posted July 11, 2014 04:24 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Regarding the victim role...
Time and time again she says to "ignore"... Just "learn to ignore. It took me six years but I figured that out".
Then just today she proclaimed to you that if you ignore them they only fight among themselves.
When called out on that then suddenly it's like 3-5 posts about how depressed she is about all of this hatred.
What happened to ignoring? I thought that was the key to life or something but suddenly it's not working and this is all overwhelming.
(and her mother again... The fishing line in the pond waiting for sympathy to bite)
Now you tell me what's wrong with that picture.

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posted July 11, 2014 04:28 AM            

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Originally posted by T:
These are some seriously deep unresolved issues that i think need to be dealt with on a professional level. Sweet Peas in the Rain is not the place to heal this deep emotional wound. I don't think the posters here are equipped to really help you do so...in any honest, effective way. This is something that takes decades of professional help, not tons of smoke blown up an ass....

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I agree with this, you always had very sound and realistic advice.

posted July 11, 2014 04:40 AM            

A lot of this has been extremely painful for me too recently. And what I came to conclude last night is it is to do with living in this mind of good or bad. Instead I should be thinking do I like this or that. If you don't like how someone is maybe just don't like it and don't put it through the wringer of if you should, if it's right. Maybe that will stop others doing the same.

posted July 11, 2014 05:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Maka:
I agree with this, you always had very sound and realistic advice.

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posted July 11, 2014 05:57 AM            

Sometimes you have to let it all out........IN CAPLOCK.

I'm better now.

posted July 11, 2014 06:14 AM            

That High Priestess was a really good Thread.

She was gone before I came though, wasn't she?

posted July 11, 2014 07:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
I actually always wondered what happened to Waterlily.

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I actually never knew there was a member named Waterlilly here [until recently]. That's how effing clueless I am.

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posted July 11, 2014 08:00 AM            

This is called Reaction Formation in Psych, I think.

It is not uncommon but the person has blocked major parts of themselves and that is what I did.

A person taking a stand is gonna be hated by some people. If you don't take a stand you will be hated for being a wimp, so there is really no way to have any kind of personality and not have some people hate you.

It is how you process it. That was really what I was going through.

Thanks Florence for jumping in when you were bound to get lots of social castigation.

If a person has his own voice, he really has it all and that is what this is really about for me

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posted July 11, 2014 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by rajji:
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personally, i can rise to a crisis and face a crushing tragedy with utmost courage.But to meet the petty hazards of the day with a laugh - I really think that requires spirit. Ami has shown that time and again.
A man should be able to hear, and to bear, the worst that could be said of him.
It's that kind of character that I am wanting to develop.
Sometimes it so happens that to share your weakness is a vulnerable act, But the very act of making yourself vulnerable is to show strength.Being vulnerable requires immense strength to withstand the reactions of others.
It is the opposite of weakness.What more do you think you require when you already have it ami?

“Vulnerability is the only authentic state. Being vulnerable means being open, for wounding, but also for pleasure. Being open to the wounds of life means also being open to the bounty and beauty. Don’t mask or deny your vulnerability: it is your greatest asset. Be vulnerable: quake and shake in your boots with it. the new goodness that is coming to you, in the form of people, situations, and things can only come to you when you are vulnerable, i.e. open.” ~Stephen Russell

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Thanks Rajji

You understand

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posted July 11, 2014 08:17 AM            

This is what I have to learn to deal with. This feeling coming at me. It feels terrible but I have to process it if I am to go on as a person and with my career.

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posted July 11, 2014 08:19 AM            

You hold Mods to this standard that is not realistic. There was another guy who did that. He was super critical of Mods like you are. He became a Mod and lasted a week. He flipped out when the kind of criticism you give so freely to Mods came back on him. I see your comments more about YOU that AG, who is a wonderful Mod and a wonderful contributor to LL.

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posted July 11, 2014 08:57 AM            

I think I need to face human nature in it's worst parts because they are displayed to me on here by some but that is not what is really upsetting me as much as that I have not accepted these same parts in myself.

There is no vacation away from human nature-- my own and that of others

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posted July 11, 2014 10:18 AM            

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Originally posted by florence:
Firstly it is not a sin to change your mind or emotions. I would guess actually it is perfectly normal to try to do something you know is the best thing and then be depressed when you come out of that zone to be proved somewhat right. I think what's wrong with that picture is you've strung together some so-called inconsistencies which, with a bit of thought aren't so much and think you can call out on something, think you have the right to argue the person over the behaviour. I could taste that people were gunning for her and in other threads too. Don't think it can't be seen because it can

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Well stick around her long enough and you'll understand.
I can't count on two hands how many times we've heard about her traumas and mother. Obviously it's not working.... Get some professional help if it's that bad.
She says she's better but she'll be back at it here in 1-4 weeks. lol

posted July 11, 2014 10:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
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You hold Mods to this standard that is not realistic. There was another guy who did that. He was super critical of Mods like you are. He became a Mod and lasted a week. He flipped out when the kind of criticism you give so freely to Mods came back on him. I see your comments more about YOU that AG, who is a wonderful Mod and a wonderful contributor to LL.

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Randall wouldn't dare so don't worry about it. It's not a threat to me to think of that happening. I'm not that other person, I'm me. You and AG get 90% of the mod criticism and you know why? Because you post ridiculous things.
AG starts half of the things that need attended to around here with his women problems and out there in another universe views that he calls reality and you come across fake and used to mod in ways that catered to getting your last word.
I'll give you that sometimes you get followed like a lone cow with lions. However, you also keep going in these strange, indirect, snarky ways. You keep popping in to let everyone know how you're ignoring us. That's not ignoring and I think people want to attack that bluff. Ignoring is ignoring, your very presence lets us know that you are in no way ignoring. You're reading every post, not to mod us but to respond and let us know how you're ignoring and it's the answer to everything.
I get the impression that you are not TRULY seeking happiness. You're seeking drama and sympathy. I'm sorry to cancers out there. I really enjoy cancers but I'd be lying if I said it was the first time I've seen cancer influenced people do that.
I caught the same crap when I made big scenes and "left" so why should it be surprising when you get the same when you do this time and time again?

Get some help of it's all so bad and you have trouble dealing. Lean on your real life, in person friends and seek a professional. You can't tell me that venting here is helping. Maybe temporarily when you get all this sympathy but look for something long term.

posted July 11, 2014 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by T:
Once in a blue moon I will explode and type in all CAPS but it takes a lot to push me there........as a matter of fact i think tonight was the first time i've ever done that.

Sometimes you have to let it all out........IN CAPLOCK.

I'm better now.

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posted July 11, 2014 02:45 PM            

Before I found LL and after my son died, I heard a voice at 3 AM tell me to study Astrology.

I prayed about it for 3 weeks and felt that it was from God and I went forward to join LL.

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posted July 11, 2014 02:47 PM            

Through both of these, I learned valuable lessons.

I showed who I was which was the bottom line. That was what I needed to do--come out of hiding.

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posted July 11, 2014 02:50 PM            

I have not needed to express myself like that for a long time but needed to now.

I became a Mod after a year and the attacks got worse but also the love from most LL got stronger.

I get 90% love here and 10% attacks.

From being a Mod, I learned lessons I could never learn in real life because I was still afraid to put myself out there in real life.

I was still under the perfect mask.

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posted July 11, 2014 02:51 PM            

It was a wonderful experience and very full of love for me, and hopefully others.

I never thought I would be a professional astrologer but my life kept leading to it and I followed that leading.

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