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Odette
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posted February 25, 2014 09:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
... if you were say 27 and they were 19?

Hypothetically speaking.. ya know...


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aquaguy91
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posted February 25, 2014 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Of course i would date a 19 year old girl. Men are naturally attracted to younger women.

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Kerosene
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posted February 25, 2014 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uhm............

13....

Ewe
My cousin is 13 and she's like a child..
looks and acts like one... Im not a pedo..

I've always been attracted to people who look slightly older than me since I was really attracted people in their mid 20's since they look so put together and sophisticated and do not spell like Love Spell lol.
If your 20 and wear that **** .. grow up I use it as lube now.. HA

At 15 I was dating a 14 year old that looked about 17-18..
see what I mean.

OMG I can't even look at pictures of myself as a teen although I was a cutie
Actually I still have an old bright blue oversized flannel shirt from that age and I wore it today at the beach because it looked so vintage.
throwback....wooo

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posted February 25, 2014 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope. Realistically speaking, there will be TONS of compatibility issues. Different goals, different aspirations in life, different social outlooks, etc.

But even if we eliminate all of that, I don't know... It just doesn't seems right to me. Maybe it is social conditioning in this case and yes that would make me a total hypocrite for saying this but... It just seems... Wrong . I would feel as if I am old enough to be her uncle or something Lol!

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Barbiegirl19
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posted February 25, 2014 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm marrying DeepFreeze who is 16 years older
I dated a guy for over 4 years who was just a year younger and it felt like light years.

Age is age at the end of the day. It's entirely up to the person to act or be however way they wish.

In regards to the question hell no I would never. LOL

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Kerosene
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posted February 25, 2014 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL 27 and 19?

Uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm still weird to me.

I wouldn't date but whatever no judgement.
Maybe if it's a sexual relationship or something..

But does he look 19 because guys that age have extreme baby faces

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posted February 25, 2014 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
LOL 27 and 19?

Uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm still weird to me.

I wouldn't date but whatever no judgement.
Maybe if it's a sexual relationship or something..

But does he look 19 because guys that age have extreme baby faces



Well looks can be very subjective because i either look alot older or a lot younger than i am depending on who you ask.

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Kerosene
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posted February 25, 2014 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like idk..

When couples have obvious age difference it's not cute...
I usually roll my eyes and assume someone is parenting the other.

It does not seem romantic...

Like a Zaddy with his wrinkly hands around his Lolita.
ewe. Barf
Or a cougar with her boy toy..
It seems predatory to me.

Uhm 8 years is not really that bad you guys probably look around the same age.
It probably wouldn't be so noticeable..

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Kerosene
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posted February 25, 2014 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well that's uncommon so that's why I was asking if per chance he looks older because most of them don't even have noticeable facial hair...

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posted February 25, 2014 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I hope one day you don't meet someone over 8 years younger than you and don't eat your own words.

I don't see anything wrong with it. Even if I saw a couple with a more noticeable age gap I would never pass any judgements. They're obviously together for a reason. If they're happy then I'm happy for them. People and their judgements is what's ruining the world.

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Kerosene
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posted February 25, 2014 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeahh that won't happened..

I wouldn't even date an 18 year old because the fact I had to buy them alcohol was not attractive to me

but Enjoy your Zaddy... but 16 years age difference is not that horrific. Pretty common around the world.

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posted February 25, 2014 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Never say never. How would you know what you want anyway, you never do....LOLOLOLOL

An 18 year old to buy alcohol for is all your mind thinks about? LOL your whole "mean girl" logic is not attractive.

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posted February 25, 2014 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Of course. As we already know.

I VERY often, almost always guessed at being 8-10 years younger than I am. Even my personality suggests so. (in person)

I have a friend who's wife is 13 years older than him. They have been married for quite a few years. (edit: they met at 19 and 32 years of age)
A friends parents are 20+ years apart.
One sister has had a relationship with a guy 20ish years older. Now with a guy a few years younger. They've been together for maybe 12ish years. But they are not 8 years apart.

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aquaguy91
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posted February 25, 2014 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
well that's uncommon so that's why I was asking if per chance he looks older because most of them don't even have noticeable facial hair...


I look manly as f*ck with my 5 o'clock shadow

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Kerosene
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posted February 25, 2014 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can say never.
Well we're different people.

I had the opportunity to get married to someone I was in love with but I never went along with it because getting spontaneously married is not who I am.
People will judge you but who cares it's your life and you shouldn't let that make you feel bad.

People judge my lifestyle all the time. Idc.

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posted February 25, 2014 10:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well that's where Gems and Libras differ. You really try to be so cold hearted. Do you even have a soul somewhere in there? You do and I see right through you and I know that's exactly who you are. You love LOVE. You wouldn't ask as many questions about this guy or this girl or whoever it is that you ask questions about if that weren't who you were. Lose the "ego" a little.

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posted February 25, 2014 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm Idk, personally I'd prefer someone who's a few years older. But who knows I think it could be a possibility.

Ah well, anyone who's above the legal age is fair game

j.k

I feel kinda weird when I get hit on by men who are obviously way older. Yeah, it does feel like being preyed on.

This reminds me of my former math teacher, who told us that at 19, he dated a 30-year-old lady n when his parents found out, they were furious lol

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Kerosene
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posted February 25, 2014 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are you even talking about?
I was answering odette's question since she's seeing a 19 year old guy and probably feels weird about it LOL

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posted February 25, 2014 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure ya were

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Kerosene
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posted February 25, 2014 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I look manly as f*ck with my 5 o'clock shadow

Aren't shadows suppose to be dark?
more like flesh colored LOL

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posted February 25, 2014 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Aren't shadows suppose to be dark?
more like flesh colored LOL

My beard is brown

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Kerosene
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posted February 25, 2014 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uhm yeah I was...
I was giving my opinion because I know she is particular about couple parings too, and that's why she even made this..

If you were actually on this board long enough you would know I don't like to date people significantly older or younger than me. Or you would know about Odette's ideals LoL

So psychoanalyze the facts..

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Barbiegirl19
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posted February 25, 2014 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uhhh what are you a mind reader now too. I knew she was referring to here self I'm not that dumb. Just forget it I'd have more fun talking to a wall.

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Kerosene
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posted February 25, 2014 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
likewise

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posted February 25, 2014 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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