posted September 29, 2013 02:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I think it was a blessing I had the opportunity to explore different relationships.
It just confirmed my feelings.

Honestly a lifetime seems strange, I think people change through out our lives and I can't say what my priorities in the future but all I know is that I want this right now.

Maybe I might fall out of love after a few decades.
I certainly do not want to live a life where I have to be bound to a person I do not love anymore.

I don't think my reason for existence is to be a lover, I think that would be selling myself short.

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posted September 29, 2013 02:41 PM            

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Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
Not to be mean, but I think I look better than the women he looked at on those things.

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Of course you are. But you don't understand the twisted sh1t that goes through the male brain. You are assuming that the brain is being rational. It isn't.

Take the example of Tiger Woods. Think of his mistresses: Jamie Jungers? Rachel Uchitel? Mindy Lawton who was a trailer park waitress? I wouldn't d1ck those women with D1ck Cheney's d1ck! Meanwhile, he had Elin Nordegren at home - a human goddess.

The whole thing is based on cheap thrills. P0rn is some twisted fantasyland crap. Just like how the male characters in a classic female fantasy fictional book are. Think of 50 Shades of Grey or Breaking Dawn. Think of the male characters in those novel. Young, successful, rich, handsome, suave, super well dressed, educated, intelligent. Love one women and hate all other women. Disdain looking at every other female on Earth, including their moms. Ride a Harley and write poetry. Care for 100 homeless pets but kick the azz of every other man. Tough and sensitive. Sh1t like that is fantasy. It doesn't happen in reality.

posted September 29, 2013 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Of course you are. But you don't understand the twisted sh1t that goes through the male brain. You are assuming that the brain is being rational. It isn't.

Take the example of Tiger Woods. Think of his mistresses: Jamie Jungers? Rachel Uchitel? Mindy Lawton who was a trailer park waitress? I wouldn't d1ck those women with D1ck Cheney's d1ck! Meanwhile, he had Elin Nordegren at home - a human goddess.

The whole thing is based on cheap thrills. P0rn is some twisted fantasyland crap. Just like how the male characters in a classic female fantasy fictional book are. Think of 50 Shades of Grey or Breaking Dawn. Think of the male characters in those novel. Young, successful, rich, handsome, suave, super well dressed, educated, intelligent. Love one women and hate all other women. Disdain looking at every other female on Earth, including their moms. Ride a Harley and write poetry. Care for 100 homeless pets but kick the azz of every other man. Tough and sensitive. Sh1t like that is fantasy. It doesn't happen in reality.

Likewise. I don't know how many wives would like to cook a great meal over the stove while wearing no panties, but with black stockings and garter belts, and then suddenly drop their aprons unannounced, proceed to have anal sex and then get sprayed all over their faces and hair with semen. And then kiss their man all over, wipe off their faces, serve dinner and then wash the dishes. That's p0rn for you. Sh1t doesn't exist. It becomes a problem when a husband/father gets trapped in that sh1t.

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posted September 29, 2013 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:

You're mutable, right?

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Lol yes, your fixed mode energy is going haywire.

posted September 29, 2013 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Hey YTA, you sure know a lot about porn. Baha j/k buddy

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posted September 29, 2013 02:53 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I defined porn before porn existed bwhaha. j/k

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posted September 29, 2013 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by NoRainNoRainbows:

about finding the one. i have concluded though when we do find him or her, we don't do that a minute sooner or later than it was meant to, even if it feels late for some of us.

for the OP if the two people really end up loving each other, nothing wrong with that at all. (am a big believer that real romance comes later in a relationship, and not in the beginning, simply coz of my experiences)

@ISCappy Good topic, you ask stuff that is on a lot of people's minds, but that no one asks for some reason, so thanks.

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posted September 29, 2013 03:33 PM            

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posted September 29, 2013 04:31 PM            

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I'm so cappy: Do you think it can be fully satisfying? Would YOU like to be one of them?

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It can be 100% satisfying. Not everyone needs to have a little black book that's 500 pages long...

posted September 29, 2013 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Of course you are. But you don't understand the twisted sh1t that goes through the male brain. You are assuming that the brain is being rational. It isn't.

Take the example of Tiger Woods. Think of his mistresses: Jamie Jungers? Rachel Uchitel? Mindy Lawton who was a trailer park waitress? I wouldn't d1ck those women with D1ck Cheney's d1ck! Meanwhile, he had Elin Nordegren at home - a human goddess.

