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Topic: Are You Jealous?
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Randall
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From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2011 10:49 AM
  
I know, Charmaine. I wanted others' opinions also.  ------------------
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AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2011 01:04 PM
I agree with Ghani.IP: Logged |
charmainec
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From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2011 02:18 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
I know, Charmaine. I wanted others' opinions also.
Oh misunderstood  ------------------
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I'm everyone.. paint your label on me..
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ghanima81
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From: Maine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2011 02:45 PM
AG, That's cuz you iz a smartie! IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2011 04:42 PM
Yeah, I think Ghani has a valid point...trust issues could be at the root.IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 08, 2011 06:49 PM
What does your signature quote mean, Charmaine?------------------
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charmainec
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From: Venus next to Randall
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posted March 15, 2011 09:10 AM
From a song, when you read the lyrics it makes sense.IP: Logged |
feitlebaum
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From: AZ
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted March 16, 2011 07:00 PM
I feel jealous when my relationships are threatened, but otherwise, I am pretty chill. Especially for having a lot of Taurus and a Scorpio Moon.I think it has to do with my Uranus trine Venus/Sun.  IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit
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From: A Place of Pure Love <3
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 17, 2011 02:23 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ah5gAkna3jI IP: Logged |
TxGirl
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Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 17, 2011 03:02 AM
quote:
Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ah5gAkna3jI
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TxGirl
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posted March 17, 2011 03:08 AM
Edited, I re-read that and I'm not jealous, just un trusting. But, I'm learning!No jealousy is good imo. I'm working towards that.
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charmainec
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From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 06, 2011 06:42 AM
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starfox
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From: London England
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted July 06, 2011 08:40 AM
No I'm not jealous like that,its a nasty game when people try to make you jealous in relationships.IP: Logged |
sand
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posted July 06, 2011 08:41 AM
umm taurus sun/ venus, scorpio mars, venus opposition pluto, etc... nah i'm not the jealous type at all!  IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 06, 2011 11:58 AM
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Originally posted by starfox:
No I'm not jealous like that,its a nasty game when people try to make you jealous in relationships.
I guess overall, I'd just walk away if anyone tried to make me jealous. I do not want to experience that feeling again. I'd be like, come back when you do not feel you need to goad me.------------------
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Saraintheski
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posted July 06, 2011 12:30 PM
Yes ..very much so but I try not to make a scene ..My man is a gentleman and sometimes women seem to attach themselve to him .. but he will flip out and make a scene for days if someone crossed a line with me
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jwhite997
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 06, 2011 01:05 PM
I wouldn't say jealous, but my girlfriend and I are both pretty possessive of one another. We pride ourselves on this mutual possessiveness and strongly believe it contributes to our intimacy.
Society labels possessiveness with insecurity, but that's just our society, and such labels may not be true in other countries.IP: Logged |
Stawr
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From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 06, 2011 01:10 PM
I honestly think it's a women thing...to want men to dress a certain way. I'm not gonna lie some men really do need a woman's touch when it comes to dressing.My dad is a bit color blind...he can wear some clashing things sometimes.
And ohhh my mom just can't keep it too her self! lol (my mom has virgo venus and mars)
"that doesn't match...you shouldn't wear grey socks with kakis..." and my mom has gotten smarter...and will tell him that he looks good without the grey socks. LOL I know men hate to shop too...my sis keeps her husband happy by buying him a large smoothie while they go clothes shopping at the mall...BUT my sister does something kind of wicked also...when he isn't around she will get rid of some of his bad clothes. (Libra Sun, Scorp Venus, Virgo Moon) My uncle has been single for ages, and he looks like a bum...so my mom is trying to help him. My mom tells him to brush his hair and teeth and such. And even bought him some new things. Maybe it's my Aqua Mars or something...but I'm really not that type of girl. As long as they don't smell really bad I'm happy. I really don't care what anyone wears. But if people ask for my opinion I will be honest, but I wont tell ya to change. To my female friends who ask for my advice...I will useally just say "Well it's nothing that I would wear" And when my ex asked me if he looked like a 'gangsta' when we where going out somewhere I just said "no...you just look like a juggalo" He wore ICP stuff ALL THE TIME. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 06, 2011 01:52 PM
Yeah for me I feel like I get jealous...Ugh I hate using that word...lol When I don't trust intentions...if I feel like I am just being used...I was dumb when I was younger...
