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aquaguy91
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posted November 01, 2022 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just know it's very frustrating for me because I have different values than everyone else apparently. Women are often contradictory and play games with me when it comes to sex. They act interested and will talk with me in a certain way or even send photos but then they will pull all that away and start all the talk about "taking it slow." Um, no. You were giving me a flat out different vibe yesterday and now you are pulling the rug out from under my feet and trying to make me out to be a bad person when I'm just being the same person you said was hot yesterday. That's my experience with women today in a nutshell. The thing is I let women know the deal. I let them know I like to #### but that I also bring loyalty and commitment. I'm a Taurus moon. I have Saturn conjunct my 7th house ruler. I have Venus-Pluto. Oh, and I'm mostly fixed. What do you think? My whole vibe is solid and consistent. I offer good sex and commitment and connection without games or limits. It seems like women are too small and mediocre for something real. That's how it seems to me

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posted November 02, 2022 04:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stawr💙
Sad that life has been and is not
being kind to you😭💙😭
Thank you for the support and
understanding 🥰
Very exhausted experiencing
partial.aralysis on top of
everything else so not reply
back in full at this time💙

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posted November 02, 2022 05:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
aquaguy91 🤬
Stop it with the crap already that
ALL women are not into sex and
play games🤬
That is a blatantly clear rub
it in my face hard
humongous insult to me
to say the least🤬
Without going into what most people
and that means
most men too👽
I have been far more sexually
adventurous and interested in sexual activities than anyone I have met
except for my husband☺️😎🥰
I lost count of all my sexual partners
long ago and believe me most were
positive experiences and mutually
satisfying😎💋

Yet you toss me rudely and brutally
into the sex is dirty and nasty
sex hating creepy
women who hate men and sex haters group 🤬

I love sex and know no one including
most men👽
who except for my husband🥰💋
no other man was as
interested in sex as myself👽👽👽
Lots of well meant interest but
too much slam bam thank you ma'am and
jealousy crazies ugh🤬
And also men who called me **** and
Hwwhore and such because I was more
sexually motivated than they were🤬

I love sex and now with the freaking cancer my sex life is on hold👽😭😭😭

It drives me insane to say the least👽😭🤬


Stop it already with the
ALL
women hate sex etcetera crap aquaguy91 🤬

I am not one of those women but
you are most definitely ******* me
off with the constant insult🤬🤬🤬

I am a sexual sex lover not a sex hater
why do you ignore what I have said about loving sex etcetera 👽⁉️🤬

I should not even try helping you
because you do not hear me you only
continue to dump me in the bad
women trash bin of sex haters 🤬🤬🤬

Yeah I am angry and tired and
tired of trying to reason
with you at least for now.
Tired of trying to help you until
you respectfully admit that
I am not the women you detest🤬
Can you fraking do that aquaguy91
or are you that damn stupid and blinded
by your damn ego and
self hatred that you totally ignored
what I have said about loving sex
repeatedly⁉️🤬

I have enough crap on my plate
and you are not paying attention
nor admitting that I am not a sex
hater game playing bittcch woman🤬

Yeppers I am very upset so tallyho
for now and get some help because
it is obvious you do not even try
to pay attention to folks trying
to help you here🤬👽

Additionally if looks and age and
such matter more to you than a
person being a perfect match for
you otherwise if they do not fit your criteria of physical perfection🤬
Then go crawl under a rock because
you just put yourself in the
damn category of being an
egotistical narrow-minded bigoted
disgusting hater of all women who
are not young and beautiful and in
perfect shape to fit your criteria🤬🤬🤬

Geeeez I am too angry better
go for now🤬🤬🤬

Yeah mean old ugly disabled fat me
yelling at the guy who wants perfection
from a woman but will never offer
any woman that from himself👽

Frakeoff🤬

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posted November 02, 2022 06:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Stawr:
Hey I am deeply sorry.
I stopped having faith in God in 2007. Coming from a religious family that wants to keep the family pedo a secret will do that I suppose. Plus not having my prayers answered, even if they were for really dumb things.

I know the feeling of trying just to have more shhh hit the fan. Gratitude journal, candles, gems, supplements, eating healthy, cardio, essential oils, running, taking walks. Life pushing me beyond my breaking point anyways.

I remember that you are born in 1991 yes? Uranus is probably opposing your Pluto. It certainly is for me…I wonder if I am past the hump yet. No I don’t think so.
Also Chiron squaring our generational Capricorn stellium really sucks.

