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Topic: im fed up!
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DiandraReborn25 unregistered
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posted November 24, 2010 06:33 PM
i promised starvenus i wouldnt leave the LL.but really this is going overboard now. another thread was closed,simply because i was not agreeing with this new politics of RANDALL so do you want to bann me too? you re about to clean down the house right?now that you see everybody who gave so much to LL,leaving do you really think you´re being a good moderator???? people shouldn know what is happening here. i dont know details i just know that belzg,spanky were banned. people like glaucus,DD,T,MVM left too because thye are seeing to many injustices here on LL lately. and i completely agree! we sont have freedom of speech here anymore. Lindaland is being "cleansed" yes,but to me seems that is being cleansed of ALL members who were worthy of honouring Linda´s memory. that is what im seeing here. go ahead Randall and close this thread too. but know this: if you re cleaning down the house at least tell people why.they should know the Truth.
and if you want to banw me too,go ahead.
im tired of fighting for a place that no longer exists.... i can at least say that i was always honest to myself and others,and always respected people here. i appreciate all of you who were kind,loving,with a true passion for astrology andother issues that could be discussed here. i admire all of you who had the decency to honour Linda´s,by being truthfull,respectfull,kind,and good-hearted. if i get banned,i just want you all to know this. IP: Logged |
silvestri12 Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Registered: May 2010
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posted November 24, 2010 06:41 PM
i used to love glaucus when i was neptune5, hmmmmm....IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 5405 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 06:49 PM
 my heart goes out to you dear friend because l too feel tired of fighting off evil to protect our sanctuary that now l realise no longer exists.Much love to you Diandra - realise this. Americans don't understand the "passionate" nature of europeans, so don't take it to heart if you do get banned for being seemingly a troublemaker just because you want to know the truth. I am confused too. Randall has been ******** by (( and is now insulting me publicly by saying i have GANG MENTALITY. I see that as POT KETTLE BLACK - libellous as it's directed at me, as well as being accused of causing all of this drama and flaming. LOL some people should learn to use their hearts more and have compassion and understanding. He will probably ban me now too - for what? wanting truth like you and not taking my medicine like a good girl?
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lalalinda Moderator Posts: 957 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 06:50 PM
I hear you Diandra, we do not know the details of what happened and hopefully it's over now. I'm hoping that in a few days when this has died down we can get back to normal. Hopefully a little off the board time will be good to heal some of this discord.Randall has stated that he will let bygones be bygones and those that we're banned (in I suspect, the heat of the moment) can come back. It's not so easy getting over a habit like Lindaland. I suggest we put this behind us and start new. When and if they come back we should just let sleeping dogs lie. It's time for some healing  (don't you go nowhere) IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 4233 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 06:53 PM
Blue Moon had a really good and wise theory - when it gets too much "step away from the machine" for a few days.IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 5405 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 06:59 PM
I don't think they are coming back Lala. I think they all saw something they didn't like and they are gone.You are such a sweetheart. Bless you for all your words on this site, you really are like 'a pocketful of delicious Spring' and all that season encompasses, in every sentence you write and l love you for that x IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 2449 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:02 PM
I have asked PS to let it go, Lara. And she has. But you will not. I have no choice. You insist on cluttering our Forums with this mess. I think you thrive on drama. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 4233 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:03 PM
Diandra, I think you have a really sweet nature and have never seen any malice in you, ever. I enjoy your posts. If you are leaving and you're on FB and you're interested, I'll give you my email - peace.angel@live.com.au.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 2449 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:06 PM
One last chance, Lara. Keep your drama off the Boards. It's over with. Do your gossiping in private.IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 1657 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:08 PM
I think I'm going with you. Life offline has been oppressive enough and if I don't feel good when I come in here, what's the point? This decision didn't come up overnight, and I thank everyone for their time but I gotta go. I got a Dr's appointment next week, maybe she'll help figure out what's wrong with me instead of me looking everywhere else for the answers. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 5405 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:13 PM
I'm not a dramatist... i'm a truth seeker! I'm a 9th house baby and justice is to me what loyalty is to you.I'm a European blue blood, a mother of 3 boys whom l bring up alone. I've been in hiding for 2 years now and i've lived 10 average lives in 42 years. Have i complained once about my life on here? No l have not because l can't stand drama lol so stop hitting me with the damn "drama" bully stick cos l am not the one who just yesterday was banging on about "fated nights" and "oh-la-la". I'm a damn strong woman but that doesn't make me ANY of the things you've accused me of today and l resent lies and accusations so get off my back please because now my aries stellium has got a scratch that you can't itch. My job is dog food taster ... are you stalking me?  a-flippin-men. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 2957 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 24, 2010 07:16 PM
Dear Lala One day I would love to hear your story.Maybe, you could write it on LL 2. I want to hear how you developed your love,compassion and maturity.  ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 2449 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:17 PM
You already know the truth. You just enjoy causing conflict and getting people to feel sorry for you, because you have a victim complex. You also have the same gang mentality that you criticize in others. I'm moving this to the right Forum.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 1424 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 24, 2010 07:20 PM
Listen, Lara...I have a feeling this all really just boils down to me... I apologize for calling you a bully. Ok? I also apologize for being so harsh with your other friends (even though you don't believe they have done anything wrong). In spite of that, I don't see how making Randall's life hell is going to make you feel any better... when, really it's my arse that you want. Can we somehow forge out some kind of peace treaty? Yes or no? Or, are you determined to be unhappy as long as I am here? IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 5405 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:29 PM
