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Topic: Cougars. Do older women go looking
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2011 05:15 PM
  
I do not "hunt or prey".
It just happens.
And if anyone finds the idea of my being 56 years old and with a younger man....
hey as long as he is legal 18+ years old,
ppffffttttt on the nay sayers!PS.
Even though it is not all about sex....
to all you young ladies out there....
I am at age 56 sexually much more aware, and the older I get the more multiple orgasms I can have and they are waaaaaay more intense than in my youth. So sexual peak? LOL! I am still climbing! And libido is very high!
Keep your peak peaking!
Do at least a few 100 Kegels and other pelvic floor exercises a day (I do thousands routinely) whether you are solo or having sex with another. Work your glutes and abs too...and keep those legs strong for a variety of positioning/movements.
Get to know your body!
Oh yeah, you will not stay young looking but...your sexual arena will be a true delight to yourself and your lover(s) if you keep it physically toned up.
Add in a very open mind and a true interest in pleasuring your partner.....  ------------------
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Stawr
Moderator Posts: 3419
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 20, 2011 07:35 PM
I think my sister is right. My taste in guys keeps getting older and older. here is a brief time line! 2009
a month long relationship with a guy a year younger than me 2009-2010
*then a 10 month relationship, guy is 5 years older than me
*almost rebound guy 7 years older than me 2011
*guy I dated for a while 10 years older than me
*and then a dude at the club that I was crazy about 20 something years older One thing I've noticed, is that age has nothing to do with maturity. The smartest one out of all of them is probably the 31 year old. Since he is going to school to be a nurse.
and the first three guys have absolutly no motivation to work, think they are badass and love to party and hang out with people and be out doing fun things. Even though they can't really afford it. Anyways all of these guys don't have jobs. This is why I have been single for a year because I attract, and can be attracted to the worst kind of guys ever. Anyway right now the youngest I can see me being interested in would be 19. And the oldest I can see me dating would be 43. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 63039
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 20, 2011 07:43 PM
Honestly.I have a very young G/F and she is SO wise.
How?
I don't know but I always feel so understood and cared for when I talk to her even though she has not gone through any of the life experiences I have.
One's heart must be ageless in many respects.I don't understand it lol------------------
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AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 21, 2011 03:08 AM
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Originally posted by lechien:
they don't "prey"...
So what is it then? They dress themselves up and hope that a younger guy takes the bait? IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 21, 2011 03:09 AM
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Originally posted by LEXX:
I do not "hunt or prey".
It just happens.
And if anyone finds the idea of my being 56 years old and with a younger man....
hey as long as he is legal 18+ years old,
ppffffttttt on the nay sayers!PS.
Even though it is not all about sex....
to all you young ladies out there....
I am at age 56 sexually much more aware, and the older I get the more multiple orgasms I can have and they are waaaaaay more intense than in my youth. So sexual peak? LOL! I am still climbing! And libido is very high!
Keep your peak peaking!
Do at least a few 100 Kegels and other pelvic floor exercises a day (I do thousands routinely) whether you are solo or having sex with another. Work your glutes and abs too...and keep those legs strong for a variety of positioning/movements.
Get to know your body!
Oh yeah, you will not stay young looking but...your sexual arena will be a true delight to yourself and your lover(s) if you keep it physically toned up.
Add in a very open mind and a true interest in pleasuring your partner.....
I think it is awesome that you go for younger men. IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 21, 2011 03:21 AM
When I got older, I learned how to have multiple orgasms as well. Now I have just learned or learned isn't the right word, evolved to a point where I can have an inward orgasm. In between my balls and a ss hole, inside of my body, it feels like a warm liquid exploding. It feels quite nice.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 21, 2011 03:55 AM
But a majority of men and women dress up and behave in particular ways - to be sexually appealing - at all ages. I don't think it's 'preying' as much as enjoying the attention of individuals of whichever gender you are attracted to. IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 21, 2011 04:57 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
But a majority of men and women dress up and behave in particular ways - to be sexually appealing - at all ages. I don't think it's 'preying' as much as enjoying the attention of individuals of whichever gender you are attracted to.
