posted July 31, 2022 09:43 AM            

I can go first

My Venus and Mars are both in Aries 0 degree conjunction

I‘m highly attracted to traditionally masculine traits in men and women. My type is someone who’s independent, athletic body (not too bulky), someone who has youthful energy no matter their actual age, who seems rather cool but still approachable, who’s easy going, a bit rugged around the edges but overall clean and minimalistic, in their appearance and clothing style.

I do get turned on by uniforms. That cliché is definitely true. An Army soldier (male or female) or a hot cop.. interestingly I also like well-cut suits (major turn on!) , but also just jeans and a classic tanktop or t-shirt.

I‘m not so much into frilly, romantic stuff… although I’m personally very romantic in my imagination, but don’t like tacky, grand gestures.. for example a marriage proposal
in a restaurant with a large bouquet of red roses and a string band playing in the background and strangers watching us, seems like a personal nightmare to me, just like a flash mob at a train station.
I would feel embarrassed and uncomfortable in that situation.

Whereas something intimate and casual, like sitting at the beach with a beer .. and then hearing something heartfelt, spontaneous and real, would definitely get me! I‘d also rather elope than plan the perfect event for a whole year.

Sexually I’m not a one-night-stand person.. despite that venus/mars combination but I don’t need a lot of time to click with somebody, and I can experience a lot of intimacy with someone I barely know. Most of my sexual encounters that happened quickly, felt fated. I don’t have to be in love to enjoy sex.

I do fall in love very quickly, though... most of my relationships were from 0 to 100 in an instant, At the same time, I’m not good at longterm commitment, at all, although I know it’s in my destiny to figure that **** out (NN in Taurus 7th house + DSC in Taurus + Juno in Libra)
Relationships often just happen, without much initiation on my part.

posted July 31, 2022 11:52 AM            

I’m sapiosexual. I’m also turned on by men that know how to “fix a light bulb” if that makes sense? I do not like the average suit-type that crunch numbers for a living!
I also like when someone is able to laugh at my endless goofiness and way-out-there thoughts. I’m an abstract thinker and can in the middle of dinner where politics are being discussed, blurt out: I wonder what would happen if we all took shrooms and went for a swim right now. If the man of my affection can’t hang with me in that obvious fantasy, he’s not for me.

posted July 31, 2022 02:51 PM            

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My Venus and Mars are both in Aries 0 degree conjunction.

I‘m highly attracted to traditionally masculine traits in men and women. My type is someone who’s independent, athletic body (not too bulky), someone who has youthful energy no matter their actual age, who seems rather cool but still approachable, who’s easy going, a bit rugged around the edges but overall clean and minimalistic, in their appearance and clothing style.

I do get turned on by uniforms. That cliché is definitely true. An Army soldier (male or female) or a hot cop.. interestingly I also like well-cut suits (major turn on!) , but also just jeans and a classic tanktop or t-shirt.

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As an Aries Sun, I totally relate to this. ♈

I love traditionally masculine men. Soldiers, Firemen, etc really turn me TF on! 🔥 I'm not into passive, effeminate males at all - most Aries Women I know aren't. So people who assume we desire being with partners whom we can dominate... are waaaay off the mark.

I have Taurus Venus & Capricorn Mars.

So I adore men who are grounded & powerful. 💪 The Strong Silent types w/ a heart of gold underneath? Oooh... just f--k my brains out, sir. Lol!

~Men in tailored suits & ties.
~Men who back cars into parking spaces w/ EASE.
~Men carrying heavy things & fixing stuff.
~Men who spoil me & protect me.

I do enjoy Romance. ⚘ But it needs to be organic, not cheesy. More & more - I see myself eloping! In a foreign tropical oasis rocking my (blush or pale yellow) dream wedding dress... just me & my boo sharing a deep sensuous kiss under the sunset after exchanging heartfelt vows. ❤ Then we later let our primal instincts take over and ravage each other animalisticly in the caves of the jungle. 😁 Give me passion or give me death!

