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posted December 13, 2010 11:49 AM            

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MoonWitch
You're welcome!
I deleted the triple (TP) postings.

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posted December 13, 2010 06:26 PM            

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Ami,

I have had to take a few moments before writing about your accusations that I "pig piled on you" but my heart was not in it.

First off, I never pig piled on you. I don't even like that term nor do I condone online or offline bullying.

As to the you leading the way for someone like me to discuss painful events. No.. you didn't. I've been here for EIGHT YEARS. I have witnessed the pain of other knowflakes, we have had to say goodbye to some of those that hav crossed the rainbow bridge and sadly, I have had arguments with others that still make me cringe.

As others have said, I have been here for quite awhile and shared my pain, which is NOT easy for me to do. Then you come along and have the audacity to say that YOU opened the door?

The door was opened by Linda Goodman and kept alive by Randall through this site. I hope you can understand that the next time you start with the "bullying" stuff.

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posted December 13, 2010 06:30 PM            

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Bear
*I* believe what *I* believe or I would NOT have said it.
You can disagree with me.
I want to leave it.I hope you agree as there is no more room for discussion.
We are at a stalemate.

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posted December 13, 2010 06:53 PM            

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Ami, you paint yourself in a corner sometimes. I think people don't undrstand you, because after many years of being silenced, you have finally found your voice, and you are exercising it and trying to escape the victim mold you were encased in for so long...so you get loud...you scream...at the top of your lungs. I understand that. I've seen it in my life--as a child--as an adult. But I think that many people don't understand it. Maybe you could be a little less loud and listen more. There are some truly beautiful people here that won't get to know you, because you push them away and isolate yourself. People like BearsArcher, who has a heart of pure gold. I understand that you are free now, and you want to scream so loud to show that you are no longer a victim. People don't get that about you, because we all act differently when dealing with pain and victimization, and they don't always understand when you scream out. They see it as attention-getting. And it repels them. Not everyone is attacking you or trying to silence you when they react to your words...your loud words that signify you are no longer a victim. If you lower your voice just a tad, you might see that some of these people can really identify with you and would like you if they got to know. They just take your exerting your non-victim voice in the wrong way. I am saying this with love.

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posted December 13, 2010 07:01 PM            

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Randall
*I* can receive your words in love cuz you have earned my trust.
I really just want to process what happened to me,in a way that feels I am being true to myself and move on.
YOU can always speak truth in to my life and I can listen

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posted December 13, 2010 07:13 PM            

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Thank you. I am glad you found your voice again. Just remember, you don't have to always be defensive. Not anymore. Open up, listen more, and let people get to know you.

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"Everything I eat has been proved by some doctor or other to be a deadly poison, and everything I don't eat has been proved to be indispensable for life. But I go marching on."--George Bernard Shaw

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posted December 13, 2010 07:17 PM            

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Thank you for being my friend ,Randall.
It means a great deal to me.
Please come to me with ANY perception you have about me.
I will give it deep consideration.

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posted December 13, 2010 09:37 PM            

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http://media.photobucket.com/image/animated%20cats/bluecynder/Animated%20GIFS/11458114315650230.gif?o=87

I need more cats in my life =(

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posted December 13, 2010 09:38 PM            

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DP _V_

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posted December 13, 2010 09:51 PM            

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I think it is VERY good that you expressed yourself, Crona

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posted December 13, 2010 09:58 PM            

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Cats make everything better *sighs*

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posted December 13, 2010 10:00 PM            

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Ami... I always stay out of drama... I really hate drama (go figure a leo that hates drama..lol)

Anyways Im not sure what happen, nor did I read the post, just your original post.. But I wanted to reply....

You cant let people get to you, like this.. Especially people you will never met.. I see these forums as basically just words on a computer screen. Yes other people are typing the words, but these are people that you dont know, and that dont know you..

Take the negative words with a grain of salt..

You dont have to accept negativity.. The best thing to do is just ignore it, and move on to more positive posts.

Why waste time and energy going back and fourth.. No one gets anywhere.. Except upset.

In every place in our life we ALL will find disagreements.. Some people will like us, some wont... Its just a fact of life.. No use wasting energy on someone that doesnt like us.. Use your energy for better...

It takes a bigger person to just walk away and let it go...

Thats my two cents...

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posted December 13, 2010 10:05 PM            

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Thanks ((((Lionness)
I made my stand.
Now, I want to move on.

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posted December 14, 2010 06:14 AM            

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It seems like everyone who was in this fight had his/her say.
*I* hope so cuz I want to move on.
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posted December 14, 2010 08:50 AM            

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There was a fight?

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posted December 14, 2010 08:51 AM            

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I'm still looking at all the YouTube videos.

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posted December 14, 2010 08:52 AM            

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Some of them are really good. Nice to have on a Tuesday morning.

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posted December 14, 2010 08:55 AM            

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I'm glad this thread is dead though and everyone is moving on!

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