posted December 07, 2013 01:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

Well, as I try to put myself in AG's shoes, the sort of Libran patience would appeal to his sort of hard on himself nature.

I've also found that people who are hard or "no BS" types tend to be really really hard on themselves, the inner dialog that everyone has is akin to Sgt Hartman in Full Metal Jacket

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posted December 07, 2013 01:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Oh please. your a triple fire.
You've mentioned you libran attraction, your not the only guy on here either.
Not a hardass at all. You are lovely man and I always thought that.
I even saw your picture and I got that jovian sag spirit.

LOL why do men want be hardasses, it's not attractive unless your cap.
They kinda work the hardass thing.

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Thanks, thing is I'm really easy going on other people, very very hard on myself.

Not to the point of mentally beating up myself constantly, do expect a lot of myself and when something is not working, I correct it.

posted December 07, 2013 01:57 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I am really hard on myself.

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posted December 07, 2013 01:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Kero -

Ya.. I know what you mean Sexually you'd suit Aries - since your Mars is Aries. I really like Libras of both genders - but they can be too detached on a sexual level... for my liking.

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posted December 07, 2013 02:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Sort of thought so AG, have you discovered a way to cope with that as of yet?

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posted December 07, 2013 02:03 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Not really. My life experiences have not exactly been conducive to self confidence or warm fuzzy feelings. I'm hard on myself and others are hard on me. I just try to keep on keeping on.

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posted December 07, 2013 02:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
You guys have conjunct Mercuries btw!
In Capricorn.

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No surprise, as I've said, AG WAS me at his age in many ways.

Only I had coping mechanisms that were largely internally directed and the rest of my chart is more conducive to making friends and socializing more easily.

The Saggie life of the party aspect for example, don't think AG is wired that way.

posted December 07, 2013 02:11 AM            

I wanted to ask, if I may.

AG, what all do you have in Aquarius?
You also have planets in 12th house don't you?

I try not to judge signs as best I can. Simply because everyone is different. We all have a different chart, etc. You know? Yet, I can see people's points with the unmistakable similarities. I've come across it myself.

I was once engaged to a Libra. (cap moon)That was 2008. We've remained friends and two months ago she tried to get back together basically. But... everything was pretty much the same as before and honestly, I've never given anyone a second chance. I just don't do it. At least not for that. We're still friends though.
Another Libra. We were deeply in love. It was pathetic. It didn't work out either.
For me, it wasn't indecisivness. It was like having a relationship with Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Like two personalities. MOST of the time they were all the qualities that I love about Libras. Sometimes though... whew... the b**ch in them just got let off the chain or something.
So, I don't really trust Libras fully for that reason. I always wonder where that evil little personality is hiding.

posted December 07, 2013 02:18 AM            

I don't say that w/bitterness, rather they were eye opening moment(s) in life as to how the romantic world can work sometimes.

Won't say I'm "cautious" more one had better be 100% certain about things before making a serious commitment.

Otherwise just enjoy the fun, I get along with Libras so well b/c..well..I enjoy screwing with them to see how far I can push things.

posted December 07, 2013 02:21 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I hope I'm not an unwelcome guest here. I know I can be... well you know. Anyway....

I wanted to ask, if I may.

AG, what all do you have in Aquarius?
You also have planets in 12th house don't you?

I try not to judge signs as best I can. Simply because everyone is different. We all have a different chart, etc. You know? Yet, I can see people's points with the unmistakable similarities. I've come across it myself.

I was once engaged to a Libra. (cap moon)That was 2008. We've remained friends and two months ago she tried to get back together basically. But... everything was pretty much the same as before and honestly, I've never given anyone a second chance. I just don't do it. At least not for that. We're still friends though.
Another Libra. We were deeply in love. It was pathetic. It didn't work out either.
For me, it wasn't indecisivness. It was like having a relationship with Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Like two personalities. MOST of the time they were all the qualities that I love about Libras. Sometimes though... whew... the b**ch in them just got let off the chain or something.
So, I don't really trust Libras fully for that reason. I always wonder where that evil little personality is hiding.

I wouldn't let it keep me from a relationship. To me anyway, that'd be silly. I'm much more wary of them now though. It's not all sparkles and glitter like it first appears.

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posted December 07, 2013 02:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Hmm, have you tried joining a gym or a sports league? I ask b/c it really helped me on several levels.

