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Topic: Cure By Crying, Thomas A. Stone
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PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 12:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit: Yes I'm a Leo sun, did you guess that??? What about you, placements?
I think I gathered that from a post of yours, but wasn't sure. I don't think I hold a flicker of heat to your flame, I'll just say that... But, I have an Aries Sun, Libra Moon, Leo Ascendant... Libra Mars, Scorpio Jupiter, Pisces Venus, etc. IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 27, 2011 12:28 AM
sun leo moon cancer rising gemini mercury cancer mars libra venus cancer umm all I know lolIP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 12:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit: sun leo moon cancer rising gemini mercury cancer mars libra venus cancer umm all I know lol
A lot of Cancer. That's a good thing. Cancer is a good sign. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 12:31 AM
Tomorrow, I'll add some snippets from the book here so you can maybe enjoy some of the theory, too.IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 27, 2011 12:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoSquared: I think I gathered that from a post of yours, but wasn't sure. I don't think I hold a flicker of heat to your flame, I'll just say that...But, I have an Aries Sun, Libra Moon, Leo Ascendant... Libra Mars, Scorpio Jupiter, Pisces Venus, etc.
Aries sun We share the same Mars, Pisces Venus, awwww I don't know alot about astro but your chart seems to suit you. My flame, ummm . . . LoL I'm usually pretty watery until I become passionate about something, then I sort of transform  This is evident in my writing and my temper, I don't have a short temper by any means, but I do have a bad one  IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 27, 2011 12:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoSquared: Tomorrow, I'll add some snippets from the book here so you can maybe enjoy some of the theory, too.
Sounds good  IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 12:36 AM
Well, I understand about the temper. So, no worries  IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 27, 2011 12:38 AM
So tell me, PS because I am curious. Did you at one point see me as the fake My Little Pony type of LL member just speading hugs and sunshine to everyone?  Sometimes I get scared of people thinking that. But I can't help how I am LoL but I just friggin care for people, I will give the shirt off my back if one was in need  Just curious, I know you will tell me the truth  You talk about flames, lol, dude, you're a fire cracker, I was attracted to you because of your passionate nature  IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 12:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit: So tell me, PS because I am curious. Did you at one point see me as the fake My Little Pony type of LL member just speading hugs and sunshine to everyone?  Sometimes I get scared of people thinking that. But I can't help how I am LoL but I just friggin care for people, I will give the shirt off my back if one was in need  Just curious, I know you will tell me the truth  You talk about flames, lol, dude, you're a fire cracker, I was attracted to you because of your passionate nature 
Honestly, I was worried that your love wasn't sincere... mostly because of an affiliation, so I was suspicious, if that makes sense? Hope so. I am superficially aggressive and argumentative, just really to burn off steam and have a sounding board, but that's only one part of me... I'm a bit more complicated. So, yeah... to be short... I think you pegged the issue... very observant of you. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 12:47 AM
When you made your peace post in Central, I realized what had happened...I figured you'd kinda realized some things, and that you weren't like that, etc. IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 27, 2011 12:48 AM
Understood. I appreciate your honestly. My affiliation was due to my naive nature. I was manipulated. I will keep it at that.You are cool though, PS I'm getting a BFF in my head crush on you kinda  This time I have to be slow though, if you understand  IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 27, 2011 12:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoSquared: When you made your peace post in Central, I realized what had happened...I figured you'd kinda realized some things, and that you weren't like that, etc.
Yes, I wasn't happy with my behavior, that was geared towards you and Mblake  IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 12:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit: Understood. I appreciate your honestly. My affiliation was due to my naive nature. I was manipulated. I will keep it at that.You are cool though, PS I'm getting a BFF in my head crush on you kinda  This time I have to be slow though, if you understand 
Slow is good for me... in fact, we can take it slower than slow. I'm just glad that we're at this point of sharing, it's really nice. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 12:53 AM
Anyways. I will be back tomorrow. It's getting late here. Hope you have a peaceful night, EES. Thanks for having integrity and bravery. I know that's what motivated you to do some of the things you've done.IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 27, 2011 12:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoSquared: Anyways. I will be back tomorrow. It's getting late here. Hope you have a peaceful night, EES. Thanks for having integrity and bravery. I know that's what motivated you to do some of the things you've done.
Goodnight, kittycat  IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 27, 2011 09:28 PM
Hello, kitty.Was waiting for snippets, but you may have been busy today  Have a blessed night  IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 09:47 PM
I'm back. Will add a few things before I go to bed  IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 10:02 PM
Janov tells us that during the primal scene, the child will "split," and the word is descriptive of what happens. The split is spiritual and physical and it may involve several parts of the brain, but the most obvious split is between the left and right side of the brain. Before the split, the child has the potential to use talents from both sides, a full range of creativity, language, music, logic. After the split, the child will live more in one side, and less in the other. This is why we find people who have great mechanical skill, but can't express thoughts, or people will musical genius and no common sense. One part of the brain is blocked, the other side gets double use.After the split, the child is no longer real. The real self has been hidden away because she knows that her parents cannot accept her as she really is. What is left is an actress. Instead of an original personality, she has learned performance: the sweet little "angel," or the "brat," or the "scholar," or she pretends to be "stupid." Whatever the parents can accept becomes the performance. In the beginning, the child may know she is acting, but 20 years later, she is unaware of her own acting. Her real personality is forgotten and out of reach. pg. 37 IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 10:05 PM
I still have a few more pages to read about the theory of this man and his views on repressed memories and emotions. On page 45, the method is started. I will list the steps when I get there.There are a slew of discretionary things in the beginning, and I suggest that anyone actually buys the book, instead of jumping ahead... Just because this is a therapy and should be handled responsibly... IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 10:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit: Hello, kitty.Was waiting for snippets, but you may have been busy today  Have a blessed night 
Sorry I missed you EES. I'll be back on tomorrow afternoon  IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 9957 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2011 06:19 PM
How is the book going? ------------------ "All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
LEXX Moderator Posts: 6452 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2011 06:45 PM
I am tired of crying.  IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 09, 2011 03:05 AM
Randall,I just have been using the movies to jar myself into crying, and I think it is helping, but it's also making me very aware of a lot of deep emotions... So, I'm taking my time. The book also requires that someone assist you with the technique at first, which is somewhat like talk therapy, but I don't trust anyone enough to do that with. Otherwise, the last couple of days I've needed to cry, and I didn't do the video reviews... so, I felt really cruddy. I have a feeling that this book is actually worthwhile. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4500 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 09, 2011 03:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by LEXX: I am tired of crying. 
You don't know how much I envy you, LEXX. I wish I could let the tears roll out... easily. What a much needed cleanse. IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2752 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2011 03:54 AM
Crying is cleansing to the soul  IP: Logged |