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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 01, 2022 10:11 PM
I just know it's very frustrating for me because I have different values than everyone else apparently. Women are often contradictory and play games with me when it comes to sex. They act interested and will talk with me in a certain way or even send photos but then they will pull all that away and start all the talk about "taking it slow." Um, no. You were giving me a flat out different vibe yesterday and now you are pulling the rug out from under my feet and trying to make me out to be a bad person when I'm just being the same person you said was hot yesterday. That's my experience with women today in a nutshell. The thing is I let women know the deal. I let them know I like to #### but that I also bring loyalty and commitment. I'm a Taurus moon. I have Saturn conjunct my 7th house ruler. I have Venus-Pluto. Oh, and I'm mostly fixed. What do you think? My whole vibe is solid and consistent. I offer good sex and commitment and connection without games or limits. It seems like women are too small and mediocre for something real. That's how it seems to me IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 8838 From: Here since March 24th.2005/..& Have been Lexagramming going on 2/3 of a century to date! LEXIGRAMMING.♥is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 02, 2022 04:26 AM
Stawr💙 Sad that life has been and is not being kind to you😭💙😭 Thank you for the support and understanding 🥰 Very exhausted experiencing partial.aralysis on top of everything else so not reply back in full at this time💙IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 8838 From: Here since March 24th.2005/..& Have been Lexagramming going on 2/3 of a century to date! LEXIGRAMMING.♥is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 02, 2022 05:08 AM
aquaguy91 🤬 Stop it with the crap already that ALL women are not into sex and play games🤬 That is a blatantly clear rub it in my face hard humongous insult to me to say the least🤬 Without going into what most people and that means most men too👽 I have been far more sexually adventurous and interested in sexual activities than anyone I have met except for my husband☺️😎🥰 I lost count of all my sexual partners long ago and believe me most were positive experiences and mutually satisfying😎💋Yet you toss me rudely and brutally into the sex is dirty and nasty sex hating creepy women who hate men and sex haters group 🤬 I love sex and know no one including most men👽 who except for my husband🥰💋 no other man was as interested in sex as myself👽👽👽 Lots of well meant interest but too much slam bam thank you ma'am and jealousy crazies ugh🤬 And also men who called me **** and Hwwhore and such because I was more sexually motivated than they were🤬 I love sex and now with the freaking cancer my sex life is on hold👽😭😭😭 It drives me insane to say the least👽😭🤬 Stop it already with the ALL women hate sex etcetera crap aquaguy91 🤬
I am not one of those women but you are most definitely ******* me off with the constant insult🤬🤬🤬 I am a sexual sex lover not a sex hater why do you ignore what I have said about loving sex etcetera 👽⁉️🤬 I should not even try helping you because you do not hear me you only continue to dump me in the bad women trash bin of sex haters 🤬🤬🤬 Yeah I am angry and tired and tired of trying to reason with you at least for now. Tired of trying to help you until you respectfully admit that I am not the women you detest🤬 Can you fraking do that aquaguy91 or are you that damn stupid and blinded by your damn ego and self hatred that you totally ignored what I have said about loving sex repeatedly⁉️🤬 I have enough crap on my plate and you are not paying attention nor admitting that I am not a sex hater game playing bittcch woman🤬 Yeppers I am very upset so tallyho for now and get some help because it is obvious you do not even try to pay attention to folks trying to help you here🤬👽 Additionally if looks and age and such matter more to you than a person being a perfect match for you otherwise if they do not fit your criteria of physical perfection🤬 Then go crawl under a rock because you just put yourself in the damn category of being an egotistical narrow-minded bigoted disgusting hater of all women who are not young and beautiful and in perfect shape to fit your criteria🤬🤬🤬 Geeeez I am too angry better go for now🤬🤬🤬 Yeah mean old ugly disabled fat me yelling at the guy who wants perfection from a woman but will never offer any woman that from himself👽 Frakeoff🤬 IP: Logged |
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9756 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 02, 2022 06:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: Hey I am deeply sorry. I stopped having faith in God in 2007. Coming from a religious family that wants to keep the family pedo a secret will do that I suppose. Plus not having my prayers answered, even if they were for really dumb things. I know the feeling of trying just to have more shhh hit the fan. Gratitude journal, candles, gems, supplements, eating healthy, cardio, essential oils, running, taking walks. Life pushing me beyond my breaking point anyways. I remember that you are born in 1991 yes? Uranus is probably opposing your Pluto. It certainly is for me…I wonder if I am past the hump yet. No I don’t think so. Also Chiron squaring our generational Capricorn stellium really sucks. It breaks my heart when a grown man doesn’t have his mom anymore. Not having her to fall back on. Her advice. Her comfort. My mom and I have had our issues, but for the most part she’s a rock. I lost my paternal grandma in 2019. We were close. She lived a long life. But I still cry when I think about her sometimes.
