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posted October 23, 2013 09:14 PM            

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Soo I've been on and off having a secret like relationship with a Gemini man for the last almost 4 years. He disappears constantly and won't talk to me for weeks or even months at a time and right when I think he's done he back just like that. What gives? Is it me? Is it the sex? Could it be both? What do you guys think? Is this a normal male thing lol.

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posted October 23, 2013 09:22 PM            

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Well how does it make you feel when he acts that way? Does it bother you at all?

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posted October 23, 2013 09:25 PM            

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It bothers me a lot. But who am I to say anything to him. We aren't dating. We talk a lot and I've told him how I felt so he knows.

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posted October 23, 2013 09:28 PM            

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It could very well be the casual sex, I thought you got rid of him?

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posted October 23, 2013 09:29 PM            

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He won't leave me alone!! Lmfao!!!!

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posted October 23, 2013 09:31 PM            

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#barbzproblems

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posted October 23, 2013 09:31 PM            

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Because you keep taking him back

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posted October 23, 2013 09:32 PM            

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Because I'm in love with him. There I said it

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posted October 23, 2013 09:32 PM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Because you keep taking him back

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Gosh you should of tortured him by not giving it up he would either left you alone or went insane.

It's fun you should try being an ice queen!

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posted October 23, 2013 09:33 PM            

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I have many male friends and none of them act like this. What gives...? Is this normal with some lol.

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posted October 23, 2013 09:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Because I'm in love with him. There I said it

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Well damn, that's a predicament no one can help you with.......

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posted October 23, 2013 09:37 PM            

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Or was whatever. I'm just really confused. He's one of a couple people I can't read and it drives me up the wall.

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posted October 23, 2013 09:45 PM            

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Either you need amicable closure or you need to finish it off.. This is like hangnail, pluck it out!!
I'm not suggesting murder LOL but you have to do something or say something to end this ... uh tryst?

If i was you I would be really ****** and vengeful rather than confused.. but that's just me.

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posted October 23, 2013 09:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Either you need amicable closure or you need to finish it off.. This is like hangnail, pluck it out!!
I'm not suggesting murder LOL but you have to do something or say something to end this ... uh tryst?

If i was you I would be really ****** and vengeful rather than confused.. but that's just me.

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ooooh you go gurl!

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posted October 23, 2013 09:53 PM            

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how do you think he felt about you, before you told him how you felt about him?

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posted October 23, 2013 09:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Either you need amicable closure or you need to finish it off.. This is like hangnail, pluck it out!!
I'm not suggesting murder LOL but you have to do something or say something to end this ... uh tryst?

If i was you I would be really ****** and vengeful rather than confused.. but that's just me.

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Oh I am don't you worry. He knows how I feel and for now he's the toy. Before I would get really depressed over him and all that pathetic sad shyt now I'm over it. Just enjoy the sex

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posted October 23, 2013 09:58 PM            

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how do you think he felt about you, before you told him how you felt about him?

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I honestly feel he feels the same way he's just afraid to tell me. We are extremely attracted to each other and have been from the very beginning. He's just so freakin weird.

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posted October 23, 2013 10:01 PM            

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@AG would you do this to a girl just for the sex or because you genuinely like her and want to be closer to her without telling her how you really felt? Be honest

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posted October 23, 2013 10:07 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
ooooh you go gurl!

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Unlike you
I get my satisfaction instead of being passive agressive and complaining about it online

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posted October 23, 2013 10:10 PM            

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Unlike you
I get my satisfaction instead of being passive agressive and complaining about it online

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haha I was joking betch. Chill out. oh and I'm not passive aggressive.

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posted October 23, 2013 10:12 PM            

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@AG would you do this to a girl just for the sex or because you genuinely like her and want to be closer to her without telling her how you really felt? Be honest

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Would I act like that guy? No, if I only wanted sex I wouldn't work so hard to keep getting back into a girls life. I would go elsewhere.

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posted October 23, 2013 10:16 PM            

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Would I act like that guy? No, if I only wanted sex I wouldn't work so hard to keep getting back into a girls life. I would go elsewhere.[/B][/QUOTE]

So what does that mean lol.

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posted October 23, 2013 10:20 PM            

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haha I was joking betch. Chill out. oh and I'm not passive aggressive.

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I'm serious though.
If you were less placid than you would get more satisfaction from the world.
You're not truly content, even though you may act that way in real life.
There's a disconnect from your feelings and your reactions.

You often feel let down by others, get even or do something about it!
When you empower yourself than your life will seem less of drag, you won't ever have much to complain about.

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posted October 23, 2013 10:20 PM            

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If his disappearing acts bother you soo much, then you have to end things wiith him. No sex, no nothing. Tell him that you're upset about the situation and that he needs to make up his mind. You can't expect him to not come back and leave whenever, when he knows youll receive him with open arms.

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posted October 23, 2013 10:20 PM            

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Would I act like that guy? No, if I only wanted sex I wouldn't work so hard to keep getting back into a girls life. I would go elsewhere.[/QUOTE]

So what does that mean lol. [/B][/QUOTE]
It means I wouldn't bother to pull the stuff he is pulling.I'm just going to be blunt it sounds like he is openly disrespecting you and you are allowing it to happen.

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