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Topic: Marriage and Divorce
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asclibrasagsun
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posted March 16, 2013 06:31 PM
  
So men, older men in particular, I have a question for you:IF you no longer love your old menopausal wife... why live with her? She's ugly, you don't want to have sex with her, she nags all day and bothers you...
Would you stay just for the sake of the kids? Is it finance that is preventing you from leaving the old hag (so to say) because she will demand high alimony payments?
Question: Why do some men choose to stay in unhappy and miserable relationships when they could be giving themselves a good chance at a nice loving relationship with a nicer younger lady? IP: Logged |
juniperb
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posted March 16, 2013 07:06 PM
It is only one side of the story. According to the man, when he want an affair it`s always the old ,ugly, menopausal nag to blame Most women I know are bright enough to know this and would never go there. ------------------
We need to listen to our own song, and share it with others, but not force it on them. Our songs are different. They should be in harmony with each other. ~ Mattie Stepanek IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 16, 2013 07:17 PM
I believe I'm the oldest man here... as far as I know. Any man over 50 years old, speak up.My wife is hotter than most 21 year olds. She is a better sex partner than 99% of the women I had been with before I married her... and I was with a lot... and she is still the hottest sex pot I've physically had sex with. 45 years old. Size 2. 105 pounds. Perfect figure. Upright B breasts. I'm not trading in for a new whatever econobox when I have a Ferrari. And she has a masters degree and has a brillant mind. And she was also a senior executive in the company she worked for, so she has more professional credentials than most women out there. And 99% of the women I know would pi$$ in their underwear with the challenges she encounters and adversities she defeats. And the younger women out there can all eat my shorts. I'll throw in the Heinz ketchup. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. End of story. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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From: NYC
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posted March 16, 2013 07:32 PM
^^ That's awesome you still love your wife so much, it sounds like you absolutely adore her...too bad other men don't feel that way years later about their spouse *sigh*IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted March 16, 2013 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by juniperb:
It is only one side of the story. According to the man, when he want an affair it`s always the old ,ugly, menopausal nag to blame Most women I know are bright enough to know this and would never go there.
Lol yeah, it's always 'marriage issues' or 'I'm staying for the kids' or 'she's emotionally unstable so I can't leave incase she does something drastic' or the whole 'I'm unhappy, and I'm emotionally unfulfilled but I don't want to hurt her' (okay so to not hurt her you decide to have a thing on the side?... Yeah that makes sense). If somebody was that unhappy, they would leave. I think it's all about feeding bs and hoping someone is gullible enough to believe it?
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asclibrasagsun
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posted March 16, 2013 07:49 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I believe I'm the oldest man here... as far as I know. Any man over 50 years old, speak up.My wife is hotter than most 21 year olds. She is a better sex partner than 99% of the women I had been with before I married her... and I was with a lot... and she is still the hottest sex pot I've physically had sex with. 45 years old. Size 2. 105 pounds. Perfect figure. Upright B breasts. I'm not trading in for a new whatever econobox when I have a Ferrari. And she has a masters degree and has a brillant mind. And she was also a senior executive in the company she worked for, so she has more professional credentials than most women out there. And 99% of the women I know would pi$$ in their underwear with the challenges she encounters and adversities she defeats. And the younger women out there can all eat my shorts. I'll throw in the Heinz ketchup. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. End of story.
The question was not about your experience. In fact, what you wrote has nothing to do with the o.p.
We're talking about people who are unsatisfied, not people who are. geez IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 16, 2013 08:12 PM
And what exactly is the underlying message? It's alright to ditch the old hag for a young nag? Think of the devious connotations behind advocating that a man unhappy with his marriage not work things out but start sticking his Johnson where it ought not to belong. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted March 16, 2013 08:14 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
And what exactly is the underlying message? It's alright to ditch the old hag for a young nag? Think of the devious connotations behind advocating that a man unhappy with his marriage not work things out but start sticking his Johnson where it ought not to belong.