You are preying for some hot sex.
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Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 21, 2011 08:57 AM
Uh huh.. That's his way of saying he's just playing and doesn't mean it.Translating.. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 21, 2011 08:57 AM
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AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 21, 2011 09:55 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Uh huh.. That's his way of saying he's just playing and doesn't mean it.Translating..
What? Im cofnused. IP: Logged |
fenia
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 16, 2015 10:07 PM
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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
Great point. Cougars are women who have gone past their prime,peak or most fit, which I would say is 28 and over. There is a quality about an older woman though that separates her from the younger girls.
I'm 29 and attracted to younger guys...i didn't know i was a cougar...lol------------------
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Odette
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posted June 16, 2015 10:14 PM
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I'm 29 and attracted to younger guys...i didn't know i was a cougar...lol
"Cougar is a slang term that refers to a woman who seeks sexual relations with considerably younger men.[1][2] ABC News states that these women pursue sexual relations with people more than eight years younger than they are,[1] while The New York Times states that the women are over the age of 40 and aggressively pursue sexual relations with men in their 20s or 30s.[2] However, the term can also refer to any female who has a male partner much younger than herself, regardless of age or exact age difference." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cougar_(slang) IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted June 16, 2015 10:18 PM
The term is usually applied to middle-aged women, but most people find it offensive, and wouldn't label themselves as such.Why do you ask? Do you actually want to label yourself a cougar? AstrologicalMan was just being "himself"  - not stating any absolute or correct facts of life lol IP: Logged |
Jo B
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From: London, UK with myself
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 16, 2015 10:29 PM
This thread was started in 2011. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 16, 2015 10:58 PM
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MoonWitch
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From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 18, 2015 04:34 PM
I'm 43. I have young guys flirt with me all the time (and I mean - a lot). It's as flattering as when anyone flirts but even if I weren't married there's no way that would happen. Literally zero interest. I'd feel weird even if it were only a five or ten year difference. IP: Logged |
Jo B
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From: London, UK with myself
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 18, 2015 05:33 PM
OK I know it's an old discussion really but it's an interesting subject.I cannot stand the term "cougar" personally. It suggests women over a certain age are totally predatory sexually when it comes to young men, like they have the power (usually with being comfortable financially) and are therefore choosing to call the shots. It's all so shallow imo. And lots of men lap it up because they don't have to even go halves on dates most of the time and are more or less "bought". I'm 50 and certainly don't go hunting for young men but I do seem to attract guys in their 20's, for whatever reason (they are usually quite mature for their age). It's probably because I've always been young at heart myself. It is flattering I must admit (I'd be inhuman not to feel flattered) but there was always a mental and emotional connection with them, not just physical. I had a friend (we were very close once but things happened that drove me away from her) who was really into young guys. She was in her mid-40s and would show me FB profiles of guys she was flirting with. One looked like he wasn't even out of high school! I just couldn't see the appeal. She even went on a dating site which had the name "cougars" in it. I found the whole thing pretty dumb and distasteful tbh. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 11277
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 18, 2015 06:06 PM
I'm 39, my husband is much older, and I guess I like being the younger one. People look at us and think, "Oh, she's young."If he was much younger, they'd look at us and think, "Whoa, she's old." Yeahhhhh I'll stick with what I've got!  Though, to be honest, I don't care what people do. My brother's wife is 18 years older, and they are great for each other. Really well-matched. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2015 06:27 PM
My boyfriend and I are the exact same age, only a few months apart. That's my preference and I can't see that changing (my ex was only a month older). I've dated up to 3 years older but I get along better and feel more understood by men my own age. My experience with men who are older (36+) is that they are LESS mature than younger men. Not saying they're all like that, but certainly all the ones I have known.IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2015 06:38 PM
As a sidenote, op doesn't know the difference between a cougar and a puma IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 18, 2015 07:43 PM
Wait for it...
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PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 18, 2015 07:46 PM
Btw, is there also a label for younger men who prefer the cougars to women his own age?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 18, 2015 08:22 PM
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Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
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posted June 18, 2015 08:27 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Btw, is there also a label for younger men who prefer the cougars to women his own age?
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