posted August 23, 2022 03:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Vradec:
Venus in Capricorn in second house and Mars in Taurus in 6th house. Money turns me on. Success turns me on, status and power turn me on.

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Me too! One time my husband slapped my face with a wad of rent money. It got me hot and bothered.

I want to do it on a pile of money someday.

posted August 24, 2022 01:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Me too! One time my husband slapped my face with a wad of rent money. It got me hot and bothered.

I want to do it on a pile of money someday.

Venus & Mars 10th house

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posted August 25, 2022 10:25 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Taurus Venus and Cancer Mars (conjunct Saturn).
Very much a Taurus kink but neck kisses make me weak in the knees. A man that smells nice can also be a big turn on for me. Maybe more my Cancer Mars, but I like it when I take care of my love interest. Especially with food but I like them to be comfortable in general. My ex didn’t like it when I would buy clothes for him, it made me a bit sad because it’s something I really enjoy. I guess it kind of soothes my more possessive side. I’m not the jealous type but if we’re in a relationship, you are mine. 😁

@Stawr, I find it hilarious that you find that attractive. I have my Mars in 10th house as well but no man should try and hit me in the face with money. I would smack them right back with it. Too much disrespect, my Aries Descendant would rear its head.

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My husband lets me buy him clothes. I don't do it a lot, I only do it for gift reasons. (Valentines, Anniversary, Birthday, Christmas) He likes feeling spoiled pampered this way. Sometimes I just get him a gift card to a store I've seen him shop at before. I got him some Tom's shoes for Christmas, because the other pair I got him years ago, the cat at the place he was renting barfed on them. For Valentines I got him a Macy's gift card. I got to go with him when he used it. He got clothes for our honey moon with it. I got him his first pair of crocs!
One time I got him some new T-shirts at Target for Valentines.
I'll sometimes shove my beliefs down his thought. Being so earth heavy grey is his happy color! Grey is symbolic for stability. He sure is. But the down side of grey is that it can make one indecisive. He is that too, and it drives me crazy. I've told him this, and tell him he needs to wear other colors to get out of his inessive thinking pattens. I got him a mint green Dragon Ball Z shirt, and a purple and black and white stripe shirt, and a pink, grey, and white shirt. (to kind of respect and compromise his style a bit) When he wears what I got him it makes me happy.

With his Virgo he has no problem telling me what he really thinks of my fashion. One time I thrifted a Betsy Johnson purse. He told me it looked ghetto. So I said, well it sounds like you want to get me a new purse for Christmas then. I got a Coach gift card for Christmas. I went to the Coach outlet store of course.

Since he pocketed so much peridium from his job renting a room in a basement for 200 bucks a month, he got me a Canadian Goose coat for Christmas since my current coat was busted. He kind of payed me back with the color opinion. I got me a beige color, and said "you have enough black clothes" We also had a very rough first year of marriage so he also thought I wouldn't be mad at him anymore because of the coat. LOL to that logic. Yes he blurted out "I bought you that coat and you still get mad at me"

I have Jupiter in Cancer house 2 trine my Venus Pisces.

My husband has Cancer SN and fortune, he has a 4th house stellilum in Capricorn.

He got me some moccasins for Valentines I think our second yes as bf because I kept stealing his.

I am cold a lot and want to turn up the thermostat. He has got me warm fuzzy footy pjs a few times.

I think it would be hot if he bought me some lingerie. He hasn't done this, no man has done this for me. When I was buying items at VS I saw a guy in about his 50's shopping there alone. I was attracted to him for those reasons and I had to tell myself to stop starring.

Hehheh yeah I have Gemini rising square my Venus.
My husband has Gemini Moon square his Venus. I learned I was turned on by things I didn't know I was turned on by.
He will also call me disrespectful names in bed. And sometimes I will too. He is more of the dirty talker though. He introduced me to face slapping too.

posted August 26, 2022 02:54 PM            

She also has Venus in Taurus so she needs to be up to date, current and good taste. It seems like she can't keep clothes that she has worn a year ago. I couldn't even hang up clothes in my closet anymore, or pull clothes out of my closet with out a struggle or hangers breaking in half.

My husband had to tell her that she needs to stop, and she did.

I do get compliments a lot when I wear her stuff.

My mom thinks this might be part of the reason my SIL can't stand me, because she is "too big" to take her mom's clothes. And MIL has just made comments about her weight witch is really messed up. So now I just get to deal with SIL's dirty looks.

That is so interesting that you have a Capricorn IC. I'm starting to see IC as a bonus moon sign.

posted August 29, 2022 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
My ex has plenty of water in his chart with a Pisces stellium and Cancer Moon, very nurturing and generous but he could be soooooo moody. I always got frustrated with his passive aggressive behavior when he was in one of his moods. I knew something was wrong, but if I asked him about it, he replied with a snappy “no, nothing’s wrong”. And then I definitely knew something was wrong, I always ended up thinking: “just say it, I can’t read your d*mn mind”. But in his defense neither could he, his Cancer Moon is in his 12th House, I doubt he understands his own emotions. Too many of unresolved childhood issues. My Mars conjunct his Moon, I probably triggered the hell out of him. I guess there is some type of Karma playing out.

@Stawr, it’s nice your MIL gives you clothes if she has good taste, however it’s annoying that it gets you in the middle of some issues your SIL has. Have you ever checked their synastry? I find that synastry between family members is often very telling. So many patterns.

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Oh I see! My sister's husband has Pisces Venus and Sun with Cancer moon. He is definitely the moody one in the marriage.
My dad has Cancer mood while he isn't big on talking about his feelings and the past, he can be pretty passive aggressive. Also Libra Sun. LOL

Yeah SIL clearly can't stand me, wont admit it...and the whole family just looks the other way to it, and acts like it's normal.

They are close to each other, and will spend time.

SIL and husband both have moon square Venus in their chart. (I'm kind of just assuming w/ SIL since I don't know what time she was born)

posted September 02, 2022 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
OP WE GOT SAME PLACEMENTS 😆😆😆😆😆
Aries Mars & Venus

Well rough play turns me on 😏😏

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Are you a Pisces too??? 😄
What’s your Asc and Moon sign?

And how do you experience that Aries Venus/Mars conjunction exactly?

posted September 17, 2022 09:09 AM            

For me would be someone who is from a different culture and speak a different language. If not he has to be very open-minded. Can't be too clingy and need to have his own life. Not afraid and willing to do and try new things/ go on adventures with me.

But what really turns me on is someone who straight up tells me in the face that he likes me and shows through actions. Physical touching is a must must must all the time.

posted July 14, 2026 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by litarot:
In the tropical: Venus and Mars Conjunct in Leo.

In Vedic: Venus and Mars Conjunct Cancer.

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posted July 14, 2026 10:52 AM            

They could be emotionally/sexually repressed? Unable to fully express themselves or be inhibited in some way very fundamental to their identity? Etc.