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Topic: The first time
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PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 22, 2012 12:42 AM
  
It's too bad you didn't think to lie to your mom, Ami. You wouldn't even have to lie, just insinuate and let her draw her own false conclusions. But it does remind me of a fight I got into an Aunt with in Texas back in 2011 (the heatwave we were enduring at the time didn't help our tempers). There were more people involved, but the part I'm thinking of here was when she said it was "suspicious" that I was almost 29 and still never been married or had any kids and I hit a nerve when I pointed out she was on her 3rd husband with kids by each one and "therefore must be an expert" on telling me how to marry and start a family. For a moment I thought she was going to get violent.  IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4144
From: GMT-5
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 12:45 AM
I dunno ag, the below-average guy here doesn't get some. Average guys have girlfriends or lady friends. quote:
how old are we talking? 20s , 30s, 40s?
I was 16, she was maybe 30.  How about you? Was it the classic, babysitter thing?  quote:
Where is my pot stir smiley?
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4603
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 22, 2012 12:55 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
I dunno ag, the below-average guy here doesn't get some. Average guys have girlfriends or lady friends. Quiet, you.
haha I guess your trying to take a jab at me, I've hit a dry spell as of late but I was getting some and I will again soon enough. and I've not been with a cougar, but an older woman ( early 30s maybe?)did hit on me when I was like 15,I could have hit it but decided
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saronna
Knowflake Posts: 464
From: Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted November 22, 2012 01:00 AM
its no big deal losing your virginity. i think it has nothing to do religion. and when you are a teenager you want to experiment with sex. its a normal teenage thing to lose your virginity. and it means much more when you are with someone you love and who is your best friend. its a different passion with someone you love than a one night stand with someone you barely know. sex is easy for females as much as guys. you can find someone who is willing and avialable for a one night stand. and there are prostitutes to lose your virginity if you cant find someone who is available even if you are not attracted to them at all.IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7284
From: Saturn
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 02:16 AM
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Was it the classic, babysitter thing?
What pray tell is the classic babysitter thang?  IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4144
From: GMT-5
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 02:18 AM
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sand
Knowflake Posts: 7284
From: Saturn
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 02:33 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha I guess your trying to take a jab at me, I've hit a dry spell as of late but I was getting some and I will again soon enough. and I've not been with a cougar, but an older woman ( early 30s maybe?)did hit on me when I was like 15,I could have hit it but decided
against it.
U know we have similar harsh aspects. I think.. At least to Venus. I'm just older I suppose. I could be like your Hitch and I'll teach u how to dance and get that babe of your Aquarian dreams!  IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7284
From: Saturn
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 02:35 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Is that what u think u look like? P.s. r u going to get a screen name when you are famous? U do have a weird real name u know! Like Keanu I suppose. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4144
From: GMT-5
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 03:16 AM
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Is that what u think u look like?
Lmfao!! God damn it, s4nd... if I had that shirt, I'd wear it around, just for you. And yah maybe I'm not too sure. I already kiiiinda have an internet persona/name that I go by on some websites, l o l, so possibly. The handle I created is still out of the ordinary, but easier to pronounce. (Now I just need those fancy pants Sartores from Barney's - I've become attached!) IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 38316
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 22, 2012 06:51 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
The reason this thread went from like, 20 replies to 40... gotta love the drama! Necessary to the world, I say!But any who, I'll play the devil's advocate. Ami Anne, is somethingexcellent not being honest, frank, and real too? A platitude is, "a trite, meaningless, biased, or prosaic statement". I think you're biased to your good ol' buddy there. #CancerMoon? Any ways, aquaguy, I guess it would be insensitive if Ami Anne was offended, but idk, she seems cool, so no harm no foul, eh wot? I can't help but think back to when you complained about hating the word confidence, though... 
(Also, I'm pretty much an average guy too and I don't see the worlds apart difference...maybe I'm biased to myself? )
To me, something excellent was being overly touchy to Aquaguy. Aquaguy was being honest, as he always is. In these politically correct days, no one can say things straight out. My life is about being honest, but I try to do it with tact, and usually do, as I am a Libra ASC but Aquaguy made great and honest points, imho.
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 38316
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 22, 2012 07:05 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
It's too bad you didn't think to lie to your mom, Ami. You wouldn't even have to lie, just insinuate and let her draw her own false conclusions. But it does remind me of a fight I got into an Aunt with in Texas back in 2011 (the heatwave we were enduring at the time didn't help our tempers). There were more people involved, but the part I'm thinking of here was when she said it was "suspicious" that I was almost 29 and still never been married or had any kids and I hit a nerve when I pointed out she was on her 3rd husband with kids by each one and "therefore must be an expert" on telling me how to marry and start a family. For a moment I thought she was going to get violent.
