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Topic: Does Anyone Have a Borderline Mother?
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 09:14 AM
  
Ahhh
I see. I do not check that e mail,often enough, cuz msn goes soo slowly lol
Thank you,Darling,for clearing up the mystery  ------------------
Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside?
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Alma Sun
Moderator Posts: 256
From: East Coast
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 21, 2011 11:12 AM
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"Lock up your libraries if you like, but there is no gate, no lock, no bolt that you can set upon the freedom of my mind." — Virginia Woolf IP: Logged |
Skiddlez
Newflake Posts: 15
From:
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 12:01 AM
ME!
Borderline crazy, depressed, ......
My Mother needs some homeopathic help...
I could write a book about her!!!
Keep your head up...and detach yourself as much as you can...I have because I cannot feel sad for her any longer...she doesn't want my help or to change...IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 4457
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 22, 2011 12:58 AM
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Originally posted by Skiddlez:
ME!
Borderline crazy, depressed, ......
My Mother needs some homeopathic help...
I could write a book about her!!!
Keep your head up...and detach yourself as much as you can...I have because I cannot feel sad for her any longer...she doesn't want my help or to change...
Sorry to hear, Skiddlez. IP: Logged |
mercuranian
Knowflake Posts: 238
From: the 12th house
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 01:38 AM
sorry skiddles, I know how ur feelin. I am in the exact same boat.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 13079
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 22, 2011 05:04 AM
((((Skidd))) (((Mercurian))
Please write,if you care to.
*I* need to hear your voices!------------------
In this world,you will have tribulation but do not fear I have overcome the world.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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lechien
Knowflake Posts: 1154
From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 07:08 AM
 if they choose not to get help, it's their responsibility and not the child's. even though some BPD patients have "refusing to get/help/admit" as their symptoms, all you can do is to just accept and forgive, and detach. i feel sad about my situation, and i have to let this go too. for one, my mother would never accept that she is ill, and second, she lives in the country where psychiatry care is not as advanced as in some of the others. i think many people there don't even know the word BPD. so my mother would not be able to get a proper help anyway. nothing i can do about it. i just have to be in peace with that thought and live with it. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 13079
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 25, 2011 03:38 PM
The Borderline Mother demands your gut.You must be served up like roast duck,filleted down the middle, eviscerated.
Then,when you are in this state ,you are ready to be eaten.
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If you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will forgive you
But if ye forgive not men their trespasses,neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 13079
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 25, 2011 03:51 PM
If you wonder why I wrote that strange post.I just talked to my mother  bleh------------------
If you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will forgive you
But if ye forgive not men their trespasses,neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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saronna
Knowflake Posts: 356
From: Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 29, 2011 10:42 PM
Oh my goodness, if i get started, I mean where does mental begin with but with one pussycats and pussycats. Pussycats in the window: in the bed, on the floor, on top of the cupboard, outside in the garage, on the roof, on socks, on spoons, in the kitchen, in the living room, sitting on the sofa's, watching tv and on the computer, in the bathtub, in the shower and pussycats on doona's and on underwear and lastly for breakfast, lunch, dinner and dessert.IP: Logged |
Alma Sun
Moderator Posts: 256
From: East Coast
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted June 29, 2011 10:19 PM
Worth a read. http://thequeenandking.blogspot.com/search/label/%22Children%20Learn%20What%20They %20Live%22 quote:
Children Learn What They LiveIf children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.
Copyright © 1972 by Dorothy Law Nolte
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I am thankful for laughter, except when milk comes out of my nose. — Woody Allen
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Saraintheski
Knowflake Posts: 173
From:
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 29, 2011 10:29 PM
I love my mother and all shes tried her best but i'd say she was pushed to the brink quite a few times leaving us in a hotel room when I was 4 to commit suicide but running back cus she couldn't do it ... abusing xanax when I was about 11 -13 and sitting on the couch zoning out ..having so much anxiety that she doesn't drive or have a job the only job she ever had was a bar tender .. Marrying my fathers brother ! who she didn't know when she was married to him when I was about 7? or 8 maybe 9 .... I've endured a lot idk if I could even express all of it i'll feel like a bratt..IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 13079
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 30, 2011 10:25 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Saraintheski:
I love my mother and all shes tried her best but i'd say she was pushed to the brink quite a few times leaving us in a hotel room when I was 4 to commit suicide but running back cus she couldn't do it ... abusing xanax when I was about 11 -13 and sitting on the couch zoning out ..having so much anxiety that she doesn't drive or have a job the only job she ever had was a bar tender .. Marrying my fathers brother ! who she didn't know when she was married to him when I was about 7? or 8 maybe 9 .... I've endured a lot idk if I could even express all of it i'll feel like a bratt..
Awww I am so glad you shared that.I had been feeling something from you and could not put my finger on it.
Now, I know. I am so sorry you endured that ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
I am my Beloved's.My Beloved is mine.
Song of Solomen
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Saraintheski
Knowflake Posts: 173
From:
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 30, 2011 12:06 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Awww I am so glad you shared that.I had been feeling something from you and could not put my finger on it.
Now, I know. I am so sorry you endured that
 Now my life isn't so horrible my moms never abused me she really cares just she can't really handle life , my step dad / uncle really takes care of us and works his butt off .. I'd say the hardest part is seeing my mom not want to enjoy anything ..also my fathers side is a different religion so being somewhat bi racial and awkward didn't help but now I can somewhat embrace all of the oddness ..thank you 8th house
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