Like you - I also have NN in the 7th.

posted July 31, 2022 06:47 PM            

It makes sense to say that your sexcapades may feel "fated". This is true of Sco Ven/Mars too.

With Mars energy affecting the love planets Venus or Mars, one can go out one day and no planning. Then come back with a lover.🤷🏿‍♂️ These people go by pure instinct and the universe usually delivers an encounter that was largely unexpected, spontaneous & intense.

I have Venus in Sco/Mars in Lib in mutual reception.And I also feel like my sexual encounters felt fated.

When i try to date the conventional way i.e. meet up for drinks, make the 1st move etc. Or go out with the intention of getting laid. It doesnt connect. And i mean NOTHING happens.

I however do admit that with Mars ruling the 8th house.And Ura in the 8th, I feel like Ven/Mars and Ura are all connected in some weird dance.

Nothing about my sex-life is regulated or predictable. I can go for months without any body contact. Then BOOM! One day I am in bed with a hot guy having great sex. 🙆🏿‍♂️

#What turns me on? A great sense of humour, quick wit and pure old fashioned charm.I love to laugh and i am aroused and drawn to a guy who can make me smile and chuckle with ease.

If he knows how to reciprocate my flirtatious advances and make me blush up a field of roses. I am smitten. Probably inlove and already calling him my boyfriend 🤣

posted August 01, 2022 08:15 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
@Ana

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My Venus and Mars are both in Aries 0 degree conjunction.

I‘m highly attracted to traditionally masculine traits in men and women. My type is someone who’s independent, athletic body (not too bulky), someone who has youthful energy no matter their actual age, who seems rather cool but still approachable, who’s easy going, a bit rugged around the edges but overall clean and minimalistic, in their appearance and clothing style.

I do get turned on by uniforms. That cliché is definitely true. An Army soldier (male or female) or a hot cop.. interestingly I also like well-cut suits (major turn on!) , but also just jeans and a classic tanktop or t-shirt.

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Juno is in Sag 3H - deep intellect turns me on. I like to learn from my partner. [/QUOTE]

😂😂😂😂😂
I love everything about your description!
Also your wedding fantasy + after glow
Made me instantly think of a show I binge watched just recently: Pam&Tommy
It’s about Pamela Anderson, Tommy Lee and the unfortunate circumstances of their infamous sex tape.

Highly recommend, you would probably love it!
They eloped to Cancun, Mexico and married
only 4 days(!!) after meeting each other. They stayed together for 2 yrs, divorced, then married again and continued an on/off thing for almost 2 decades. To this day Pam says, Tommy was the love of her life.

Everything about it speaks to me, despite their relationship being highly volatile and not sustainable. But they got 2 kids they both love, and they speak highly of each other. I think it’s wonderful.
More than most ppl can say, who have remained together, I think

posted August 01, 2022 08:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Cancermoon83:
Leo venus
Virgo mars
I like men who are more on the introvert side and who enjoy a deep conversation. I dislike lazy men,attention seekers and those who seem gossip-y. What gets my attention first is their eyes -not the color but the stare.

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I’m currently dating someone with Mars in Virgo.
They’re incredibly attentive in bed, and one of their greatest turn ons, is watching me being turned on.
Also great stamina and they love to take their time.
Tell me more about Virgo Mars pls. Can you relate to this? And what else would someone with Mars in Virgo like?

posted August 01, 2022 08:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
@ana_bee

It makes sense to say that your sexcapades may feel "fated". This is true of Sco Ven/Mars too.

[b]With Mars energy affecting the love planets Venus or Mars, one can go out one day and no planning. Then come back with a lover.🤷🏿‍♂️ These people go by pure instinct and the universe usually delivers an encounter that was largely unexpected, spontaneous & intense.

I have Venus in Sco/Mars in Lib in mutual reception.And I also feel like my sexual encounters felt fated.

When i try to date the conventional way i.e. meet up for drinks, make the 1st move etc. Or go out with the intention of getting laid. It doesnt connect. And i mean NOTHING happens.

