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Topic: Ending it
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Electro DGX
Moderator Posts: 1902
From: Plutanus
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted March 14, 2017 10:47 AM
  
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Originally posted by Radium:
Everyone is intelligent in their own right. Just because I didn't respond in a formal way doesn't mean I'm not grateful either. My situation doesn't define me either. Just likes yours doesn't.
You completely ignored what I said, just like I said you have. You ultimately refuse to listen to others who are trying to help you with criticism because you think you have everything figured out but you don't, you just don't. It's not the way you responded, it's how. That's the problem you continuously ignore because again, you think you have figured it all out. I'm not saying that you're stupid, I'm saying that you have a mental superiority complex. Mirage and CapriciousCapricorn haven't been saying those things to be ******* ; they've been saying these things in order to help you realize something, which you continue to ignore. You can't better yourself until you realize your own mistakes and correct them; no one's perfect. Standing your own ground is important, but life will make you break in order to show you what's truly important. Learn to accept it and grow from it. ------------------
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soren
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posted March 14, 2017 11:16 AM
🎶 just passing time, not sure why its all exists
🎶science seemed to say they explain it, making it sound like its so un amazing, so "defined" as if its just a limited code 🎶 yet why do they say your heart is gods intention, and why does my heart want this existence to be something more than existence something to cheer yo all up -
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Radium
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posted March 14, 2017 12:20 PM
@dgxThis post wasn't designed for advice. Electro, I didn't ask for their advice. You really believe I haven't heard all this bologna before? Once again, you are treating me as I'm naive or have no awareness of my actions. You don't even know what set me off do you? And believe it or not, just because I tell someone to **** off, doesn't mean I hate them. I just said **** off. Mirage said some things on another post that caused me to react the way I did. I have the right to defend myself if I want. I wanted support, some emotional clarity. Not a conviction or Life 101. It's all about perspective and seeing the whole picture. I can choose to ignore or accept any "advice" I want. Noticed once I called her on it she stopped posting. I bet you are the same person to see a homeless guy on the street and automatically toss him a beer? In the end a "home" is just another figment of the mind. Home is whatever and wherever you want it to be. Everything is connected. IP: Logged |
Electro DGX
Moderator Posts: 1902
From: Plutanus
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted March 14, 2017 12:50 PM
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Originally posted by Radium:
@dgxThis post wasn't designed for advice. Electro, I didn't ask for their advice. You really believe I haven't heard all this bologna before? Once again, you are treating me as I'm naive or have no awareness of my actions. You don't even know what set me off do you? And believe it or not, just because I tell someone to **** off, doesn't mean I hate them. I just said **** off. Mirage said some things on another post that caused me to react the way I did. I have the right to defend myself if I want. I wanted support, some emotional clarity. Not a conviction or Life 101. It's all about perspective and seeing the whole picture. I can choose to ignore or accept any "advice" I want. Noticed once I called her on it she stopped posting. I bet you are the same person to see a homeless guy on the street and automatically toss him a beer? In the end a "home" is just another figment of the mind. Home is whatever and wherever you want it to be. Everything is connected.
If you have heard it before and want to call it "baloney", you may want to do a self-reflection. One person saying it is one thing, multiple people saying it means something else. I'm not the only one that thinks that you act like you know it all. This is a public forum. Regardless whether or not you WANTED advice, people are going to still post advice anyway. What the hell are you supposed to expect when you make a thread about how you're going to commit suicide? Perhaps you should try to see the criticism as a sort of support; not all support is going to be hugs and kisses. It's called tough love, get my fair share of it all the time. You talk about seeing the whole picture, but seeing the whole picture includes seeing the ****** stuff that comes with it. If you want to just shove criticism away, you are NOT seeing the whole picture. Yeah, you can choose to ignore or accept any advice that's given to you, but don't talk about seeing the whole picture if you just want to shove out all the negative in everything, including criticism. You can take or leave this advice as you have been doing, but I still believe in what I have said. Do whatever you want with it. ------------------
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anonymidarkness
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posted March 14, 2017 01:15 PM
^ Let it go for now. He already has plenty of problems to deal with, let's not add add some more to it.IP: Logged |
Radium
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posted March 14, 2017 02:36 PM
I'm not ignoring anything.
