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Topic: Are You A Romantic?
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PeaceAngel
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posted November 21, 2010 05:28 AM
  
And do you see this as a good or bad thing?IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: The Goober Galaxy
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posted November 21, 2010 05:36 AM
Oh, yeah. But I can't find a woman who appreciates it. IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted November 21, 2010 09:11 AM
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted November 21, 2010 09:12 AM
Randall. 
You will! IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl
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From: Down the Rabbit Hole
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 21, 2010 12:31 PM
Yes, when I feel safe and secure enough to be one. I would like to leave notes for my hubby telling him how much I love him, or to come home from work with a trail of rose petals leading to the bedroom only to find out that he has arranged for the kids to go to grandma's for the weekend, etc. I like to write poetry for my beloved, read to him, surprise him with things, etc. but I have to feel that those things are appreciated and not taken for granted, and I don't show that side of myself right away because it makes me feel too vulnerable. Also in the past I have been accused of loving too much, and it made me realize that not everyone is a romantic! Not everyone lives for love or their lover and some people actually find such displays of affection smothering. Can you believe that?! HMPH! I didn't at first. But it's true LOL. Now I tone it down a bit until I know what I'm dealing with. IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 21, 2010 12:34 PM
that was lovely, star, and so much additude the way you said it too, i loved it!!------------------
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Randall
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 21, 2010 01:50 PM
When I have a girlfriend, I sneak notes in her jacket pocket for her to find later. And I write long letters sometimes. It's more personal than texting, and in a way is more personal than talking on the phone (both of which we will be doing a lot). With life being the way it is, you can't always see each other every day unless you live together. I send flowers for no reason, and I like to send them to her at work, so my girl can feel extra special. I also invented Valentine's Day Week. Like a Baker's Dozen concept, it's for 8 days, with the 8th day being February 14th. And each day I take my girlfriend to somewhere special to eat and plan other romantic things. I plan everything. Lots of surprises. Looks like I might be single this year. Then it becomes Single Awareness Day.  IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 21, 2010 02:07 PM
StarrofVenusGirl & Randall
SIGH
I've never had that done for me.
So far, all the men I have been married or engaged to.....
All wanted and EXPECTED romance from me.
But none ever reciprocated fully or at all in turn.
Oh yeah, the standard holidays....
those dreadfully commercialized days to make an "appointment" to try and be romantic....
Valentine's Day, Sweetest Day.
Fraking depressing.
LOL (sarcastic bitter laughter here)
And those days were rarely remembered either.
Many gifts given as thinly veiled bribes, to appease their guilt as they went off to get drunk or buy something not in the budget.My husband from whom I am now separated, well he tried to be romantic sometimes.
But not enough. And rarely.
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StarrofVenusGirl
Moderator Posts: 1314
From: Down the Rabbit Hole
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 21, 2010 02:10 PM
I like getting things at work. It's my secret like. It makes my Mars in Leo feel queenly and special and I want to preen and brag to all the other ladies that my man is so much better than theirs because he sends me trinkets...except I don't have to say a word because the gifts do all the talking for me LOL. They are always prominently displayed until everything is dead, then carefully pressed and put away in my secret box of treasures (that I would die if anyone found because it has a bunch of ridiculously sentimental items in it). IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 6980
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 21, 2010 02:13 PM
Every girl likes to brag and show off the flowers, balloons, candy, and gifts to her co-workers. That's why I do it.  IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 21, 2010 02:13 PM
randall.....  ------------------
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scorpio17
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From: Netherlands
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted November 21, 2010 02:51 PM
Randall,Maybe Santa will give you something special this year.  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 21, 2010 03:01 PM
Yeah, maybe Santa will bring me a girlfriend who isn't a whack-job and whom I can trust. Santa, you better get a bigger sack, because I want toys, too!  Not those kind of toys, Nicki. Bad girl!When a girl is on my arm, she becomes the center of my universe. If any word would describe me, it's "attentive." But without being clingy or smothering in any way. There's that happy medium thing again. I should have been a tightrope walker.  ------------------
"A heart of gold cannot be borrowed, bought, or sold." IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 21, 2010 03:09 PM
what sort of toys do you want santa to bring you, sugar bear? like little toy trucks and hotwheels cars?------------------
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scorpio17
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From: Netherlands
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted November 21, 2010 03:16 PM
I hope Santa is also nice for me this year. Randall, you're really selling your self here with al those promising words. You want gifts too, thats so much. You're pushing your luck.
That's oké. IP: Logged |
Randall
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 21, 2010 03:34 PM
I'm a big boy. I want a remote controlled car.IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
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posted November 21, 2010 03:35 PM
 how about a remote controlled hummer?------------------
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Randall
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posted November 21, 2010 03:36 PM
Define hummer.IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
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posted November 21, 2010 03:38 PM
an off road truck (sorta) its muuuch bigger than a regular remote controlled car------------------
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WinkAway
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From: here, there & everywhere
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posted November 21, 2010 03:57 PM
Randall I think Nicki has competition lol.
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Randall
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posted November 21, 2010 04:02 PM
Oh, those big yellow vroom vrooms that get about 8 miles to the gallon?IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 21, 2010 04:11 PM
LOL, not the remote controlled ones!!WinkAway, LOLOL, this little scorpio tail dont mind a little competition ------------------
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Randall
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From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 21, 2010 04:29 PM
I want my girlfriend to be wearing my gifts from Santa. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 21, 2010 04:41 PM
Scorpio tail...haha!------------------
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NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 21, 2010 04:44 PM
i often use that analogy for myself------------------
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