LOL yeah right. Well it's your loss Randall because you couldn't be more wrong if you tried and in truth, what do l care because my friends who know me appreciate me for not being any of those things you just mentioned and thats all that matters to me. i do believe you are insulting me again too which is a little contradictory of you. I have nothing to hide nor defend myself against so feel free to carry on cos i'm unarmed as always. I hate pity and if you had been more active on this site, you'd know that from years of my posting. I admire balls and the ability to speak without resorting to putting down the other person to make yourself look better. Sadly, you don't have that ability so lets not bother conversing anymore. Oh, and btw a victim complex would mean that right now i'd be sucking up to you and kissing your arse - human psychology ya know i love bunnies  IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 2449 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:39 PM
You don't want from me, one person, what you can get from misguiding a few others in the name of some truth and justice campaign. You're also obsessive. This is clearly evident in that you can't let anything go. I don't mean this as disrespect, and I'm not saying you ever did this--but, have you ever stalked anyone? You're starting to creep me out, and that's not easy to do. ------------------ "The earth is not given to us by our mothers and our fathers, it is borrowed from our children." IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 1424 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 24, 2010 07:40 PM
Lara?Further, I would consider resigning from my position as moderator, if it is within your ability to bring back all of your friends who have been offended by my criticism of them... Please consider this offer, as I will only offer it this once, for the sake of peace. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 4233 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:45 PM
PSBeing a mod is not easy. I've been a mod at LL twice in different forums. You learn to deal with the conflicts. It's okay. The hard one is having to moderate and say something to your friends. Much harder. Perservere and you'll be fine. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 2449 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:53 PM
Nah, PS, this is all a smoke screen. A few have left not knowing the facts--like MVM and DD, but the core few are people who hate the new Forum. They just want to take as many misinformed ones with them as they can. Lindaland is growing. and it may not jibe with everyone. I'm okay with that. People outgrow things. It's sad, but it's life. We don't negotiate with cyber bullies any more than the US negotiates with terrorists. You're staying.------------------ "The earth is not given to us by our mothers and our fathers, it is borrowed from our children." IP: Logged |
DiandraReborn25 unregistered
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posted November 24, 2010 07:55 PM
BMIm sorry that you´re feeling that too. im sure you will find what you need,in order to bring peace to your mind and heart. imn still not sure if i´ll leave LL for now...im pondering. i usually stick to places where i was so happy,that is why its costing me so much to be even pondering it,you know. no one directly have offended me,at least not that ive seen it,taking one of two comments of a certain person,that considered Lara´s friends not worthy ...so as i know myself , i k now better that usually what someone says to hurt,its actually a reflexion of what the person is really,within. i learned the hard way not to take things personally,but as a libra asc with a taurus moon,ones that offend and acuse my friends,will always hear words of mine. what is holding me here are the wonderful ( but few) people that still are here like Geo,Lara,IQ,PA,Quinnie,lalas,Lexx,and others that deeply contributes to the amazing place that LL once was. im sad to see a place of such love,being teared apart so suddently. some were banned,and others like DD and MVM left too cause of so many injustices..its enough to see it outside,and seeing it here too it just...takes out all the motivation and passion that we had to post here the way we used to. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 2449 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 07:55 PM
As I made my last post, a commercial for www.skinit.com came on the tv, and the only words in it are over and over again: "Change change change change is good." That's my sign.  ------------------ "The earth is not given to us by our mothers and our fathers, it is borrowed from our children." IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 2957 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 24, 2010 07:56 PM
quote: Nah, PS, this is all a smoke screen.
Yes ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
DiandraReborn25 unregistered
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posted November 24, 2010 07:59 PM
RADO you know what is more sad' its seeing you write like that,knowing that people left- wonderful people- and still not caring. you say they left without knowing the facts??so be courageous and show US THE FACTS. DONT WE ALL as knowflakes deserve to know the truth then? why to hide things then? we deserve to know all facts then. this only if they are real of course. but if you dont even bother to say it.then you+re not really respecting us,are you? like Diana said - many are here not knowing what the hell is going on,so please do us the favour of showing all. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 2449 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 08:02 PM
Diandra, it's the refusal to let this go by Lara and others that makes you uncomfortable to post. That is what I'm trying to remedy. Yesterday, it had almost blown over. But then Lara wouldn't have the attention she has been getting. She couldn't allow that. Let's all move on. I told those three they could return. They don't want to. I'm sure a few others may go. And usually, despite what they may think now, they usually come back. It's not easy walking away from Lindaland. On a good day, it can be healing in ways that are so deep and penetrating that you can't help but burst with joy. ------------------ "The earth is not given to us by our mothers and our fathers, it is borrowed from our children." IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 2449 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2010 08:08 PM
I tried that, Di. People don't want the truth. They want drama. All telling my side does is welcome more contention. Today has been the busiest day LL has had all year! The server is burning up! It's like the Jerry Springer show around here. Or Maury. Some of the people who left were going to leave anyway. The truth always comes out. When tempers calm, people will begin to see what I mean. Like when AG and I butted heads. I lost my cool. I couldn't think rationally. But later, I saw I was the one in error and apologized. I do understand how some of you feel. And Lindaland will be here should you decide you want to return...perhaps, after the storm has passed.  ------------------ "The earth is not given to us by our mothers and our fathers, it is borrowed from our children." IP: Logged |