I'll take advice but not name-calling.Mirage called me a manipulator and a criminal? Uh how is that criticism, by the looks of it YOU must know everything, I didn't create this thread for advice; I made it from an emotional breakdown and you don't KNOW me personally. Now take MY advice and leave it IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted March 14, 2017 06:01 PM
Radium, what's your Jupiter sign and house, and aspects? Maybe using it will help increase your luck! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 14, 2017 06:17 PM
I have noticed something I hate on LL. When someone is in a lot of pain, some people will truly help from a pure heart, but some others will get all nasty with their advice in the "name" or under the guise of helping. The life lesson is to ignore or speak up, which you are. It is not personal to you, Radium. I have seen it happen many, many times.------------------
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Sulkyarcher
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posted March 14, 2017 06:41 PM
@Ami Anne,it could be some people are responding to Radium's not so positive situation, and the energy from it, not very good themselves. I honestly think some are genuinely trying to help, some want to help, but don't know how to do it in a great way, and some are disguising toxic personalities by pretending to try to help. Dealing with a person going through a lot isn't an easy job, sometimes the person will get agitated, depressed, and angry, and the person helping may act passive aggressively negatively because they don't know how to deal with someone in emotional pain. Helping people isn't as easy as it always sounds. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted March 14, 2017 07:41 PM
I don't think that anyone is disguising a toxic personality. I would add more, because I have experienced it from his point of view, and been the one trying to help, but I'm not in the mood. @Ami - I've been in truly toxic situations, where I've been attacked by people who made nasty assumptions, or just enjoy attacking people. Mirage and CC don't fit that description. Neither do I. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted March 14, 2017 08:55 PM
I think people who would not dare to act so poorly in real life can be terrible on line. When I first came on, I went through hell but I would not take any of it back, due to it's amazing lessons, but a few people, always, stood up for me, too, so I do the same for others, when I can. I think people should not be giving platitude advice to Radium. I think these people have low sensitivity and are wrong. They would not like it lol------------------
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Voix_de_la_Mer
Moderator Posts: 2337
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 15, 2017 04:44 AM
I think it is helpful to consider that posts about suicide and homelessness and suffering in general can be very triggering to those who have experienced these traumas themselves.This can lead to a range of reactions. I don't think any were without the best of initial intentions, however in the case of people who have come out the other side of these experiences, they will feel very strongly a duty to others to share what they learned, how they survived and processed, and the flaws in their *own* thinking at the time that they can see with such clarity in others now. I didn't see any response on this thread that was designed to do anything other than prompt an expanded perspective. However, as the individuals we all are, and the individual Radium is, we chime more with some people's manner of expression than others. There is also the possible issue of contemplating change vs. readiness for change. Those still contemplating change are not quite ready to do anything radical, so responses that encourage radical change in thinking or action, can feel intrusive. No one who posted here is to know what stage Radium is at, nor the best way to respond I work with people in distress every day, you cannot predict the best way to respond, you have to build a rapport as quickly and effectively as you can (time-limited support) - this is not easy at the best of times, but on an internet forum it is far harder. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted March 15, 2017 02:10 PM
^^ Thank you. That's the sort of thing I wanted to say. I do understand where he's coming from, as much as I can, anyhow. IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted March 15, 2017 03:42 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
When someone is in a lot of pain, some people will truly help from a pure heart, but some others will get all nasty with their advice in the "name" or under the guise of helping.
Who are you talking about? IP: Logged |
saronna
Knowflake Posts: 604
From: Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 19, 2017 04:02 AM
radium i think things are going a little bit crazy but it helps to have a pretend friend to help you with goals. a pretend friend can help you build a nice home a nice career and find a soulmate and destiny. a pretend friend can cuddle up in bed at night and you dont feel so lonely. your pretend friend is always with you looking after youIP: Logged |
firemoon
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posted March 27, 2017 05:02 AM
Are you expecting a slow playing violin Radium?NO ONE is entitled to the kind of sympathy you're demanding. I don't mean to be rude but if you're going to take your own life that's on you. Learn to take responsibility if you're truly Saturnian. I truly feel like maybe it's my calling to help those in need (Pisces MC) but I need to help myself first and that hasn't been an easy ride.. Anyway you are young and have your whole life in front of you.. and that's not a cliche.. do your chart justice and practice humility and gratitude and you will live a happy life IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted March 27, 2017 09:19 AM
Firemoon
I think saying this is super, super insensitive and downright nasty, actually. I would not pay attention, Radium, if I were you.As you know, life is about moving on from things,often! xoxoxo
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anonymidarkness
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posted March 27, 2017 11:37 AM
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Originally posted by firemoon:
Are you expecting a slow playing violin Radium?NO ONE is entitled to the kind of sympathy you're demanding. I don't mean to be rude but if you're going to take your own life that's on you. Learn to take responsibility if you're truly Saturnian. I truly feel like maybe it's my calling to help those in need (Pisces MC) but I need to help myself first and that hasn't been an easy ride.. Anyway you are young and have your whole life in front of you.. and that's not a cliche.. do your chart justice and practice humility and gratitude and you will live a happy life
Well, this chapter is already over, he has a job now. IP: Logged |
Radium
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posted March 27, 2017 05:14 PM
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Originally posted by firemoon:
Are you expecting a slow playing violin Radium?NO ONE is entitled to the kind of sympathy you're demanding. I don't mean to be rude but if you're going to take your own life that's on you. Learn to take responsibility if you're truly Saturnian. I truly feel like maybe it's my calling to help those in need (Pisces MC) but I need to help myself first and that hasn't been an easy ride.. Anyway you are young and have your whole life in front of you.. and that's not a cliche.. do your chart justice and practice humility and gratitude and you will live a happy life
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Electro DGX
Moderator Posts: 1902
From: Plutanus
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted March 29, 2017 04:44 PM
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Originally posted by firemoon:
Are you expecting a slow playing violin Radium?NO ONE is entitled to the kind of sympathy you're demanding. I don't mean to be rude but if you're going to take your own life that's on you. Learn to take responsibility if you're truly Saturnian. I truly feel like maybe it's my calling to help those in need (Pisces MC) but I need to help myself first and that hasn't been an easy ride.. Anyway you are young and have your whole life in front of you.. and that's not a cliche.. do your chart justice and practice humility and gratitude and you will live a happy life
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Radium
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posted March 29, 2017 05:10 PM
didn't you say you were done here dgx?
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted March 29, 2017 06:22 PM
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Originally posted by Radium:
didn't you say you were done here dgx?
knew you missed me
Ignore people who want to start fights, Radium. You don't need it xoxoxoxo Do you want me to close the thread? ------------------
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted March 29, 2017 06:50 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ignore people who want to start fights, Radium.
I don't know if you noticed but so far he completely ignored You. Completely. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 29, 2017 08:46 PM
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