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Venus Moderator Posts: 1077 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 18, 2012 05:27 AM
people may not know that about me but i have anger issues..i can get snappy very quickly and usualy what i say isnt exactly nice.. that bugs me a lot because i hate hurting people's feelings.. one time, for example, i had had a stressfull day and was walking home. i crossed a sub road that was blocked with traffic, (bender to bender traffic) anyway this bimbo (sorry for that) was sittin behind the wheel freakin texting while driving, she didnt even look at me as i was crossing but i thought it was fine since there was traffic and she wasnt moving, anyway when i got infront of her car she kinda bumped me in the leg (she moved a little forward) i startd tapping on the front of her car, she noticed and stopped. it was just a little bump no big deal so i just moved on deciding to let it slide. anyway this "lovely" young woman rolls down her window as the traffic dissolved and she started to move, and screams at me "next time be carefull" as b*tchy as she can be. ..and i snapped, just snapped, so i ran after her car tapped so hard on her window and screamed "stop texting you *^&%$^#$" .. she was soo scared she didnt even look at me and just drove off.. not my proudest moment.. should i be worried? should a get therapy or something? IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 3502 From: Earthy MIlkshake Diner Registered: May 2011
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posted April 18, 2012 05:46 AM
I will join u in therapy lol! I have merc in Aries. Mars is in h1. Mars opposite sun. Maybe a trine to the moon, which reminds me i hafta check that aspect reading. I am no patient bull haha! My phones also need to be throw proof. Also watch out I wear killer shoes. Pretty sure I can beat a mugger to death with this pair. They are huuge!! Ur kinda tall too no? Must b scary for dat woman looking up from her car seat! IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1077 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 18, 2012 06:07 AM
lol sand, i can only imagine going to therapy with you i am relatively tall, but look completely harmless, i'm slender, i could lose a few pounds here and there but overall im not bulky also i always have a kind expression on my face (thank you Venus for that).. but when i get angry, and start shouting, i can be just a little bit intimidating.. but this girl wasn't scared because im scary she was frightened because she's a coward little daddy's girl who thinks that by screaming on a seemingly harmless girl on the street she can boost her ego and pretend to grow a pair.. see, i do need therapy.. I think its my Mars conjunct Sun
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Venus Moderator Posts: 1077 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 18, 2012 06:11 AM
my Nokia has taken his share of falls, not beause of anger but because im also clumsy.. guess it comes with the height??lol BIG shoes are a person's best weapon.. haha i just remembered when that Iraqi threw his shoe at George Bush haha hell angry fits are quite common in this culture. lol IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 4313 From: Venus next to Randall Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 18, 2012 06:57 AM
I relate to the phone throwing bit. and some others.. Yes, I'm guilty of having a temper but it depends on the circumstances leading to it. Other times, I just let things slide and couldn't care less. ------------------ quote: Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma.
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sand Knowflake Posts: 3502 From: Earthy MIlkshake Diner Registered: May 2011
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posted April 18, 2012 07:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: lol sand, i can only imagine going to therapy with you i am relatively tall, but look completely harmless, i'm slender, i could lose a few pounds here and there but overall im not bulky also i always have a kind expression on my face (thank you Venus for that).. but when i get angry, and start shouting, i can be just a little bit intimidating.. but this girl wasn't scared because im scary she was frightened because she's a coward little daddy's girl who thinks that by screaming on a seemingly harmless girl on the street she can boost her ego and pretend to grow a pair.. see, i do need therapy.. I think it�s my Mars conjunct Sun
Don't worry I know ur not bulky, I've seen u! 1st thing u had 2 clear up huh hahah! Oh venus! Ooh u have mars conj sun! Would it square your asc too? I think I am abit like Jeremy piven in entourage. I don't have a Lloyd tho which is the problem. I need a trusty assistant wif patience. My last one was an aqua. When there was other music playing in the car he would sing his own songs he listens to on the oldies station even if he was directly facing the speakers. W-t-f! I had this too. U can totally dip it in water and it is throw proof. Also not as rubbery looking as the other brands. I think there are touch screens out now. I spotted some when I googled for this one. http://www.distinctphones.com/nokia-waterproof-phones/ Bush is fast tho haha! I'd totally catch that shoe mid air and go amok! I'm totally sounding like a shoe barbarian now lol! But then if it were a bomb.. Ah well good thinking dubya! I think I read something in the Tao of health sex and longevity about people constantly angry. It was just an example about balancing energy.. I think something liver related if u r inclined to believe those stuff. I will see if I still have that book. IP: Logged |
Sashar Knowflake Posts: 204 From: Alternate timeline future Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 18, 2012 08:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: people may not know that about me but i have anger issues..i can get snappy very quickly and usualy what i say isnt exactly nice.. that bugs me a lot because i hate hurting people's feelings.. one time, for example, i had had a stressfull day and was walking home. i crossed a sub road that was blocked with traffic, (bender to bender traffic) anyway this bimbo (sorry for that) was sittin behind the wheel freakin texting while driving, she didnt even look at me as i was crossing but i thought it was fine since there was traffic and she wasnt moving, anyway when i got infront of her car she kinda bumped me in the leg (she moved a little forward) i startd tapping on the front of her car, she noticed and stopped. it was just a little bump no big deal so i just moved on deciding to let it slide. anyway this "lovely" young woman rolls down her window as the traffic dissolved and she started to move, and screams at me "next time be carefull" as b*tchy as she can be. ..and i snapped, just snapped, so i ran after her car tapped so hard on her window and screamed "stop texting you *^&%$^#$" .. she was soo scared she didnt even look at me and just drove off.. not my proudest moment.. should i be worried? should a get therapy or something?