Well from my observation: if things have not been able to be worked out: it is only fair to both people - for both spouses to stop making life a living hell for each other. IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 16, 2013 08:23 PM
I never believe a man when he says those things about the marriage...maybe it's me but if I'm unhappy and things are irreconcilable, I'm gone. Most men who say that they are in those predicaments usually don't communicate within their own marriage the same way they would try to communicate with a strange woman trying to get in her pants. To me it's all a crock & a sham...the grass isn't usually greener on the other side but they don't mind crapping on someone else's lawn. Men like that need a reality check because I can assure you their wives are probably nothing like they speak. I have no respect for men like that and my eyes will glaze over when I hear about their sexless, boring marriages. Marriage is what you make it...I'm sure they are just as responsible for the problems. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted March 16, 2013 08:33 PM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Marriage is what you make it...I'm sure they are just as responsible for the problems.
This is so good IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted March 16, 2013 09:14 PM
My husband is 18 years older than me so he has nothing to complain about...not yet.  And I don't mind his age at all, I appreciate his intelligence, experience, and so on...but I think he is rather set in his ways, and it drives me absolutely bonkers sometimes, trying to get him to consider doing things differently (can't teach an old dog new tricks.) IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 16, 2013 09:27 PM
If a husband is boinking his wife and boinking you and you expect him to leave his wife for you, then you are being played like the fiddle you are. He is taking full advantage of your naïveté and selling you a bill of goods that he is going to walk out on his wife. He is getting his cake and eating it too, and the only fool is... Well...What gives any young woman the right to move in on the husband of any other woman?!? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 16, 2013 09:33 PM
For a man unable to reconcile with a woman he once loved, and calling it quits, it signals to be a lack of character. I call this man a quitter. Ultimately, to my eyes, he is one *%#%**^%# loser in the first degree. He isn't worthy to be called a man. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted March 16, 2013 09:46 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
If a husband is boinking his wife and boinking you and you expect him to leave his wife for you, then you are being played like the fiddle you are. He is taking full advantage of your naïveté and selling you a bill of goods that he is going to walk out on his wife. He is getting his cake and eating it too, and the only fool is... Well...What gives any young woman the right to move in on the husband of any other woman?!?
You have quite the harsh mouth Sir, and you have no right to make any assumptions. Especially when there are none to make. this discussion was started purely out of philosophical thoughts IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted March 16, 2013 09:46 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
For a man unable to reconcile with a woman he once loved, and calling it quits, it signals to be a lack of character. I call this man a quitter. Ultimately, to my eyes, he is one *%#%**^%# loser in the first degree. He isn't worthy to be called a man.
I feel like you want a prize because you have been with your wife for so long or something. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted March 16, 2013 10:24 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
If a husband is boinking his wife and boinking you and you expect him to leave his wife for you, then you are being played like the fiddle you are. He is taking full advantage of your naïveté and selling you a bill of goods that he is going to walk out on his wife. He is getting his cake and eating it too, and the only fool is... Well...What gives any young woman the right to move in on the husband of any other woman?!?
Blunt but oh so true. Too bad a lot of people can't seem to see it? =( IP: Logged |
cappy1277
Moderator Posts: 1483
From: philadelphia,pa
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posted March 16, 2013 11:49 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
For a man unable to reconcile with a woman he once loved, and calling it quits, it signals to be a lack of character. I call this man a quitter. Ultimately, to my eyes, he is one *%#%**^%# loser in the first degree. He isn't worthy to be called a man.
It's even worse when he resorts to trash talking the wife...I think it's low. For all we know the wife is saying the same things about him lol
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Lexxigramer
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From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted March 17, 2013 01:21 AM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
So men, older men in particular, I have a question for you:IF you no longer love your old menopausal wife... why live with her? She's ugly, you don't want to have sex with her, she nags all day and bothers you...
Would you stay just for the sake of the kids? Is it finance that is preventing you from leaving the old hag (so to say) because she will demand high alimony payments?
Question: Why do some men choose to stay in unhappy and miserable relationships when they could be giving themselves a good chance at a nice loving relationship with a nicer younger lady?
You sound like someone interested in the older married man and trying to justify him leaving her for you.
I am not saying you are but your post sounds like that.
It also sounds like the line older married men give young women to keep them hanging on.
He will not leave her;
he wants to have it all.
Run do not just walk from this kind of jerk.
Funny thing is;
I have often noticed that said "hag"
is often as good or better looking than "Mr. thinks he is a stud". 