It breaks my heart when a grown man doesn’t have his mom anymore. Not having her to fall back on. Her advice. Her comfort.
My mom and I have had our issues, but for the most part she’s a rock.

I lost my paternal grandma in 2019. We were close. She lived a long life. But I still cry when I think about her sometimes.


I know this was reply to aquaguy91
but I wanted to make a few comments
because
I relate to much of what you post❤️😭
My family especially mother are rabid Christian fanatics and as to
pedophiles 🤬🤬
in my case it was
my mother the sexual molester 🤬😭
up to my best agb age 10 or so 🤬😭
and her brother my rapist at age 9 🤬😭
What good was she or is she⁉️🤬
My brothers just adore her ugh🤬👽
Why⁉️👽🤬
Oh that's right all are also disgusting homophobes and Christian loonies
like her🤬👽

Oh yeah all the new age crap that
is supposed to help is for the most
part pure marketing
hype bulficnhshits👽🤬

Yeah we t pushed me to the brink of
losing it too😭🤬

Glad you have a good thing with
your mother❤️

I thought I had found God in a
way about 2007
also but I was wrong and to hells
with it all🤬
Gone back to being the
antitheist where I should
have stayed😎
Prayers are worthless at
best and possibly dangerous because
if there are entities out there
they are not interested in our
happiness or for our good benefit👽
In fact it has appeared to me when
both as a child and as an adult
that prayer has been a very
negative thing for me👽👽👽
I believe it can attract busy body
entities who were control freaks
perhaps in life and or just
plain evil👽
Not sure about any of it but no damn
gods or damn prayers for me👽🤬

It breaks my heart that so many
young folks are struggling with
their lives so hard😭

Life was not easy for folks
like me either growing up in the
primitive but drastically changing
world of the 1950s,1960s,1970s,
1980s,and so forth👽
But your times seem harder because
of everything these days and as
good as the internet and cell
phones are and convenient,
it is I believe
hurting relationships too
in some ways
more than when neither existed👽
People cannot and do not take or
find the time to try and connect
in their fast paced lives👽
Lack of patience seems sadly much
too common and the crowded social
settings do not make for positive
stages for connecting with folks
as unique individuals👽

I do not envy you younger folks😭💙

Please do not be offended
that I refer
to you and others here as
young folks,
but I shall turn
68 years old this
Thursday November 3rd.
So yeah I am old it seems 👽
Feels super surreal 👽👽👽
Despite all my woes
I do not
feel that old inside😎

You are a kind and caring soul
and it is very obvious that you are
sincere and genuinely want to
help others🥰

Love and hugs and good fortune
to you dear Stawr🥰🌈💙

PS.
I have lost to death pretty much
all the folks I have loved 😭😭😭
That happens at my age especially
being that so many were much
older than myself,
so they are long gone😭😭😭
Grandparents, friends, and yes
I still cry over them from
time to time😭😭😭
Note; one would be like 152
years old were he still alive😎💙
Death sucks😭👽
and I am struggling to
avoid it for as long as reasonably
possible and intend to beat these
cancers etcetera 💙

One thing I have learned as I
grow older and sicker is to
snatch every good moment you
can from life no matter how hard
it is to find such good in life
and savor every good moment and
appreciate the little things that
are pleasant, we all have such
if we think about it😎
Like can you see or walk or not be
a mess of health issues like me⁉️
Then consider being happy that you
are not on my stinking bike boat of
physical and financial horrors👽😭

Okay I am really too exhausted to
be trying so much but the severe
pain alternating next to the partial paralysis is making rest and
sleep nigh onto impossible😭😭😭👽

Take care dear Stawr💙🥰


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posted November 02, 2022 07:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Lexx,
Thanks for the kind words. I'm not shallow and I'm not unreasonable, but attraction is mandatory. For a man, it's especially important because things don't function properly unless the attraction is there. It's just a reality.