Oh dear, you're worried about that? Honestly, it sounds to me like she forgot that the things she says to other people can have real life negative consequences... and it was time for a reminder, through you. I'm guessing you're more worried because you snapped so easily and felt like you weren't completely in control of your actions, like someone flipped a switch? And this is just an example of that happening... and though it doesn't happen very often, when it does happen, it over powers you in a worrying manner? Happens to the best of us. Really worry if it happens often, you don't stop if/when it becomes physical (though you probably think it wouldn't stop if it became physical, that switch turns off just as easily as it turns on), you actually start causing harm to people or yourself, if you stop being concerned about it, you black out or see red, or if there's a common trigger. If you have money/time to see a shrink type person it wouldn't hurt if you're really concerned... but I'm the type of person who thinks everyone should be in therapy just as a general rule. Either way, your story was entertaining. RAWR!
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 7213 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 18, 2012 08:18 AM
Nah, no therapy. People like that are dangerous. They just don't realize it and/or care.IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1077 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 18, 2012 08:31 AM
@char its ok to lash out a little, especially if it makes u feel better @sand lol us venusians care that people think we are pretty right?
my acs is in cap but it doesnt square my sun and mars . side note: where's ur mars? @sashar, lol ur welcome, i have plenty of similar stories where people push my buttons thinking im a push over but get a very unexpected responce yea i too think therapy is a good idea for everyone, but i dont know if my anger is a serious matter or not. about getting physical, i dunno what happens i've never harmed anyone, i dont lay my hands on anyone unless if i was joking (i have been known to pinch, bite and hip bump occaisonly ) but sometimes i can feel the urge to push someone or maybe pull some hair, never actualy done it but it sure crosses my mind..
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Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 787 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 18, 2012 09:23 AM
I don't have anger issues or whatever and heres what I would've done! She could've killed you because she was texting. I'd let her know too. My mars is scorpio in the 6th trine saturn in the 10th ----------- "The world was on fire and no one could save me but you. Its strange what desire will make foolish people do. Id never dreamed that Id meet somebody like you. I'd never dreamed that I'd know somebody like you." -wicked game, song IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 3502 From: Earthy MIlkshake Diner Registered: May 2011
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posted April 18, 2012 09:32 AM
@Venus my Mars is in Scorpio 1st house My reenactment of events using lindaland smileys. Very csi lol! IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 527 From: Toronto, Canada Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 18, 2012 10:35 AM
My bf has severe anger issues, which are indicated in his chart (being majority fire and having both a Mars-Saturn as well as a Mars-Pluto square). At least he has an Aquarian Mars to keep him from killing someone.Hey Venus, if it makes you feel any better, at least know that there is somebody out there who will love you unconditionally and put up with your high maintenance ass lol.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 31051 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 18, 2012 04:18 PM
Venus==where is your Mars and what aspects does it make?------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 987 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 18, 2012 07:57 PM
Based on this story, it doesn't sound like you have anger issues. If YOU had been the girl who, because of texting, almost ran someone over, and then yelled at them for being in the way, I'd say you have anger issues. Or if you saw her texting and started pounding on her window and cussing her out...that's an anger issue. But this? No. There is a time for peace and a time for war. You might have saved someone else's life by making this girl think twice about her behavior.
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Venus Moderator Posts: 1077 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 19, 2012 02:22 AM
Ami, my Mars is in the 9th house in Libra, i have quite a few aspects, i have Mars square Saturn, Neptune, Jupiter, and Uranus (all these shared with my sun which is almost in exact conjunction with mars). i also have a semi square between venus and mars.Faith, and Desiring Shadows thanks for making me feel less guilty. sand, duh i kno its in scorpio but what degree? also in that reenactment does the angel mean forgiveness or death?? if you killed someone u def. need therapy.. hehe Aquacheeks, my ass is quite high maintenance, and mostly cardinal so -he- has quite some sh*t to put up with
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sand Knowflake Posts: 3502 From: Earthy MIlkshake Diner Registered: May 2011
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posted April 19, 2012 04:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: sand, duh i kno its in scorpio but what degree? also in that reenactment does the angel mean forgiveness or death?? if you killed someone u def. need therapy.. hehe
Lol sorry! 22 degrees. Does it hit anything in ur chart? No it means u went back to being an angel! IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1077 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 19, 2012 05:18 AM
^ hah! yea right, i stopped being an angel years ago lol no way, i have Venus 2255' Scorpio. its also pretty close to my pluto (i have pluto conjunct venus in natal) but my moon and MD are a little farther away but stil in scorpio from astrotheme: Interpretation of the 22 Scorpio symbolic degree "A man sows against the wind." Hard-working but stubborn character totally lacking good practical sense. One has too much self-confidence and believes that one knows better than anyone else. Despite repeated failures, one keeps on making the same mistakes and waste a lot of energy and efforts. One must seek advice from wise and experienced people.
