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Topic: Samantha Brick claims women hate her because she's to pretty
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T
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posted April 06, 2012 01:24 PM
  
Yin, I remember seeing a pic of you a long time ago and thought you were very beautiful!! Big pretty eyes!And I'd say my self esteem is for the most part low and something I've had to work on and continue to, but gotten better as i've gotten older. I've often thought that maybe experiencing jealously is not one of my lessons in lifetime (thank god!) because it just doesnt happen and is very ugly to me. I've witnessed it a lot between other women and always find it interesting to say the least. I'm average looking, but have still dealt with jealousy and cattiness from other females who I thought were quite pretty. It is true that true beauty comes from within. An average person becomes quite stunning when they have a good heart. IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted April 06, 2012 01:46 PM
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Yin, I remember seeing a pic of you a long time ago and thought you were very beautiful!! ...
I can say the same thing about you. You have a mystery aura and I've never met an average-looking Taurus girl! quote:
An average person becomes quite stunning when they have a good heart.
Agreed. Good heart would mean someone who is accepting of themselves and others though. Someone with a low self-esteem is not accepting of themselves.
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posted April 06, 2012 02:12 PM
Thank you.  Yeah and learning that you arent acceptable usually starts very young. I wonder if this Samantha lady, deep down really hates herself? I sense a lot of anger in her. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 06, 2012 02:29 PM
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Yin, I remember seeing a pic of you a long time ago and thought you were very beautiful!! Big pretty eyes!And I'd say my self esteem is for the most part low and something I've had to work on and continue to, but gotten better as i've gotten older. I've often thought that maybe experiencing jealously is not one of my lessons in lifetime (thank god!) because it just doesnt happen and is very ugly to me. I've witnessed it a lot between other women and always find it interesting to say the least. I'm average looking, but have still dealt with jealousy and cattiness from other females who I thought were quite pretty. It is true that true beauty comes from within. An average person becomes quite stunning when they have a good heart.
I don't think you're average-looking. Neither is Yin. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 06, 2012 02:32 PM
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Thank you. Yeah and learning that you arent acceptable usually starts very young.
Yep, it did for me.
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I wonder if this Samantha lady, deep down really hates herself? I sense a lot of anger in her.
I saw her in a video on youtube. I'll find the link and post it. I can say that I've only truly felt ugly, since I've been so depressed and angry. That's partly due to other things, though, like men my age (at least on those dating sites), aiming for younger women, and older men ignoring women their own age, in favour of me.
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aquaguy91
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posted April 06, 2012 02:41 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
I saw her in a video on youtube. I'll find the link and post it. I can say that I've only truly felt ugly, since I've been so depressed and angry. That's partly due to other things, though, like men my age (at least on those dating sites), aiming for younger women, and older men ignoring women their own age, in favour of me.
yea i agree that men tend to date younger women, but you also have to fault younger women too because they seek older guys out, i remember being in 8th grade and alot of the girls wanted to date high school guys and alot of the freshman girls wanted senior guys. IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted April 06, 2012 02:41 PM
Speaking of pretty girls... hi, teasel! IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted April 06, 2012 02:45 PM
She's prettier on camera. But... somewhat delusional, as I suspected.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0_CG3rmRYs IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted April 06, 2012 04:05 PM
Delusional would be an understatement....lol. my first thought is that in order for her to think that way, somebody had to make her feel that way. She is mediocre at best..nothing outstanding about her to make her exceptionally beautiful. I have a "friend" like this...cappy with scorpio moon & mars & Leo rising. Very vain & swears every man wants her. She's not exceptionally pretty to me but then I know her personality. Personality outshines anything physical to me. There is a big difference between being confident & arrogant & that chick is full of herself..lol IP: Logged |
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posted April 06, 2012 04:39 PM
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posted April 06, 2012 05:35 PM
She is easy on the eyes but I think she's disliked because of the way she behaves or carries herself. Blaming it entirely on her looks seems far fetched and delusional.IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted April 06, 2012 07:30 PM
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LOL  I know what is... Her husband makes her feel like Aphrodite lmao  IP: Logged |
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posted April 06, 2012 07:32 PM
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Speaking of pretty girls... hi, teasel!