Thank you for thanking me but you are so
damn screwed up on your opinion
that I am near to a loss of what
to say about it👽👽👽
Not all men are pigs and demand
perfection of a woman 🤬
You are sorely messed up if you
sincerely believe that only absolute
perfection and all in the appearance
of a woman is the only criteria
for you to become interested and
or sexually aroused👽👽👽
Honey the realty is that for real
genuine folks looks never matter😎
I never bothered with looks and dated
fellows most would avoid like 500 pound dudes, really old dudes, amputees, paraplegics, blind, and
severely scarred,
and pretty much most things that
would put a person off who thinks
like you do that absolute perfection
is a criteria or not going to even
try anyone who does not fit your damn criteria👽🤬
I have been bothe anorexicaly deathly
thin and also up to 425 pounds in
my life to date👽
I also until I was in my mid
twenties wore glasses that were
literally 3/4 inch thick👽

I stuttered too👽

I was voted the ugliest legs
in high school👽😭
My birth defects were the cause of their
being too short etcetera 😭

I only had one man complain about
my body and that was my first
ex husband🤬👽
He hated it that my legs were
too short to wrap around him
during sex 👽😭
He insulted me for having a
tiny mouth that could not
easily accommodate his huge penis👽🤬
I could but not having it banged into
my mouth without giving me time to
work it in and all🤬
Just slam bam ook okk gotta get
off greed on his part🤬

So go ahead be like all the bigoted
shallow minded men who
are pigs and demand perfection
because they cannot ever
get off sexually
if the
woman is not exactly how they want
her to look or frakeoff to her
Ugh 👽🤬

Just wow dude wow 👽🤬👽🤬
That is shallow seriously what you
said very shallow is not true of
all.men only the egotistical
shallow pigs🤬


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posted November 02, 2022 11:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LEXX:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[b]Lexx,
Thanks for the kind words. I'm not shallow and I'm not unreasonable, but attraction is mandatory. For a man, it's especially important because things don't function properly unless the attraction is there. It's just a reality.

Thank you for thanking me but you are so
damn screwed up on your opinion
that I am near to a loss of what
to say about it👽👽👽
Not all men are pigs and demand
perfection of a woman 🤬
You are sorely messed up if you
sincerely believe that only absolute
perfection and all in the appearance
of a woman is the only criteria
for you to become interested and
or sexually aroused👽👽👽
Honey the realty is that for real
genuine folks looks never matter😎
I never bothered with looks and dated
fellows most would avoid like 500 pound dudes, really old dudes, amputees, paraplegics, blind, and
severely scarred,
and pretty much most things that
would put a person off who thinks
like you do that absolute perfection
is a criteria or not going to even
try anyone who does not fit your damn criteria👽🤬
I have been bothe anorexicaly deathly
thin and also up to 425 pounds in
my life to date👽
I also until I was in my mid
twenties wore glasses that were
literally 3/4 inch thick👽

I stuttered too👽

I was voted the ugliest legs
in high school👽😭
My birth defects were the cause of their
being too short etcetera 😭

I only had one man complain about
my body and that was my first
ex husband🤬👽
He hated it that my legs were
too short to wrap around him
during sex 👽😭
He insulted me for having a
tiny mouth that could not
easily accommodate his huge penis👽🤬
I could but not having it banged into
my mouth without giving me time to
work it in and all🤬
Just slam bam ook okk gotta get
off greed on his part🤬

So go ahead be like all the bigoted
shallow minded men who
are pigs and demand perfection
because they cannot ever
get off sexually
if the
woman is not exactly how they want
her to look or frakeoff to her
Ugh 👽🤬

Just wow dude wow 👽🤬👽🤬
That is shallow seriously what you
said very shallow is not true of
all.men only the egotistical
shallow pigs🤬

[/B][/QUOTE]
Wow,
Where did that reaction come from? I didn't say a single word about looks. I simply said attraction is attraction is attraction. And it has to be present for a man to even get an erection. I've tried to have sex with women I wasn't attracted to and it didn't work and thus I didn't get off. Again, that's not just about looks but looks are a part of it for sure. Attraction, for me, is equal parts physical attraction and equal parts energy. I've been attracted to very overweight women because the energy was there and they wore a certain perfume and they did overtly sensual things like push their **** into me when they talked to me in noisy environments. I've been attracted to all kinds of women for all types of women. My point is my "type" is very inclusive for a variety of different types of women. I'm Aquarius Venus for crying out loud. But that doesn't mean everyone is my type. For example, my body may absolutely light up when I come close to a woman but if I get the sense she isn't sensual and has sexual hangups my interest will dry up fast. I was eating out with my brother and dad recently and they jokingly criticized me for picking a table with an unattractive waitress and they pointed to a "hot" one that was tending a table nearby. I looked at her and saw a very conventionally attractive young woman with a conventionally attractive body and I felt nothing because I hadn't interacted with her and had no idea what she was like as a person. With my poor vision I couldn't even get a sense of whether her eyes were kind or not so I didn't feel any attraction for her. But I did feel attraction for our ordinary looking waitress with glasses because she was sweet and I felt chemistry when we made eye contact. But the hilarious thing is my dad and brother, who both get treated way better by women, are way more shallow than me but you are calling me out for being shallow. Life is funny. Lmao 😂😆😂

