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Topic: I need a hug
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belgz
Knowflake Posts: 1826
From: Planet love :)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 12:38 AM
 
Dyna--
Don't you think that's rude exploiting personal issues on a forum? You made 2 threads about bitc*ing and gossiping and trying to drag everyone else into it and bad mouth someone and then expecting sympathy and remorse for something as tiny as a riduculous remark. I'm very offended by this thread.. Mind you none of this is even anyones business. You mention your a REAL person with REAL feelings, you need to understand that you are talking to REAL people just like yourself and people on here have issues as well. Not just YOU.
You out of all people are very aware of what trauma she has been through, and how sensitive she is, we are talking about someone who has had her teenage son pass away, how would you know where life would take you in dealing with an issue as such? Maybe you too might just be afraid to not tell people you care about them in case you never see them again? Wouldn't it make you extra sensitive in case you lose someone or change your future relationships? Everybody is different. Your comment that you quoted as "harrassment" should have been addressed to her personally. If you are so offended you can choose to ignore her comments. I hate to see someone humiliated on here because of your childish behaviour. You chose to speak to her for hours and hours and become involved with each others personal life and talk about other things and share things with each other, do you have no respect for the friendship you formed with her? I am somewhat aware of what goes on on MSN and the time you guys spend talking and interacting on a personal level. I think that you need to stop exploiting peoples vulnerabilities and gossiping publicly in order to gain some sort of reassurance or recognition on here from people.
You are number 1 at starting trouble between people and you just don't know when to keep your mouth shut. You don't need a hug you need to grow up. How can you talk to someone for so many months and then one just come on here and insult someone like that? She didn't even respond or aggravate you? You have no reason for your malice behaviour and now your on here wanting sympathy?? quote:
But the comments (if they were indeed directed at me) - were entirely out of place.
How do you put two and two together the way you do? Your not even sure if her comments are directed at you? You need to accept that there are different types of people and people on here come from all over the world.
Your fun to talk to and a great person but that only lasts 10 minutes till you have something go wrong in your life and take it out on everyone around you. I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate it if I wrote about your personal issues on here.. It isn't hard for you to unblock her or email her your feelings. You mention your not a "paid psychiatrist" but you don't need to be one of those to recognise someone has problems and you contributing to her vulnerabilities and weaknesses is the right thing to do?
How in your conscience do you justify what your doing? This thread and the previous one is degrading, inconsiderate and WRONG! Have some respect for peoples feelings..
Take it how you want.
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Predominantlyfire
Knowflake Posts: 276
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Registered: Dec 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 04:30 AM
It's just classic earth bu11shit yet again. Dy'na can be ok and i've enjoyed chatting to her sometimes, but she genuinely has a split personality. Sugary sweet one minute, and then having a tyrade and saying goodbye the next. Nuts. I'm glad people eventually wake up to the Dy'na's and the Laras of this world. They're full of sh1t right to their very core, and i'm glad i always stuck to my guns and ignored all the people that were temporarily taken in by their acting. Never trust anyone who seems like their 'all things to all people'. Invaribaly they will have a changeability about them that is a clue to just how surface-orientated they really are. Do one thing that doesn't feed THEM and watch them change...IP: Logged |
Yin
Knowflake Posts: 1670
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 08:14 AM
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This thread and the previous one is degrading, inconsiderate and WRONG!
I wrote something similar to this, belgz, but then I deleted it because that's how these things work on LL. If you're not with the majority, you better shut up. I agree with you. Maybe this thread should be closed? IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 2152
From: US
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 09:07 AM
I love you  (((PDF)))
((Belgz))
I appreciate all the loving things you said Yin, Unmoved, Teasel,Wink Away, Winged Leo.Dyn-a flipped out on me. *I* have flipped out on people.
We just got stuck like a body of water which got stagnant and then had no place to move.
The people I love mean a lot to me. I love Dyn-a.
I don't take what she did personally cuz I have examined my side and did not do anything malicious.
I am sure my personality flaws grated on her but this is just what happens with people--anyone.
