamous Mars in Aries (6th house) :P and Venus in Taurus (7th house).

The Venusian part of me likes well-groomed partners. I try to stay attractive, so my partner should too. To me, it's a form of respect to make an effort for one another.

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That is so interesting. In the make up department, all the guys I've been in long term relationships with have protested me putting make up on.

Cancer Mars Venus Taurus guy was all "who are you trying to look good for?"

Capricorn Venus Scorpio Mars guy was all like why do women objectify themselves this way? But really he just didn't like the idea that women don't wake up looking like porn stars. Because if he saw me put mascara on he would pout about it. But if he didn't see me put make up on, he would be like "I don't know what you did but you look really good" I put black eye shadow on. I didn't tell him because I didn't want to deal with him back peddling. LOL

Now my Virgo Venus and Mars husband really surprised me because he can actually tell if I have make up on if he doesn't see me put it on. So detail oriented. LOL Or at least if the make up isn't natural. In our first year as BF and GF as soon as I walked into his apartment he would be like "why did you do that? (red lipstick) You look like Bozo the clown. (Purple lipstick) "we are just going to Applebees" I was all like: How does he know!?

I have been gluten free on and off for over 10 years. If I have the leaser time, I like to work out. Husband admires this about me. My husband doesn't eat healthy himself BUT also really admires that I do this. LOL He likes to support this with me, and he will pick me up some Trader Joe salads when he gets groceries. He buys me chocolates usually if he screws up really bad and makes me very upset.

It's not always easy being with a Virgo stellilum.
VIRGOS, unless you are a doctor do not comment on people being out of shape! It sometimes seems like everyone but Virgos got that memo. As a matter of fact, if it's something the person cannot fix about their appearance in 10 seconds, please shut your mouth.

I lose and gain weight very easy. In our relationship I've experienced weighing anywhere from 116-140 pounds. I'm 5'1. So losing or gaining 5 pounds is very noticeable on me. One time he thought it was appropriate to comment on me being bloated when it was my time of the month. He wrote me a apology email, and tells me it's one of his biggest regrets because I've brought it up in arguments for many years.

Well in my early 20's I started dressing nicer. This eventually turned into me dressing more feminine. My husband definitely digs it. He pokes fun at me on the rare occasions I wear sweat pants, or long shorts.

I think my Aquarius Mars doesn't like being told by a man to not wear make up or to wear more make up.

I love doing my hair and make up but sometimes I just want to sleep in and get stuff done. So for the days I want to go bare I can appreciate my husband's humor of saying "I think you look prettiest when you spend less than 10 minutes getting ready."

I recently gave my vanity away to my oldest niece. My husband is so smug about it. He use to call my vanity my rats nest. He told me that my vanity harbored all my evil.

My IDGAF look is typically hair just down and no styling products. Or low pony tail, or messy high bun. (possibly sprayed with lots of dry shampoo) If I do a no make up look hopefully I at least do my skin care. Face washed, toner, serum, moisturizer. On an average day, my rule with make up is do at least 3 things of make up. That way it have a bit of pizazz with up it taking up so much time and I can get out the door. For example yesterday I went to the grocery store. I did skin care(skipped the serum though) and did pale green eye shadow pale pink blush, and black mascara.

My morning affirmations for make up are: you own too much make up to not be wearing it.

My first year getting serious with my husband he said to me "you are very high maintenance, you just hide it well"

If I intend to wear my make up a certain way and I run out of time I will get very pi$$y. If I want to go bare faced, I want it to be on my own terms.

I also will pretty much wear perfumes/body spray whenever I leave our home. Sometimes I will forget but I do keep a purse perfume on me.

I personally do not think I could date a guy who puts more effort into their appearance than me. Though I do know some couples where they guy primps more than the woman, and it works. (opposites attract) And the women I know in relationships like this don't even put make up on when they are going out-out!

I like a touch of ruggedness in my men. But yes please wash your arse! My husbands has never worn cologne not even on his wedding day. Doesn't do the hair gel very much. Works psychical jobs (HOT!!) But for nice occasions he will dress nice and casual. Nice sweaters and pants.

The Cancer Mars Taurus Venus ex like certain name brand clothes. But was really bad with money.

The Scorpio Mars Capricorn Venus ex had this complexity of not liking anything mildly wealthy. He was a poor kid in a well off area. And I do really think that can screw people up, and make them want to rebel and act like they don't care. The nicest place he would ever shop was Khols. Okay that's fine, but once he embarrassed me when we went to a mall where a lot of wealthy people shopped and blurted out "such snobs" He also told me that is so anti fashion that if the way he dressed became fashion that he would stop wearing it. (and I'm there quietly thinking if you really didn't care, you wouldn't care about that)

I knew my super Virgo husband was the one, because he normally just wears tattered clothes for work. Barely goes shopping. But when we do go to the mall. He has no problem going to Banana Republic, Macy's, Etc. He still has to crack jokes though like "In your face rich people, I'm shopping here too and there is nothing you can do about it." <3 and "I have such a boner for Banana Republic clothes" He is my favorite man to shop with.

Also all of my serious relationships have in with in shape enough guys. Though I have experienced being attracted to husky/chubby guys. Just never ends up being anything serious.

posted August 23, 2022 03:48 PM            

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Capricorn likes *high cheekbones*, long legs and dark features

“Skinny” only makes up for lacking the things above

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Oh Capricorn is very active in my chart as well as Saturn and Pluto I get lots of complements on my cheeck bones. Though I am short, my legs are nice/long for my body. I get compliments on that too. Thanks to my ballet/Pointe classes I have muscle tone on my calves to this day.