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Randall
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posted February 26, 2021 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know for a fact that there are lots of women who love guys who drive trucks, so just keep on looking.

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posted February 26, 2021 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
I know for a fact that there are lots of women who love guys who drive trucks, so just keep on looking.

It's not even about that, though. It's the fact that most women today have those kind of insane deal breakers. The women who love trucks would reject me for some other equally silly reason.

I wonder if women would be so insanely picky if a major war wiped out half of the men or the economy completely collapsed and shattered women's delusional belief that they "don't need no man." I suspect women would adjust their attitudes real quick.


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posted February 26, 2021 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Eternal Energy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there...Can I say something if you don't mind?...

I believe that there are women out there who love you men more than you think, admire you for what you are, accept you just as you are, need you and want to make you happy and would do anything to see you smile. I believe that 100% because I am one of them...

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posted February 26, 2021 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
It's not even about that, though. It's the fact that most women today have those kind of insane deal breakers. The women who love trucks would reject me for some other equally silly reason.

I wonder if women would be so insanely picky if a major war wiped out half of the men or the economy completely collapsed and shattered women's delusional belief that they "don't need no man." I suspect women would adjust their attitudes real quick.


Many women don’t need a man. Many people DO need community, but also take care of themselves. I’m single, because I don’t want to end up in another bad situation, and I loathe the “they’d change their attitude real quick” thing, because I don’t want to end up in a relationship with someone, because I HAVE to be there. My attitude doesn’t need adjusting. You won’t listen when people mention the ways in which yours might.

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posted February 26, 2021 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Many women don’t need a man. Many people DO need community, but also take care of themselves. I’m single, because I don’t want to end up in another bad situation, and I loathe the “they’d change their attitude real quick” thing, because I don’t want to end up in a relationship with someone, because I HAVE to be there. My attitude doesn’t need adjusting. You won’t listen when people mention the ways in which yours might.

Teasel,
I'd really suggest you stop reading my posts and replying because you aren't able to be rational with me. You totally misinterpret everything I say. And sometimes I think you do it on purpose. My comment about their attitudes had nothing to with wanting them to date me because of difficult times and everything to do with my desire to be treated with respect and kindness.

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posted February 26, 2021 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Many women don’t need a man

Right. So the average woman can fix things, build things, lift heavy things, and protect herself from attack? Wait, what? You are saying most women can't do all or any of those things? That's what I thought. You are proving my point for me. Women do need men. It's just this modern, comfortable society gives them the illusion that they don't need us. That leads them to act like biotches who disrespect men and treat us with contempt.

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posted February 27, 2021 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 28, 2021 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There are some good women out there, just like there are some good men.

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posted March 07, 2021 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Right. So the average woman can fix things, build things, lift heavy things, and protect herself from attack? Wait, what? You are saying most women can't do all or any of those things? That's what I thought. You are proving my point for me. Women do need men. It's just this modern, comfortable society gives them the illusion that they don't need us. That leads them to act like biotches who disrespect men and treat us with contempt.

You told me not to respond. I’ve just seen this. I was wondering if you were okay, and was going to bump another thread. My mother stopped a man when he was strangling me. We shouldn’t *need* to be protected from other men.

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posted March 07, 2021 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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There are some good women out there, just like there are some good men.

There are a lot of good women out there. Do we not count as good women, if we are understandably wary?

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posted March 17, 2021 02:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dumuzi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Right. So the average woman can fix things, build things, lift heavy things, and protect herself from attack? Wait, what? You are saying most women can't do all or any of those things? That's what I thought. You are proving my point for me. Women do need men. It's just this modern, comfortable society gives them the illusion that they don't need us. That leads them to act like biotches who disrespect men and treat us with contempt.

let's be real here plenty of guys can't do all of those things at all or properly, and some women can (most people outsource to have things built and fixed, that's why that's a career for others, and anyone can protect themselves with a gun also self defense can just be a matter of knowing where to hit)

yeah a woman making anything about a car is an idiot, but that's not most women

dating sites in general are honestly terrible, if i judged other humans on the majority of people on dating sites i'd assume most guys were kind of creepy

i've had plenty who wanted to keep me in their house 24/7 to **** me and insisted they were in love after a couple of conversations all the while offering me drugs and money etc, and i mean immediately like that not like some over time dating housewife sort of deal but just "come live with me and be a sex slave i'll give you everything"

i had a guy in the past couple days who told me i could live with him "relatively safely" other than him wanting to "rape" me daily (though i didn't meet him on a dating site tbf, he's just no different from ones ive met on those) told me it's ok if i cried or didn't want to all the time that it'd just turn him on, but he'd "be gentle"

he's one of countless men who have said that sort of thing to me, is he by any means most guys? no, not at all 🤷‍♀️ but plenty of guys like that find me and use dating sites and even not on dating sites they seem to find me

in my experience plenty of guys are genuinely nice and guys like that aren't the majority

women like what you described aren't the majority either, it's just a weird bias and for her to state it in her profile you should've known upfront and expected her to be irrational

if she felt the need to make that a point, something that specific and shallow (and im aware that could have been about the culture surrounding it, but still... no one is a carbon copy of someone else even if they're into something) that's an immediate cue to be like "nah not going to bother with this one" especially if you drive a truck

that was an oversight on your part, you engaged with a shallow idiot who had an immediate bias against you and then were surprised to have her turn out to be a shallow idiot with an immediate bias against you 🤷‍♀️ you could've fairly assumed before that conversation that it wasn't meant to be, just the logical assumption

most people don't have unrealistic standards, but people who are really into dating (both sexes) are usually the type to play games, have stupid standards, and condition each other to hate the opposite gender

you'd be much better off trying to find a woman through a hobby or work school etc than a dating site in probably 95% of cases


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posted July 17, 2021 09:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bumping this in case it wasn't read.

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