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posted November 02, 2022 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lexx,
I think I told you about a pretty young woman who I made eye contact with in a club a month or so ago who keeps "appearing" right by my desk at work when I'm there. It's clear she is trying to interact with me in some way because she always initiates eye contact but never smiles. She is very beautiful physically but I'll never talk to her because her energy is weird to me and I can't make out what she wants from me if she wants anything at all. The whole thing is bizarre in my opinion

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posted November 03, 2022 05:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
:
Lexx,
Thanks for the kind words.

You are welcome 😎
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
: I am not shallow and I'm not unreasonable, but attraction is mandatory. For a man, it's especially important because things don't function properly unless the attraction is there. It's just a reality.
That is ridiculous aquaguy91 👽🤣
Men and women get aroused
and can function without any
attraction to another person 🤣
Erections and female arousal happen
even in sleep and for many
other reasons 😎
However the presence of
another person
to arouse one is
not required and
definitely not mandatory🤣
You need to see a doctor about
this issue because you
should be able to get an
erection by your own hand and or
using your imagination 🤣
Unless you find the other person
is a total disgusting turn off,
Just having contact with a man's
penis should cause an erection🤣
The penis has no mind only
very sensitive easily aroused
nerves🤣
Geez dude men even often orgasm
or at least get and erection
from various medical examinations
that involve the prostate and
often the doctor is male
and the patient does not need
to be gay to become aroused🤣
How about making the first move
to communicate with the ladies⁉️💋
Just freaking open your mouth
and at least say hello and see
where it goes or not😎
Like the woman who weirded you
out because she made eye contact
but does not say anything👽
Why didn't you just say hello
to her and give her a big friendly approachable emile⁉️😎💋
I have done that staring thing
not speaking eye contact thing
to folks because I was afraid and
did not know what to say and
afraid of rejection👽
What is the worse thing
that could happen if you had bothered to
say hello to her⁉️
Just make the first moves
and see if anything comes
of it🤣
Sounds like you get many
chances to make the first
move but for some strange
reason you just sit there
and say nothing👽
The waitress you said was
sweet😎💋
Did you just sit there or
did you talk to her and
did you ask her out or
did you just sit
there mute⁉️👽
A casual hello and
thanking her for
waiting
on you would have
been very
appreciated by her
I am sure💋🥰
Take more chances aquaguy91
and start just saying
hello to the ladies and try
engaging them in simple
non committal casual
conversation and see where
it goes from there😎
Women can be hesitant
or shy or afraid to make
even a simple small
first move😢
Never assume the women are
ignoring you especially when
you say nothing to them👽
Compliment them if you like
their hair or clothes or any
small thing😎
You could make their day😎
Additionally saying such
things to a woman if you
notice that she seems
tired like a waitress
often is,
say you look tired⁉️
Rough day⁉️
Sound sympathetic,😎💙
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I'm Aquarius Venus for crying out loud. But that doesn't mean everyone is my type. For example, my body may absolutely light up when I come close to a woman but if I get the sense she isn't sensual and has sexual hangups my interest will dry up fast.
that is strange👽👽👽
You go all dry right off without
even trying to have a conversation
That is a big load of assumption
that she is not sexual aquaguy91 😳👽
Seriously why should she be oozing
sexual energy⁉️👽👽😳
She might be having menstrual
cramps or tired or just not
feeling sexuall at that moment💙
Why should any woman automatically
radiate sexual energy energy just
because you look at her⁉️
😳👽
Never assume a woman's lack of
radiating sexual energy put to
you has anything
to do with you😳💙👽
People are not always feeling
sexual but that does not mean
they are prudes or hate sex 👽👽👽
You assume too much👽
Sounds like you rarely give
any women a chance👽👽👽
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I was eating out with my brother and dad recently and they jokingly criticized me for picking a table with an unattractive waitress and they pointed to a "hot" one that was tending a table nearby
Your dad and brother sound like an old jerks pig guys 🤬🤬👽
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I looked at her and saw a very conventionally attractive young woman with a conventionally attractive body and I felt nothing because I hadn't interacted with her and had no idea what she was like as a person. With my poor vision I couldn't even get a sense of whether her eyes were kind or not so I didn't feel any attraction for her.
ylYet you never bothered to to say hello or see if there were anything there did you⁉️👽
Not her fault that you
never said anything to her 👽
As to you having bad eyesight get
glasses dude🤣
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:But I did feel attraction for our ordinary looking waitress with glasses because she was sweet and I felt chemistry when we made eye contact.
Yet again you said nothing to her even after the eye contact⁉️👽
Seriously you did not try to engage her in conversation⁉️👽
Why not⁉️⁉️⁉️
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
But the hilarious thing is my dad and brother, who both get treated way better by women, are way more shallow than me but you are calling me out for being shallow. Life is funny. Lmao 😂😆😂


