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Topic: I Feel Angry At Many LL People
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 12:15 PM
  
I have asked a legitimate 8th house question.I asked Randall to erase it if he did not want in here.
Since it is NOT erased ,it is open for opinions.
If you don't like "drama", then you don't have to respond to a "drama " thread.
You can ignore it and go to the hundreds of "non drama threads"
I am down with that  ------------------
If I am not for myself ,who am I?
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 12:17 PM
We can agree to disagree,SOVG.I,still ,have my opinion of what you did.
I have the right to my opinion.You have the right to yours .
You don't have to like me and I don't have to like you.
I am fine with that. In fact, that is real and I like real.
I like real a lot more than I like fake.
I will treat you respectfully on LL as I ask you treat me, nothing more and nothing less.
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If I am not for myself ,who am I?
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MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 362
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posted December 12, 2010 12:25 PM
Drama seems to occur in many threads you post in. Not just this one. Telling someone not to respond, not to read or to effectively shut up and not share their opinion if they don't care or disagree with something is ridiculous. For the record, I DO avoid most of your threads. This one was addressed to members of LindaLand - of which i happen to be one. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 12:26 PM
I ask EVERYONE to be respectful on this thread as *I* will try to be.
So far, everyone has done that . I appreciate that, a great deal.
If the thread gets nasty, I will have to close it and I don't want to.
I want to hear people's opinions on an issue that was big , to ME. ANY respectful opinion is welcomed.
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 12:34 PM
I am trying to process what happened to me .I have that right by virtue of the thread STILL being here.
I will do that as long as people are respectful and I don't HAVE to close it.------------------
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MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 362
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posted December 12, 2010 12:36 PM
That's great! Then my opinion is valid and should be taken into consideration instead of being dismissed and told "not to read it if you don't like it"I have never been anywhere on the net with so many threats of deleting and closing threads. I really don't get it. I honestly and sincerely and RESPECTFULLY state that I believe that some moderators are bordering on abusing their powers / responsibilities. That is the nicest way I can say that. I will leave it at that and not go start new threads about it or drag it anywhere or demand apologies from anyone. IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl
Moderator Posts: 1159
From: Down the Rabbit Hole
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 12, 2010 12:38 PM
MoonWitch  God bless redheads  Pssssst...you're giving her what she wants. She can't stand not getting attention and since she's pretty much been ignored the last few days, has decided to toss a bomb onto the forum as a last act of desperation. Let this one die. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 12:41 PM
I am trying to process what *I* went through.
ANY respectful opinion is valued---OK???
I don't want to have to close the thread for a fight.
Other than a person being a jerk, I want to hear your opinion.
Big things happened on LL.
*I* need to process them in order to go forward in MY way on LL.
I am ALLOWED to process them.
It is legitimate to ask these questions in an 8th house forum.
If someone does not want to deal with such issues, they are not compelled to.
I think that is obvious.
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 12:44 PM
SOVG
THAT was NOT respectful. That was name calling.
I am just duly noting that.
I am NOT name calling,for the record.
No one else has name called on this thread.
Hopefully ,they won't or it WILL escalate in to a fight.
See what I mean?
Try not to name call, SOVG.
It is not needed and not mature ------------------
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 12:44 PM
Lets express our OPINIONS, SOVG, not name call.
I will try to do the same.
Lets TRY to exist on a higher plane,if we can.
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MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 362
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 12, 2010 01:25 PM
StarofVenus - you're right, naturally.  . A moment of weakness on my part. Hehehe @ redheads comment IP: Logged |
NickiG
Moderator Posts: 2156
From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 01:57 PM
ami, i didnt defend or even respond to the attacks on you because half of the reason was i wasnt on and the other half was because i just didnt want to get into the drama...you know where we stand in our relationship and nothing will ever change that------------------
put your foot down once, not stomp it over and over IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 02:05 PM
I am down with that Nicki 
Thank you for your response.------------------
If I am not for myself ,who am I?
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 02:08 PM
I can't stop anyone from thinking I am a drama queen.
I can't stop anyone from despising me if they do or any level of dislike.
*I* am just trying to state MY reality and make sense of the reality of the people I care about.
That is what *I* need to do to get my feet on the ground and go on.------------------
If I am not for myself ,who am I?
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 02:55 PM
The other thing I am gonna do, for the future,is to process my reality,on here.
If someone does not want to be the subject of my processing my reality, don't do something which will force me to process it.I could only learn this truth, backwards,as I did ,in this recent fight. ------------------
If I am not for myself ,who am I?
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 03:01 PM
In turn, if *I* ever do a mean-spirited/bullying/slightly mean/ medium mean/greatly mean/name calling etc action to you,please feel free to call ME out on it as I will call you ------------------
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katatonic
Knowflake Posts: 5866
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 12, 2010 03:12 PM
ami i will respectfully ask you to speak for yourself and leave me out of your threads. i am only here because someone told me you were talking about me. leave it out in future thank you.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 03:14 PM
Kat
If you do NOTHING to me in the future, you will be left out in the future.------------------
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StarrofVenusGirl
Moderator Posts: 1159
From: Down the Rabbit Hole
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 12, 2010 03:18 PM
Meoooooooooooooow...Has anyone seen my pretty kitty? Oh there you are Kat!!!! (scoops up Kat and carries her back to the light) Kat IP: Logged |
pire
Knowflake Posts: 1624
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 12, 2010 03:20 PM
ami said "My question in ALL of this is "Why didn't the people whom I love, here, reach out to help me?????"to clarify, people whom you love owe you something ?? they must repay your "love" for them? don't ever like me Ami, please. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 03:25 PM
Duly noted, Pire
There IS a time to stop reaching out to people who do not appreciate it, such as yourself. I realized that ,too, during this fight.
We can start that new policy of mine with each other.
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pire
Knowflake Posts: 1624
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posted December 12, 2010 03:27 PM
that is sad to arrive to this state of affair (non talking whatsoever) but I guess I do prefer it to be this way. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 03:29 PM
I,always ,prefer "real" to fake. So, with that being said, people who do not like each other should stay away from each other.
I agree, totally. ------------------
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 03:46 PM
I, actually, really appreciate the lesson to not reach out to people who do not like me and try to get them to.
It is a relief to me to feel I do not have to try.
All LL lessons are life lessons, of course.
I am very,very grateful for each and every lesson.
I mean that with deepest sincerity.------------------
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 3945
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 03:49 PM
That is another nasty,sniping comment ,Star of Venus Girl,but it reflects on you ,not on me.
PS So far, you have been the ONLY one to call names and make sniping comments. That is a good record, Hopefully, we can keep it just that--- one person.
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