I know this was reply to aquaguy91 but I wanted to make a few comments because I relate to much of what you post❤️😭 My family especially mother are rabid Christian fanatics and as to pedophiles 🤬🤬 in my case it was my mother the sexual molester 🤬😭 up to my best agb age 10 or so 🤬😭 and her brother my rapist at age 9 🤬😭 What good was she or is she⁉️🤬 My brothers just adore her ugh🤬👽 Why⁉️👽🤬 Oh that's right all are also disgusting homophobes and Christian loonies like her🤬👽 Oh yeah all the new age crap that is supposed to help is for the most part pure marketing hype bulficnhshits👽🤬 Yeah we t pushed me to the brink of losing it too😭🤬 Glad you have a good thing with your mother❤️ I thought I had found God in a way about 2007 also but I was wrong and to hells with it all🤬 Gone back to being the antitheist where I should have stayed😎 Prayers are worthless at best and possibly dangerous because if there are entities out there they are not interested in our happiness or for our good benefit👽 In fact it has appeared to me when both as a child and as an adult that prayer has been a very negative thing for me👽👽👽 I believe it can attract busy body entities who were control freaks perhaps in life and or just plain evil👽 Not sure about any of it but no damn gods or damn prayers for me👽🤬 It breaks my heart that so many young folks are struggling with their lives so hard😭 Life was not easy for folks like me either growing up in the primitive but drastically changing world of the 1950s,1960s,1970s, 1980s,and so forth👽 But your times seem harder because of everything these days and as good as the internet and cell phones are and convenient, it is I believe hurting relationships too in some ways more than when neither existed👽 People cannot and do not take or find the time to try and connect in their fast paced lives👽 Lack of patience seems sadly much too common and the crowded social settings do not make for positive stages for connecting with folks as unique individuals👽 I do not envy you younger folks😭💙 Please do not be offended that I refer to you and others here as young folks, but I shall turn 68 years old this Thursday November 3rd. So yeah I am old it seems 👽 Feels super surreal 👽👽👽 Despite all my woes I do not feel that old inside😎 You are a kind and caring soul and it is very obvious that you are sincere and genuinely want to help others🥰 Love and hugs and good fortune to you dear Stawr🥰🌈💙 PS. I have lost to death pretty much all the folks I have loved 😭😭😭 That happens at my age especially being that so many were much older than myself, so they are long gone😭😭😭 Grandparents, friends, and yes I still cry over them from time to time😭😭😭 Note; one would be like 152 years old were he still alive😎💙 Death sucks😭👽 and I am struggling to avoid it for as long as reasonably possible and intend to beat these cancers etcetera 💙 One thing I have learned as I grow older and sicker is to snatch every good moment you can from life no matter how hard it is to find such good in life and savor every good moment and appreciate the little things that are pleasant, we all have such if we think about it😎 Like can you see or walk or not be a mess of health issues like me⁉️ Then consider being happy that you are not on my stinking bike boat of physical and financial horrors👽😭 Okay I am really too exhausted to be trying so much but the severe pain alternating next to the partial paralysis is making rest and sleep nigh onto impossible😭😭😭👽 Take care dear Stawr💙🥰
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LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9756 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 02, 2022 07:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Lexx, Thanks for the kind words. I'm not shallow and I'm not unreasonable, but attraction is mandatory. For a man, it's especially important because things don't function properly unless the attraction is there. It's just a reality.
