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Topic: Would you date someone 8 yrs younger...
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 3632 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 09:05 PM
... if you were say 27 and they were 19?Hypothetically speaking.. ya know...
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8570 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 09:12 PM
Of course i would date a 19 year old girl. Men are naturally attracted to younger women.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 09:39 PM
Uhm............13.... Ewe My cousin is 13 and she's like a child.. looks and acts like one... Im not a pedo.. I've always been attracted to people who look slightly older than me since I was really attracted people in their mid 20's since they look so put together and sophisticated and do not spell like Love Spell lol. If your 20 and wear that **** .. grow up I use it as lube now.. HA At 15 I was dating a 14 year old that looked about 17-18.. see what I mean. OMG I can't even look at pictures of myself as a teen although I was a cutie Actually I still have an old bright blue oversized flannel shirt from that age and I wore it today at the beach because it looked so vintage. throwback....wooo
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Xodian Knowflake Posts: 718 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 25, 2014 09:41 PM
Nope. Realistically speaking, there will be TONS of compatibility issues. Different goals, different aspirations in life, different social outlooks, etc. But even if we eliminate all of that, I don't know... It just doesn't seems right to me. Maybe it is social conditioning in this case and yes that would make me a total hypocrite for saying this but... It just seems... Wrong . I would feel as if I am old enough to be her uncle or something Lol! IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2964 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 09:41 PM
I'm marrying DeepFreeze who is 16 years older I dated a guy for over 4 years who was just a year younger and it felt like light years.Age is age at the end of the day. It's entirely up to the person to act or be however way they wish. In regards to the question hell no I would never. LOL IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 09:44 PM
LOL 27 and 19?Uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm still weird to me. I wouldn't date but whatever no judgement. Maybe if it's a sexual relationship or something.. But does he look 19 because guys that age have extreme baby faces 
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8570 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 09:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: LOL 27 and 19?Uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm still weird to me. I wouldn't date but whatever no judgement. Maybe if it's a sexual relationship or something.. But does he look 19 because guys that age have extreme baby faces 
Well looks can be very subjective because i either look alot older or a lot younger than i am depending on who you ask.
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 09:56 PM
Like idk..When couples have obvious age difference it's not cute... I usually roll my eyes and assume someone is parenting the other. It does not seem romantic... Like a Zaddy with his wrinkly hands around his Lolita. ewe. Barf Or a cougar with her boy toy.. It seems predatory to me. Uhm 8 years is not really that bad you guys probably look around the same age. It probably wouldn't be so noticeable..
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 09:57 PM
well that's uncommon so that's why I was asking if per chance he looks older because most of them don't even have noticeable facial hair...IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2964 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 09:59 PM
Well I hope one day you don't meet someone over 8 years younger than you and don't eat your own words. I don't see anything wrong with it. Even if I saw a couple with a more noticeable age gap I would never pass any judgements. They're obviously together for a reason. If they're happy then I'm happy for them. People and their judgements is what's ruining the world. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 10:05 PM
Yeahh that won't happened..I wouldn't even date an 18 year old because the fact I had to buy them alcohol was not attractive to me  but Enjoy your Zaddy... but 16 years age difference is not that horrific. Pretty common around the world. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2964 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 10:08 PM
Never say never. How would you know what you want anyway, you never do....LOLOLOLOL An 18 year old to buy alcohol for is all your mind thinks about? LOL your whole "mean girl" logic is not attractive. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1020 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 10:09 PM
Of course. As we already know. I VERY often, almost always guessed at being 8-10 years younger than I am. Even my personality suggests so. (in person) I have a friend who's wife is 13 years older than him. They have been married for quite a few years. (edit: they met at 19 and 32 years of age) A friends parents are 20+ years apart. One sister has had a relationship with a guy 20ish years older. Now with a guy a few years younger. They've been together for maybe 12ish years. But they are not 8 years apart. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8570 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 10:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: well that's uncommon so that's why I was asking if per chance he looks older because most of them don't even have noticeable facial hair...
I look manly as f*ck with my 5 o'clock shadow IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 10:14 PM
I can say never. Well we're different people.I had the opportunity to get married to someone I was in love with but I never went along with it because getting spontaneously married is not who I am. People will judge you but who cares it's your life and you shouldn't let that make you feel bad. People judge my lifestyle all the time. Idc. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2964 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 10:19 PM
Well that's where Gems and Libras differ. You really try to be so cold hearted. Do you even have a soul somewhere in there? You do and I see right through you and I know that's exactly who you are. You love LOVE. You wouldn't ask as many questions about this guy or this girl or whoever it is that you ask questions about if that weren't who you were. Lose the "ego" a little. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 1458 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 10:22 PM
Hmm Idk, personally I'd prefer someone who's a few years older. But who knows I think it could be a possibility.Ah well, anyone who's above the legal age is fair game  j.k I feel kinda weird when I get hit on by men who are obviously way older. Yeah, it does feel like being preyed on. This reminds me of my former math teacher, who told us that at 19, he dated a 30-year-old lady n when his parents found out, they were furious lol
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 10:24 PM
What are you even talking about? I was answering odette's question since she's seeing a 19 year old guy and probably feels weird about it LOLIP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2964 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 10:25 PM
Sure ya were IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 10:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I look manly as f*ck with my 5 o'clock shadow
Aren't shadows suppose to be dark? more like flesh colored LOL IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8570 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 10:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Aren't shadows suppose to be dark? more like flesh colored LOL
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 10:31 PM
Uhm yeah I was... I was giving my opinion because I know she is particular about couple parings too, and that's why she even made this..If you were actually on this board long enough you would know I don't like to date people significantly older or younger than me. Or you would know about Odette's ideals LoL So psychoanalyze the facts.. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2964 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 10:35 PM
Uhhh what are you a mind reader now too. I knew she was referring to here self I'm not that dumb. Just forget it I'd have more fun talking to a wall. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 10:39 PM
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2964 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 10:44 PM
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