sounds again that your brother and dad are both chauvinistic idiots and man pigs🤬
You explained that you are not totally hung up on appearances😎
However you seem to miss and enen throw away many opportunities to engage women in conversation because you assume that
they are not sexual or might reject you👽💙
Again a woman has many reasons to not be radiating sexual energy at the moment that you are wanting to sense that from them 💙👽
It might just be her mood or health that day and has absolutely nothing to do with you💙
Must go to hospital in a little while so going from here for now💙

It is also
My 68th. Birthday today😎🥳🎂🎈

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posted November 03, 2022 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lexx,
I don't feel comfortable talking to her because her energy is conflicted and I can't read her or her intentions. Keep in mind that a lot of young women today play games just like that. Heck, there was one woman on this very forum who said she used to make eye contact with men just to see if they would try talking to her.

And I didn't mean that I wouldn't be interested in a woman if she isn't overtly sexual in the first conversation. It's all about energy. It's all about warmth. It's all about how they interact and look at me and touch my arm etc.

In the case of this woman, I actually find her very attractive, but the problem is I can't understand her so there's no hope for things to even get off the ground.

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posted November 03, 2022 09:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lexxigramer:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[b] :
Lexx,
Thanks for the kind words.

You are welcome 😎
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
: I am not shallow and I'm not unreasonable, but attraction is mandatory. For a man, it's especially important because things don't function properly unless the attraction is there. It's just a reality.
That is ridiculous aquaguy91 👽🤣
Men and women get aroused
and can function without any
attraction to another person 🤣
Erections and female arousal happen
even in sleep and for many
other reasons 😎
However the presence of
another person
to arouse one is
not required and
definitely not mandatory🤣
You need to see a doctor about
this issue because you
should be able to get an
erection by your own hand and or
using your imagination 🤣
Unless you find the other person
is a total disgusting turn off,
Just having contact with a man's
penis should cause an erection🤣
The penis has no mind only
very sensitive easily aroused
nerves🤣
Geez dude men even often orgasm
or at least get and erection
from various medical examinations
that involve the prostate and
often the doctor is male
and the patient does not need
to be gay to become aroused🤣
How about making the first move
to communicate with the ladies⁉️💋
Just freaking open your mouth
and at least say hello and see
where it goes or not😎
Like the woman who weirded you
out because she made eye contact
but does not say anything👽
Why didn't you just say hello
to her and give her a big friendly approachable emile⁉️😎💋
I have done that staring thing
not speaking eye contact thing
to folks because I was afraid and
did not know what to say and
afraid of rejection👽
What is the worse thing
that could happen if you had bothered to
say hello to her⁉️
Just make the first moves
and see if anything comes
of it🤣
Sounds like you get many
chances to make the first
move but for some strange
reason you just sit there
and say nothing👽
The waitress you said was
sweet😎💋
Did you just sit there or
did you talk to her and
did you ask her out or
did you just sit
there mute⁉️👽
A casual hello and
thanking her for
waiting
on you would have
been very
appreciated by her
I am sure💋🥰
Take more chances aquaguy91
and start just saying
hello to the ladies and try
engaging them in simple
non committal casual
conversation and see where
it goes from there😎
Women can be hesitant
or shy or afraid to make
even a simple small
first move😢
Never assume the women are
ignoring you especially when
you say nothing to them👽
Compliment them if you like
their hair or clothes or any
small thing😎
You could make their day😎
Additionally saying such
things to a woman if you
notice that she seems
tired like a waitress
often is,
say you look tired⁉️
Rough day⁉️
Sound sympathetic,😎💙
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I'm Aquarius Venus for crying out loud. But that doesn't mean everyone is my type. For example, my body may absolutely light up when I come close to a woman but if I get the sense she isn't sensual and has sexual hangups my interest will dry up fast.
that is strange👽👽👽
You go all dry right off without
even trying to have a conversation
That is a big load of assumption
that she is not sexual aquaguy91 😳👽
Seriously why should she be oozing
sexual energy⁉️👽👽😳
She might be having menstrual
cramps or tired or just not
feeling sexuall at that moment💙
Why should any woman automatically
radiate sexual energy energy just
because you look at her⁉️
😳👽
Never assume a woman's lack of
radiating sexual energy put to
you has anything
to do with you😳💙👽
People are not always feeling
sexual but that does not mean
they are prudes or hate sex 👽👽👽
You assume too much👽
Sounds like you rarely give
any women a chance👽👽👽
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I was eating out with my brother and dad recently and they jokingly criticized me for picking a table with an unattractive waitress and they pointed to a "hot" one that was tending a table nearby
Your dad and brother sound like an old jerks pig guys 🤬🤬👽
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I looked at her and saw a very conventionally attractive young woman with a conventionally attractive body and I felt nothing because I hadn't interacted with her and had no idea what she was like as a person. With my poor vision I couldn't even get a sense of whether her eyes were kind or not so I didn't feel any attraction for her.
ylYet you never bothered to to say hello or see if there were anything there did you⁉️👽
Not her fault that you
never said anything to her 👽
As to you having bad eyesight get
glasses dude🤣
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:But I did feel attraction for our ordinary looking waitress with glasses because she was sweet and I felt chemistry when we made eye contact.
Yet again you said nothing to her even after the eye contact⁉️👽
Seriously you did not try to engage her in conversation⁉️👽
Why not⁉️⁉️⁉️
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
But the hilarious thing is my dad and brother, who both get treated way better by women, are way more shallow than me but you are calling me out for being shallow. Life is funny. Lmao 😂😆😂


