posted August 21, 2013 05:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I rode 50 miles on a stationary bike

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I'm not certain spinning ones wheels counts as being athletic AA.

For me, they'd have to be athletes with interests other then just athletics.

I really do not want to hear yet another rehashed story..bleech.

posted August 21, 2013 05:44 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
I have to say, it's about the right mixture of both and it will be different for everyone. Writers, poets, artists, musicians are ususally great lovers, but I have dated a couple who I just could not mesh well with sexually and relatonship-wise...no matter how hard i tried to. I really loved that aspect of them (same mental wave-length, good people), but could not handle how different or unbalanced we were in other areas. I've been with some 'beefcake' types, but they also had a great mind and soul, heart. I can't be with a 'weak' or namby-pamby type of guy. They drain my energy BIG TIME - or that has been the experience with the few of them.

Some of them are way too gentle and soft-spoken for me. I like to laugh out loud and have fun, although i am rather laid-back and soft spoken myself, but also know how to have fun. The last artist I dated had a hard time with this one and it really brought my energy down. I felt zapped whenever we left each other's presence and eventually I couldnt do it anymore. Even though he was a great person, had a beautiful heart and mind.....i felt sucked dry and that I could not be myself around him and had to break it off. My spirit felt stifled.

So, my answer is that there is no real answer.....it always comes down to how two people blend and play off of each other. There should be a good mix if the right physical and mental chemistry. If you rely on only one or the other, it might not work out.

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hmm, would think all of the introversion aimed at creativity and requiring YOU to be the one who draws them out would become very tiring.

In a way, when it is said "they have to other interests" is somewhat turned on it's head in that situation. Their introversion runs so deep they have a tough time relating.

I'd think with a writer or artistic person, the other half of the relationship would simply have to deal with it as they won't change.

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posted August 21, 2013 05:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I will ride to the next town on my bike while T and AG arm wrestle

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posted August 21, 2013 05:57 PM            

1. you win but everyone thinks you are an a-hole

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2. you lose and everyone thinks you are a wuss

posted August 21, 2013 06:05 PM            

What works, works. Usually from the get-go.

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I'd think with a writer or artistic person, the other half of the relationship would simply have to deal with it as they won't change.

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Not so much "have to deal with it", because it can be very enjoyable and fluid when you find someone who has some similar interests and artists are usually flexible, but maybe finding someone who is also different in enough ways, so that you can teach each other some things and have fun being yourselves around each other.

People are always much more than their main persona in life anyway.

posted August 21, 2013 06:08 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Arm wrestling a girl is a no win situation.

1. you win but everyone thinks you are an a-hole

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2. you lose and everyone thinks you are a wuss

How on earth do I manage to get myself into these situations?

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You are so right

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posted August 21, 2013 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
....or the female actually beats you, but you tell everyone you "let her win" , ag .

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posted August 21, 2013 06:38 PM            

I thought Johnny Cochran of the OJ trial was super sexy for the same reason and John Gibosn of Fox News who looks like a rabbit

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posted August 21, 2013 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

What is passing funny to me is ones investment that athletes cannot be intellectual, were you trashcanned by athletes as a youth YTA?

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Please don't be rude. It ain't cool.

I represented my country as a road cyclist at the national level and I was also a track cyclist specializing in sprint snd pursuit. I am a third degree black belt at Tae Kwon Do. I was the captain of my school tennis team. I am a qualified US Airborne Ranger and I trained with the Israeli Special Operations. I was an infantry company commander. I witnessed more athleticism in the military from regular Joes than Heisman trophy winners will see in the NFL in a lifetime.

posted August 27, 2013 08:04 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
The insults hurled are pure BS. If you want to dish it out, then be prepared to take it.

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A life law

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posted August 29, 2013 03:10 AM            

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You know who I thought was so sexy? Chrisopher Hitchens.

Do you guys know him? He was a writer who recently died. I loved the way words rolled off his tongue.

I thought Johnny Cochran of the OJ trial was super sexy for the same reason and John Gibosn of Fox News who looks like a rabbit

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posted August 29, 2013 08:56 AM            

I hear you. My venus in Gemini will fall for certain men that may not have an exterior appeal but there is something about the way they talk that is so sexy to me lol

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