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Topic: 5 Ways Men Are Trained to Hate Women
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5626
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 09:25 AM
  
http://livinginloneliness.com/5-loneliness-in-women/ http://livinginloneliness.com/4-loneliness-in-men/ IP: Logged |
peregrine
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From: Finding my place in the cosmos
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:08 AM
Holy **** those comments are sad..."I agree with you. I’m 31 and single and will probably never marry now- because I’m psychologically incapable of being interesting to a woman. Its not that I don’t want to marry but I’m unattractive and uninteresting. I have a good job and have completed a PhD- what I’m no good at is human interaction- I have tons of friends but cannot work out how to ask someone out and as you argue I’ve run out of time. To be honest most of the time I think about this I contemplate suicide- your article is helpful in that it shows me how hopeless my situation really is and why I should commit suicide." "Thanks. Thanks a lot. It’s so GOOD to know that at 46, never having dated, never having had a woman, I might as well kill myself since all I have to look forward to is more of the same. Thanks."  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5626
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:11 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
Holy **** those comments are sad..."I agree with you. I’m 31 and single and will probably never marry now- because I’m psychologically incapable of being interesting to a woman. Its not that I don’t want to marry but I’m unattractive and uninteresting. I have a good job and have completed a PhD- what I’m no good at is human interaction- I have tons of friends but cannot work out how to ask someone out and as you argue I’ve run out of time. To be honest most of the time I think about this I contemplate suicide- your article is helpful in that it shows me how hopeless my situation really is and why I should commit suicide." "Thanks. Thanks a lot. It’s so GOOD to know that at 46, never having dated, never having had a woman, I might as well kill myself since all I have to look forward to is more of the same. Thanks."
i agree, but how can we know they havent tried to change? also you failed to recognize the tone and attitude between the two articles. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5626
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:18 AM
i should have known nobody would get the point of those two articles... all of you will prolly see those guys comments and think"oh,how pathetic.' but fail to see the clear anti-male bias in these articles, again in case it wasnt made clear the article tells men"its all your fault you are lonely." does anybody not see how that attitude would breed resentment in men? all society wants to do is bash mens issues, people never want to ask" hmm, i wonder why some men are angry?"IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 292
From: Finding my place in the cosmos
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:26 AM
Their self confidence or lack thereof is obvious. No change in the belief in oneself and esteem. They did not value themselves. Would be the first thing I'd change. IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 292
From: Finding my place in the cosmos
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:29 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i should have known nobody would get the point of those two articles... all of you will prolly see those guys comments and think"oh,how pathetic.' but fail to see the clear anti-male bias in these articles, again in case it wasnt made clear the article tells men"its all your fault you are lonely." does anybody not see how that attitude would breed resentment in men? all society wants to do is bash mens issues, people never want to ask" hmm, i wonder why some men are angry?"
To be fair I didn't read the women's version.  The men's just seemed factual. It presented findings though unsubstantiated. (I think) IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5626
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:32 AM
it says men will never know the loneliness that women feel... but the mens versions"its mens fault they are lonely." see the differences in attitude there? they are very subtle so it may be hard to catch IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5626
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:35 AM
the mens aryicle says "men have unrealistic expectations." has anybody read a womans profile on a dating site? if we are gonna accuse men of being unrealistic we have to say the same about women.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5626
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:43 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
Their self confidence or lack thereof is obvious. No change in the belief in oneself and esteem. They did not value themselves. Would be the first thing I'd change.
ok, but why are they unconfident? why do they have low self esteem? these are the questions we need to ask... IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 292
From: Finding my place in the cosmos
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:44 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
it says men will never know the loneliness that women feel... but the mens versions"its mens fault they are lonely." see the differences in attitude there? they are very subtle so it may be hard to catch
^it's saying that because the odds are in our favor. More men than women. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted February 02, 2013 10:49 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i am going to post two articles that i think really get to the root of why some men may feel resentment..
