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SleepyDiary
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posted December 25, 2020 03:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you guys think about this site getting so popular, kinda sad right? more and more people are getting on it even celebs.

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posted December 26, 2020 10:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VeronicaNicole     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Live & let live. I have an unbiased or neutral opinion I suppose. To be perfectly honest, it has floated through my mind a time or two as I am struggling financially like pretty much everyone else. I never made it past that thought though. I worked as an exotic dancer for a couple years, granted it is not the same thing, but it requires a level of detachment, at least in my case & ever other dancer I knew. We aren't grinding up on dudes (& the occasional chic) with the same enjoyment. The entire time my mind is going "money,money,money.." So the end game is pretty much the same in both accounts.

Point being, it is not really for me. But if guys are willing to pay women for their pics and videos, & women are cool showing off their business, I get it. Easy money & more power to them. I would however recommend they give it some thought 1st before just diving in. Weigh the consequences.

Some people really need to just get over themselves. If it bothers them, well...don't go on the site & don't buy and sell pics. Seems quite simple IMO.

I do agree with you though in that I do kind of find it sad that women are so willing to give away their power just to make a quick buck. We ladies don't know just how powerful we really are if we choose to be. We own sex, that is ours by nature. To just give into men's primal urges we are not only hurting ourselves, but men as well. Not to mention the path we are blindly paving the way for the future generation. I believe some women truly find it empowering, so whatever, it is what it is I suppose. I wont encourage it, but I will not shame those involved either. After all, it is the oldest profession in history :-P

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posted December 26, 2020 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VeronicaNicole:
Live & let live. I have an unbiased or neutral opinion I suppose. To be perfectly honest, it has floated through my mind a time or two as I am struggling financially like pretty much everyone else. I never made it past that thought though. I worked as an exotic dancer for a couple years, granted it is not the same thing, but it requires a level of detachment, at least in my case & ever other dancer I knew. We aren't grinding up on dudes (& the occasional chic) with the same enjoyment. The entire time my mind is going "money,money,money.." So the end game is pretty much the same in both accounts.

Point being, it is not really for me. But if guys are willing to pay women for their pics and videos, & women are cool showing off their business, I get it. Easy money & more power to them. I would however recommend they give it some thought 1st before just diving in. Weigh the consequences.

Some people really need to just get over themselves. If it bothers them, well...don't go on the site & don't buy and sell pics. Seems quite simple IMO.

I do agree with you though in that I do kind of find it sad that women are so willing to give away their power just to make a quick buck. We ladies don't know just how powerful we really are if we choose to be. We own sex, that is ours by nature. To just give into men's primal urges we are not only hurting ourselves, but men as well. Not to mention the path we are blindly paving the way for the future generation. I believe some women truly find it empowering, so whatever, it is what it is I suppose. I wont encourage it, but I will not shame those involved either. After all, it is the oldest profession in history :-P


Very much agree with you 👍 I gotta admit I have thought about it myself but I just can't do it. I know someone that is doing it and she is earning some good money over there but it started off with her thinking she just "had " to take some pics and videos of herself in little to no clothes (like men are there just to see some naked bodies haha) to now doing more than that. You gotta constantly bring something or they'll unsubscribe which is why she started doing more.

I tried to give her a heads up about it but she really thought it was as simple as just taking some pics or vids of herself in little to no clothes. I think a lot of those girls think in the same way but when their there they realize soon that they gotta do more to keep it going. I know my friend is kinda ashamed by what she is doing but tries to convince herself its not a "biggie" and that it says more about her subscribers than it does her and I can also tell she thinks its exhausting constantly having to bring something.

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posted December 26, 2020 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 26, 2020 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I might recommend this site to the creeps that have been hitting on me a lot more lately since the bars and such have been shut down.

I think in some ways it's good. It prevents actual physical contact (and violence) among many other problems, so in addition to help preventing the spread of Covid, it's about as safe as it can get. And a lot less disturbing than many other services out there, online and off, the use of spycams in motel rooms to sell the footage, etc. There are certainly worse ways to get ahead.

And here in the gritty real world rather than the ideal world that does not actually exist, I'm sure it's keeping some housed until they can find work later (hopefully using this site won't restrict their job prospects, always stupid of society to disapprove of sex workers but refuse to give them a chance to turn their life around, but then if the disapproval was real then I doubt sex work would actually be a thing). People can live ideal lives when we live in an ideal world (and trying to create an ideal world by living an ideal life is typically just spitting in the wind), but as it stands now, such ideals are a luxury many can't afford. And though I'm sure some could find a harder road that leads to the same or better end results, that won't be true of all of them (and I'm sure some can't use this site to make money either because of other issues, like looks).

