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posted March 09, 2011 01:06 PM            

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I have always trusted men,more. My friends have been men.
Now, for the first time,I am finding woman I love and trust.
It is beautiful but my deep mistrust of my mother makes it very hard.
What are your experiences with this?

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posted March 09, 2011 01:56 PM            

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i'v always trusted women more because growing up in the world today i see women being raped, men having children with their girlfriends and end up walking out on them, men abusing their wife or girlfriend....although i'v had more male friends than female friends i still trust women more and if a guy just has that look about him or that feel about him i'm highly likely to not trust him

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posted March 09, 2011 02:16 PM            

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I don't think I could ever marry a woman

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posted March 09, 2011 02:24 PM            

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I feel like I can usually get men to be up front and honest with me if I take that tone. Once in a relationship they are pretty low maintenance too, and things are emotionally simple and more open. With women I have a hard time feeling like I can trust them as much and that they will always play some emotion against me and will expect me to know something that I don't. I can't read between the lines and I expect overt honesty without agendas. They also can get jealous and catty which feels very uncomfortable. I can be comfortable with women but I have to feel like I am in complete control and very safe with the individual, which is harder there. The only times I've been really comfortable with women are when they are younger and elicit a strong nurturing or protective sentiment out of me and then I implicitly trust them (strange I know).

Anyway, my moon is opposite pluto. I also have mars semisquare my neptune with a 3 degree and 1 degree orb respectively.

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posted March 09, 2011 02:30 PM            

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I can relate to you TOTALLY,Mochai.
What was your mother like?

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posted March 09, 2011 02:34 PM            

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Very very cold. She very much didn't want me, and I wish she hadn't had me. I had problems with my sister too but perhaps had more empathy with her growing up.

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posted March 09, 2011 02:51 PM            

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Specific men, or non humans.
Jury still out as to if I can ever 100% ever trust any women.
Sorry ladies.
I just try not to let myself trust to easily (but I do trust and it too often bites me back)humans as a species;
especially women because most of the cruelty or lies directed at me in my life to date;
have come from women with rare exception.
Women I trusted were usually sooner or later being the most unkind/lying/and cruel.

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posted March 09, 2011 02:56 PM            

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I am totally serious about marrying a woman.I,often ,think how glad I am that I did not have to lol

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posted March 09, 2011 03:06 PM            

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posted March 09, 2011 03:09 PM            

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I've known cruel and f*cked up men and women equally. So I can trust both equally in time

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posted March 09, 2011 06:56 PM            

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There isn't a significant difference for me. I trust them both equally.

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posted March 09, 2011 07:06 PM            

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You said
"mean" and woman
Oh,those Freudian slips

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posted March 09, 2011 07:13 PM            

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I trust women way more. Who knows where I'd be without my girls...guys on the other hand have never gave me a reason to trust them. Guys put up a front and wanna act like they are so real and genuine and sinsere...cause they know that might work to win us over..but guys don't have the attention span either to pretend that they are a good guy for a long time too.

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posted March 09, 2011 07:14 PM            

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Equal opportunity mistrust from me. Usually less drama with men, though.

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posted March 09, 2011 07:22 PM            

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I have almost zero drama with my male friends
Men seem much more genuine in their emotions,to me.
It is funny how one's background influences ones perceptions like a Roschach test lol

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posted March 09, 2011 07:31 PM            

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quote:

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Originally posted by Randall:
Equal opportunity mistrust from me. Usually less drama with men, though.

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This.

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posted March 09, 2011 07:42 PM            

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I've had experiences with some very shady and catty men so I won't say men don't have drama. They just do their dirty sh*t on the down low while women are more outright.

Then men and women in my life now equally make me very happy so I can't lean toward any particular sex. They have shown me complete loyalty and trust.

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posted March 09, 2011 08:19 PM            

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Yeah, we just don't put it out for public display as much as women do. But I surround myself with both men and women now who have earned my trust.

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posted March 09, 2011 08:40 PM            

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I don't really trust anyone. Not just with personal information but with things like doing what they say they are going to do. People are just very unreliable, selfish and two faced. Not everyone is all three but some are and everyone is one or the other.

That said, I relate much better to men than I do to women and I trust them a hell of a lot more. In general, and there certainly are exceptions, men don't have the same agendas as women do and they handle things much more reasonably.

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posted March 09, 2011 08:53 PM            

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I find that I am becoming more trusting of younger men and women than older. I've had some negative experiences with older men and women. It seems to me that younger people are more honest with me and with themselves.

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posted March 09, 2011 11:11 PM            

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I've always felt more comfortable and trusting with men than women.. I think it stems from my first 2 relationships: my parents. With women, I'm usually really cautious until I get to know them better. And even then, I'm hard to get to know, I like a little mystery lol.

In my natal, majority of planets are in masculine signs, my Sun/Mars is well aspected (minus the opp. from Chiron to Sun), my Moon however, is Out of Bounds, and part of my t-square, also the handle to my Bucket Chart making it a singleton (making it very receptive).

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posted March 09, 2011 11:26 PM            

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I absolutely love your quote, soulful!

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posted March 09, 2011 11:43 PM            

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Thanks, me too lol.

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posted March 10, 2011 12:15 AM            

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Hmm, I attract very honest people to me, male and female, that being said honest people aren't the easiest to get along with but there's no second guessing. Sometimes you don't want to hear the whole truth, but there it is.
Anyway my answer is both equally.
***But*** I also think maybe they're honest with me because I'm very forthright with them and constantly follow up on everything, so it's not as if they really have any room to make stuff up or act in a deceitful manner...? That could be it, too, not sure. But I don't act that way cos I'm expecting to catch them doing something weird, I'm just impatient.

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posted March 10, 2011 07:51 AM            

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I don't trust men. Most of them have their heads shoved where the sun don't shine and think they're sooo awesome when their not. Most of them are incapable of a relationship and are just selfish morons who just want to get laid. I struggle to befriend males aswell.

Men just don't like me. I'm too outspoken and won't just agree with them. They all perceive me as a threat as I won't bow to patriarchal society and their position in it. I've have males act like that towards me since I was a small child in school.

Too much Mars/Pluto/Saturn.

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