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Topic: Is it me, the sex or both?
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Barbiegirl19
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posted October 23, 2013 10:23 PM
  
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
If his disappearing acts bother you soo much, then you have to end things wiith him. No sex, no nothing. Tell him that you're upset about the situation and that he needs to make up his mind. You can't expect him to not come back and leave whenever, when he knows youll receive him with open arms.
I have and I got nothing. He's just like I know I feel the same way, blah blah blah.... IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 23, 2013 10:23 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I'm serious though.
If you were less placid than you would get more satisfaction from the world.
You're not truly content, even though you may act that way in real life.
There's a disconnect from your feelings and your reactions. You often feel let down by others, get even or do something about it!
When you empower yourself than your life will seem less of drag, you won't ever have much to complain about.
But that would be the passive aggressive thing to do. I openly call people out on stuff all the time. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted October 23, 2013 10:27 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
It means I wouldn't bother to pull the stuff he is pulling.I'm just going to be blunt it sounds like he is openly disrespecting you and you are allowing it to happen.
I feel like I'm coming off as really weak and if I am then that's not at all how I am or what I intended. The whole situation between he and I is a really long story and it's like neither of us can say no to the other. It's so f$&@ing frustrating.  IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 23, 2013 10:30 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I have and I got nothing. He's just like I know I feel the same way, blah blah blah....
Lol, he feels the same way but leaves for months without any contact? Yea right. Typical jerk. IMO he's using you for sex. He feels comfortable because you've known each other for a long time now.he knows how you feel. And since you're not putting your foot down, he'll keep doing this. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted October 23, 2013 10:34 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Lol, he feels the same way but leaves for months without any contact? Yea right. Typical jerk. IMO he's using you for sex. He feels comfortable because you've known each other for a long time now.he knows how you feel. And since you're not putting your foot down, he'll keep doing this.
But he's a gem isn't that what they do  . Even without sex involved he did the same thing and wouldn't leave me alone. I'm just clearly too optimistic and try to see the good in even the most evil sons of biatches. Lmfao.
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Kerosene
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 23, 2013 10:43 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
But that would be the passive aggressive thing to do. I openly call people out on stuff all the time.
then why are you butthurrrrttttttttt!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted October 23, 2013 10:44 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
then why are you butthurrrrttttttttt!!!!!!!
Butttttttthurrrttttt!? whaaaa IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
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posted October 23, 2013 10:46 PM
I've dealt with a few Gemini sun men, but they had Capricorn moons.. With cancer Venus. None were like your gemini..They were very straightforward. None were bull*hitters. Is your Gemini a Gemini Venus? I've known a few who behaved like your Gemini with that placement. But those weren't Gemini suns. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 23, 2013 10:49 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
then why are you butthurrrrttttttttt!!!!!!!
seems to me that you should be asking yourself that question  . IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted October 23, 2013 10:56 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
I've dealt with a few Gemini sun men, but they had Capricorn moons.. With cancer Venus. None were like your gemini..They were very straightforward. None were bull*hitters. Is your Gemini a Gemini Venus? I've known a few who behaved like your Gemini with that placement. But those weren't Gemini suns.
Yep Gemini sun with Gemini venus. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted October 23, 2013 10:59 PM
My Mars trines his Pluto and sextiles his Neptune so not sure if that's why. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 24, 2013 01:57 AM
Do you guys have 12th house synastry?? I was in a similar situation with a Cancer sun, Gemini venus, and I guess all I can say is appearances aren't everything so don't feel like you're coming off as "weak".. Just don't pass up other opportunities for someone who doesn't really know or isn't willing to claim what he wants. Feelings are complicated for guys too and girls can enjoy casual sex as well, no shame in that lol. If anything just learn how to play him at his own game and see what happens Sorry probably horrible advice but just saying lol IP: Logged |
blueskiez06
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posted October 24, 2013 04:29 AM
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11nahyt
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posted October 24, 2013 05:21 AM
Lmfao^^ . I'm going to fetch you a helmet quick! IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted October 24, 2013 05:33 AM
For a Gemini... He prolly thinks this is the most serious relationship he has ever been in.LOL IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted October 24, 2013 05:34 AM
He prolly thinks he's in love.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 24, 2013 06:53 AM
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Originally posted by blueskiez06:
its not u, geminis have the depth of a bird pool sans sobering aspects, they all shallow, i know i am gonna get flack but it has shown itself time and time again in various fields
LOL You have to look at the Moon. If we have a deep and soulful Moon like Cancer, we are OK 
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blueskiez06
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posted October 24, 2013 08:39 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
LOL You have to look at the Moon. If we have a deep and soulful Moon like Cancer, we are OK
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted October 24, 2013 08:51 AM
You want to hear my take?1. He is no good. He is a d1ck. He does not love you. Gemini whatever can kiss my fat azz. 2. Dump his azz for good. That piece of sh*t isn't worthy of your time. 3. You need to move on. Sex is in abundance elsewhere. 4. Stop being insecure. If you are 19 years old, there are way bigger priorities. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 24, 2013 08:56 AM
It means I wouldn't bother to pull the stuff he is pulling.I'm just going to be blunt it sounds like he is openly disrespecting you and you are allowing it to happen.I agree. ------------------
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blueskiez06
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posted October 24, 2013 09:01 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
You want to hear my take?1. He is no good. He is a d1ck. He does not love you. Gemini whatever can kiss my fat azz. 2. Dump his azz for good. That piece of sh*t isn't worthy of your time. 3. You need to move on. Sex is in abundance elsewhere. 4. Stop being insecure. If you are 19 years old, there are way bigger priorities.
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Padre35
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From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted October 24, 2013 09:23 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
You want to hear my take?1. He is no good. He is a d1ck. He does not love you. Gemini whatever can kiss my fat azz. 2. Dump his azz for good. That piece of sh*t isn't worthy of your time. 3. You need to move on. Sex is in abundance elsewhere. 4. Stop being insecure. If you are 19 years old, there are way bigger priorities.
YTA, you can just save that post and re-use it a thousand times for a lot of the stuff that comes up. Just replace Gemini with whichever sign the DIQ (dude in question) is. I find it weird when someone engages in bad behavior and it is not them that did it, of course it is their Sun Sign that did it. No, it was them, to blame it on their sign is to send the rationalization hamster wheel spinning. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted October 24, 2013 09:36 AM
No disrespect intended.Just telling it the way I see it. Excessive diplomacy serves nobody's interests. And the "secretive" nature of this whole affair tells me that he's got commitments elsewhere and you are his little play thing on the side at his convenience. After he is finished with playtime, you get shoved into his love closet, along with his other naive playthings. This ain't Toy Story. You ain't no barbie doll. Give this ken a swift kick in his nuts. Just speaking from experience. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted October 24, 2013 10:18 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
For a Gemini... He prolly thinks this is the most serious relationship he has ever been in.LOL
Hahahaha omg! IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted October 24, 2013 10:21 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
You want to hear my take?1. He is no good. He is a d1ck. He does not love you. Gemini whatever can kiss my fat azz. 2. Dump his azz for good. That piece of sh*t isn't worthy of your time. 3. You need to move on. Sex is in abundance elsewhere. 4. Stop being insecure. If you are 19 years old, there are way bigger priorities.
I'm actually 21 lol  and he and I have a lot of history and a loooooong story, he's helped me overcome a lot of really hard times in my life. It's a lot more complicated than that. Once I'm ready to let him I go I will I'm just not ready to yet. He saved my life and in a way I feel like I owe him. It's a very long story. IP: Logged |
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