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Topic: I need a hug
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Lara
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posted July 19, 2010 04:40 AM
 
lol katatonic, I've just got back from Scotland! Had a weeks holiday/photo shoot with you-know-who!Damn iPhone - so sorry for the triple whammy. Dynamitee,
You aren't over-exaggerating at all! I can see the pattern clear as day, from day one and I've been waiting for this to happen and true colours to be shown, I'm just sorry that it's you whom it bite. The blackmail and emotional harassment is reactive and it's presence is often denied by the person. It comes from manipulating people all your life to avoid fear yet it keeps you in a constant of fear.
Narcissism in an out of controlled way is shocking and sudden and it is so often coupled with a charm and grace that hides the inner monster. Have you noticed how sickly 'sweet' sweets always have an inner sharpness or pungency? Mark it up as a lesson learnt not to even communicate niceties with people of this kind. It's so deeply entrenched that the leopard can't or won't change it's spots and so it's best to protect yourself and take time out. Maybe now it's easier to see that like attracts like, especially when you look at Ami and PDF's dynamic. Peas in a pod (and take that as a warning).
Use me as a barometer if you like because I watch behaviour on here and when I spot fakeness I won't stand for it so I get them to show the forum their true colours. That's why Ami didn't like me lol
Photographs say a lot about people too. So does a neediness to be liked and always dishing out hugs and hearts and 'awww thank you's' on their posts. Fake fake fake! You won't fall for it now you've been burnt by the fake stick; you'll see it coming next time! For the rest of you, I'm not inflating the situation because it's already inflated, I'm just explaining this to all of you whom are perhaps a little too trusting and nice to the wolves dressed as sheep in this world!
"objects in mirror are closer than they appear" can easily be changed to "people are never what they seem to be so beware those whom are two-faced". For the record, I'm not two-faced. I don't talk on msn, I don't ***** , very few have my email and the only thing I hide on here is my heritage - nothing else.
The truth will set you free from the prisoner/judge/offender/victim/prosecutor/jury that is your hidden SELF.
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Diablo
Knowflake Posts: 507
From: Melbourne, Australia
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 19, 2010 05:52 AM
hmm I hope I don't come off as fake or superficial cos I like being nice, but not fake-nice.IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted July 19, 2010 05:58 AM
Diablo
Never! There's absolutely nothing jekyll and Hyde about you!  IP: Logged |
Diablo
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posted July 19, 2010 06:03 AM
Lol sweet 
Gotta keep it real  IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted July 19, 2010 07:44 AM
If I could give you a hug, I would, Dyna.IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted July 19, 2010 09:36 AM
Dyn
I had a night to sleep on this.
You don't find precious people that often and you were that to me.
There were misunderstandings compounding.I would have answered ANY question you had in a private manner--just not in a public forum.
That still stands.
If you care to, perhaps we can talk in a few weeks.
If you don't want to I understand.
If we don't talk again--I want you to know that you were one of the most wonderful friends I ever had.
Your character and integrity is second to none.
I learned so much from you.
If we do talk--I would jump at the chance to apologize for my part in this misunderstanding--which is what I see it as.
Even though, I share personal things on here, my relationships are private.
I need that.
If we don't talk again--I hope we can have a respectful relationship on LL cuz we both love it.
I think we can.
Ami
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Ami Ann
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posted July 19, 2010 09:39 AM
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Lara
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posted July 19, 2010 09:53 AM
Keeping it real! LOLIP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
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posted July 19, 2010 10:49 AM
after the way you get disrespected lara, i sure don't blame you one bit for feeling that way. at all.follow you around like jealous ex or something just to say cutting remarks. i don't think it's cool or necessary. hugs dyna. nurture you. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted July 19, 2010 02:09 PM
Reading this thread was disappointing and saddening. Hugs Dy-na IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted July 19, 2010 02:49 PM
[edited, not worth it]If you were/are friends you would be able to resolve it amongst yourselves without rallying a mob, right? Sorry to witness this.  Compassion to you both. IP: Logged |
Winged Leo
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posted July 19, 2010 02:57 PM
I hate it when people feel happy about other people's disputes and use this opportunity to spill their poisons to provoke people into more negative thoughts and emotions about each other and then claim they're all about compassion and stuff. To me, these people are the worst kinds of hypocrites. Dynamitee and Ami,
I'm very sorry to see you both hurt over each other's recent actions and really hope that you can sort this issue out soon in private when your anger cools off. Don't be so quick to finish your friendship with each other. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted July 19, 2010 03:00 PM
yeah, very uncool CPN... agree there, thank you for noticing Nothing negative is ever necessary methinks and the most respected people in life are generally those whom are able to stand head high and say "i'm sorry" because there's nothing to lose or fear losing - love is all we need and if you love yourself then you can be humble and still be you. IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted July 19, 2010 03:11 PM
Winged Leo, if you were talking to me, please say so. Thanks.I'm certainly not "happy" over somebody's problems. It's actually quite disappointing to watch friendships fall apart like that. ETA. No point in bumping this. Thanks for responding, Winged Leo. IP: Logged |
Winged Leo
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posted July 19, 2010 03:14 PM
I wasn't talking to you, Yin. IP: Logged |
WinkAway
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From: here, there & everywhere
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2010 03:37 PM
Honestly, I feel like this whole thing is NUNYA as far as everyone here goes.