I jumped into a relationship with a guy who still wasn't over a girl he hooked up with. So I realized that this guy is just using me. Cause he can't get with this other girl. And a few days into the relationship I fliped out on him on the phone, and let him know 'I wont put up with this, and he wont be treating me like I'm stupid, and I wont be used' So he pretty much kissed up to me...cause it was obvious that this other chick was not interested. (My ex is clingy he probibly scared her off)(havn't we all been there ladies and gents?) So since I didn't get to know him...and starting off being in a realationship with a guy that hadn't moved on from a flipping fling!...acted like he wasn't over her...but was still trying to get with me. Yes he is one of those needy type guys. but we still dragged out the realationship anyway.
But I got smart and desided I would never start a realationship with a guy that goes "okay its officail, she doesn't want me...wanna be my girlfriend?"
But yeah...a realationship is pointless with out trust...but I feel like not trusting or feeling used by a guy is the root of my "jealous" issues. I hate using that word when I feel like I'm in the right. haha But now it's like, well I was wrong, cause I put up with a guy too long I didn't exactly fully trust. If you don't fully trust...being more controlling and throwing b!tch fits will not make the realationship better and make the SO more trustworthy. No one wins. NO one is happy. Either talk about feelings in a non-thetining way anti b!tch fitting way and with out flipping out or get outta there! IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 954
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 06, 2011 02:21 PM
YES people are flippin crazy and out of their mind...When their significant other can't even watch tv. Because sexy and attractive people are on it sometimes. That is way too controlling and ridiculous. I feel like that kind of behavior is beound jealous. Like to me it's psychotic.My cousin was actin flippin crazy once. I was watching a horror movie with her and her ex. Horror movies often have naked chicks in them YA KOW! And she was all like to her guy..."I don't want you to watch! Because when you look IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I'M UGLY!" and yeah she started to cry... I'm glad shes grew up since then. I don't care if a guy watches porn. So he should't care if a read romance or sex books. Not like I do...but one day I want to. lol But if a guy wanted to go to a strip club with out me...I would REALLY have to fully trust him. I know what goes down there. If I didn't fully trust I would be thinking or saying "why so you can eat out a stripper, and give me an std?!" But is he was broke...I wouldn't have to worry either. lmao. But yes I've known women that got so controlled. Couldn't show cleavage, elbows, knees. I read a really sad article in a womens mag...a woman who always had to cover up...and she couldn't even read CHRISTIAN romance novels. But I feel a truely secure person would not care how sexy and hot their mate looks when they go out. I feel a truely secure person would have this kind of mentality. 'Yeah don't he/she look good?! That's right he/she is comin home with me! bahahahaha!' IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 954
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 06, 2011 02:32 PM
WOW can anyone tell I had 3 cups of coffe!? LOL
okay later!
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TrueTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 190
From: California
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 09, 2011 12:24 PM
^ Hahaha, yes I can tell.
Your post was hilarious!IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 1460
From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 09, 2011 04:02 PM
i'm not jealous. regarding relationships, i have had unpleasant experiences with this because GUYS wanted to blame jealousy. and i was like, "ME? JEALOUS!?" when they do things that undermine my self-worth, i get SAD. they interpreted that as me being JEALOUS. it made me soooo angry. it's always THEM. they cause something, see the reaction in the girl, and say it's the typical girl behaviour. RARGHHHH!!!  i still don't think i ever was jealous. i'm done with dealing with relationships. i hope the one with my current partner lasts forever so i never have to deal with the morons EVER again!  IP: Logged |
Libra1972
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From: Assen,Drenthe,Holland
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 07:00 AM
It MUST be insecurity as I am jealouse and I have no Scorpio or anything in me.I try to temper it with logical thinking but -Yep! guilty.  IP: Logged |
DepTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1487
From: canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2011 04:54 PM
very big no no in my book i dont like it and i dont ever act that way if im intrested in someone and notice them talking to someone else i could care less i act aloof all the time.its stupid you know. IP: Logged |
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