What I worry more about is the addiction to likes and social approval. The desire for clicks and all that actually trigger responses in the brain which can be counterproductive to happiness (smoking pot to get by is probably less damaging). This is regardless to whether there's an erotic aspect to it or not (and can afflict Puritans as well).

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posted December 26, 2020 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a friend who is a sex worker, so she talks about this kind of thing a lot. It isnít my thing, but Iím supportive.

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posted December 29, 2020 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Welcome!

TY ☺️

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posted December 29, 2020 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pixiejane as always you put so much thought into your answers TY so much I appreciate them 👍 and Teasel TY too. I`m similar to you in a way but I wouldn't say I`m `supportive` of it but she's welcome to talk about it around me and I`m not going to try to stop her from doing it even if I think its a bad idea. Its her other job I`m thinking about that if they found out she might lose her job there and I don't think she realizes that and she has her "onlyfans" link in her IG bio where all her friends and people that know her in real life are.

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posted December 30, 2020 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I admit, I'm clueless.

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posted July 19, 2021 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Iím still supportive, itís none of my business, but Iíve just seen another young woman talking about taking nude pics, to raise money, and I feel sad that this is always the quickest way for a woman to make money: to either sell nude or sexy pics, or have sex with someone.

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posted July 19, 2021 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I admit, I'm clueless.

Only fans is like a private subscription service for influencers, streamers, or people who want to make more money by selling things like nude pictures - anything sexual. It doesnít have to be, but thatís what the intent is behind it. I remember seeing complaints about one young woman, on Twitter, because she never gave them the Ďbig revealĒ they were looking for. These are also the same men who will complain about women getting by with their looks. Itís like patreon for sex work.

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posted July 19, 2021 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's just another socially engineered way for women to have even more sexual power. The elites really want low birthrates and it seems to be working. Average guys like myself can't even get a below average woman these days.

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posted July 19, 2021 05:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
Only fans is like a private subscription service for influencers, streamers, or people who want to make more money by selling things like nude pictures - anything sexual. It doesnít have to be, but thatís what the intent is behind it. I remember seeing complaints about one young woman, on Twitter, because she never gave them the Ďbig revealĒ they were looking for. These are also the same men who will complain about women getting by with their looks. Itís like patreon for sex work.


lol@Teasel - thank you for catching me up to the gist. No wonder why I'm clueless.

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posted July 19, 2021 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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It's just another socially engineered way for women to have even more sexual power. The elites really want low birthrates and it seems to be working. Average guys like myself can't even get a below average woman these days.

No, it isnít.

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posted July 19, 2021 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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lol@Teasel - thank you for catching me up to the gist. No wonder why I'm clueless.

Youíre welcome.

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posted July 19, 2021 07:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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No, it isnít.

Yes it is. It's women using their sexual power to the fullest.

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posted July 19, 2021 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Iím still supportive, itís none of my business, but Iíve just seen another young woman talking about taking nude pics, to raise money, and I feel sad that this is always the quickest way for a woman to make money: to either sell nude or sexy pics, or have sex with someone.

Poor, poor women. They get to make a ton of money by sending nude photos and videos.

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posted July 19, 2021 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Poor, poor women. They get to make a ton of money by sending nude photos and videos.


I've received a lot of attention because of my body, since I was around the age of ten/eleven, when I developed early. It didn't give me high self-esteem. I covered myself up all the more.

Having to get naked, to make money? That sucks... and if a woman is doing it happily? She shouldn't be attacked by men who are jealous of that fact, when they also seem to be obsessed with sex, and these women's bodies.

Also, there are sex-traffickers out there, like Ghislaine Maxwell, who used that obsession with young girls and the sick urges of rapists, to capitalize on that. I have a friend who was a prostitute, years ago, when she was desperate for money. She didn't recommend it. It wasn't enjoyable. I loathe it when men even "joke" about a woman having sex with them, in exchange for help with something. It doesn't happen nearly so often now, but it used to.

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posted July 19, 2021 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Yes it is. It's women using their sexual power to the fullest.

When you put it that way, I'm all for it.

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posted July 19, 2021 09:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I've received a lot of attention because of my body, since I was around the age of ten/eleven, when I developed early. It didn't give me high self-esteem. I covered myself up all the more.

Having to get naked, to make money? That sucks... and if a woman is doing it happily? She shouldn't be attacked by men who are jealous of that fact, when they also seem to be obsessed with sex, and these women's bodies.

