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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted April 30, 2010 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
Valus -
No hard feelings, but,
I would really appreciate it
if you would leave my threads alone.

For some reason, the way
you voice your criticism
is offensive to me.

I'm asking you nicely.

I know you will do as you please.

(two way street here.)

you quoted who you thought was LTT and said it was wise ..but it was actually something i wrote....after you called me dumb and said I give you nothing, but you give gold nuggets. thats kinda funny to me.

kindly do unto me as you would have me do unto you. thank you.

have a good weekend. yes YOU. see, I don't hate you either, I just don't always appreciate how you treat people. sorry. truce and all, but since we rub each other wrong at times, lets just avoid the situation. k?

take care.

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted April 30, 2010 12:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
ps. this isn't about
to breed
or not to breed
that is not the question
that i asked of thee

it was supposed to be about how clinging to a cause or being right to the point of pushing people away ultimately leads to a very sad, lonely life.

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted April 30, 2010 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
LTT - I loved what you said about forgiving ourselves also, not living in the past and living with guilt in our hearts! so very true.

it holds us back from wonderful things that we may not think we deserve.

wonderful point. thank you.

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AbsintheDragonfly
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posted April 30, 2010 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AbsintheDragonfly     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
forgiving ourselves also

How can we forgive others if we dont' know how to forgive ourselves first?

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We cannot seek or attain health, wealth, learning, justice or kindness in general. Action is always specific, concrete, individualized, unique. --Benjamin Jowett


It is in giving that we receive. --Saint Francis of Assisi

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted April 30, 2010 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
ms. dragonfly - that is interesting.

I have always found it much easier to forgive others than myself.

until I came to a point where I realized I was precious too. a precious person who has made mistakes. then I gave myself permission to forgive and love myself. Once I realized that God loved ME and saw myself through His eyes and felt devine love..It was an amazing revelation. I will never forget it.

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AbsintheDragonfly
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posted April 30, 2010 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AbsintheDragonfly     Edit/Delete Message

Magic isn't it?

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We cannot seek or attain health, wealth, learning, justice or kindness in general. Action is always specific, concrete, individualized, unique. --Benjamin Jowett


It is in giving that we receive. --Saint Francis of Assisi

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WinkAway
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posted April 30, 2010 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
How can we forgive others if we dont' know how to forgive ourselves first?

Love that..

Falls along the lines of loving yourself before you can love someone else. Which is hard to do for a lot of us including myself. But it comes in time...same goes for forgiveness.

The heart inside and out takes time to heal.


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AbsintheDragonfly
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posted April 30, 2010 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AbsintheDragonfly     Edit/Delete Message
Physically, an amazingly durable organ, though, emotionally, it can be fragile under certain circumstances.

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We cannot seek or attain health, wealth, learning, justice or kindness in general. Action is always specific, concrete, individualized, unique. --Benjamin Jowett


It is in giving that we receive. --Saint Francis of Assisi

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SunChild
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posted April 30, 2010 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunChild     Edit/Delete Message
Yes V. I know some too.

I don't disagree with what you said there.

But there is one thing, you believe we were dragged into our Earth existence kicking and screaming, I believe we could desire it in some form or another. But we have no way of providing evidence to prove that to eachother. (see next post)

But maybe you are right, just maybe, but my experience has led me to believe differently in regards to what happened to me PERSONALLY, if you don't mind. Some people I know remember fragments before they were born, good for them if they can remember, what a blessing, and they have formed some of my beliefs which coincided exactly with what I was researching at the time.

Sometimes the only way I can live with it is knowning the cirumstances surrounding it, I didn't know for four months that I was preg, smoked, drank, still taking birth control pills at the time, my fetus could have had problems. So a malformed body temple would not be very nice for the Soul to enter anyhow, and a lot of things were happening to me at the time. And I only have a feeling that I am with this soul now because she did want to be here.

But that is just my journey, how I feel about it, and my thoughts, whatever...

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SunChild
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posted April 30, 2010 07:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunChild     Edit/Delete Message
I was watching a documentry with African tribes and the way they induce abortion and there are women out there who take mild doses of poison from natural things such as apricot kernals to prevent implantation if they get pregnant, I am opened minded enough to allow in some possibilities for instance...

