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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted August 26, 2013 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
I hope all guys meant what they have said.

Always mean what I say, and only say what I mean. The trouble is that many can't handle the truth.

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FruitTreeFresh
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posted August 26, 2013 08:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Always mean what I say, and only say what I mean. The trouble is that many can't handle the truth.

hahahaha you are more like a scorpio - sting to the point.

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posted August 26, 2013 08:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Yes I agree. I'm so horrible with explaining things sometimes but I have to practice right? LOL

I think attitude is the most important because you could take the situation I exampled and switch attitudes between the big boob woman and a "plain Jane" and I would be turned off by the "plain Jane".


So sweet and nice is passé?

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posted August 26, 2013 10:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll take "Plain Jane" any day to a personality like the exterior of a durian. The memories of Sweetness would be offset by the lingering foul odor. Only FTF would understand what I just said.

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posted August 26, 2013 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol alright, but my tolerance has its limits. anything that's beyond the border I'm hell sure the guy will stepping on durains.

I guess I have evolved from Plain Jane. Hah no more nice girl.

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posted August 26, 2013 10:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you one of those NUS grads with heavy pressure from the govt and family to just procreate with the first eligible NUS male grad you encounter? Lol

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posted August 26, 2013 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hahahaha. Mirror mirror on the wall....

I'll stop there because I'll get rude and offend a whole bunch of women.

Looks don't matter to angelic you. So that's wonderful. Well, they do to me in a major way. Suffice to say, homie don't do "curvy."



Never said looks dont matter to me. Basically I think most women are attractive and I enjoy looking at them .

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posted August 26, 2013 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Zander916     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
So sweet and nice is passé?

Nah, I need em to be sweet and kind. It helps me stay even myself.

Venus Virgo

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FruitTreeFresh
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posted August 26, 2013 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No. Who cares about NUS grads? Procreate? The idea of typical local marriage isn't one of my life agenda either.

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posted August 26, 2013 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I honestly do not know any "plain janes"..to me every woman has something so very special about them.

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posted August 26, 2013 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly... I find a lot of people to be "plain".
This includes people who are considered conventionally attractive.
Also this does not mean I find people who wear outrageous outfits special either.

I'm usually attracted to people that have a spark about them, who and are usually unconventional in some respects. They have to be electric to catch my attention.
Anyways what I consider interesting is usually someone with polar opposite core values than me.. It adds for some interesting chemistry.. I like you but I hate everything you believe in lmfaoo.
Corrupting a preachers child is very exhilarating.

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posted August 26, 2013 07:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I suddenly felt like sharing this song...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F2dRALQ8-pI

I love the character growth of both of those characters (that would be a young Galinda/Glinda/Good Witch of the South and Elphie/Elphaba/Wicked Witch of the West before she was "wicked") in both the book and the (pretty different) musical.

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posted August 26, 2013 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe my lifestyle is plain Jane.

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posted August 26, 2013 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here's the Urban Dictionary (thus language warning) definition, and it appears that the most popular definitions (generally written and voted on by guys) are flattering (unusual for UD):
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Plain%20Jane

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posted August 26, 2013 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like this "it gets better" project for geeky kids, too. (I laugh, but it's actually a good idea.)
http://www.today.com/moms/feeling-geeky-awkward-years-project-shows-kids-it-gets-better-6C10960072

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posted August 26, 2013 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why do you feel you're plain anyways...?

Are you boring or something?

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posted August 27, 2013 12:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
Maybe my lifestyle is plain Jane.

Whats wrong with that? maybe its because i'm a taurus moon but I will unashamedly admit I love living a simple existence. Screw all the rich people who talk about being cultured and taking vacations to aruba and hiking the andies. We can't all live the high life.

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posted August 27, 2013 06:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
Are you guys all Moon Virgo or Venus Virgo?

I am Moon Cap, Venus Pisces. Also, I am kind of a Plain Jane for a guy, (would that be Plain James? haha) at least I think so. I've never cared for how I look much and think I blend in rather easily looks-wise. I think I am kind of homely looking.

Personality-wise I don't feel I blend in at all, I feel very unique, but I am just not one of those people you would ever pick out of a crowd. Cancer rising.

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posted August 27, 2013 06:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Maybe my lifestyle is plain Jane.

It never fails to amaze you in life how much your attitude and mindset control your happiness, and that's everything. It's probably a lot simpler than you think. I know I get caught up in a negative mindset all too often, but strangely feel I am an inherently positive person. But self-criticism has always gotten in the way of me being happy.

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posted August 27, 2013 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YTA, no offense if you're NUS grad. It's not about university.

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posted August 27, 2013 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Brendan34:
I am Moon Cap, Venus Pisces. Also, I am kind of a Plain Jane for a guy, (would that be Plain James? haha) at least I think so. I've never cared for how I look much and think I blend in rather easily looks-wise. I think I am kind of homely looking.

Personality-wise I don't feel I blend in at all, I feel very unique, but I am just not one of those people you would ever pick out of a crowd. Cancer rising.


I am like the female version of you

Cap sun, Pisces moon. I am shy and have tried to avoid men's attention most of my life, striving to just blend in. If I get a compliment on my looks, it goes in one ear and out the other, or I will actually look behind me, assuming that it was intended for someone else.

When men have shown interest in me, I've never reacted with anything but disbelief: "Me? Why?? What's the matter with them, do they need glasses or something..."

It's a shame because I had some crushes in college and found out much later that they were reciprocated. I just had a loser mentality towards love or something.

Kind of funny in a pathetic way!

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posted August 27, 2013 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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YTA, no offense if you're NUS grad. It's not about university.

Hahahahaha... I'm the last person to be accused of being an NUS grad. I can place more initials behind my name than a NUS grad can fathom.

I literally stuck my middle finger into the face of the Minister of Education at that time, and then to the Prime Minister when he was in the US.

I left home at 14 years old and I returned only for my NS. After that, I was gone for good, leaving my parents for good.

I left SG because I despise everything SG is and stands for, especially the social engineering. I can't stand 99.5% of the people, including my brother who lives there and is now part of the government. I made special efforts to ensure that I did not marry someone from SG or MY.

That is why I made that comment in jest. I'm not sure you know me well.

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posted August 27, 2013 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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iI made special efforts to ensure that I did not marry someone from SG or MY.

Hahahah same sentiments. But at age 14 you left your parents? Wow. Can I join you in the States? Lol it can be quite irksome to be here.

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posted August 27, 2013 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hahahah same sentiments. But at age 14 you left your parents? Wow. Can I join you in the States? Lol it can be quite irksome to be here.

I went to the UK and studied in Berkshire outside London.

I would have gladly have taken you with me to Los Angeles and then New York. But I guess I was probably headed to college when you were a toddler. Lol.

You can't join me now for obvious reasons. Irksome being there? Tell me about it. Now that I've become very curious about you....

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posted August 27, 2013 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CatMote     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i like the challenge "plain jane" women give me honestly.
its like...i just want to break down their walls!!

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