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posted March 27, 2011 12:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Yes I'm a Leo sun, did you guess that??? What about you, placements?

I think I gathered that from a post of yours, but wasn't sure. I don't think I hold a flicker of heat to your flame, I'll just say that...

But,

I have an Aries Sun, Libra Moon, Leo Ascendant... Libra Mars, Scorpio Jupiter, Pisces Venus, etc.

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posted March 27, 2011 12:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EverEvolvingSpirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sun leo
moon cancer
rising gemini
mercury cancer
mars libra
venus cancer
umm all I know lol

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posted March 27, 2011 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
sun leo
moon cancer
rising gemini
mercury cancer
mars libra
venus cancer
umm all I know lol

A lot of Cancer. That's a good thing. Cancer is a good sign.

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posted March 27, 2011 12:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tomorrow, I'll add some snippets from the book here so you can maybe enjoy some of the theory, too.

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posted March 27, 2011 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EverEvolvingSpirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
I think I gathered that from a post of yours, but wasn't sure. I don't think I hold a flicker of heat to your flame, I'll just say that...

But,

I have an Aries Sun, Libra Moon, Leo Ascendant... Libra Mars, Scorpio Jupiter, Pisces Venus, etc.


Aries sun We share the same Mars, Pisces Venus, awwww I don't know alot about astro but your chart seems to suit you.

My flame, ummm . . . LoL I'm usually pretty watery until I become passionate about something, then I sort of transform

This is evident in my writing and my temper, I don't have a short temper by any means, but I do have a bad one

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posted March 27, 2011 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EverEvolvingSpirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
Tomorrow, I'll add some snippets from the book here so you can maybe enjoy some of the theory, too.

Sounds good

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posted March 27, 2011 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I understand about the temper. So, no worries

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posted March 27, 2011 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EverEvolvingSpirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So tell me, PS because I am curious. Did you at one point see me as the fake My Little Pony type of LL member just speading hugs and sunshine to everyone?

Sometimes I get scared of people thinking that. But I can't help how I am LoL but I just friggin care for people, I will give the shirt off my back if one was in need

Just curious, I know you will tell me the truth

You talk about flames, lol, dude, you're a fire cracker, I was attracted to you because of your passionate nature

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posted March 27, 2011 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
So tell me, PS because I am curious. Did you at one point see me as the fake My Little Pony type of LL member just speading hugs and sunshine to everyone?

Sometimes I get scared of people thinking that. But I can't help how I am LoL but I just friggin care for people, I will give the shirt off my back if one was in need

Just curious, I know you will tell me the truth

You talk about flames, lol, dude, you're a fire cracker, I was attracted to you because of your passionate nature


Honestly, I was worried that your love wasn't sincere... mostly because of an affiliation, so I was suspicious, if that makes sense? Hope so.

I am superficially aggressive and argumentative, just really to burn off steam and have a sounding board, but that's only one part of me... I'm a bit more complicated.

So, yeah... to be short... I think you pegged the issue... very observant of you.

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posted March 27, 2011 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When you made your peace post in Central, I realized what had happened...

I figured you'd kinda realized some things, and that you weren't like that, etc.

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posted March 27, 2011 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EverEvolvingSpirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Understood. I appreciate your honestly. My affiliation was due to my naive nature. I was manipulated. I will keep it at that.

You are cool though, PS I'm getting a BFF in my head crush on you kinda

This time I have to be slow though, if you understand

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posted March 27, 2011 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EverEvolvingSpirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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When you made your peace post in Central, I realized what had happened...

I figured you'd kinda realized some things, and that you weren't like that, etc.


Yes, I wasn't happy with my behavior, that was geared towards you and Mblake

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posted March 27, 2011 12:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
Understood. I appreciate your honestly. My affiliation was due to my naive nature. I was manipulated. I will keep it at that.

You are cool though, PS I'm getting a BFF in my head crush on you kinda

This time I have to be slow though, if you understand


Slow is good for me... in fact, we can take it slower than slow. I'm just glad that we're at this point of sharing, it's really nice.

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posted March 27, 2011 12:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyways. I will be back tomorrow. It's getting late here. Hope you have a peaceful night, EES. Thanks for having integrity and bravery. I know that's what motivated you to do some of the things you've done.

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posted March 27, 2011 12:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EverEvolvingSpirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Anyways. I will be back tomorrow. It's getting late here. Hope you have a peaceful night, EES. Thanks for having integrity and bravery. I know that's what motivated you to do some of the things you've done.

Goodnight, kittycat

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posted March 27, 2011 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EverEvolvingSpirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello, kitty.

Was waiting for snippets, but you may have been busy today

Have a blessed night

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posted March 27, 2011 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm back. Will add a few things before I go to bed

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posted March 27, 2011 10:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Janov tells us that during the primal scene, the child will "split," and the word is descriptive of what happens. The split is spiritual and physical and it may involve several parts of the brain, but the most obvious split is between the left and right side of the brain. Before the split, the child has the potential to use talents from both sides, a full range of creativity, language, music, logic. After the split, the child will live more in one side, and less in the other. This is why we find people who have great mechanical skill, but can't express thoughts, or people will musical genius and no common sense. One part of the brain is blocked, the other side gets double use.

After the split, the child is no longer real. The real self has been hidden away because she knows that her parents cannot accept her as she really is. What is left is an actress. Instead of an original personality, she has learned performance: the sweet little "angel," or the "brat," or the "scholar," or she pretends to be "stupid." Whatever the parents can accept becomes the performance. In the beginning, the child may know she is acting, but 20 years later, she is unaware of her own acting. Her real personality is forgotten and out of reach. pg. 37

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posted March 27, 2011 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I still have a few more pages to read about the theory of this man and his views on repressed memories and emotions. On page 45, the method is started. I will list the steps when I get there.

There are a slew of discretionary things in the beginning, and I suggest that anyone actually buys the book, instead of jumping ahead...

Just because this is a therapy and should be handled responsibly...

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posted March 27, 2011 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
Hello, kitty.

Was waiting for snippets, but you may have been busy today

Have a blessed night


Sorry I missed you EES. I'll be back on tomorrow afternoon

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posted April 08, 2011 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How is the book going?

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"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman

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posted April 08, 2011 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am tired of crying.

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posted April 09, 2011 03:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Randall,

I just have been using the movies to jar myself into crying, and I think it is helping, but it's also making me very aware of a lot of deep emotions...

So, I'm taking my time.

The book also requires that someone assist you with the technique at first, which is somewhat like talk therapy, but I don't trust anyone enough to do that with.

Otherwise, the last couple of days I've needed to cry, and I didn't do the video reviews... so, I felt really cruddy.

I have a feeling that this book is actually worthwhile.

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posted April 09, 2011 03:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I am tired of crying.

You don't know how much I envy you, LEXX. I wish I could let the tears roll out... easily. What a much needed cleanse.

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posted April 14, 2011 03:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Crying is cleansing to the soul

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