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Topic: Not opening threads
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T
Knowflake Posts: 2406
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 02:12 PM
 
Valus, next time, dont come into my threads laughing your f-ing A off and trying to turn a nice thread into a nasty one, for your own benefit.IP: Logged |
AbsintheDragonfly
Moderator Posts: 927
From: Gaia
Registered: Apr 2010
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posted July 22, 2010 02:16 PM
T,I am going to have to say that, yes, you were unpleasant I realize this was a case of "he did it first". I'm going to have to give you a warning as well. Please be mindful of your speech towards other members. Next time please feel free to email me, privately with any concerns you may have, with another member's behaviour. my email is up above, or if you can remember it's my username at gmail dot com Thank you. IP: Logged |
T
Knowflake Posts: 2406
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 02:19 PM
Okay, thank you!  Warning taken. Next time I wont give someone a taste of their own medicine because we all know what happens then.  I usually dont email Moderators or Randall when I have a problem, but now I will probably do so. Hopefully we can all get along now. I'm staying away from certain people and I would appreciate that they would do the same for me. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 1984
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 03:16 PM
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A troll isn't a regular, well-liked contributor here. That's not the definition most people attribute to trolls.
NOT TRUE! Funny how I was put through hell repeatedly by such people, and others not involved who had no idea what was going on behind the scenes awhile back (or worse, thought they did but did not care or bother to know the truth) and did not bother to understand, or defend me.
I feel those "friends" abandoned me.
Some of my tormentors have been banned (and I am not talking about LHO) but some are still here. Fortunately the most malicious are not here now. However I do not post as much as I used to because of them, and the fact that too many people who claim to be my friend, still associate with some of my tormentors.
So these days I refuse to get close to anyone
and have pulled back from others because of that.
I know full well I do not have any really close personal friends here, only social ones.
That is OK...
but not going to bother to try and get too close here again, nor post like I used to do.
Too hard to tell who is real and who is not real online. 
Yes there are many I do care about here  but not going to get close again just to possibly get my heart broken again.
Too many headgames too.
Too much backbiting.
So I just do not contribute much any longer.
Not worth the possible grief.
I generally will respond (with rare exception) to any person who posts to me or e-mails me but rarely these days will I initiate contact, except with a few. (You very very few all know who you are .)
Best to avoid certain people and certain threads.
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Everyone is a student...
Learning is eternal.
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T
Knowflake Posts: 2406
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posted July 22, 2010 04:22 PM
Also, WinkAway, you were quoting Iq, not me. lol quote:
I think Valus is somewhat misunderstood. He contributes quite a lot to LL. He has beliefs that can be quite outside the box, but nothing we can't get along with. So unless he's calling me a b1tch or teasing me in someway, I'm okay with it.
I dont. But i think he takes that ball and runs with it. More people understand him than he is willing to admit. I disagree that his beliefs are outside the box. And yes, nothing we cant get along with, or ignore. Which I have no problem doing. Yes, i'm okay unless he's teasing or taunting or provoking in some way too. And even then, I will try - and HAVE tried HARD, to keep my composure. Most people see what's going on now. IP: Logged |
T
Knowflake Posts: 2406
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posted July 22, 2010 04:23 PM
LEXX, i feel similarly. I dont get close to others either. IP: Logged |
T
Knowflake Posts: 2406
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posted July 22, 2010 04:26 PM
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Usually, we make the mistake of "hearing the words" written in an imagined negative voice, then get all emotional and antagonistic towards the one who disagrees rudely. Avoid "hearing" the written words in a negative voice.
Good advice Iq. I usually read things in detached voice and try not to take offence. Then some people are being quite obvious about their "tone of voice". Still, i try not to let that upset me. And I can often see how the words I write to people are taken up to an extremely negative level, by their response to me. And I think how they just read that in a tone which i didnt intend. We can only do so much here. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 1984
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 04:36 PM
T  quote:
LEXX, i feel similarly. I dont get close to others either.
I used to but rarely do now.
And have felt the need to pull back from some I once felt close to due certain non mutual "friends".------------------
Everyone is a teacher...
Everyone is a student...
Learning is eternal.
~Everyone is
gifted. Some simply open the package sooner~
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T
Knowflake Posts: 2406
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posted July 22, 2010 04:39 PM
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SunChild
Moderator Posts: 975
From: Melbourne. Victoria. Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 05:28 PM
I did give a weather warning in my tongue in cheek thread!  IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 4255
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posted July 23, 2010 07:18 PM
I'm going with Benedict Moons comment 'not enough intuitive people on here' and I'm adding 'too many insecure people on here'.Abs I agree, Valus's comment was highly sarcastic. FFS it began with "LMFAO" ... Acoustic Gods comments I thought were to the point and intelligent. other than that, great thread and can you please start a new one every day so I have something to read?!  IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 2406
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posted July 24, 2010 02:03 PM
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