yeah, I've seen you too, teasel and you are very pretty too. Inside and out. IP: Logged |
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posted April 06, 2012 07:42 PM
Here's the deal guys.....I watched most of the vid Yin posted and saw her in action....I noticed she kept mentioning that she was just going off of other people's perceptions of her and actions towards her. And seemed to start to become frustrated that they werent getting that. There's her problem right there (well, maybe only one of them. lol)) She truly believed all of the things men throughout her life have told her. It didnt seem to occur to her that they were doing it with something else in mind. She never got the memo saying that guys are going to always be using the flattery game to try to get what they want from women. That's how the test the waters and see what's she's all about and how far they might be able to run with it. example: "Well hello there gorgeous!!! (all dramatic and bug-eyed) You are the finest women I've ever laid my eyes on!!!  Will you please allow me to buy you a bottle of your favorite wine because I am so blown away by your beauty??!! May I sit here and talk to you? (pretending they are polite) And please let me pay your tab while I'm at it because you are so hot!!" *acts like he is on the verge of passing out*  exaggerating a bit, but you catch my drift. The poor girl fell for it. Now her head's blown up. She never took the time to get to know herself, so all she has to go on is what other people tell her. Unfortunately, she's focussing on the comments from guys who havent been sincere or simply were looking to bang her.......why? ....because she wants to, I guess. It feels nice. Ego problems. We all have them to one degree or another. It's part of being human. Perhaps someday she will figure out what was really going on. IP: Logged |
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posted April 06, 2012 07:53 PM
Perhaps I've hung around with too many guys most of my life, but I know very well how they operate (well, many of them) and if you believe everything they tell you, you will be in trouble.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 06, 2012 07:53 PM
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i dont know if i 100% agree that women as a whole are anymore keen than men on knowing whether someone is interested or not, because otherwise you wouldnt see so many women speculating why isnt he calling anymore,why doesnt he take me out etc.
Those are the insecure girls who have guys screwing around w.them, from the looks of it. Grown women don't wonder that aloud, they know what they want & get it & don't waste their time. They know their worth. There is a world of difference there, the key being that they know themselves.
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posted April 06, 2012 07:55 PM
And I notice she's sporting bangs now. Good call Samantha. Maybe she also noticed the size of her own forehead and it wasnt only me. lol  ...sorry, i couldnt help it. IP: Logged |
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posted April 06, 2012 08:02 PM
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Those are the insecure girls who have guys screwing around w.them, from the looks of it. Grown women don't wonder that aloud, they know what they want & get it & don't waste their time. They know their worth. There is a world of difference there, the key being that they know themselves.
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Lonake
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posted April 06, 2012 08:12 PM
Saw the YouTube vid, she based the article on half a dozen experiences w.men over 41 yrs. That is roughly 6 experiences, it's hardly anything. I thought that she had had more based on the tone of the article  IP: Logged |
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posted April 06, 2012 08:31 PM
That too. Perhaps she's trying her best to downplay it all now, or she just has narcissitic personality disorder? We will probably never know. God bless her. What a weird bunch we are on planet earth.IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted April 07, 2012 05:14 AM
I think the main problem here is that she is making a generalised, sweeping statement ("all" women), about a minorty experience (hers).I have experienced jealous reactions from women throughout my life, but this has caused an increasing wariness inme when around women don't know, which would perpetuate the negative reactions.
And as a result, I have no close female friends. She is also making a huge assumption that the reason she gets these negative reactions is due to her looks, it could be any number of things - her lifestyle, her attitude, her opinions, etc. IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
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posted April 07, 2012 09:24 AM
We truly are devolving and this thread is proof of it. Misogyny never goes away, does it? Why is it so wrong to acknowledge that she's attractive? She didn't say she was the best looking thing around. She looks plenty good enough to have problems with it with leches and catty hen-party females. I look like a warthog...NOW,,,.... due to my illness, but when I looked good, I looked good. Just a little bit better than she does, and let me tell you, you don't have to look like Anna Nicole to run into this. I think people who've been average all their lives or unattractive or just clueless and lacking in discernment or self-awareness just don't get these things. They're oblivious. I've looked really good and really bad, and believe me, it's a different world both ways. I've gone from the ugly ducking to the swan and back so many times I can hardly remember. What I do remember is that it's literally life and death to look good these days. It cuts both ways. People kiss your ass. Women do hate you on sight. Business men beg to give you a job. They make up vicious lies about you if you look good. People will leave you on the side of the road in a blizzard if you're fat or ugly but seem to project some kind of magic virtue and intelligence on you if you're thin or cute. I think the mediocre or those with strong social/family support are the only ones who don't suffer this. This thread is also proof why women will never have equality. They are so easily divided and set on each other it could almost be laughable. You tell them to have confidence but then she dares to say she looks good and you want to humiliate her in the town square. You'd rather her sit around with a bunch of other losers and endlessly talk about how she hates her thighs, right???...That's acceptable behavior but how dare she acknowledge the obvious.
Ms. Brick probably has moon sq neptune and that will continually set you at odds with your mother and women throughout your life regardless of your appearance, but don't let logic interfere. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 07, 2012 08:16 PM
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posted April 07, 2012 10:19 PM
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posted April 07, 2012 10:21 PM
^i agree that pretty women can get mistreated because of their looks,i have seen it myself. but what do you mean women will never be equal? I can only comment on women in the u.s,because thats where i live,but here the sky is the limit for women, they are outnumbering men in college.IP: Logged |
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