posted March 11, 2017 09:53 PM            

I sometimes have to defend myself, because people think I'm being 'arrogant' to my parents, but my parents have issues, and project them on me.

I think people can be presumptuous and assume Radium was arrogant towards his mother, when we don't know the full story. I'm not going to say him, or his mother, was/is in the wrong, because I don't know the details, or full story. But what if it was someone besides Radium that was the arrogant one? How can people be so sure?

Also, even if Radium came off arrogant, maybe it's because he's in a load of hurt, pain, and in an extreme situation. So I believe the 'arrogant' assumption was a bit much.

People can be ageist sometimes and assume all young people (under 30) are arrogant punks, when they (the ones judging) already have their own prejudices and biases in tact before they even listen to the whole story, and details.

posted March 11, 2017 10:02 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
yeah mirage reflects her own kind of.. thing she wants others to be going through, like she wants there to be a lot of depth and pain

actually another old guy i know does the same thing, said i should take a philosophy course- and soon , he said. i was like wow, this guy is really not too smart to assume my life was so screwed and that i was lacking that i needed a college course. i told him what an idiot he is and college courses are not going to change anything, i took it as an insult.

but mirage feel free to post in this thread he didnt mean you cant post he just meant he isnt interested cause its not relevent

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Actually, she's been through a hell of a lot more than me, and has a much better attitude.

posted March 11, 2017 10:06 PM            

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posted March 11, 2017 10:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Radium
Just ignore the people who are nasty to you. I think it is despicable that you come on here in the WORST pain and people get on their high horse but that is life, so take all the love that many people have given you and drink from that. God loves you and many people here love you and learn the lesson of ignoring anyone who treats you poorly. You don't have to explain yourself. You can if you want, but you can just ignore, too!

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posted March 12, 2017 12:27 AM            

I ******* HATE people that think they are smarter than everyone else. You aren't telling me anything I don't already KNOW. If I wanted your opinions on my family life I'd tell you. You are no longer supporting me. You are trying to tell me what to do. You are really getting on my bad side Cap. STOP assuming. **** off.

posted March 12, 2017 12:36 AM            

if you ever get the opportunity to lash out at someone and tell them what you think, its lucky. most of the time they are too closed off to consider it (not talking about anyone here) just in general. usually once they actually listen to what you say, they understand and stop being so "pained"

posted March 12, 2017 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Radium:
I'm so done with everyone's **** .
Those who get it - thank you. Those who don't, goodbye.

I ******* HATE people that think they are smarter than everyone else. You aren't telling me anything I don't already KNOW. If I wanted your opinions on my family life I'd tell you. You are no longer supporting me. You are trying to tell me what to do. You are really getting on my bad side Cap. STOP assuming. **** off.

This is the EXACT reason I want to kill myself. Shut up and look in the mirror Mr and Ms. Know It All.

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I want to, as well. I was empathizing with you, so thanks. If this was aimed at me at all, you're doing to me, exactly what you're accusing others of doing. I would love to **** off. I don't want YOU to, though.

posted March 12, 2017 08:47 AM            

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posted March 12, 2017 05:29 PM            

Not every advice people give you will be right for you, if it works, follow it, if not, discard and move on. I can actually relate to not wanting anybody's advice and wanting to learn everything on your own, but life is too short to do that and most of the times we don't even make new mistakes, we keep making the same old ones.

posted March 13, 2017 05:18 AM            

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“The thought of suicide is a great consolation: by means of it one gets through many a dark night.”
– Friedrich Nietzsche

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posted March 13, 2017 08:56 PM            

Radium, I went threw the same thing awhile back were others didn't really understand my soul purpose. At heart I know I am here to be a psychologist\ life coach. I want to help others progress in life because the way that I progressed in life was to walk threw the darkest parts to understand the light, then to help others in the dark. Also who I can help vs who I can't. Some people were totally behind me and others were not so supportive. What I found is, that others didn't have the same drive as me to accomplish things they set their mind to, others were never able to obtain their dreams and some people are just negative in general, some are envious and jealous, some people just don't understand psychology or the need for it even though they have the most issues I have ever seen in someone. etc... What I am trying to get at is that others will project onto you their own , something made them that way and the way to relate is to understand how something made you. If you can see it from an objective stand point you won't take it to heart so much. Hardest thing I have ever had to learn but others really have nothing to do with you if you are giving things your all. ( STILL LEARNING) Simply just their projection of who they are on to you. IF you can separate yourself, you can actually smile at it because you just got a glimpse of who someone is because they are telling you who they are. ( I hope that makes sense maybe a pluto thing)

Don't get me wrong own your own faults but also you know who you are and thats enough. Just be the best you and help others where you can. Remember you are human too and that it's ok to be human. I support you and I wish you the best and others too!!!

Psychology wise , just for knowledge sake ,when one becomes older they seek to pass down who they are as an attempt to keep themselves alive. ( like you do to a child) Although you are not a child, youth( you) is still establishing adolescence or self and do this till mid life( 40ish) . If you can understand that she just wants to pass herself on to you so that when she dies, it will be apart of her that she helped you, is in like you wish to do with your music and being a legend ( unforgettable) . Also as people age their seritonin declines which makes them more untrusting of others, also happens when we get depressed. Dopamine can play parts as well( skipping the biology class, boredom etc because I am a HUGE NERD. lol )

I hope you can see it as a bridge of understanding. I look at older people in amusement anymore because I have learned this is what is really going on, to be objective the best way I can.( don't take anything to heart if you can as I can be very sensitive to criticism) Also understand accepting their advice is helping in ways to them because they feel they are passing their genes down to you. You will do this when you hit about 40 to 60. ( FYI)

In some ways you can see in yourself, you want to be you and excepted for who you are, your sense of self means more where her knowledge and legacy means more to her. Two different worlds same purpose in ways.

Opposition just needs understanding thats all. Astrology and psychology thought me these things. Maybe pull your charts up and see what is what and where ( still working on it though) you are alike, differences and how to bridge the gap. We use synastry for relationships but everyone outside of self is in actuality a relationship, just different than love relation.

posted March 14, 2017 10:15 AM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
You just told me to F off?? Really? I see. If you say what the person wants to hear then you support them and if you say something they don't like then you can "f off". Ok, good luck in life and goodbye.

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She has a point with this.

Radium, you can't tell everybody that doesn't support you to **** off just because they have something to say to you that you don't like. I get that some people aren't worth your time but right now you're acting like you are above it all and know all; in reality you aren't. You aren't as knowledgeable and understanding of what goes on as you think you are because if you were you wouldn't be in this miserable state. You would be able to better yourself.

Getting angry at people all the time and ******** doesn't make you sound like a highly intelligent person, especially with how you're going about it now. Listen to what people have to say instead of hogging all the compliments and shoving all the criticism away. You'll never learn anything that way.