posted September 30, 2013 06:21 AM            

maybe it's mars square neptune: let me make all your sexually repressed fantasies come true aspect

posted September 30, 2013 06:58 AM            

I think we're going to off topic, sorry op.
Anyways nahty do you want a fairy tale romance? like everyone else lol
You meet at a young age and fall in love blah blah blah

I would say I sorta have that but I don't appreciate it as much.
I think it's a cute story to tell people

One of the negatives is I emotionally stunted when I was still developing mentally and emotionally as a teenager.
It came to the point where there was never an "I" it was always "We".
In a way I lost my individuality, and being completely emotionally dependent on someone

posted September 30, 2013 07:15 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Its supposed to treat wrinkles and make your skin glow. *looks in the mirror* .. Accurate

Yknow who told me about this 'secret'? My mother -_-

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LOL!

posted September 30, 2013 10:51 AM            

While some people swear by the concept, as I see it, finding the perfect relationship is hard enough; Its quite unwarranted to have the process turn even more harder by requesting that a person should only stick with one relationship through out their entire lives. Too many things can go wrong with such a requirement.

I get that the process works out for some people and really all the more power to them but the chances of landing the perfect relationship right off the bat are slim to none and a partner which feels like as if he/she has been forced into a situation where they are in a relationship that doesn't makes them happy will find avenues for escapism.

I loved this clip from the Stepford Wives and how it perfectly demonstrates how easily a relationship built upon implied monogamy can fail so easily:

http://youtu.be/C-Ad2a7UD0A

posted September 30, 2013 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
That's why I waited to get married later on in my life(mid 30s), I wanted to make sure the man I married was compatible with me in all ways, and not just sexually. We did a trial live together for 6 months to see if we could stand living with one another before we said 'I do'. Some people just get pulled in by their crotch and think that its love, when really its lust that will fade over time. Now he is my one partner for life, and I do have a high sex drive so everything should be ok.

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thats smart thinkin

posted October 03, 2013 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I think it was a blessing I had the opportunity to explore different relationships.
It just confirmed my feelings.

Honestly a lifetime seems strange, I think people change through out our lives and I can't say what my priorities in the future but all I know is that I want this right now.

Maybe I might fall out of love after a few decades.
I certainly do not want to live a life where I have to be bound to a person I do not love anymore.

I don't think my reason for existence is to be a lover, I think that would be selling myself short.

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posted October 03, 2013 07:16 PM            

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IMO expecting your partner to be chaste only for you is a tall order and is something that shouldn't be on a person's list of requirements when it comes to choosing a partner.

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Ok, but what does this refer to? I too think this requirement is ridiculous.

Kerosene, can you ever not go off-topic?

FruitTreeFresh, you better make a new thread cause that's a different story.