YES obviously some people are sexist against men. Some are sexist against women. That is reality. But here's an invitation!  Will you please consider joining the majority of people who don't get hung up on this cr*p? You have the choice to not feel resentment. You are strong enough to not be manipulated by other people's weaknesses...aren't you? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5626
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:49 AM
that doesnt mean a whole lot... because some of those men may be gay and some of those women may be lesbians... also i have talked to men in their 40s and 50s who have never been married despite trying to find a woman to marry their entire adult lives.. is it all their fault that they are lonely?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5626
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:51 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
YES obviously some people are sexist against men. Some are sexist against women. That is reality.But here's an invitation! Will you please consider joining the majority of people who don't get hung up on this cr*p? You have the choice to not feel resentment. You are strong enough to not be manipulated by other people's weaknesses...aren't you?
yes, i try not to let it bother me.. but i see that stuff everywhere, it is the common attitude in american culture.
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Faith
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posted February 02, 2013 10:55 AM
Rise above it.Everyone gets stigmatized for something. We all do. There is no escape except through your mind. ETA:  Let's try and emancipate ourselves from mental slavery. IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 292
From: Finding my place in the cosmos
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 10:56 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
ok, but why are they unconfident? why do they have low self esteem? these are the questions we need to ask...
Natal chart. #astroforum #theirjourneynotmine R u trying to say it is because of the reactions women give them when they approach? Then I tell those two to try something different. IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 292
From: Finding my place in the cosmos
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 11:05 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Rise above it.Everyone gets stigmatized for something. We all do. There is no escape except through your mind. ETA: Let's try and emancipate ourselves from mental slavery.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G6NNGVHrqho IP: Logged |
Faith
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 02, 2013 11:10 AM
^ Yeah, right after I posted that I thought, "Uh oh, now aquaguy's going to respond with 'No Woman, No Cry'!" I'm headed out, have a nice weekend, folks.  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5626
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 11:11 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
Natal chart. #astroforum #theirjourneynotmineR u trying to say it is because of the reactions women give them when they approach? Then I tell those two to try something different.
no, thats not neccesarily what i'm saying,though bad reactions dont really help that.... i'm saying peoples perception of confidence and how it works is skewed... confidence is esentially your brain rewarding you with feel good chemicals when you achieve something, thats it... its not the magical recipe to landing a big job or getting the girl, you get confidence after achieving those things lol.. telling someone who is down on their luck to be confident has no intrinsic value to them, as an example: i have had lots of luck finding jobs and as a result i am really confident going into interviews, because i have had good luck getting jobs, however a person who has been unemployed for over 2 years and cant find a job wouldnt be confident, and me telling them to be wouldnt help.. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 12:29 PM
I sent that article to my boyfriend the other day. It's very thought-provoking, albeit depressing. A woman's value is tied up so much in her appearance  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 02, 2013 01:13 PM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
"I only raped her because I desired her shape and form"
"Oh you're right, we're not in his head, he's free to go!"  (Btw, Justin Bieber said those words too...happens for a reason...when he was addressing rape)
Wait, wait - I haven't read anything in this thread (skimmed) and then I saw "Justin Beiber" and "rape" in the same vicinity, which I just found ironically hysterical (not rape, but Justin Beiber... I mean it's Justin Beiber c'mon) When was he addressing rape? I'm so surprised because surely this would've been in the Yahoo News ticker at some point of my internet browsing! IP: Logged |
frankie2912
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From: yep,ks,usa
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted February 02, 2013 06:30 PM
men love me, and i love men! especially the lower half of them!IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 02, 2013 06:41 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Wait, wait - I haven't read anything in this thread (skimmed) and then I saw "Justin Beiber" and "rape" in the same vicinity, which I just found ironically hysterical (not rape, but Justin Beiber... I mean it's Justin Beiber c'mon) When was he addressing rape? I'm so surprised because surely this would've been in the Yahoo News ticker at some point of my internet browsing!
http://blog.zap2it.com/pop2it/2011/02/justin-bieber-rolling-stone-m isquoted-controversial-rape-comment.html I've read the article in its entirety (in the magazine, I think you can find a small part of it online) and IMO it's actually hilarious, and not so much because he's so naive & sheltered but because how wet in the panties (and thus very unprofessional) the reporter interviewing him was. Oh, and it was a big deal when it came out in 2011. IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 292
From: Finding my place in the cosmos
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 07:52 PM
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
men love me, and i love men! especially the lower half of them!
See a lady that likes Phd's. didn't the guy say he had a phd? IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 169
From: A Lion Pride
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 08:25 PM
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frankie2912: men love me, and i love men! especially the lower half of them!
I found a girl I like!  IP: Logged |
Odette
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From:
Registered: May 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 08:46 PM
This is getting so ridiculous.IP: Logged |
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