Thank you for thanking me but you are so damn screwed up on your opinion that I am near to a loss of what to say about it👽👽👽 Not all men are pigs and demand perfection of a woman 🤬 You are sorely messed up if you sincerely believe that only absolute perfection and all in the appearance of a woman is the only criteria for you to become interested and or sexually aroused👽👽👽 Honey the realty is that for real genuine folks looks never matter😎 I never bothered with looks and dated fellows most would avoid like 500 pound dudes, really old dudes, amputees, paraplegics, blind, and severely scarred, and pretty much most things that would put a person off who thinks like you do that absolute perfection is a criteria or not going to even try anyone who does not fit your damn criteria👽🤬 I have been bothe anorexicaly deathly thin and also up to 425 pounds in my life to date👽 I also until I was in my mid twenties wore glasses that were literally 3/4 inch thick👽I stuttered too👽 I was voted the ugliest legs in high school👽😭 My birth defects were the cause of their being too short etcetera 😭 I only had one man complain about my body and that was my first ex husband🤬👽 He hated it that my legs were too short to wrap around him during sex 👽😭 He insulted me for having a tiny mouth that could not easily accommodate his huge penis👽🤬 I could but not having it banged into my mouth without giving me time to work it in and all🤬 Just slam bam ook okk gotta get off greed on his part🤬 So go ahead be like all the bigoted shallow minded men who are pigs and demand perfection because they cannot ever get off sexually if the woman is not exactly how they want her to look or frakeoff to her Ugh 👽🤬 Just wow dude wow 👽🤬👽🤬 That is shallow seriously what you said very shallow is not true of all.men only the egotistical shallow pigs🤬
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2022 11:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by LEXX: [QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91: [b]Lexx, Thanks for the kind words. I'm not shallow and I'm not unreasonable, but attraction is mandatory. For a man, it's especially important because things don't function properly unless the attraction is there. It's just a reality.
Thank you for thanking me but you are so damn screwed up on your opinion that I am near to a loss of what to say about it👽👽👽 Not all men are pigs and demand perfection of a woman 🤬 You are sorely messed up if you sincerely believe that only absolute perfection and all in the appearance of a woman is the only criteria for you to become interested and or sexually aroused👽👽👽 Honey the realty is that for real genuine folks looks never matter😎 I never bothered with looks and dated fellows most would avoid like 500 pound dudes, really old dudes, amputees, paraplegics, blind, and severely scarred, and pretty much most things that would put a person off who thinks like you do that absolute perfection is a criteria or not going to even try anyone who does not fit your damn criteria👽🤬 I have been bothe anorexicaly deathly thin and also up to 425 pounds in my life to date👽 I also until I was in my mid twenties wore glasses that were literally 3/4 inch thick👽I stuttered too👽 I was voted the ugliest legs in high school👽😭 My birth defects were the cause of their being too short etcetera 😭 I only had one man complain about my body and that was my first ex husband🤬👽 He hated it that my legs were too short to wrap around him during sex 👽😭 He insulted me for having a tiny mouth that could not easily accommodate his huge penis👽🤬 I could but not having it banged into my mouth without giving me time to work it in and all🤬 Just slam bam ook okk gotta get off greed on his part🤬 So go ahead be like all the bigoted shallow minded men who are pigs and demand perfection because they cannot ever get off sexually if the woman is not exactly how they want her to look or frakeoff to her Ugh 👽🤬 Just wow dude wow 👽🤬👽🤬 That is shallow seriously what you said very shallow is not true of all.men only the egotistical shallow pigs🤬 [/B][/QUOTE] Wow, Where did that reaction come from? I didn't say a single word about looks. I simply said attraction is attraction is attraction. And it has to be present for a man to even get an erection. I've tried to have sex with women I wasn't attracted to and it didn't work and thus I didn't get off. Again, that's not just about looks but looks are a part of it for sure. Attraction, for me, is equal parts physical attraction and equal parts energy. I've been attracted to very overweight women because the energy was there and they wore a certain perfume and they did overtly sensual things like push their **** into me when they talked to me in noisy environments. I've been attracted to all kinds of women for all types of women. My point is my "type" is very inclusive for a variety of different types of women. I'm Aquarius Venus for crying out loud. But that doesn't mean everyone is my type. For example, my body may absolutely light up when I come close to a woman but if I get the sense she isn't sensual and has sexual hangups my interest will dry up fast. I was eating out with my brother and dad recently and they jokingly criticized me for picking a table with an unattractive waitress and they pointed to a "hot" one that was tending a table nearby. I looked at her and saw a very conventionally attractive young woman with a conventionally attractive body and I felt nothing because I hadn't interacted with her and had no idea what she was like as a person. With my poor vision I couldn't even get a sense of whether her eyes were kind or not so I didn't feel any attraction for her. But I did feel attraction for our ordinary looking waitress with glasses because she was sweet and I felt chemistry when we made eye contact. But the hilarious thing is my dad and brother, who both get treated way better by women, are way more shallow than me but you are calling me out for being shallow. Life is funny. Lmao 😂😆😂 IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2022 02:18 PM
Lexx, I think I told you about a pretty young woman who I made eye contact with in a club a month or so ago who keeps "appearing" right by my desk at work when I'm there. It's clear she is trying to interact with me in some way because she always initiates eye contact but never smiles. She is very beautiful physically but I'll never talk to her because her energy is weird to me and I can't make out what she wants from me if she wants anything at all. The whole thing is bizarre in my opinion IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 8838 From: Here since March 24th.2005/..& Have been Lexagramming going on 2/3 of a century to date! LEXIGRAMMING.♥is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 03, 2022 05:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: : Lexx, Thanks for the kind words.