I was very shut down by that point. I just was a mass of numbness and could not feel what I was feeling.
God protected me, as I found out that this guy had slept with almost every girl at Vassar 
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4603
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 22, 2012 07:41 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
U know we have similar harsh aspects. I think.. At least to Venus. I'm just older I suppose. I could be like your Hitch and I'll teach u how to dance and get that babe of your Aquarian dreams!
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sand
Knowflake Posts: 7284
From: Saturn
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 08:14 AM
^first lesson we pose as jiu jitsu instructors at a Brazilian beach. No hairy dudes allowed. IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7284
From: Saturn
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 08:20 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Lmfao!! God damn it, s4nd... if I had that shirt, I'd wear it around, just for you.And yah maybe I'm not too sure. I already kiiiinda have an internet persona/name that I go by on some websites, l o l, so possibly. The handle I created is still out of the ordinary, but easier to pronounce. (Now I just need those fancy pants Sartores from Barney's - I've become attached!)
Red if u were a chick would u have lost it to a dirty old man with too much paco rabanne? don't lie you who're! Redscorp sounds like a salon my brother goes to. He is Leo mon too so is all prissy about his hair. It's called.. Wait for it.. Red salon lmfao! Surely u don't mean le don legion? Wtf is it with dis Barney's addiction? Models get given clothes u know. Wear a t-shirt and good jeans and good genes finished! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4603
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 22, 2012 08:30 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
^first lesson we pose as jiu jitsu instructors at a Brazilian beach. No hairy dudes allowed.
haha I have hairy arms , remember? IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7284
From: Saturn
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 08:57 AM
Yes I know me too but we won't be teaching them jiu jitsu now will we! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4603
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 22, 2012 09:02 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
Yes I know me too but we won't be teaching them jiu jitsu now will we!
haha only girls who get the brazillian wax IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4144
From: GMT-5
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 03:42 PM
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Red if u were a chick would u have lost it to a dirty old man with too much paco rabanne? don't lie you who're!
Oh ew!!!! I have standard u kno! Omg "Red Salon" I think I like your brother already. quote:
Surely u don't mean le don legion?
HELL NO. I didn't have time to think about dat so I just made it up on da spot.  quote:
Wtf is it with dis Barney's addiction?
It's just those shoes! I like them damn it.  I'm not much for anyting else der. IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7284
From: Saturn
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 04:37 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha only girls who get the brazillian wax
Am huge fan of the full bush. tho I doubt that would be a common site at the beach. IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7284
From: Saturn
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 04:42 PM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
It's just those shoes! I like them damn it. I'm not much for anyting else der.
I think I will challenge you for your pretty scorp title!  I stop lifting weights in December and am taking up yoga. We shall see how far I can do androgyny. Is so 2004 tho. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4603
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 22, 2012 10:03 PM
it never fails.. every time I hear "first time" I think of those ridiculous girls gone wild commercials..lmaoIP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4144
From: GMT-5
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 22, 2012 10:13 PM
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I stop lifting weights in December and am taking up yoga. We shall see how far I can do androgyny.
Omgggg #GetTheHair I wanna get into hot yoga, or weightless yoga.  IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 2053
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 22, 2012 10:14 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
How common is it, do you think, for people to harbor special affection for the person they lost their virginity to?Does the whole relationship become especially meaningful, usually...even if it was a one night stand? It seems everyone I've talked to has fond memories of their first time and the person it was with. Wondering how y'all feel about it.
To answer the question for most people it doesn't seem like they harbor some special affection for that person rather they just remember the first person they had sex with. The whole "first time" with someone is very romanticized. Understandably if that was a person that was your "first everything" it makes everything even more significant to that person. A person I know just lose their virginity at the age 28 to some person they met online because they were tired of feeling like they were "missing out" on something.
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sand
Knowflake Posts: 7284
From: Saturn
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 23, 2012 12:46 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Omgggg #GetTheHairI wanna get into hot yoga, or weightless yoga.
I think mine's bikram. Spensive stuff tho. Pluto in cap. Declutter not just your house but your
attitudes. The new vibe is to invest in your
health, form and function. A more vital you is
a higher performing you. The smart $ and
time is being poured into wellbeing – not
stuff, as such. High end health or fitness is
the new status symbol. It says ‘discipline’
which is totally in line with Pluto in Capricorn
values. Any fuqwit can get a designer
handbag or a fancy watch. How hard is it to Oops lost part of it lol! #hairchallengeaccepted Will make a thread in h and h so as not to de clutter.. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4144
From: GMT-5
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 23, 2012 02:13 AM
Designer is great and all, but slapping yourself head to toe in haute couture is so...passé! Mixing fancy stuff with clothes you fished from second hand while still looking striking is where it's at. quote:
Oops lost part of it lol!
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