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posted December 07, 2013 02:23 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I have tried with older women with the same results. Not to be cynical but the older women who are open to dating younger guys tend to date the same guys women my own age want to date. What ends up happening (Atleast from what I have seen) is the younger guys who get with older women use them as booty calls while also seeing younger women on the side.

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Well, just like all women aren't the same(older, younger, whatever), I tend to think that the people we attract are a reflection of what state we are in. I used to attract dudes that were instantly trying to show me pictures of their private areas and be perverted towards me.

I used to believe I had to accept these types of people because that will be the only attention someone like me will ever receive.

"someone like me"

I stopped letting off that desperate vibe that I would accept any person's ******** the could throw at me, and that I should bite because that's what they feel like giving out.

Why should I accept their garbage?

posted December 07, 2013 02:24 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I do work out at a gym and I'm thinking about studying a martial art.

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Hmm, would not encourage the martial art study, usually they can be a waste of time tbh.

posted December 07, 2013 02:24 AM            

This kind damaged my moms Gemini energy because gemini loves to express their thoughts no matter how outrageous they are.

posted December 07, 2013 02:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Hmm, would not encourage the martial art study, usually they can be a waste of time tbh.

Do you work out frequently, like 3-5 times a week?

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posted December 07, 2013 02:30 AM            

It truly does improve your mood a ton! It's awesome. I originally did it for the body, naturally. As time went on though I was quite surprised about the mental improvement.

posted December 07, 2013 02:32 AM            

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Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
Oh geez, for a second I thought this was going to turn into a topic about how Libran girls are more attractive than other signs lol.

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Oh my no.

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Well, just like all women aren't the same(older, younger, whatever), I tend to think that the people we attract are a reflection of what state we are in. I used to attract dudes that were instantly trying to show me pictures of their private areas and be perverted towards me.

I used to believe I had to accept these types of people because that will be the only attention someone like me will ever receive.

"someone like me"

I stopped letting off that desperate vibe that I would accept any person's ******** the could throw at me, and that I should bite because that's what they feel like giving out.

Why should I accept their garbage?

Ugh, just venting now.

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True, imo one of the things that most everyone can benefit from is introspection as to what they want in a partner.

What is acceptable and what is unacceptable behaviors.

An Actress, a Gemini, was coming onto me really strongly, attractive woman, it was just to much, TO sexual all of the time.

posted December 07, 2013 02:36 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Padre35:
[b] Hmm, would not encourage the martial art study, usually they can be a waste of time tbh.

Do you work out frequently, like 3-5 times a week?

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Well, here is the thing, when one improves your physical form, self confidence grows and it releases endorphins that calm the body and mind down.

A martial art is usually centered around learning techniques and advancing through a belt system to create a sense of achievement, after all you have a belt and a piece of paper.

It does not however, build confident self image internally, that system is externally driven. Like pouring water on a rock, it eventually dries and the rock is left in the same condition prior to the water being poured on it

I work out at home, with simple equipment, push up bars and some dumb bells (15/25/30/60 lb ones) if watching TV or playing language lessons or philosophy I knock out sets.

posted December 07, 2013 02:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
True, imo one of the things that most everyone can benefit from is introspection as to what they want in a partner.

What is acceptable and what is unacceptable behaviors.

An Actress, a Gemini, was coming onto me really strongly, attractive woman, it was just to much, TO sexual all of the time.

Had to say thanks but no thanks as politely as I could manage..grabbing my ass and offering a trip to the bathroom with her was not exactly my cup o' tea

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posted December 07, 2013 02:41 AM            

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Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Padre35:
[b] True, imo one of the things that most everyone can benefit from is introspection as to what they want in a partner.

What is acceptable and what is unacceptable behaviors.

An Actress, a Gemini, was coming onto me really strongly, attractive woman, it was just to much, TO sexual all of the time.

Had to say thanks but no thanks as politely as I could manage..grabbing my ass and offering a trip to the bathroom with her was not exactly my cup o' tea

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With my Cap rising and Mars, grabbing someone's ass for a quick go in a bathroom is not the way I run things.[/B][/QUOTE]

You ain't lying, she was a very attractive woman..it's just..no..a couple of lines of blow and sex in a bathroom..uhm..how about no?

posted December 07, 2013 02:43 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Well tbh working out has never made me feel happier or more confident . Yes , it makes me feel better physically but I have never noticed it affecting my mental state. Honestly the only thing that ever helped my mental state was meditation but I have only been able to reach the meditative state twice but wow I felt amazing when I did.

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