Also "Ms nicer younger lady"
is not a nice lady if she goes after married men and calls older women ugly menopausal hags.
I pity that "nice younger lady" when she gets older/old.IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted March 17, 2013 01:29 AM
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Originally posted by Lexxigramer:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
[b]So men, older men in particular, I have a question for you:IF you no longer love your old menopausal wife... why live with her? She's ugly, you don't want to have sex with her, she nags all day and bothers you...
Would you stay just for the sake of the kids? Is it finance that is preventing you from leaving the old hag (so to say) because she will demand high alimony payments?
Question: Why do some men choose to stay in unhappy and miserable relationships when they could be giving themselves a good chance at a nice loving relationship with a nicer younger lady?
You sound like someone interested in the older married man and trying to justify him leaving her for you.
I am not saying you are but your post sounds like that.
It also sounds like the line older married men give young women to keep them hanging on.
He will not leave her;
he wants to have it all.
Run do not just walk from this kind of jerk.
Funny thing is;
I have often noticed that said "hag"
is often as good or better looking than "Mr. thinks he is a stud".
Also "Ms nicer younger lady"
is not a nice lady if she goes after married men and calls older women ugly menopausal hags.
I pity that "nice younger lady" when she gets older/old[/B][/QUOTE]It is not like that at all. I just see things going on with my relatives and I think that older people who are unhappy should get a chance to be with the one they are really in love with especially since their former relationship is broken IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted March 17, 2013 01:33 AM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Well from my observation: if things have not been able to be worked out: it is only fair to both people - for both spouses to stop making life a living hell for each other.
Hun for a theoretical situation, it sure sounds like you're in this situation... Seriously if you are, get out. Don't be so naive, and just remember if somebody can do this to their WIFE, what kind of manchild are they? IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted March 17, 2013 01:35 AM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
It is not like that at all. I just see things going on with my relatives and I think that older people who are unhappy should get a chance to be with the one they are really in love with especially since their former relationship is broken
So they should divorce before dabbling on the side, no? It's all about respect for their partners, and the other woman should have more respect for themselves. Getting involved with taken men is not just a bad choice... It's extremely low.
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asclibrasagsun
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posted March 17, 2013 01:48 AM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Hun for a theoretical situation, it sure sounds like you're in this situation...Seriously if you are, get out. Don't be so naive, and just remember if somebody can do this to their WIFE, what kind of manchild are they?
I love how everyone is on their ******* moral high horse. I have a male relative entangled in a situation like this.
My uncle is married but we all know that he has a younger girl who he absolutely loves. The question is why he still is not divorcing the older woman. She is completely disgusting and none of us like her. We are wondering now what is keeping him there, they do have a child together and he does not get the highest salary plus he is building a house for himself and has spent a fortune on lots of architectural projects in the recent past. He does have a lot of money saved up though but our primary concern is that she has threatened him financially which is why he is afraid to let go of her. But I am just not able to believe tha finance can be a real fear in a situation like this I myself am not dabbling with anyone's married dick. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted March 17, 2013 02:09 AM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
I love how everyone is on their ******* moral high horse. I have a male relative entangled in a situation like this.
My uncle is married but we all know that he has a younger girl who he absolutely loves. The question is why he still is not divorcing the older woman. She is completely disgusting and none of us like her. We are wondering now what is keeping him there, they do have a child together and he does not get the highest salary plus he is building a house for himself and has spent a fortune on lots of architectural projects in the recent past. He does have a lot of money saved up though but our primary concern is that she has threatened him financially which is why he is afraid to let go of her. But I am just not able to believe tha finance can be a real fear in a situation like this I myself am not dabbling with anyone's married dick.
There's no need to get so defensive.
Your uncle ain't the prize himself if he's cheating around. Regardless of how horrible the wife is, no one has a gun pointed to his head to stay. Some people like having that stability of a married life, and the excitement of another secret one. That's just who they are. Real men don't cheat. They divorce before they do anything with anybody else. And it's nothing about moral high horse, this is pretty basic values. *shrugs* IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 17, 2013 02:22 AM
Is he too spineless to leave his "horrid" wife?IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted March 17, 2013 02:44 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Is he too spineless to leave his "horrid" wife?
Lots of Neptune influence and several Pisces placements, I think that could be it IP: Logged |
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