I however do admit that with Mars ruling the 8th house.And Ura in the 8th, I feel like Ven/Mars and Ura are all connected in some weird dance.

Nothing about my sex-life is regulated or predictable. I can go for months without any body contact. Then BOOM! One day I am in bed with a hot guy having great sex. 🙆🏿‍♂️

#What turns me on? A great sense of humour, quick wit and pure old fashioned charm.I love to laugh and i am aroused and drawn to a guy who can make me smile and chuckle with ease.

If he knows how to reciprocate my flirtatious advances and make me blush up a field of roses. I am smitten. Probably inlove and already calling him my boyfriend 🤣

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That’s exactly how I feel too. And great observation with everything Aries related being quite instinctual. 🔥

And with me it’s also the same, I can go without sex and romance for quite some time. No problem.
But usually when I feel the urge to date again and for example go through a dating app, my honest intention is: I just want to date and have different encounters. I don’t want anything serious.

As soon as I think that, someone comes along, who convinces me otherwise. Every time.

The longest phase of me being single was when transit Saturn square my Venus/Mars. I became aware of how fortunate I am with my natal placement!

It must suck big times to have a Saturn/Venus square natally. My whole instinctual system was down during that time …completely off, in who I liked, and I attracted the worst and weirdest people, who were just frustrating to be around.

posted August 01, 2022 10:48 AM            

1.The sex could be irregular or erratic in essence/they are in an unsatisfying sexual/intimate relationships i.e. the intimacy doesn't feel 'enough' etc.This especially when Sat-Ven or Sat-Mars are on the 7th/1st house angles(like in my case).

2.Some people with this attract partners that are intimacy inhibited/restrictive i.e not into sex because they have to be begged and pleaded with to have sex on one hand.

3.Or the individual with these placements IS the one who holds back in terms of intimacy i.e. doesnt get aroused easily or finds the external environment to be "slim pickings".

4. Or they have an irregular sex drive /prefer to have sex spontaneously with random people they won't see again.

posted August 01, 2022 11:01 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars

I’m sapiosexual. I’m also turned on by men that know how to “fix a light bulb” if that makes sense? I do not like the average suit-type that crunch numbers for a living!
I also like when someone is able to laugh at my endless goofiness and way-out-there thoughts. I’m an abstract thinker and can in the middle of dinner where politics are being discussed, blurt out: I wonder what would happen if we all took shrooms and went for a swim right now. If the man of my affection can’t hang with me in that obvious fantasy, he’s not for me.

Ah yes! One more thing! I HATE when conversation gets boring and repeats itself!!

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Surprisingly, I can relate to it. Never heard that definition though. However, if he could do both work with his hand and crunch numbers is a way more attracting to me.
One time a guy told me he needed to unload a supplier’s truck alone by himself because they didn’t have enough people. And he had a more manager type position. 🔥One of the hottest thing I’ve heard lol
If he needs to call a plumber because something wrong with a toilet - bummer 👎

posted August 01, 2022 12:46 PM            

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Originally posted by ana_bee:
I’m currently dating someone with Mars in Virgo.
They’re incredibly attentive in bed, and one of their greatest turn ons, is watching me being turned on.
Also great stamina and they love to take their time.
Tell me more about Virgo Mars pls. Can you relate to this? And what else would someone with Mars in Virgo like?

Text book astrology says their erogenous zone is their stomach area.. but the person I’m with, doesn’t care too much about that area, they prefer kisses on their neck and love back strokes, also massages (Venus in Libra)

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posted August 01, 2022 01:28 PM            

What do I find beautiful? Flowers, lace, nature.

My style: My sister describes me as grunge fairy. My husband says I wear ridiculous outfits. I once related to a Pinterest board called "office punk."

Romantic Partner: Offers me their sweater when I get cold. I am always treated like number 1. Will do anything with me.

posted August 01, 2022 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by ana_bee:
😂😂😂😂😂
I love everything about your description!
Also your wedding fantasy + after glow made me instantly think of a show I binge watched just recently: Pam & Tommy.