sounds again that your brother and dad are both chauvinistic idiots and man pigs🤬
You explained that you are not totally hung up on appearances😎
However you seem to miss and enen throw away many opportunities to engage women in conversation because you assume that
they are not sexual or might reject you👽💙
Again a woman has many reasons to not be radiating sexual energy at the moment that you are wanting to sense that from them 💙👽
It might just be her mood or health that day and has absolutely nothing to do with you💙
Must go to hospital in a little while so going from here for now💙

It is also
My 68th. Birthday today😎🥳🎂🎈

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Happy Birthday Lexx 🎂🎉🎂🎉! Hope you have a nice day!

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posted November 03, 2022 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
originally posted by aquaguy91:
Happy Birthday Lexx 🎂🎉🎂🎉! Hope you have a nice day!
Bad horrible birthday ever 👽😭
I had to go to chemothetapy
this morning on my 68th. birthday
👽😳
Not a happy thing for birthdays👽
Whilst there my younger sister
died literally today on my birthday
from bone cancer after she had just
survived breast cancers👽😭

So not up to giving much of a
damn about other people's life
dramas at this time ugh👽👽👽
I am saying one thing to you
before signing off for do not
know how long,😳

Talk to that woman damnit 🤬
Wtf aquaguy91 👽👽👽
You are giving up before you
even know if anything good
could happen👽👽👽🤬
Freaking stupid stupid chicken
shite of you to not even try🤬👽
You can never know what her
intentions are if you do not
talk to her you freaking fool🤬
Go ahead waste your life not
making at least some efforts
to try and communicate 🤬👽
Talk to her already😳
What could she possibly do to
you that could be so
freaking horrible⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️👽

I am done trying with you for
the time being
👽
Despite all my serious woes
I am trying my very best to
live my life 😎
just as I watch you going above and
beyond working to
destroy your life🤬🤬🤬
You do not want happiness
it seems nor do you seem
to even want to try to find it👽👽👽
Disgusting ugh 🤬

quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Lexx,
I don't feel comfortable talking to her because her energy is conflicted and I can't read her or her intentions. Keep in mind that a lot of young women today play games just like that. Heck, there was one woman on this very forum who said she used to make eye contact with men just to see if they would try talking to her.

And I didn't mean that I wouldn't be interested in a woman if she isn't overtly sexual in the first conversation. It's all about energy. It's all about warmth. It's all about how they interact and look at me and touch my arm etc.

In the case of this woman, I actually find her very attractive, but the problem is I can't understand her so there's no hope for things to even get off the ground.


