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Topic: Is it me, the sex or both?
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Barbiegirl19
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 24, 2013 10:24 AM
  
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
No disrespect intended.Just telling it the way I see it. Excessive diplomacy serves nobody's interests. And the "secretive" nature of this whole affair tells me that he's got commitments elsewhere and you are his little play thing on the side at his convenience. After he is finished with playtime, you get shoved into his love closet, along with his other naive playthings. This ain't Toy Story. You ain't no barbie doll. Give this ken a swift kick in his nuts. Just speaking from experience.
It's secretive because I don't want anyone knowing or putting there nose where it doesn't belong. I know I'm not a Barbie doll I still love her though lol. She was my first toy! Well no technically the purple dinosaur was but we will not go there 
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Barbiegirl19
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posted October 24, 2013 10:25 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
LOL You have to look at the Moon. If we have a deep and soulful Moon like Cancer, we are OK 
He has cancer moon!
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Barbiegirl19
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posted October 24, 2013 10:30 AM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Do you guys have 12th house synastry?? I was in a similar situation with a Cancer sun, Gemini venus, and I guess all I can say is appearances aren't everything so don't feel like you're coming off as "weak".. Just don't pass up other opportunities for someone who doesn't really know or isn't willing to claim what he wants. Feelings are complicated for guys too and girls can enjoy casual sex as well, no shame in that lol. If anything just learn how to play him at his own game and see what happens  Sorry probably horrible advice but just saying lol
Not horrible at all thank you  I'm definitely learning and I'm loving. Slowly I'm just getting over him and enjoying the sex lol. It's amazing and the chemistry we have is out of this world I just don't understand why he's so difficult with me. But it's okay I'm learning not to take any of what he's doing personally ever. My hearts already been stepped on and helped me get it back I'm not letting him take it from me.
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 24, 2013 03:50 PM
With the chemistry that good, do you have Moon/Pluto in synastry?------------------
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Barbiegirl19
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posted October 24, 2013 08:30 PM
@Ami we have Moon/Pluto and Mars/Pluto. He's made me feel unlike anyone ever has before I can't explain it. I don't know when he was born and don't want to freak him out asking. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 25, 2013 11:55 PM
^ Really? You've slept with him for 4 years yet don't feel comfortable asking that?=S IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted October 26, 2013 12:57 AM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
^ Really? You've slept with him for 4 years yet don't feel comfortable asking that?=S
I'm not uncomfortable asking him anything. I'd rather not know how about that IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted October 26, 2013 01:05 AM
You mean time of birth right?IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted October 26, 2013 01:07 AM
Yes I'm not sure he even knows IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 1659
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 27, 2013 01:04 AM
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But he's a gem isn't that what they do . Even without sex involved he did the same thing and wouldn't leave me alone. I'm just clearly too optimistic and try to see the good in even the most evil sons of biatches. Lmfao.
You nailed it. A Gemini will be in and out of your life. Even if you were married, he'd be in and out of your life. Of the Gemini-Cancer combination, I've read he has a fear of possession. He is most attracted to "unavailable" women. A woman who will have him on the side, or one who cheats of him is ideal. So long as all her attention & energy isn't focused on him. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 27, 2013 01:29 AM
Gemini men can commit if they find the right person but yes they will not exactly commit if they are not in love 
Partnerships are not really that important to them. (which is a Libra thing)
Even if a Gem is in love they can be away from their lover for long periods of time, this an advantage for long distance relationships. Unfortunately it's hard not to fall in love with gem men because they act so amorous. Yet it's hard for Gems to fall in love because they rationalize emotions, while some people fall in love within a month of dating.. A Gemini is usually flabbergasted by this idea of love and commitment within a month or a year.
I'm guessing love comes with certain synastry and maybe other karmic stuff. It could also be with someone they can relate to hundred percent, which is also rare and probably karmic like twin souls etc.
Most of the time they are lying to you or even themselves. That's the problem with gems is sometimes they don't know what love is because they have never experienced true love. This is my take from being Gemini and having ASC + 4 personal planets in Gemini. Anyways I don't think he's in love with you, so it would be in your best interest to let him go.
I do think he's taking advantage of you for the casual sex, which is a guy thing, regardless of his sign he is a male..
Unfortunately sex and emotions is not enough for a Gemini fall in love you because like Aquarius they can be emotionally cool/detached I think Gemini is a mix of Libra and Aqua, amorous yet detached... IP: Logged |
Bearee
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posted November 17, 2013 06:46 PM
If he keeps leaving you, then it's fricking obvious he doesn't love you the way you want him to love you. In a relationship kind of thing.Don't want to be harsh, but I'm pretty sure this will keep happening until he finds a girl he'll REALLY fall in love with or just sparks his interest. I think you should just leave him be. I think you've done him enough in those 4 years. You don't owe him sex or anything? ;/ IP: Logged |
Padre35
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From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 17, 2013 09:41 PM
Well BarbieGirl, have to say I'm happy that you and someone else now get along "ah-hem" well.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 2568
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 20, 2013 01:40 AM
This is such a loooooooooooooooooooong story. I'm over it and just don't wanna talk about it anymore. IP: Logged |
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