The whole thing is based on cheap thrills. P0rn is some twisted fantasyland crap. Just like how the male characters in a classic female fantasy fictional book are. Think of 50 Shades of Grey or Breaking Dawn. Think of the male characters in those novel. Young, successful, rich, handsome, suave, super well dressed, educated, intelligent. Love one women and hate all other women. Disdain looking at every other female on Earth, including their moms. Ride a Harley and write poetry. Care for 100 homeless pets but kick the azz of every other man. Tough and sensitive. Sh1t like that is fantasy. It doesn't happen in reality.

Likewise. I don't know how many wives would like to cook a great meal over the stove while wearing no panties, but with black stockings and garter belts, and then suddenly drop their aprons unannounced, proceed to have anal sex and then get sprayed all over their faces and hair with semen. And then kiss their man all over, wipe off their faces, serve dinner and then wash the dishes. That's p0rn for you. Sh1t doesn't exist. It becomes a problem when a husband/father gets trapped in that sh1t.

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I get what you're saying though. Just sucks from retrospect. I don't want to be the person with five ex-husbands XD.

posted September 29, 2013 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
Checked his history and found tons of crap. Idk, I don't understand it.

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Sounds like he was addicted to it. It's as serious as being an alcoholic or a drug addict. People have trouble quitting smoking, let alone this. Point is, don't take it personally. But he should seek help for it, methinks. It already ruined your marriage, he shouldn't let it ruin every relationship from now on.

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posted September 29, 2013 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Sounds like he was addicted to it. It's as serious as being an alcoholic or a drug addict. People have trouble quitting smoking, let alone this. Point is, don't take it personally. But he should seek help for it, methinks. It already ruined your marriage, he shouldn't let it ruin every relationship from now on.

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As for the original question, I had that opportunity, to stay with my first, and didn't take it. I'm not sorry, even though the sex was good.

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posted September 29, 2013 08:31 PM            

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I want to be with someone who can keep up with me. I'm tired of suppressing self because the guy is threatened by who I am.

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My husband is my first and I'd like him to be my only.

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@libraschoice77
I'm glad you finally got what you wanted If I were religious my family would probably think I'm gonna be a nun too

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@ISCappy Good topic, you ask stuff that is on a lot of people's minds, but that no one asks for some reason, so thanks.

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Those people will never experience the deep-seated trust issues I've inherited.

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It can be 100% satisfying. Not everyone needs to have a little black book that's 500 pages long...

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Anyway, I wouldn't mind if my man watched porn as long as he doesn't neglect me. And if we had similar taste we could even do it together lol.

posted September 29, 2013 09:12 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:

Anyway, I wouldn't mind if my man watched porn as long as he doesn't neglect me. And if we had similar taste we could even do it together lol.

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I think you are missing the entire point. Men do not just watch porn as though it is just for entertainment. Men fantasize about being part of the porn they are watching and that invariably leads to the self gratification.

No, the porn is without you in it, and it's highly unlikely that you would be welcomed into that fantasy. His mind would be on Candy, Dimples and Cheeks, and likely all three of them together in a location of his choice. You may be out to dinner with him, and all he thinks of is driving home full speed so that he can consummate with Nipples and who knows who. Probably a different porno starlet twice a day, each different for every day in a month. Would you welcome that?

Next, he would want to try that fantasy in real life and expect you to conform. Be prepared to get a DD boob job and bleach yourself platinum. Then swollow and take facials. Are you open that that?

How do I know so much? My brother in law is addicted to porn. They had to spend $50,000 to build him a separate wing in the house that is soundproofed and locked up away from the kids. That's how ridiculous it is. And my sister in law hits the gym everyday and is super skinny and tries her best to be the desirable wife. And it's not working. All he wants is **** and azz, porno style. Who knows what else besides the strip clubs and videos he indulges in. See the problem?

There is no good outcome to a man obsessed with porn.

posted September 29, 2013 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
[QUOTE]I have an idea - buy a dildo...unless you don't like as much as me the idea of having a piece of plastic or whatever inside you
And good luck with finding your final partner!

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posted September 30, 2013 05:59 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:

It's hard to find a guy who isn't grossed out by making out after that .

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posted September 30, 2013 06:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
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Lmao, I kicked them out.. And never spoke to them again... That's how angry and offended I was... Like I could swallow with pleasure, but you can't kiss me? *deletes you from my life* .