This should be between Dyna and Ami.To you both.. I hope you can work this out and maybe come to an understanding. Sometimes it's best to agree to disagree. And also, I give off hugs and hearts and don't mean any of it as being fake. Granted I don't know most of you at all, but this place as a whole means a lot to me. And you all make up LL. Maybe the personalities clash at times, but I think most of us genuinely care about each other. I've also been told how naive I am so go figure. ((((DYN)))) & ((((AMI)))) Hugs to you both IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 1292
From: Ohio
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2010 03:58 PM
quote:
To you both.. I hope you can work this out and maybe come to an understanding. Sometimes it's best to agree to disagree.And also, I give off hugs and hearts and don't mean any of it as being fake. Granted I don't know most of you at all, but this place as a whole means a lot to me. And you all make up LL. Maybe the personalities clash at times, but I think most of us genuinely care about each other. I've also been told how naive I am so go figure. ((((DYN)))) & ((((AMI)))) Hugs to you both
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2010 04:04 PM
BIG HUGS TO ALL!
{{{HUGS}}} ------------------
Everyone is a teacher...
Everyone is a student...
Learning is eternal.
~Everyone is
gifted. Some simply open the package sooner~
}><}}(*>
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Unmoved
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posted July 19, 2010 04:23 PM
The only reason I'm didn't mention Ami in my contribution was not because I'm not aware of her plight in this also. I think it's obvious that both parties are hurting. But, this is Dy-na's thread where she was seeking comfort from her destress. To be sensitive to her feelings since this is her platform, I addressed her only and that's all there is to it. I apologise if it seems as if I'm taking sides or if it seems as if I'm being part of a mob against Ami. I'm not. I think the idea of the thread was ok. Asking for a hug isn't a crime. The rest disappointed me though because I believe it could have been handled better. Although I didn't have to clarify, I felt the need to because I fear that I might have misrepresented myself by my contribution above. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted July 19, 2010 04:40 PM
It's sad that one should have to justify one's posts due to judgmental comments from other posters though, just because the poster judging wants to make themselves look like a martyr or a goody two shoes to hide aspects of themselves that they don't like. It's their own problem and it just stirs the pot, dredging up more of the same sh1t that they themselves spout and turn their nose up at! I don't feel that one need be made to feel uncomfortable for speaking ones truth or expressing feelings nor a viewpoint. IP: Logged |
teasel
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From: Ohio
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2010 04:45 PM
I was just coming back to clarify that my own post this morning, hadn't been about taking sides - just acknowledging Dy-na. I felt sad reading it, as well. I edited down what I quoted above, from Wink, to clarify what I was agreeing with. IP: Logged |
starkiss1
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posted July 19, 2010 04:58 PM
From my point of view, whoever here on LL is asking for a hug, is certainly getting it from me. No judgement here, just a big hug.
Sometimes people don't need to be judged.
They just need a hug.
I am sure the two of them will sort it out for themselves.
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LEXX
Moderator Posts: 1931
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
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posted July 19, 2010 05:06 PM
starkiss1 ------------------
Everyone is a teacher...
Everyone is a student...
Learning is eternal.
~Everyone is
gifted. Some simply open the package sooner~
}><}}(*>
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katatonic
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posted July 19, 2010 05:10 PM
and let's please not turn a "HUG" thread into an argument about other people's means of expressing themselves. people were responding to a cry for comforting and were answered. end of story.IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted July 19, 2010 05:19 PM
EXACTLY!Love and hugs make the WORLD GO ROUND IP: Logged |
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