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Topic: For AquaGuy, a couple of questions
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Padre35
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posted December 07, 2013 12:10 AM
  
Hmm, not sure of your background but have noticed some things from your posts: -Where you raised to ALWAYS "stand up" for yourself? -Did you engage in athletics or any team sports in High School? -Where you popular in school or more of a loner? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted December 07, 2013 12:19 AM
1. Yes. 2.yes,Basketball and football. 3. Hmm. I was very popular in elementary school, I was literally friends with everyone. However me and mom moved towns a month before I turned 13 and It was a culture shock for me. I never quiet rebounded socially, I was liked well enough but never really made close friends at my new school. I was originally an extrovert but kind of became an introverted loner during my teen years.IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted December 07, 2013 12:27 AM
Good, when I played team sports we'd **** test each other all of the time and I sort of am immune to that sort of thing now b/c of it. When a teammate was disliked or not thought highly of, the other guys would just ignore them and not even bother with that sort of back and forth.See little difference between that a internet forum and how it works.
As for always standing up for oneself, what struck me was the conversation in your other thread, which was centered on a mea culpa, then one sort knee jerk reaction to a post that imo..was trying to goad you into doing that very thing.
Could see it coming from a mile away and I thought the reason why you'd do that is you were taught to "always stand up for yourself" Cool it makes a sort of sense now. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted December 07, 2013 12:36 AM
It's also an astrological thing. If you read about Aquarius you will frequently read that we hate having our integrity or motives called into question. That has always been true of me.IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted December 07, 2013 12:41 AM
Nice, just trying to get a better handle on what is going on in AG's head.Suspect it also should be remembered you actually are still quite a young man and the sort of "have to pick your battles" has not rubbed off on your psyche quite yet. In life Brother, nearly everyone will question everyone elses motives, they may not say it outloud, best believe that does not mean they are not doing so. Hmm, while I have you on the phone so to speak, do you view the world as 'there is one special girl out there for me and I'm gonna find her!" or do you more want to shop around and see what the world has to offer? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted December 07, 2013 12:47 AM
To answer your question, I don't believe in silly romantic notions such as "the one". I believe there are multiple people in the world that I would be compatible with, it's just a matter of meeting them.IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted December 07, 2013 12:53 AM
I asked the last question b/c of ones displeasure with the woman who was going around the sly and your reaction to it.Assuming one bothers with "game" why would such hypergamy trouble you? Why would you not suspect or not be surprised when you actually found out IRL? And if one walked into a new bar or club, do you look for a woman whom you are attracted to, or do you look for women who appear to show interest in you? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted December 07, 2013 01:07 AM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
I asked the last question b/c of ones displeasure with the woman who was going around the sly and your reaction to it.Assuming one bothers with "game" why would such hypergamy trouble you? Why would you not suspect or not be surprised when you actually found out IRL? And if one walked into a new bar or club, do you look for a woman whom you are attracted to, or do you look for women who appear to show interest in you?
I don't bother with game nor do I go prowling bars or clubs looking for women. I get irritated at such things because I just don't see the point in playing such games. My philosophy is "sh*t or get off the pot" IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted December 07, 2013 01:09 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Padre35:
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I asked the last question b/c of ones displeasure with the woman who was going around the sly and your reaction to it.Assuming one bothers with "game" why would such hypergamy trouble you? Why would you not suspect or not be surprised when you actually found out IRL? And if one walked into a new bar or club, do you look for a woman whom you are attracted to, or do you look for women who appear to show interest in you?
I don't bother with game nor do I go prowling bars or clubs looking for women. I get irritated at such things because I just don't see the point in playing such games. My philosophy is "sh*t or get off the pot" [/B][/QUOTE] Fair enough, simply trying to get a better read on where you are coming from IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted December 07, 2013 01:15 AM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Fair enough, thanks
To answer your question in more detail, I have aspergers which makes figuring out the dating jungle 1,000 times harder. Because of aspergers I am more cautious about pursuing women unless they are showing definite unmistakable signs of interest. This is precisely why I get so bent out of shape with women.. Not only do I have to deal with the complications from aspergers but I also have to deal with tons of mixed signals and deception from women my age. It can be exhausting. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 07, 2013 01:26 AM
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tons of mixed signals and deception from women my age
*ahem* Libra women *ahem* What other Sun Signs do you attract? Have you dated or tried to date anyone who was not a Libra? lol
I'm asking because you always mention Libra women... and they are known to be indecisive as YTA was saying the other day. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted December 07, 2013 01:30 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
*ahem* Libra women *ahem*What other Sun Signs do you attract? Have you dated or tried to date anyone who was not a Libra? lol
I'm asking because you always mention Libra women... and they are known to be indecisive as YTA was saying the other day.