People grate on each other especially when you care.
She was wrong to do it on a public forum and for that I think she owes me an apology.
The public part should have been avoided and for that ,I hold her responsible.
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belgz
Knowflake Posts: 1826
From: Planet love :)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 09:33 AM
This isn't the first time she's doing this. We all had private conversations and talked almost all day at times but then she gets the urge to come on lindaland and bag people out. She had me thinking you, sanchy, Lara, spanky and Adam all said I was "overbearing" and "pushy". Even if it were the truth who starts trouble like that? Who deliberately gets off on being sneaky and a snake to their mates. She accused me of the craziest dellusional stuff which makes me question her sanity. I think this thread should be closed. I doubt very much you would get a sincere apology from her anyway. I'm sorry you had to read all of this. When it comes to herself she's very private and discreet but yet she has no respect for other peoples privacy. All that bs on this thread about her being upset. What a joke!! I don't know how she maintains friendships in her personal life, wouldn't you approach that person privately and express your concerns to them and resolve things? IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 1826
From: Planet love :)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 09:46 AM
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Diablo
Knowflake Posts: 507
From: Melbourne, Australia
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 10:02 AM
Dyna may not be a paid psychologist but I will be in the near future so feel free to chew my ear off if anyone needs someone to lend an empathetic but realistic ear  Just ask for my email  IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 1931
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 10:09 AM
Dy-na-mi-tee & Ami Ann
I still am not sure what really happened and whilst I know Ami a little more than you Dy-na-mi-tee...
I have never had any problems with either of you, and cannot make a judgment because I do not know the dynamics of it all, nor do I know either of you well enough to form any hard opinion.
I sincerely feel you two can work this out.{{{HUGS}}}
It is sad to lose a friend(s)....so please try to work it out if you each truly care for each other.
Try to give each other space and time outs.
Sometimes it is required to do so when life overwhelms to keep one's sanity or heal, or just to be able to step back to recollect oneself.
Love and blessings to both of you.
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Everyone is a student...
Learning is eternal.
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Lara
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posted July 20, 2010 10:41 AM
Perspective is needed here.1. Anyone whom tells there life story to a person they've never met has to be a few tools short of a toolbox to not realise that these details aren't private. 2. Ami has already told her story onlin on this forum so I don't see where the beach of confidence of? Does anyone else, seriously? Is it necessary to b1tch and rack on someone who simply is asking for a HUG?
This is exactly what is so sad and lacking about this site - a few jealous and insecure people who have nothing better to do than insult and repeat themselves like old broken records.
Pathetic. Dyna, if I were you I'd just ignore all the 'head' people and stick with the HEART people. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 1931
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 10:47 AM
Lara  ------------------
Everyone is a teacher...
Everyone is a student...
Learning is eternal.
~Everyone is
gifted. Some simply open the package sooner~
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Diablo
Knowflake Posts: 507
From: Melbourne, Australia
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 10:56 AM
Equal balance of both head and heart with the scales tipping in favour of whichever one is needed more in any situation? So if you need more heart, then more heart with a bit of head (oh god, that sounds so wrong hahaha) to keep it real and vice versa when you need to use your head but still need your heart to be human and to make the right moral and ethical choices. Sorry Libra mooner here trying to restore the balance IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 2152
From: US
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 11:05 AM
My main point is that I want Dyn-a to feel she can come back to the community of LL.
If she wants to apologize to me publicly, I will accept that.If privately, that is fine, too.
If she wants to end the friendship, I accept but I don't want her to feel she cannot come back to LL cuz of embarrassment.
Maybe, she doesn't feel that way at all.
I get shamed and embarrassed easily so maybe I am just talking about myself.
On my other Board, people left after fights and never came back.
No matter what happens between Dyna and me, I don't want to see that happen cuz LL is important to her as it is to me.
