posted April 15, 2014 06:36 AM            

The thing I take note of most is height (have to be taller than me or at least the same height, I'm quite tall), decent teeth (straight and not discoloured), body shape (ideally broad shoulders lol, I don't mind a little belly fat but they've got to be otherwise fit looking) and a decent hair cut. Dress-wise I like the casual look with guys - eg jeans/t-shirts - but they've got to be clean and smell nice! lol

The teeth thing though is a bit of a dealbreaker for me.

posted April 15, 2014 09:52 AM            

Giorgio says hi.

posted April 15, 2014 10:17 AM            

Give it to me, grandy!

posted April 15, 2014 11:46 AM            

You can see he probably had a good physique when he was younger.

The young woman however needs to lay off the Big Macs for a while.

Anyway here's a gratuitous Borat shot...

posted April 15, 2014 01:02 PM            

I mean maybe if I did not have to kiss them or do sexual things I would not care....

Oh wait that's called friendship.

However I will say if they are confident and hot ot attitude wise I will ignore many flaws unless they are really unsightly.
The way you sit stand walk and look at me is really important also if you seem intimidated I'll step right over you and not give you the time of day

posted April 15, 2014 01:52 PM            

There is one exception to this:

posted April 15, 2014 04:48 PM            

That said, I've never looked for some illusive ideal. I don't care about six pack abs, perfect teeth, a full head of hair, if he's taller than I am, etc. Sometimes it's just a smile that I like, a twinkle in the eye, the way he laughs....

posted April 15, 2014 05:07 PM            

A very rough estimate of what my serious, long-term relationship material has looked like over the decades. Except the Iggy Pop picture. They could have been related.

My husband looks mildly like this guy in this pic, except that his nose is more refined, his eyes are prettier, and his hair has turned darker, more like a light brown.

My last ex looked so much like this guy in this particular era that he got numerous comments on it

And my ex before him looked a lot like this guy (and it was also commented on quite a bit at the time). In spite of that ex's Scorpio Mars, his Virgo Sun and Leo Moon sort of diminished a bit of the sadness that you see in Kurt's eyes, but not by much.

posted April 15, 2014 06:54 PM            

This image is appropriate he's ******* crazy

posted April 15, 2014 07:07 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
My recent ex looks a lot like Max Thieroit it's uncanny.

This image is appropriate he's ******* crazy

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posted April 15, 2014 08:29 PM            

Growing up in California is a hard habit to break, apparently. But still very manly in his effing flip-flops, somehow. I cannot break his style habits.
Eh...small price to pay for love, haha.

Ps
I am SO happy to "see" you, Faith.

posted April 15, 2014 08:52 PM            

Nice to see you again, too!

posted April 15, 2014 09:15 PM            

My Aries Venus in 9th also basks a little in my husband's adventures in life, hehe.

I think that us Pisces Sun/Moon in 8th folk are probably justified in feeling a little sappy today, hahaha.

I had such a nice, lazy, cozy day with my little guy (Moon is trine my Sun at the moment)... I had so much work to do outside and inside, but we just snuggled up in the living room and played with cars instead.