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posted February 26, 2014 11:01 AM            

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Whenever I mention Dr. Phil, people attack and say how much they hate him. lol

Not all 19-year-olds party. And not all 27-year-olds want to settle down.

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What bothers me about him is he is a fat selling diet products..how does that happen.

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posted February 26, 2014 11:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Sibyl:

I think it is a very tough choice to make, to tie your star to the wagon of someone of a much different age. Of course people fall madly in love and all that, but if you can at all help it I would choose a different path.

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These are good points. One problem I had with guys my own age is, their Neptune is conjunct my Venus. This is great in the early phases of a relationship but time after time it would just fall apart.

Also I have Venus trine Saturn and have always been attracted to older men. My first celebrity crush was on Marlon Brando in Superman.

I was like, four.

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posted February 26, 2014 11:51 AM            

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Also I have Venus trine Saturn and have always been attracted to older men. My first celebrity crush was on Marlon Brando in Superman.

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That's interesting. All my friends think I'm going to eat my words someday and marry a much older guy. They keep expecting me to introduce them to some professor bf of mine. A couple of my closest friends have even placed bets... And I guess it would make sense according to my cappy venus (in the 6th house) conjunct saturn, but... That's just not how I roll. Maybe other placements are balancing it out, I don't know. Or maybe my parents' marriage scarred me.

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posted February 26, 2014 12:41 PM            

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My father is 8 year older than my mother, their marriage if a failure and I dislike him but that didn't cause me to reject older men >_> I can stay objective enough.

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posted February 26, 2014 12:47 PM            

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Lol...dating is not marriage, is it? Though it sometimes leads to it...

I dated a much younger man...and married him. In many ways he was older than I. But when it came to parenting, he wasn't ready. He suddenly realized he'd limited his options too soon. Years later he became a good father and I believe he is a good man and husband to his second wife...but his responses to responsibility were the opposite of mine and we had to split up.

That said, even today though we are friends, i couldn't live his wife's lifestyle. I still have friends of all ages, from 17 to 92 (my oldest friend died in '12 age 99)

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posted February 26, 2014 12:51 PM            

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Keith Richards, age 70, married 30 years now to his 56 yr old wife...I believe she showed him how to "grow up"...

I wouldn't marry a 19 yr old, but i would have dated.one @ 27! IF they were fun to hang with! Some are just plain boringly callow, others v sympatico

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posted February 26, 2014 01:18 PM            

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That's just not how I roll. Maybe other placements are balancing it out, I don't know. Or maybe my parents' marriage scarred me.

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posted February 26, 2014 02:30 PM            

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Idk if this has been said,but maturity level is important.

I'm 8 years younger than the guy I'm sorta involved with.I'm 25 he's 33.As a cap rising saturn dominant person,I'm very mature,even kinda boring.
But a few weeks ago he began flirting with a girl in her late teens.She acts like my 13 year old sister.That just confuses me and it's a little disturbing.

But whatever floats someones boat.

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posted February 26, 2014 03:01 PM            

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There's a gender angle as well. Things look different when the genders are reversed. Even if it is strictly business, I would be extremely hesistent to invite a young female associate singularly to lunch (maybe two or three together is ok) simply because of perception/reputational issues. The hassle is not worth it. Men are also pigs with porcine-like logic. Spot an attractive woman 20 years or 30 years younger and, therefore, I must be boinking her.

Like I said, I know a 71 year old married to a 29 year old. The 71 year old has daughters and sons in their late 40s. What's the immediate stereotype? She must be a gold digger and he's a dirty old man, right? Well, he is well off and he is a dirty old man, and she is very sexy, but it isn't about gold digging because she comes from family wealth greater than his.

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posted February 26, 2014 05:47 PM            

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^ well she obviously has daddy issues lol

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posted February 26, 2014 05:57 PM            

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And what issues may that be?

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posted February 26, 2014 06:06 PM            

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I'm not sure if I believe some here LOL

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posted February 26, 2014 06:06 PM            

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Idk if her parents are extremely wealthy than maybe she didn't like her privileged life so much.

Kids from that lifestyle often rebel because of all the expectations.

I'd imagine that ****** of her parents.

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posted February 26, 2014 08:49 PM            

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No, she doesn't obviously have daddy issues.

We all believe in astrology right? Synastry? Composite? Chemistry that can be objectively established in the charts?

So with all that, you should be able to realize that the cookie-cutter diagnosis of "daddy issues" only spares you the effort of seeing things for what they are, in complexity, and maybe being a little more compassionate.

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posted February 26, 2014 10:23 PM            

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Lol am I the only one who thinks its cute when couples grow old together.. When they both getting greys are around the same time. Being at the same point past and present. It feels really nice to know someone you've grown and matured with let alone be in love with them. Knowing who you were before you became the present you. But I guess not everyone has that lol I don't I could have a more special bond with anyone else because they don't know all of me just the face I choose to show the world, now.

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posted February 26, 2014 10:26 PM            

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No, she doesn't obviously have daddy issues.

We all believe in astrology right? Synastry? Composite? Chemistry that can be objectively established in the charts?

So with all that, you should be able to realize that the cookie-cutter diagnosis of "daddy issues" only spares you the effort of seeing things for what they are, in complexity, and maybe being a little more compassionate.

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lol too bad her husband is going to die way before her. That's really beautiful. I guess she can move on but I don't even see how people do that. Getting married to 71 before your 30 is just stupid to me. A lot of lovely golden girls in Miami too why not settle with them. Maybe I am more compassionate in real life but this is text of course it sounds blunt lol this is my opinion you guys can can get mad it makes no different to me but this is what I think and feel about age gaps

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posted February 26, 2014 10:38 PM            

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Getting married to 71 before your 30 is just stupid to me.

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posted February 26, 2014 11:09 PM            

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Getting married to 71 before your 30 is just stupid to me.

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For one to always push being gentle and nice to others I'm disappointed in you Ami. Who are you to judge anyone? Practice what you preach before you try giving people advice.

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posted February 26, 2014 11:18 PM            

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Barbs is just an irrational emotional creature. Nice to other USERS, smarts . We're allowed to give our opinions.. It's not my fault if my opinions hit home hard. Ami is the definition of shade that was probably an indirect insult lol you can never tell lol

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posted February 26, 2014 11:24 PM            

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71 yr old marrying a under 30 yr old?

Viagra is a helluva drug..

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posted February 26, 2014 11:33 PM            

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I'm totally not emotional or distraught at all Kero. LOLOLOL I expect it from you but not from other people who claim to be good people. I just thinks it's funny that's all.

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posted February 26, 2014 11:36 PM            

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I'm laughing about "Barb's". LOL
It just sounds funny like you're some old woman.

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posted February 26, 2014 11:39 PM            

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I'm laughing about "Barb's". LOL
It just sounds funny like you're some old woman.

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Hahahah I know LOL

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posted February 27, 2014 12:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

71 yr old marrying a under 30 yr old?

Viagra is a helluva drug..

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He was a 64 year old when he married a 22 year old who graduated from college, after dating for two years.

***How many of your marriages here have lasted seven years, and are still loving, committed and strong?***

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Not directed at you, Padre.

But folks who aren't married, cannot get married, failed at marriage, live in glass houses and ought not to throw rocks. Half the forum can't get a woman to take off her pants. Lectures about sex aren't forthcoming.

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posted February 27, 2014 12:10 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

He was a 64 year old when he married a 22 year old who graduated from college, after dating for two years.

***How many of your marriages here have lasted seven years, and are still loving, committed and strong?***

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Well..if ya gotta to go..go with a smile?

no worries YTA, it your dichotomy b/t married and being hit on/center of attraction advice has not surprised, yet left me wondering..are you just on the menu or what.

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