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Topic: ladies:what really makes a guy attractive in your eyes?
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ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 23, 2012 12:14 AM
  
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Hm, how so? o.o lol
 Ok Forest Green it is my sweet 
We'll have a rainforest theme to get you nice & ready for the honeymoon with me your Tarzan
But you like Peter Pan I know hahahaha IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted June 23, 2012 12:25 AM
No no if you don't like green lets do something we both like lmaoTarzan is attractive, it's just his long braids. Have you ever been in the face with braids before? very painful what princess did you like again? IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Moderator Posts: 3871
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 23, 2012 12:29 AM
I love you my princess not no fairy tale princess 
But the movie I liked was beauty & the Beast & Aladin lol
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 3844
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 23, 2012 01:40 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ariesdragon:
[B] You know dusty there's some truth to this coz I can't even be passionate about a girl with missing teeth or sumt hin like that... But I don't thihaha i totally agree . IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 23, 2012 01:43 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ariesdragon:
You know dusty there's some truth to this coz I can't even be passionate about a girl with missing teeth or sumthin like that... But I don't think a girl would like a guy with no teeth either lmao unless he lost teeth from fighting for her [/QUOT
haha also not going to lie i dont have great teeth, i could never afford to get braces as a kid.IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted June 23, 2012 01:57 AM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
I love you my princess not no fairy tale princess
But the movie I liked was beauty & the Beast & Aladin lol
Lol haha your so cruel  but Aladdin is one of my favs too  IP: Logged |
Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted June 23, 2012 03:44 AM
aqua - as you know - I'm demisexual so looks are basically irrelevant. But I know this is kind of weird.. and not the norm.As I said on a previous thread - from my perspective what would matter most is that he is HAPPY with who he is.
When someone has self-esteem issues, in my experience - these people can be toxic and they can hurt others.
They can also get very coc*ky because they are constantly trying to prove themselves.
I like men who are so comfortable and happy with their masculinity that they are just laid back.. they don't need to puff their chest and blow their own horn.
This puts me off a lot... I just don't like a lack of humility in a person. You NEED some humility to get through life in my opinion... and humility is a strength. Only someone with a healthy self esteem can be humble and strong at the same time IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 23, 2012 07:50 AM
Move to where I was originally from, which messsed me up, big time.Over there, it's all about them Benjamins. They have a saying: the 5Cs - cash, credit, car, condo and country club... Such is that culture. Have enough of the 5Cs and you'll have mothers pimping their daughters. Literally. The jack a$$ with the dough wins everytime. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 35190
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 23, 2012 09:19 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
aqua - as you know - I'm demisexual so looks are basically irrelevant. But I know this is kind of weird.. and not the norm.As I said on a previous thread - from my perspective what would matter most is that he is HAPPY with who he is.
When someone has self-esteem issues, in my experience - these people can be toxic and they can hurt others.
They can also get very coc*ky because they are constantly trying to prove themselves.
I like men who are so comfortable and happy with their masculinity that they are just laid back.. they don't need to puff their chest and blow their own horn.
This puts me off a lot... I just don't like a lack of humility in a person. You NEED some humility to get through life in my opinion... and humility is a strength. Only someone with a healthy self esteem can be humble and strong at the same time
That is frggin brilliant 
I want to write something on humility. May I use your words?
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http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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RegardesPlatero
Moderator Posts: 3588
From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 23, 2012 09:36 AM
Honestly, Aquaguy, I've said it before and I'll repeat: change your type!My inkling is that you are going after the wrong girls. They might be your type, but you are not their type. So, branching out a bit would help. Also, you have to realize that NOT every woman is the same. Some women love humor--many do. Other women are very serious and aren't into class clown types. Some women want material security. Some want someone sensitive and family-oriented. Some want a macho guy. It really does vary from woman to woman. Lastly, you have to stop taking romantic rejection so personally and being upset at women/frustrated with them. They can definitely pick up on that. Think of it this way: you are someone's type. You have to find the girl that likes your type. Try hanging out at different places, exploring new interests, not repeating the same patterns. And, too, changing one's outlook can help, as can having realistic goals and expectations. Good luck and hang in there! IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
Knowflake Posts: 449
From: En Cee
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 23, 2012 03:21 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
aqua - as you know - I'm demisexual so looks are basically irrelevant. But I know this is kind of weird.. and not the norm.As I said on a previous thread - from my perspective what would matter most is that he is HAPPY with who he is.
When someone has self-esteem issues, in my experience - these people can be toxic and they can hurt others.
They can also get very coc*ky because they are constantly trying to prove themselves.