Highly recommend, you would probably love it!
They eloped to Cancun, Mexico and married
only 4 days(!!) after meeting each other. They stayed together for 2 yrs, divorced, then married again and continued an on/off thing for almost 2 decades. To this day Pam says, Tommy was the love of her life.

Everything about it speaks to me, despite their relationship being highly volatile and not sustainable. But they got 2 kids they both love, and they speak highly of each other. I think it’s wonderful. More than most ppl can say, who have remained together, I think.

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I'm watching it now! 😎 I intended to watch sooner but forgot. Thanks for the reminder.

I just saw the part where Tommy is having a conversation w/ his d--k about Pam being "the one" for him. 😂 Like OMG so funny. He was a wild dude but she was wild herself as well.

The idea that you must date someone for YEARS on end before knowing that you want to marry them - is a hoax, honestly. TONS of those people are in marriages where they just decided to "settle" for that individual because they got tired of waiting. Lol. So they often end up miserable anyway! Not my style.

posted August 03, 2022 04:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:

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It’s so easy to satisfy a woman. Ravish her gently. Make her feel like, she’s your wh*re and your queen at the same time.

♥️

posted August 04, 2022 12:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Nadja:
Venus in Taurus 8th, Mars in Cancer tightly conjunct Midheaven.

I'm asexual, so I don't get turned on by people, no matter the gender, traits or romantic gestures. Aesthetically I appreciate androgyny, but it doesn't turn me on.

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posted August 04, 2022 03:24 PM            

Full chart in signature.

posted August 05, 2022 03:58 AM            

I always think that Libra Asc(not so much Tau Asc) tend towards being sexually neutral or even disinterested. More interested in romance than pure sex. And in some cases, not even interested in that.

For one, the energy of Mars/Aries or sex drive I.e. the "drive" to have sex or be with someone is displaced from them. Often times it is other people (7th) who make a move on them ☝🏿. Whilst in other cases, there is disinterest (altogether in engaging).

This is especially when the ruler of the 7th /planets in the 7th are connected to Neptune/Uranus OR have some affiliation with the 12th house.

In your case? Jupiter in Aries is in the 7th house and Pisces in 6th. So the ruler of the 6th is in the 7th -which often suggests problems with coupling (Mars rules Aries)or being disinterested in that(again Aries).

Add to that, Neptune opposes Mars (7th house ruler). This may disengage Mars from being motivated to pursue 7th house related things with vigour. Often times, the desire may literally just dissolve or not last.

There is also the 5th house Aqua-ruled by Saturn and conjunct Uranus which opposes your Sun. You(Sun) are distant (opp) from the activities of the 5th house(this in particular romance or sex). Maybe seeing them as "foreign" to you?

It's quite interesting because as an Aries Asc myself. I have similar markers. But I wouldn't necessarily say that I am asexual or aromantic.

Mars is conjunct my 7th in Lib. 7th house issues are "distant" from me. Most times it is others(7th) who make moves on me. Not me. Unless I am really feeling it-which is rare(Uranus in 8th). Then I will initiate contact.

But i seem to be more interested in the flirting game, the initial dance or the "suggestion" of something happening and foreplay etc.than the actual sex(if that makes sense). The ruler of my 5th is Sun and it's conjuncts Jup/Nep.

I have fantasies (strong sexual fantasies). But there isn't much interest in actually engaging with people on the "real time " level beyond kissing, fondling and foreplay. Even mutual masturbation.

I seem to be uninterested in pursuing or accepting advances to actual physical sex🤔 . I feel like the foreplay and build up towards that is enough. I appreciate the intimacy. But I don't feel enthuised most times (unless the partner REALLY brings out the animalistic "hungry" nature within me) to go beyond that.

posted August 06, 2022 12:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Nadja:
Yes, I'm asexual and aromantic.

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