Again freaking
beyond stupid aquaguy91 👽🤬
You have given up without even
trying to take a leap and give
conversation a try 👽🤬
Creepy stupid cowardly ugh👽🤬
See my replies before quoting you
here at end of this year reply👽

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posted November 03, 2022 05:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry to hear about your sister Lexx. Hugs.

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posted November 03, 2022 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lexx,
For one thing she puts herself in front of me when I'm at work. That alone complicates things and makes it a delicate situation. And like I said, her energy feels off to me. She doesn't smile at all and her energy doesn't feel inviting, so there are a lot of mixed signals going on.

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posted November 04, 2022 01:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Lexx,
For one thing she puts herself in front of me when I'm at work. That alone complicates things and makes it a delicate situation. And like I said, her energy feels off to me. She doesn't smile at all and her energy doesn't feel inviting, so there are a lot of mixed signals going on.

Well that seems rather super creepy strange 👽👽👽
Is there any other co-worker,
another guy perhaps, whom you may
ask if he knows why she stares
at you and doesn't smile⁉️👽😳
Or try this tact;
Ask her if there is a problem ⁉️😳
or ask her if you are bothering
her in any way⁉️😳
Or ask her if there is anything
you can do for her⁉️
Or ask her a question or comment
about the job you both do⁉️
Break the ice with something or
you will not know what the heck
is going on or not👽😳

Or this idea;
Ask you boss if they know why she
states at you without speaking👽😳

She might be a
nutter 👽or just not
socially mature💙

Does she stare blankly
and how long⁉️👽
Does she glare or show no emotion⁉️👽

Seriously you must find out why she
is doing this 👽⁉️

She could be dangerous👽😳

Do you stare at her when she does this ⁉️⁉️⁉️👽😳

Just smile at her next time and
look away
or perhaps say
"hope you are having
a good day"
and be sure to speak her name like;
Hope you are having a good day Lisa😎
and then look away and go back
to what you were doing before she
got in your face😳💙

Seriously what is the worse thing
that could happen⁉️😳💙🤣

I am extremely curious about what
she is doing and why👽😳🤣

Or as you leave work
call put to her casually
and say such as these things
depending on whether it is
the workday end
or the end of the he work week😎

Have a great evening😎
Or
Have a great weekend😎

Or if a holiday coming up;

Happy holidays😎
Merry Christmas🎅

Or whatever greeting or salutation
would be casually appropriate
but safe to utter😎

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posted November 04, 2022 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I'm sorry to hear about your sister Lexx. Hugs.

Thank you our for caring aquaguy91 ❤️💙

Also thank you for saying happy birthday to me😎❤️💋💞🥰

No one else said it here at all 😭😭😭👽👽👽

I feel so forgotten and like
my birthday means nothing and I am being shunned
because of cancer and all🤣😭
Folks use to wish me happy birthday
here but do not even bother to say boo
about my birthday any longer 👽😭
I am old but my birthdays are
still very important to me
especially being that
I am fighting hard to survive cancer
and hope to have many more birthdays 😳💙😎

It is like most want me to just
go away or disappear or even die👽👽👽😭

Getting old sucks 👽😭

So again thank aquaguy91
for giving me the
ONLY happy birthday greeting that
I got for my 68th. Birthday
🥰💞💋❤️😎

Blessings and love to you
aquaguy91 🥰💞❤️🌈😎

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posted November 04, 2022 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry Lexxigrammer, it feels difficult to congratulate someone when they just lost someone. I don’t think people mean anything wrong with it. It’s a day late, but still I would like to wish you a happy birthday. May there be many more. ❤️

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posted November 04, 2022 02:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Lexx,
For one thing she puts herself in front of me when I'm at work. That alone complicates things and makes it a delicate situation. And like I said, her energy feels off to me. She doesn't smile at all and her energy doesn't feel inviting, so there are a lot of mixed signals going on.

Often it takes time for people to open up. If this is someone you really like, and I mean more than just attraction, someone who could also be a friend, put in a little more effort to get to know them. Maybe tell them you really appreciate something they did for you and you would like to buy them a coffee. Yes, attraction is important but people want to be liked for who they genuinely are as well.

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posted November 04, 2022 02:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Happy belated Lexx. I'm sorry, I've been mostly away from the board, and social media.

