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Topic: Can you be just friends...
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7723
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 04:25 AM
  
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
He has Venus in Aqua and Mars in Gemini..I don't get it.... DOES NOT COMPUTE.
It seems like these beautiful placements are wasted on you. Maybe it's the taurus moon
Actually it makes perfect sense.
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Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 995
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 04:28 AM
Does this have anything to do with that Lipstick thing?IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6951
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 04:29 AM
What do you have moon square venus or something?
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7723
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 04:33 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
What do you have moon square venus or something?
Yes i do but I meant Venus in Aquarius and mars in Gemini describe the way I am in regards to dating and relationships. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6951
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 04:40 AM
Oh my s.o has moon square venus too hmm,Okay I hear women complaining about being sexual objects, sometimes dudes have this problem too. Women treat my s.o as a sexual object, which is so hilarious to me..
I love observing these interactions with females.
Their always so flirty and thirsty giving him numbers.
He's like there's no way I can just be friends with a woman they all have crushes on me...It's awkward when I'm in a relationship .
I remember in high school these thirsty girls would pull all types of stunts. I find it hilarious, I'm not the jealous type and my s.o is not a player type.
It's perfect, IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7723
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 04:46 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Oh my s.o has moon square venus too hmm,Okay I hear women complaining about being sexual objects, sometimes dudes have this problem too. Women treat my s.o as a sexual object, which is so hilarious to me..
I love observing these interactions with females.
Their always so flirty and thirsty giving him numbers.
He's like there's no way I can just be friends with a woman they all have crushes on me...It's awkward when I'm in a relationship .
I remember in high school these thirsty girl would pull all types of stunts. I find it hilarious, I'm not the jealous type and my s.o is not a player type.
It's perfect,
Yea . It's not all me ... Girls are the same way towards me... They either have the hots for me or want nothing to do with me. Atleast that's the way it is most of the time.IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2817
From:
Registered: May 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 05:05 AM
Aqua - I know what I mean  lol
Kero - I think this a Mercury thing! Aqua has a more traditional Capricorn Mercury. YTA has the same Mercury in Capricorn.
My Mercury is in Pisces and square Uranus (so it's waaaay out there lol)
Didn't you also have a Mercury/Uranus aspect?
Also.. if my AC is in Gemini (which it might be) this would make Mercury my chart ruler! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7723
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 05:07 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Aqua - I know what I mean lol
Kero - I think this a Mercury thing! Aqua has a more traditional Capricorn Mercury. YTA has the same Mercury in Capricorn.
My Mercury is in Pisces and square Uranus (so it's waaaay out there lol)
Didn't you also have a Mercury/Uranus aspect?
Also.. if my AC is in Gemini (which it might be) this would make Mercury my chart ruler!
That doesn't help ! Lol why do I need a makeover? Yes I have mercury conjunct Uranus and neptune IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6951
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 05:13 AM
OH pisces mercury is my favorite mercury.
You guys are so cute.
Every time you guys say cute things I'm shut up and let me hug you.Every time MiP goes on their random tangents my heart gets heavy and i'm like omg what is even happening but please don't stop. Can I kiss you or something. Maybe the square stimulates my mind, and my mind and heart are connected, if that makes sense.
Moon conjunct mercury. IP: Logged |
Padre35
Knowflake Posts: 2587
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:35 AM
Well, as for the OP, for me when I'm into someone I make it known in the first 10 minutes, if they are not interested then we can be friends.Tend to agree with YTA about work, that won't turn out to well if things go badly you see the other person daily and there is that thing. One exception is when a girl is pretty obviously hitting on me and I'm not interested, I'll play along to spare feelings and hopefully lift up their self confidence. Granted that sounds terribly arrogant, just found all of the Scorpio tends to really odd reactions sometimes..as in where in the heck is that coming from..I did not come onto you, not even a wink. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 6345
From:
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 12, 2013 06:45 AM
There are more than enough pretty women away from work. A dog never does its business anywhere around its food and water dish. I have Moon-Venus Trine, and more pretty women are found just around the corner. IP: Logged |
teasel
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 12, 2013 06:49 AM
I'm friends with other men that I've felt attracted to in the past. The only one I can't be around, as mentioned before, is the one who used me for attention, and didn't stay away - he contacted me when I was in a vulnerable place, a place he put me in in the first place. He really worked my self-esteem into the ground. I felt free when I finally knew where I stood with him, and I wanted him gone. I don't miss him, either. I've felt uncomfortable when one guy announced his feelings for me. I wish he'd kept them to himself. IP: Logged |
VirGuy
Newflake Posts: 24
From: UK
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 06:03 PM
I guess it's humanly possible to be 'friends' with someone you're attracted to, but it's not easy. The main problem is that your heart wants to express your feelings for them while your head tells you that you're not allowed to, so you end up with a debilitating internal battle going on between heart and head, draining you of all your energy. It's best just to distance yourself from someone you're attracted to if you can't have them, at least in my experience. That said, as you get older it gets easier to manage one's internal energies.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 6345
From:
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 12, 2013 09:02 PM
It's exhausting and aggravating. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 2881
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 10:49 PM
Attracted to?Yes. STRONGLY attracted to? No. I didn't realize there was a distinction until I worked with a guy who was so beautiful it was surreal. I didn't want to even look at him, it was so distracting. The lust-crazed thoughts he would give me made me feel like I was being disrespectful to my boyfriend so I tried to avoid him. I have a few guy friends who I think are objectively attractive, but I'm not attracted to them in the sense that they feel like brothers to me. I don't get that almost uncontrollable feeling of longing I did with that work colleague. Thankfully, he's in Australia now. IP: Logged |
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