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cpn_edgar_winner
Knowflake Posts: 2676
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 11:06 AM
***insert any inappropriate joke about "head" here.***thats the best I could do to restrain myself. i can see both sides.
there is a way to do things and a way not to do them or to make your point with a little class...of course i can say that right after I made a head joke....ah the struggle to find the balance. IP: Logged |
Diablo
Knowflake Posts: 507
From: Melbourne, Australia
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 11:08 AM
LMAO I had to restrain myself too, having the way I do with words. I was gonna say..."and when you need more head (who doesn't?)..blah blah" but I thought not to but why not? Have a laugh everyone IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
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posted July 20, 2010 11:11 AM
yeah thats it, when your beer has head, blow it off, by all means.i think internet harrassment can be seen as coming from both sides. to be quite honest. i see it both ways. let it go. have a heart, get some head and laugh at funny stuff. there is only one today, make of it what you will. IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 1826
From: Planet love :)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 11:18 AM
Lara if anything is pathetic right now it's your response! Were talking about the same person who sent me naked pictures of you and referred to you as a horse. Don't be mad at ami because she ignored you once on a thread. That's immature. This topic has nothing to do with dyna being genuinely upset. Look how the topic starts in six minutes dyna was looking for a way to insult and humiliate ami typing 3 times separately wanting talk about how ami did this and how ami did that. I don't see how you effectively contributed either when you used it as an opportunity yourself to have a go at ami. She very politely said to you that she doesn't wish to talk to you. Rejection isn't an excuse to be bitter towards someone. That definitely wouldn't suite your Leo ascendant if you were one Lol @ her being too embarrassed to come back! If I went through Linda centrals previous posts it would all by vapor whinging and complaining how people should be banned and made to apologize because she felt insulted or offended. She should be apologizing! IP: Logged |
Diablo
Knowflake Posts: 507
From: Melbourne, Australia
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 11:45 AM
I think I'll be taking the CPN's orders IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
Knowflake Posts: 2676
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posted July 20, 2010 11:46 AM
she wasnt the only one who sent those pictures around. that wasn't nice at all no matter who did it, now i know of 3 people on here who did that. that is just mean and mean people suk.yeah diablo, lets just enjoy the day. lots of good to be found if we look for it. i keep getting you confused with diabla, the dark haired beauty, helps now that i saw your picture in the other thread. IP: Logged |
Peri
Knowflake Posts: 1005
From: 49N35 34E34
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 11:48 AM
I dont know what happened between Dyna and Ami but from what I have just read it looks like Ami is the one being harrassed at the moment...really if someone needs just a hug why air your dirty laundy in public forum then?? it's very passive-aggressive and not pretty at all...I just think Dyna is really distressed about someone's surgery and not herself at the moment cozz I have always known her as a cool person and respected her a lot. I hope you will feel a lot better soon, both of you ((Dyna)) and ((Ami)). I love you both and this thread was a very upsetting thing for me to read, sorry if I sounded harsh but really it is very childish and immature to make private things public when something does not work, things should be worked out privately since they were private in the beginning - it's between both of you only.
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Winged Leo
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posted July 20, 2010 11:52 AM
What is pathetic here is that you were delighted to see a friendship is falling apart and disgustingly used this to spill your sick thoughts about Ami who doesn't deserve any of your sh!tty comments!! Yes, this thread was a HUG thread, then why did you b!tch about Ami??? You seriously need to fix yourself. Jealousy and insecurity are YOUR issues, but you're so delusional you don't get it! Stop projecting your own problems on other people. I see nothing constructive in your posts.
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Diablo
Knowflake Posts: 507
From: Melbourne, Australia
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 12:18 PM
lol I notice that particular point too, CPN hehe sometimes I feel like saying, Diab-LO, the blonde one hahaha I get confused myself but she's pretty cool Anyways, no more hijacking threads. I hope things are more harmonious for everyone individually and collectively IP: Logged |
WinkAway
Moderator Posts: 748
From: here, there & everywhere
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2010 12:45 PM
Okay I'm closing this thread.
It's sad to see bashing of any kind.
Can we agree to disagree (((HUGS)))IP: Logged |
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