Take Steiner for example, (someone who actually remembers pre-birth), he felt not willing to enter Earth experience but felt an obligation to fulfill his mission which he did, BUT say his chosen mother decided to have an abortion, he would have to find another portal, but say it was not the Steiner soul and someone totally clinging to spirit-land would be relieved that their portal closed, they are the "islands" in spirit-land, the isolated types, who upon entering earth who could become deeply philosophical, like an impulse that was formed on the way "down"... then there are other types that choose it for themselves, apparently it takes a lot of courage and pain to do so, but it's not always a depressing event, sometimes there is an element of excitement, as Steiner felt as here neared the opening, creating a lot of WILL, he later died of exhaustion, not just from thought but from doing so much. And then there is everything in between.

Then the spirit is only watching the body temple grow and form, the incarnation process is rather slow and continues in childhood until the age of 7. When they are babies they sleep alot, their skull is open, they are still mostly in spirit-land. They are still connected to the heavens in utero, and as Linda Goodman believed, that the body temple is just a temple, a shell, a clay shell, if we discard it then that's the business of the mother, the soul in spirit-land may not like it or may be happy about it. I think there are endless possibilities, attitudes, moods of soul, like there is here on Earth, only expanded and based on all of time.

Even I if I actually know all this- the pain is still there, it just helps me understand it.

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SunChild
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posted April 30, 2010 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunChild     Edit/Delete Message
anyway cpn, not quite inline with your thread topic sorry, just wanted to answer V, threads take on a life of their own.

i agree, clinging on to causes and beliefs does form an unhealthy inner environment, I feel very drained from being around some people like that. sad.

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Dervish
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posted April 30, 2010 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dervish     Edit/Delete Message
Overall, your assertion that certain people are judgmental and bitter apply to the mainstream as well. For example, vegetarians find plenty of people who eat meat who treat them like freaks and act as if a refusal to eat meat is a personal insult.

As for why...I'm sure a neurologist could explain it better than me, but I'll take a stab at it based on what I've observed and read:

Ego is tied into survival. What we believe is also tied into that which creates taboo and tribal affiliations and a sense of familiarity. When someone violates those taboos and what's expected then many feel lost, even threatened, around that person because they no longer know what to expect from them and find them an unpredictable (and thus potentially dangerous) element, possibly even an actual and willful threat and treated (unfairly) as one, sometimes ironically turning them into a threat when they weren't before. Some go so far as to believe that the difference they perceive will lead to disaster (such as gays causing Hurricane Katrina by ticking off God as some actually claim). When this sense of survival and tribal support is threatened, one gets scared & angry, and this leads to feelings of righteousness.

IOW, it's a survival instinct, one that in this day and age we need to outgrow if we're to survive as a species. And I think most of us actually want to, but at the same time most of us aren't lucid at how our brains are working and so don't see the forest for the trees so to speak. As just one example this leads to the majority of Democrats & Republicans in the USA to give lip service to bipartisanship but being incapable of doing it as their brain radically defines the same action differently when done by their own party and when done by the other party. This leads to where so many can see the splinter in their neighbor's eye while being blind to the beam in their own.

That's my short & sweet explanation of what I believe is going on. I can get a lot more detailed than this.

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Valus
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posted April 30, 2010 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Valus     Edit/Delete Message

Nice, Dervish.

cpn,

Yeah, like I said,
it sounded like LTT.

I won't be reading it every day,
but it was well said.

We all say good things
once in a while.

I will GLADLY respect your wish
the very FIRST time you voice it.

And, if you don't post on my threads,
I won't make a single peep on yours.

But, do me a favor and don't use
that respect just to start threads
blatantly designed to provoke me
and stir up the troops against me, 'k?

The last thing this board needs
is the poor-man's version of my evil twin.


Take care

~V

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted April 30, 2010 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
well said dervish.

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted April 30, 2010 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
and sunchild - i like when threads take a life of thier own!

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted May 01, 2010 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
valus- please stay out of my threads. i asked you kindly at the top of this page with your own words.

I have no control over what other people think or say to you.

i certianly am not trying to be like you. rich version, poor version or any other version. i am me. i really don't care if you think i am any of the things you have said...nor do i really care if you like my words when you think someone else said them, although it was amusing.

i think i will do what everyone has mostly done and just stay away from this place. take care.

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