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T Knowflake Posts: 5567 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 19, 2012 05:32 AM
Ditto what Faith said.& try having Mars square Uruanus in Fixed signs. Thankfully I have a lot of Saturn to temper that and cool it down. I think you handled it well IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 5567 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 19, 2012 05:44 AM
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T Knowflake Posts: 5567 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 19, 2012 05:47 AM
...i might have been having a Mars transit that day. LOL IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 5567 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 19, 2012 05:56 AM
I can get a bit of road rage when someone is driving aggressively too. I am a very cautious, responsible driver, but when someone rides my @ss or goes nutty because I am not going 30 miles over the speed limit, I will mess with them right back. Have to try to keep that in check though.IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 3502 From: Earthy MIlkshake Diner Registered: May 2011
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posted April 19, 2012 06:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: ^ hah! yea right, i stopped being an angel years ago lol no way, i have Venus 22�55' Scorpio. its also pretty close to my pluto (i have pluto conjunct venus in natal) but my moon and MD are a little farther away but stil in scorpio from astrotheme: Interpretation of the 22� Scorpio symbolic degree "A man sows against the wind." Hard-working but stubborn character totally lacking good practical sense. One has too much self-confidence and believes that one knows better than anyone else. Despite repeated failures, one keeps on making the same mistakes and waste a lot of energy and efforts. One must seek advice from wise and experienced people. ^i dont like this description >
oh my god haha! umm.. My Saturn is at 12 Scorpio. Pluto at 0. I've read that lol! It is abit true for me. I should listen to elders but nawww lol!! Scorpio 23. A man repairing damaged inlays of precious stones on the Taj Mahal. (Omega Symbol) Interacting/Receptive (Degree Angel: LAVIAH (LAH-vee-YAH) Great Escape, Revelation) This degree is very intent on protecting what it feels is of value. It can be patiently obsessive and one-pointed. There's a selflessness here, for that which is protected is not just for the self, but for the world, ultimately. The Guardian of Memories wants to keep alive the most exalted aspects of the past, by rekindling their wondrous fire to uplift us all. The Chandra Symbol for this degree is “A collection of dolls.” This degree is into the subtleties of how things look and feel, rather than whether they make sense or fit into the protocols of logic and reason. It is very aware of how everything is supposed to be according to what other humans have to say about it, and is also aware that these outer forms are no more than outer forms, and that what humans have to say about anything are no more than opinions. Here is great ability to imagine, to fantasize, and by doing so to get back into the real essence of things, which, if followed faithfully, can clear away all distortions and bring human energy once again back into alignment with nature. Pleiadian Symbol: In twilight a forest alive with all sorts of creatures, some physical, others denizens from other planes. Azoth Symbol: Trees ripped from the ground by a violent storm. Seed degree: Capricorn 2. A painting which causes those who see it to become silent. (Omega Symbol). Finding catalysts that heighten self awareness helps to restore our attunement to our spiritual self and its beauties and wonders. A wisdom tooth that has been removed from someone's mouth. It is plated with gold. (Chandra Symbol). To realign ourselves with our innate wisdom helps us to better understand the nature of our own identity and to realize that we may change it if we so desire. Fulfillment degree: Leo 20. An herb which, if over-consumed, causes one to die of laughter. (Omega Symbol). To honor the past and protect whatever in it is beautiful and noble is a wonderful endeavor, as long as we do not become overly attached to history. When we allow the beauties of the past to recreate themselves in the present so that they shine forth in the moment, we are able to experience the joy of the Now. A black pearl hidden in an oyster. (Chandra Symbol). To fantasize about so many different types of people and so many various personalities leads us to delve into a deep and mysterious question: Who, exactly, are we? Oracle The Taj Mahal serves as one of the primary connecting points between the realms of Earth and Aab. And even though the builder of the Taj Mahal knew not the name of Aab, it was his subconscious desire to connect these realms that inspired him to build this most glorious edifice. For centuries the same family who created the inlays on the Taj are the ones who pass on to their sons and daughters the skills to keep it in repair. And in repairing these designs not only they are repaired, but the connection to the realm of Aab is also rekindled and kept alive. Of course the Taj is not the only connecting point to Aab, and certainly not the only connecting point on earth which connects to realms other than Aab, these locations of connection being multifarious. And so the streams between realms continue to flow between each other, enlivening all realms with the magic of their waters. http://john-sandbach.blogspot.com/2010/04/1432-omegachandra-symbols-scorpio-21-25.html IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1077 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 19, 2012 06:59 AM
lol T, have a chill pill driving drives me crazy too.. especially with all them wakos on the street. IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1077 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 19, 2012 07:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by T:
ahh yes the finger, what an effective driving technique.. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 5567 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 19, 2012 07:09 AM
Twenty points for people on bikes that you hit. Ten for regular pedestrians.IP: Logged |