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Venus Moderator Posts: 1447 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 03, 2012 08:36 AM
ohh i never drink.. IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1447 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 03, 2012 08:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by FireMoon: I've faced my demons, or so I'd like to think, but obviously not completely because I'm still finding ways to escape from who I really am and what I really need to deal with..
firemoon we can't escape who we are, trying to do so means a life of misery and defeat. that being said, addictions don't define us. if you are a recovering alcoholic doesn't mean you are running from who you are, instead it means you are trying to be the best of who you are. Illnesses, addictions, tragedies all of these are experiences that shape us but don't define us! thousands of people have recovered from different kinds of addictions,and you can too! the bottom line is to be content with one's self, and we all have battles to win to get there.. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 36132 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 03, 2012 08:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: firemoon we can't escape who we are, trying to do so means a life of misery and defeat. that being said, addictions don't define us. if you are a recovering alcoholic doesn't mean you are running from who you are, instead it means you are trying to be the best of who you are. Illnesses, addictions, tragedies all of these are experiences that shape us but don't define us!thousands of people have recovered from different kinds of addictions,and you can too! the bottom line is to be content with one's self, and we all have battles to win to get there..
Well said, Venus! ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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sand Knowflake Posts: 5781 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 03, 2012 09:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: ohh i never drink..
O rly? IP: Logged |
hippichick Moderator Posts: 1645 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 03, 2012 11:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: firemoon we can't escape who we are, trying to do so means a life of misery and defeat. that being said, addictions don't define us. if you are a recovering alcoholic doesn't mean you are running from who you are, instead it means you are trying to be the best of who you are. Illnesses, addictions, tragedies all of these are experiences that shape us but don't define us!thousands of people have recovered from different kinds of addictions,and you can too! the bottom line is to be content with one's self, and we all have battles to win to get there..
EXCELLENT!!!
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ShyVirgo1979 Knowflake Posts: 1174 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 03, 2012 11:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: firemoon we can't escape who we are, trying to do so means a life of misery and defeat. that being said, addictions don't define us. if you are a recovering alcoholic doesn't mean you are running from who you are, instead it means you are trying to be the best of who you are. Illnesses, addictions, tragedies all of these are experiences that shape us but don't define us!thousands of people have recovered from different kinds of addictions,and you can too! the bottom line is to be content with one's self, and we all have battles to win to get there..
I like this its uplifting to even me. Thank u. Well said. Ur very wise. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3105 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 03, 2012 06:53 PM
quote: ohh i never drink...
u can be my dd, IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5781 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 03, 2012 08:35 PM
DD? drinking.. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3105 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 03, 2012 11:52 PM
DD! Ya know, designated driver! Make sure we all make it home safe and not drink an' drive and get into some pile-up smash n' crash. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5781 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 12:27 AM
tsk tsk making a girl drive red! not feeding them in the morning! what next!venus, u can ride with me. my trusty alfred (actually his name is edward )will take us home. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3105 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 01:21 AM
quote: not feeding them in the morning! what next!
LMAO Y CAN'T YOU LET ANYTHING GOOOO... that's it I'm so done with sand gonna start giving him scorpio eyes IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1447 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 01:55 AM
sand, i think we already established that me drinking in your presance is NOT a safe idea. no? although i have to say my capricorn influence is tingling at the mentioning of a driver! lolred, i don't drive but i am a pro at calling taxis but seriously guys, don't drink and drive. k? IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3105 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 01:58 AM
quote: red, i don't drive but i am a pro at calling taxis
I think sand won this one. IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 470 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 04, 2012 02:12 AM
Thanks guys for all the nice and supportive responses, don’t know what I would do without LL I think I was probably being a tad overly dramatic, although it really is something I need to start taking more seriously. I just moved and I really am extremely happy to be where I am now, but I was just feeling really homesick, and moving here has really made me reflect on the past 2 years which I spent in a very isolated place emotionally… which is where the problem really grew I think. I just feel a sense of loss, as things went far from the way I imagined them when I had to move back to my home state and I’ve come back here feeling like a defeated person, although stronger too in a weird way… I’ve learned some rough lessons that needed to be confronted… If anything this is my opportunity to finally walk out of that tunnel I’ve been in, and I guess I was just feeling kind of sorry for myself looking back lol when what I really need to do is just focus on the future. It's just sometimes difficult being in an environment where drinking is just part of having a social life, since I know I can have a tendency to over do things... Also… Tranists are being kind of hard on me right now. My Saturn is 26 Cap, and Saturn right now is 26 Libra. My moon is 7 Sag, and Chiron is currently at 7 Pisces. So I am feeling it. Can’t wait for Saturn to move on into Scorpio and also get out of my 4th house. eta: my natal chiron is 25 Cancer, natal NN 28 Cap, so Saturn is really hitting all those spots right now.. Anyway sorry for the delayed response, and I will be back to respond to individual people. Again I really appreciate your guy’s support
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sand Knowflake Posts: 5781 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 02:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: sand, i think we already established that me drinking in your presance is NOT a safe idea. no?
le sigh.. tempting though isn't it? i admit i'm not the best choice for a scorpio venus right now. oh and red broke a LL rule to comfort and woo you so some points to the arachnid. p.s. i think he really likes you ahahah! must be the hair. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5781 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 02:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by RedScorp: LMAO Y CAN'T YOU LET ANYTHING GOOOO...
fixxy pixie.. IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1447 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 04:05 AM
firemoon, you sound like you are on the right track. i don't think you have a drinking problem i think you just doubt your ability to control your urges. Next time order a soda, no matter how they try to change your mind just insist on a nonalcoholic beverage. You’ll feel better later on. Not because you didn't get drunk but because you said no.Sand, what red and i have is sorta a Scorpio, no words are necessary, kinda thing. Don’t be jealous little tauro you're not the only one with multiple online crushes.
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RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3105 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 04:27 AM
We're all just a bunch of heart breakers running off with one another. also...sand thinks he isn't good for a scorpio venus IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5781 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 04:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: Sand, what red and i have is sorta a Scorpio, no words are necessary, kinda thing. Don’t be jealous little tauro you're not the only one with multiple online crushes.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/004278.html who said i had any online crushes? FINE I have 2 IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3105 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 05:09 AM
quote: FINE I have 2
That's it?? I have like...4...hahahahhahahaha. kms... IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5781 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 05:29 AM
yes and they're both born around a certain time.IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3105 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 05:30 AM
You saw nothing. EDIT! Well damn that edit is kinda useless now since you both saw it LOL... IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1447 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 05:32 AM
jeez sand do you have a mars venus connection with every single woman in this place.. Holly geez i just can't take that !red, you don't have to be jealous it's just you now. sand is clearly out of the picture
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RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3105 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 05:49 AM
Venus; yeah, about the Scorpio thing, what I type/say can sometimes lack what I really mean or want to say. quote: yes and they're both born around a certain time.
Oh sand... Out of my """"crushes"""", I only know how two of them look, and of those two, I know how just one chart looks... quote: sand is clearly out of the picture
What a shame - that picture probably isn't as pretty any more, IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5781 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 04, 2012 07:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by RedScorp: You saw nothing. [b]EDIT! Well damn that edit is kinda useless now since you both saw it LOL...[/B]
i saw nothing. went out for a run lol! IP: Logged |