I like men who are so comfortable and happy with their masculinity that they are just laid back.. they don't need to puff their chest and blow their own horn.
This puts me off a lot... I just don't like a lack of humility in a person. You NEED some humility to get through life in my opinion... and humility is a strength. Only someone with a healthy self esteem can be humble and strong at the same time
I like this alot.
I am turned off by people who feel they must prove themselves and show off...odd thing to say from a Leo who's sign revolves around "ego" I know :P But I'm not so egotistical myself and I find it off-putting when a guy is. I completely agree. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 23, 2012 05:30 PM
I'm with Regardes------------------
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Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2012 08:12 PM
There are different kinds of comedy. Maybe the girls you are attracted to find a different type of comedy attractive?------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 23, 2012 08:18 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I'm with Regardes
I concur. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 35190
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 23, 2012 08:21 PM
If I had to go out on a limb, I would say that a guy who can make a woman feel beautiful and sexy will attract a lot of woman. He doesn't have to be the best looking or the best in anything.
For practical advice, I would find a female friend and listen to her, about what woman want. Trust her with your preconceived notions. Make sure she is with it and smart, obviously. ------------------
Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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YoursTrulyAlways
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 23, 2012 10:05 PM
Aquaguy,Stop trying to appease. Be yourself and hold yourself to the utmost in dignified classy behavior. The right ones will come to you. If you don't attract the wrong ones, it's no loss anyway. Stop searching for love. It'll happen naturally. IP: Logged |
JaneAdeleG
Newflake Posts: 10
From: Birmingham, AL United States
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 29, 2012 02:26 PM
I love soft, tender, gentle eyes. Eyes are the windows to the soul. The soul must be gentle and kind for me to be attracted to a person. ------------------
"Shallow understanding accompanies poor compassion. Great understanding goes with great compassion." --Thich Nhat Hanh IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 29, 2012 08:47 PM
At first physical attraction, but that will only get you so far..I like men that have
a good sense of humor, but not over done...
honestly
genuine
will be there for me, through thick and thin
Boost my confidence
kind heart, but not a push over.
very manly, but not over powering
likes to cook is a plus
oo and NOT a Heavy DRINKER! geez!
He HAS to have a drivers Lic, cause if he cant keep DMV happy, there is no WAY he can keep my happy.. I expect way more than DMV! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 4860
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 29, 2012 09:21 PM
quote:
Originally posted by JaneAdeleG:
I love soft, tender, gentle eyes. Eyes are the windows to the soul. The soul must be gentle and kind for me to be attracted to a person.
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ail221
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 29, 2012 09:24 PM
Not conforming to society's gender roles. Nice physically fit body doesn't hurt either. =pIP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 3929
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 30, 2012 01:11 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
At first physical attraction, but that will only get you so far..I like men that have
a good sense of humor, but not over done...
honestly
genuine
will be there for me, through thick and thin
Boost my confidence
kind heart, but not a push over.
very manly, but not over powering
likes to cook is a plus
oo and NOT a Heavy DRINKER! geez!
He HAS to have a drivers Lic, cause if he cant keep DMV happy, there is no WAY he can keep my happy.. I expect way more than DMV!
AND at least one college degree! Education is sexy  so is success ^_^ Aren't you Aries Mars, Lioness? lol IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 3146
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 30, 2012 01:22 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Hera:
AND at least one college degree! Education is sexy so is success ^_^
I agree! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 3395
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 30, 2012 02:34 PM
M-D. P-H-D. J-D. Not much use. Better have a J-O-B for the R-E-S-P-E-C-T and to fill up that Mustang/Escalade with gas :PIP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 5138
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted June 30, 2012 02:58 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Hera:
AND at least one college degree! Education is sexy so is success ^_^Aren't you Aries Mars, Lioness? lol
No hon.. I'm a leo mars.. But close A degree isn't necessary for me.. But having goals is.. I don't really care abt money.. I would rather have a guy that goes after his.dreams..
but I have an earth void.. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Knowflake Posts: 760
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 30, 2012 04:14 PM
What is it about a degree that's sexy? Is it part of an image? Is it because it's associated with money (so that it's not the degree itself that's sexy)? I love mixing with academics (I am an air sign after all) and the rare people who are both educated (self-educated counts, however, a degree isn't important to me) AND able to think (as opposed to recite) are people I very much love being around. But I still don't find it sexy (even if I call some of our more hypothetical talks "mental masturbation" ). Of course it's an attribute I appreciate in a lover (but it doesn't attract me in of itself). IP: Logged |
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