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Topic: How important is your potential partner's appearance to you?
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PlutoSurvivor Moderator Posts: 691 From: USA Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 16, 2014 10:47 PM
No major flaws... As far as looks. That's my requirement. I once had a blind date with a guy who had no chin. He was so sweet, and had a beautiful old farm house with a lot of land, but I couldn't get past the no chin. I was very young at the time. My friend who tried to fix us up worked with him and knew how nice he was. I wonder what he looks like now?
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Jo B Knowflake Posts: 492 From: London, UK Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 11:15 AM
I met a guy at an allotment once (an allotment for non-Brits is a piece of land one can rent from the council (or private company) to grow fruit, veg and generally have a jolly good time. lol). Anyway he looked fairly hot at the allotment, blonde haired, blue-eyed (although I usually go for dark haired men), and was intelligent sounding and humorous. I looked pretty scruffy with soil on my face probably and my hair rather unkempt, no makeup etc. So we met at the pub later that evening, during which I had scrubbed up well to the point where he didn't recognise me. As the evening progressed however he produced a pair of glasses only Mr Magoo would be seen dead in and then later when we had a goodnight kiss his teeth (which turned out to be false) decided to disengage from his gums. He only lasted a couple more dates after that. Oh God I'm so shallow. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5686 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 17, 2014 11:32 AM
quote: then later when we had a goodnight kiss his teeth (which turned out to be false) decided to disengage from his gums.
LOL How old was he? ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Jo B Knowflake Posts: 492 From: London, UK Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 02:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: LOL How old was he?
ummm, about 46 or 47. He said he'd lost his teeth as a kid when he fell off a bike. They always say that. lol. Same with scars on the face. It's always "oh I fell off a bike.". 
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Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 6942 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 17, 2014 10:25 PM
Don't mean Squat.I feel things. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 10492 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 18, 2014 02:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: When it comes to me, I'd definitely want my boyfriend to please me aestetically.
I doubt it's true for everyone, but my initial answer was - or what i've noticed is, as you get older, the physical appearance becomes much less important in a person. And to me, that is one of the best things about aging. Physical appearance becomes less important and a beautiiful soul is really all you want to spend time with. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 10492 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 18, 2014 03:00 AM
reminded me of this: IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 6942 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 18, 2014 04:14 AM
Wow, that's really nice.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5686 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 18, 2014 08:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by T: I doubt it's true for everyone, but my initial answer was - or what i've noticed is, as you get older, the physical appearance becomes much less important in a person.And to me, that is one of the best things about aging. Physical appearance becomes less important and a beautiiful soul is really all you want to spend time with.
Hmm. It's not like I require a model look. But if I were in an asexual relationship with a man who liked to kiss etc. aesthetic attraction would probably help me enjoy it. And I just like looking at beautiful people, sue my Libra Moon 
------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |