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Topic: never forgetting your first love
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Conclusion
Newflake Posts: 5
From: Greenland
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 01, 2013 05:57 PM
  
My first love was 'love at first sight' (was 15 or 16). She was a scorpio and the day i saw her i felt such strong bond between us even tho i didnt know her ^^.
No clue about her planets or mine yet  Me: Pisces sun/rising Pisces & Scorpio moon.
ITs been over 10 years and i kinda miss hugging with her but don't love her anymore^^. Scorpios hug the best hahha ^^ I have a feeling that she has not gotten over me yet. Pisces can't forget anything can they?! I remember my childhood & past like it happened yesterday. Therefore forgetting my first love won't be possible 
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Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 2126
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 01, 2013 09:10 PM
My first "love" I am still friends with. I don't know if it counts though, the relationship was less than 3 months. I'm fond of him but no romantic feelings there anymore.With enough time and distance I always seem to forget (thank god). IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 2126
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 01, 2013 09:12 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
congratulations , anything else you want to say 
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Originally posted by Lexxigramer:
Not the expected reaction, but OK. 
Not trying to trivialize things,
but it is like your favorite rare/one of a kind tea cup.
Once it is broken there is no sense in mourning it, nor easy or even possible to repair, and it would never be the same anyhow.
Then to go on trying to find another cup that is just like it will taint your appreciation of another one.If it were actually love and not pining/desire/hope/wishes/of how you wanted things to be, or things went badly,
then it was not actually love, and definitely not mutual/compatible.
Also people change.
If change happens and leads to incompatibility;
love means letting go so that both people can find what works for them.
Thank you for this. Even though I've come to this realization myself, it's still well-articulated and a good thing for people to hear IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer
Moderator Posts: 987
From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 01, 2013 09:59 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Thank you for this. Even though I've come to this realization myself, it's still well-articulated and a good thing for people to hear
Thank you.  ------------------
NumeroLexigrams
~I remember,
therefore I am immortal
~Lexxigramer
My Lexigramming Biography/over 1/2 a century to date Lexigramming IP: Logged |
Lunae
Knowflake Posts: 37
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 01, 2013 10:12 PM
I was in love with this particular guy friend of mine for 4 years but it was unreciprocated though sometimes his actions confused me. It came to a time when I eventually got tired of keeping it all in and confessed to him directly. He was shocked at first because it was so unlike me to do that kind of stuff but at least, our friendship got better and more open after that. I was liberated by that experience. My signs: Scorpio sun and mars, Gemini asc, Pisces moon, Libra venus and Sag mercury. His signs: Cancer sun, Sagittarius moon, Scorpio ascendant, Virgo venus and mars, Mercury in Leo. IP: Logged |
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