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Topic: Are You A Romantic?
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LEXX
Moderator Posts: 5548
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 14, 2010 10:38 PM
  
StarrofVenusGirl 
I agree!
Why would I want to cuddle a blanket?
Sigh 
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PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 3588
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 10:40 PM
I like that quote, LEXX...Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly.
-- Rose Franken IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 5548
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 14, 2010 10:46 PM
PlutoSquared
quote:
Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly.
-- Rose Franken
Yes! One of my favorites! IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 6980
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 16, 2010 05:35 PM
I think the key to being great in a relationship is playfulness. But it must be tempered with knowing that there is a time to be serious.------------------
"Everything I eat has been proved by some doctor or other to be a deadly poison, and everything I don't eat has been proved to be indispensable for life. But I go marching on."--George Bernard Shaw IP: Logged |
NickiG
Moderator Posts: 3163
From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted December 16, 2010 05:45 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
I think the key to being great in a relationship is playfulness. But it must be tempered with knowing that there is a time to be serious.
absolutely...nearly all of my previous relationships were all play...what i mean by that was i got poked, licked, and tickled a lot, no joke you can believe all of that play was an element to why we broke up ------------------
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 6980
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 16, 2010 07:33 PM
There's a big difference between being playful and being annoying.  ------------------
"Everything I eat has been proved by some doctor or other to be a deadly poison, and everything I don't eat has been proved to be indispensable for life. But I go marching on."--George Bernard Shaw IP: Logged |
NickiG
Moderator Posts: 3163
From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted December 16, 2010 07:36 PM
lol, yes, there is...and they were simply being annoying...i was hoping each new boyfriend would be a little more mature, but nope still being retarded ------------------
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 6980
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 16, 2010 07:39 PM
You probably need a healthy balance between immature and stuffy. Too mature is bad, as well. Too much seriousness can prevent a relationship from growing.------------------
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NickiG
Moderator Posts: 3163
From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted December 16, 2010 07:41 PM
yes, but i'v never had a mature relationship really, and oh how i crave it  heres a question, do you have that healthy balance?------------------
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 6980
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 19, 2010 10:32 PM
Oops, I didn't see your response. I like to think that I'm a very well-balanced person and centered between many different extremes.IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2065
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2010 05:32 AM
You are the most well balanced person I know.IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2065
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2010 05:37 AM
As for the topic question, yes, a hopeless sugary gooey one yet there are many that do not appreciate such traits or blow it off as "cheesy".------------------
quote:
Being loved by all is little fun
Unless you're also loved by one.
~Robert Brault
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 6980
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2010 03:25 PM
Thanks, Charmaine.  And romanticism is never cheesy.------------------
"The stars which shone over Babylon and the stable in Bethlehem still shine as brightly over the Empire State Building and your front yard today. They perform their cycles with the same mathematical precision, and they will continue to affect each thing on earth, including man, as long as the earth exists." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2065
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2010 03:39 PM
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LEXX
Moderator Posts: 5548
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2010 09:51 PM
charmainec
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 6980
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 09, 2011 07:17 PM
Romance takes effort, and when you add work into the equation, couples just want to relax first and foremost. Plus, if there are children, it makes romance even more difficult to find time for. But it's worth the effort. ------------------
"Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 6980
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 14, 2011 11:59 PM
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charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2065
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 17, 2011 08:02 AM
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TxGirl
Knowflake Posts: 216
From:
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 25, 2011 02:33 AM
I expect alot because I give alot. I've never been completely happy and felt as if most men just don't care to try, are too lazy, don't understand why they should be romantic, weren't taught, are too cool...etc etc.No offense to the men- this is in MY relationships. I on the other hand, sneak notes, leave post its, love to surprise, write poems, get all mushy and want to play get to know you more games, I just love knwoing people and understanding them and giving them what they want and need. Send them cheesy songs in their email or play them in the car, get sexy clothes, try my best to make their fantasies come true. Maybe I was meant to be with a woman? lol I just need to train the men better :/ Lol it's a joke relax! IP: Logged |
snarly
Knowflake Posts: 121
From: u.k
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 25, 2011 10:33 AM
I'm a big romantic, but keep it well hidden. My OH of 10 years isn't romantic at all, I don't think, as I was the one always writing the little notes and making little silly love token things. The worst time (and I still cringe thinking about it) was Valentine's day about 6 yrs ago. OH was out somewhere, so I thought I'd surprise him by wearing some sexy underwear for when he came home. Well, he spent all day and all night hanging with his friends, 'forgot' all about what day it was, and after 3 hours of trying to look seductive for the invisible man, I gave up. I won't be doing that again  IP: Logged |
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