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quote:
Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Sorry Lexxigrammer, it feels difficult to congratulate someone when they just lost someone. I don’t think people mean anything wrong with it. It’s a day late, but still I would like to wish you a happy birthday. May there be many more. ❤️
Tjank you PlutoWasHere 🥰💞😎
It was not a good day and I really
was not coping well with good reason 😭
Selfish of me to expect folks to just
jump in and say happy birthday and give sympathy too for my sister's death that weirdly happened at about the time
that I was born back in 1954👽

Thank you for the belated
happy birthday PlutoWasHere 💞🥰💋❤️😎
Greatly appreciated😎❤️
And thank you for caring😎❤️

By the way I love your username 😎❤️
What does it mean⁉️😎

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posted November 04, 2022 02:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by teasel:
Happy belated Lexx. I'm sorry, I've been mostly away from the board, and social media.
Love and blessings to you dear teasel 🥰💞❤️🌈💙
I am just being whiney and pitiful but who would not be with all that has and is going on in my world ⁉️👽😭

Thank you sincerely for the belated happy birthday wishes ❤️💞🥰💋😎

You are the first one way back
in 2005 who sent to me an ecard😎🥰
I still have it somewhere🥰😎

You and Randall are my only fb
friends too😎🥰
Many left because of a
religious persons blackballing me and more crap 🤬
Not going into that at his time 🤬

IAd far as my birthday yesterday
I was also greatly saddened
because my only
child age 41
totally ignored me on my birthday 👽😭
He is refusing to acknowledge that
I am strugglng with cancer and selfishly
shunning me because I cannot have physical
contact with him or his wife or my two grandchildren
because I am severely immunocompromised
and also am unable to take the trip
far away to visit them all👽😭
So he has pretty much disowned me😭👽
I wish him a good life but I have
to let it go that I have a family👽
I do need to in practical reality👽😭
I was in the hospital emergency room
during his first wedding and he never
forgave me for not being at his
wedding👽😭
I was too ill to travel and
he knew it and he and his fiance
put on their wedding announcements
that his stepmother and not me is
his real mother👽😭
I am proud of his accomplishments
and wish him well but must accept
that he simply is uncaring and
selfish 😭
I did not even know that I
have two grandchildren until years
after they were born👽😭
Okay enough of my hijacking
aquaguy91's thread again 💙


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posted November 04, 2022 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Often it takes time for people to open up. If this is someone you really like, and I mean more than just attraction, someone who could also be a friend, put in a little more effort to get to know them. Maybe tell them you really appreciate something they did for you and you would like to buy them a coffee. Yes, attraction is important but people want to be liked for who they genuinely are as well.
I totally agree with you 😎🥰

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posted November 04, 2022 03:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries Eagle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Happy Birthday Lexx, Best wishes for you. 🙏
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posted November 04, 2022 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay,
I think it's time for more context. So I first ran into this woman at a night club back in September. I didn't even speak to her then and she didn't speak to me, but we made very strong eye contact as we passed by each other several times. After that, I passed by her at my work less than a week later and it was undeniable that she was the same woman from the club because she had a very unique look about her. I also have a unique look and we both seemed shook up upon seeing each other randomly again like that. I suspect she remembered me because I was wearing my strong and distinct cologne both times. Any ways, ever since then she appears by my work station when I'm working. Mind you, this whole thing is playing out in a busy place in a city of half a million people, so it definitely is strange. Like I said she never smiles but she will make eye contact if I look at her.

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posted November 04, 2022 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
Happy Birthday Lexx, Best wishes for you. 🙏
🌹

Thank you muchly Aries Eagle🥰😎

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posted November 04, 2022 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Okay,
I think it's time for more context. So I first ran into this woman at a night club back in September. I didn't even speak to her then and she didn't speak to me, but we made very strong eye contact as we passed by each other several times. After that, I passed by her at my work less than a week later and it was undeniable that she was the same woman from the club because she had a very unique look about her. I also have a unique look and we both seemed shook up upon seeing each other randomly again like that. I suspect she remembered me because I was wearing my strong and distinct cologne both times. Any ways, ever since then she appears by my work station when I'm working. Mind you, this whole thing is playing out in a busy place in a city of half a million people, so it definitely is strange. Like I said she never smiles but she will make eye contact if I look at her.

say something to her 🥰💋💞❤️😎
I sincerely feel. that hoth of you are
too afraid to say anything 👽💙😭

Take it this way seriously;

quote:

It is better to regret what you do
in life
than to regret what you never did do


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