libra is the sign I am most attracted to, that doesn't imply that libra is the only sign I pursue. In fact I have probably pursued all 12 signs and all of them have played mind games with me.The worst was an Aries girl. LolIP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 07, 2013 01:33 AM
Seriously? All 12 signs? What happened with the Aries girl? O_O IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted December 07, 2013 01:35 AM
Don't want to talk about it, still makes me angry to this day.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 07, 2013 01:36 AM
OMG!!!!!You're not kidding around and hinting that it's me - are you?  IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted December 07, 2013 01:37 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
To answer your question in more detail, I have aspergers which makes figuring out the dating jungle 1,000 times harder. Because of aspergers I am more cautious about pursuing women unless they are showing definite unmistakable signs of interest. This is precisely why I get so bent out of shape with women.. Not only do I have to deal with the complications from aspergers but I also have to deal with tons of mixed signals and deception from women my age. It can be exhausting.
AG...oh boy do I have bad news for you on that one.. 
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aquaguy91
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posted December 07, 2013 01:37 AM
No. It was a girl from the past .IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted December 07, 2013 01:38 AM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
AG...oh boy do I have bad news for you on that one..
Yes I know what you are getting at. Lol IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 07, 2013 01:39 AM
Odette That's because most guys likes libran qualities.
This is something I noticed.. even here on LL.I remember my s.o was reading about sun signs and asked me if I was a libra because it sounded the most attractive.
I was like.... WTF I was born in june.. duh LMFAO.
You're not that lucky ***** ... It's okay Odette I much prefer Aries girls.. I'm too much for a Libra to handle. Aries can always keep up with me. IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted December 07, 2013 01:43 AM
Well, as I try to put myself in AG's shoes, the sort of Libran patience would appeal to his sort of hard on himself nature. I've also found that people who are hard or "no BS" types tend to be really really hard on themselves, the inner dialog that everyone has is akin to Sgt Hartman in Full Metal Jacket IP: Logged |
MetalAphrodite
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posted December 07, 2013 01:44 AM
AG, do you only look for girls in your age range? What's stopping you from seeking an older partner?As for Librans, my mom, sister, and daughter are Libras. I'm Libra'd out, haha. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 07, 2013 01:47 AM
Kero - quote:
That's because most guys likes libran qualities.
This is something I noticed..
I know! I like Libra girls to! They're pretty lovable. And my two longest exes (guys) were Libra 
But the indecisiveness factor can get annoying. quote:
It's okay Odette I much prefer Aries girls.. I'm too agressive for Libra.
Ya.. I know what you mean  Sexually you'd suit Aries - since your Mars is Aries. I really like Libras of both genders - but they can be too detached on a sexual level... for my liking. IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted December 07, 2013 01:50 AM
I've had two engagements to Libran women..but could never quite commit..think they understood..  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted December 07, 2013 01:50 AM
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Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
AG, do you only look for girls in your age range? What's stopping you from seeking an older partner?As for Librans, my mom, sister, and daughter are Libras. I'm Libra'd out, haha.
I have tried with older women with the same results. Not to be cynical but the older women who are open to dating younger guys tend to date the same guys women my own age want to date. What ends up happening (Atleast from what I have seen) is the younger guys who get with older women use them as booty calls while also seeing younger women on the side. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted December 07, 2013 01:51 AM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Well, as I try to put myself in AG's shoes, the sort of Libran patience would appeal to his sort of hard on himself nature. I've also found that people who are hard or "no BS" types tend to be really really hard on themselves, the inner dialog that everyone has is akin to Sgt Hartman in Full Metal Jacket
Oh please. your a triple fire.
You've mentioned you libran attraction, your not the only guy on here either.
Not a hardass at all. You are lovely man and I always thought that.
I even saw your picture and I got that jovian sag spirit. LOL why do men want be hardasses, it's not attractive unless your cap.
They kinda work the hardass thing. IP: Logged |
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