Also, there are sex-traffickers out there, like Ghislaine Maxwell, who used that obsession with young girls and the sick urges of rapists, to capitalize on that. I have a friend who was a prostitute, years ago, when she was desperate for money. She didn't recommend it. It wasn't enjoyable. I loathe it when men even "joke" about a woman having sex with them, in exchange for help with something. It doesn't happen nearly so often now, but it used to.


Teasel, I hate you. I really do. And posts like this are why. You are so manipulative. We weren't even discussing sex trafficking. We were discussing adult women who exploit lonely men for money. To me, that is despicable. And sorry, I don't feel sorry for women who can make a few hundred dollars by showing off their private parts. I certainly don't have that option to make cash.

That's not attacking women. That's just me giving my honest opinion. Of course you would twist it that way because you are an extremely manipulative person like most women.


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posted July 19, 2021 09:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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When you put it that way, I'm all for it.

Of course you are. You are a man-hating feminist.

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posted July 19, 2021 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Of course you are. You are a man-hating feminist.

No, I'm not, but thanks for finally being honest in the above post.

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posted July 19, 2021 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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She shouldn't be attacked by men who are jealous of that fact, when they also seem to be obsessed with sex, and these women's bodies.




Teasel,
The only reason I replied was because it really rubbed me the wrong way that you were making these women out to be victims. They could get real jobs like everyone else. So don't give me that nonsense

How about having empathy for me? I'm extremely lonely and nobody cares about me. My mom's dead and nobody loves me in this cold and miserable world. Since mom died, I don't get any hugs or affection. I have nobody. I'm completely alone. And your entire gender has rejected me and treated me like shite my whole adult life because I'm not handsome enough. So please forgive me if I don't feel sorry for women who have the power to make money that way. Women don't have any empathy for me and my pain and I damm sure don't have empathy for their first world problems.

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posted July 19, 2021 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Teasel, I hate you. I really do. And posts like this are why. You are so manipulative. We weren't even discussing sex trafficking. We were discussing adult women who exploit lonely men for money. To me, that is despicable. And sorry, I don't feel sorry for women who can make a few hundred dollars by showing off their private parts. I certainly don't have that option to make cash.

That's not attacking women. That's just me giving my honest opinion. Of course you would twist it that way because you are an extremely manipulative person like most women.


No, we weren't. They don't exploit men at all. Men make the decision to pay these women, to see their photographs and/or videos. But I also understand how you're feeling, in a way. I once commiserated with men like you, and they told me that I couldn't possibly understand. It didn't matter that I had my own experiences to go by - I had boobs, and men lusted after me, so how could I possibly understand?

I only hate men who actually deserve it. One would be my BIL, who hit on me several times, destroyed my relationship with my sister, destroyed my family, and encouraged my sister to abuse me on his behalf. I was almost killed by another man. A third was a sociopath who almost destroyed my mother. A fourth one raped her. They all deserve it. I don't hate you, but sure, go ahead and lash out.

You don't think I'm lonely? Most of the time, I don't want to be alive.

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posted July 19, 2021 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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No, we weren't. They don't exploit men at all. Men make the decision to pay these women, to see their photographs and/or videos. But I also understand how you're feeling, in a way. I once commiserated with men like you, and they told me that I couldn't possibly understand. It didn't matter that I had my own experiences to go by - I had boobs, and men lusted after me, so how could I possibly understand?

I only hate men who actually deserve it. One would be my BIL, who hit on me several times, destroyed my relationship with my sister, destroyed my family, and encouraged my sister to abuse me on his behalf. I was almost killed by another man. A third was a sociopath who almost destroyed my mother. A fourth one raped her. They all deserve it. I don't hate you, but sure, go ahead and lash out.

You don't think I'm lonely? Most of the time, I don't want to be alive.



Ummm.... Imagine having a strong sex drive and a need to connect and being completely ignored by every single person you have ever desired for over a decade. Imagine feeling lonely and worthless and hating yourself because you feel so bad that no woman ever sees any value in you. And then you get home from the liquor store because you drink every night to fight the loneliness and you log onto Lindaland only to see women complaining about how awful it is to be able to get money from guys by sending nude pics.

Can you sort of see how that might make lonely men angry? There are multiple layers to the issue that make it offensive, but that is the main thing.

It's like one of my friends. He is very wealthy and got a huge inheritance from his father when he died. He was complaining to me about all the headaches he was dealing with when he was handling his dad's estate, and I just rolled my eyes and didn't express my annoyance.

^ And that is exactly how women come across to me when they complain about being able to make money by selling nudes.

I'm ugly, I'll be alone my whole life, and I have a ton of student debt. Fun times.

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