You are welcome 😎 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: : I am not shallow and I'm not unreasonable, but attraction is mandatory. For a man, it's especially important because things don't function properly unless the attraction is there. It's just a reality.
That is ridiculous aquaguy91 👽🤣 Men and women get aroused and can function without any attraction to another person 🤣 Erections and female arousal happen even in sleep and for many other reasons 😎 However the presence of another person to arouse one is not required and definitely not mandatory🤣 You need to see a doctor about this issue because you should be able to get an erection by your own hand and or using your imagination 🤣 Unless you find the other person is a total disgusting turn off, Just having contact with a man's penis should cause an erection🤣 The penis has no mind only very sensitive easily aroused nerves🤣 Geez dude men even often orgasm or at least get and erection from various medical examinations that involve the prostate and often the doctor is male and the patient does not need to be gay to become aroused🤣 How about making the first move to communicate with the ladies⁉️💋 Just freaking open your mouth and at least say hello and see where it goes or not😎 Like the woman who weirded you out because she made eye contact but does not say anything👽 Why didn't you just say hello to her and give her a big friendly approachable emile⁉️😎💋 I have done that staring thing not speaking eye contact thing to folks because I was afraid and did not know what to say and afraid of rejection👽 What is the worse thing that could happen if you had bothered to say hello to her⁉️ Just make the first moves and see if anything comes of it🤣 Sounds like you get many chances to make the first move but for some strange reason you just sit there and say nothing👽 The waitress you said was sweet😎💋 Did you just sit there or did you talk to her and did you ask her out or did you just sit there mute⁉️👽 A casual hello and thanking her for waiting on you would have been very appreciated by her I am sure💋🥰 Take more chances aquaguy91 and start just saying hello to the ladies and try engaging them in simple non committal casual conversation and see where it goes from there😎 Women can be hesitant or shy or afraid to make even a simple small first move😢 Never assume the women are ignoring you especially when you say nothing to them👽 Compliment them if you like their hair or clothes or any small thing😎 You could make their day😎 Additionally saying such things to a woman if you notice that she seems tired like a waitress often is, say you look tired⁉️ Rough day⁉️ Sound sympathetic,😎💙 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I'm Aquarius Venus for crying out loud. But that doesn't mean everyone is my type. For example, my body may absolutely light up when I come close to a woman but if I get the sense she isn't sensual and has sexual hangups my interest will dry up fast.
that is strange👽👽👽 You go all dry right off without even trying to have a conversation That is a big load of assumption that she is not sexual aquaguy91 😳👽 Seriously why should she be oozing sexual energy⁉️👽👽😳 She might be having menstrual cramps or tired or just not feeling sexuall at that moment💙 Why should any woman automatically radiate sexual energy energy just because you look at her⁉️ 😳👽 Never assume a woman's lack of radiating sexual energy put to you has anything to do with you😳💙👽 People are not always feeling sexual but that does not mean they are prudes or hate sex 👽👽👽 You assume too much👽 Sounds like you rarely give any women a chance👽👽👽 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I was eating out with my brother and dad recently and they jokingly criticized me for picking a table with an unattractive waitress and they pointed to a "hot" one that was tending a table nearby
Your dad and brother sound like an old jerks pig guys 🤬🤬👽 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I looked at her and saw a very conventionally attractive young woman with a conventionally attractive body and I felt nothing because I hadn't interacted with her and had no idea what she was like as a person. With my poor vision I couldn't even get a sense of whether her eyes were kind or not so I didn't feel any attraction for her.
ylYet you never bothered to to say hello or see if there were anything there did you⁉️👽 Not her fault that you never said anything to her 👽 As to you having bad eyesight get glasses dude🤣 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91:But I did feel attraction for our ordinary looking waitress with glasses because she was sweet and I felt chemistry when we made eye contact.
Yet again you said nothing to her even after the eye contact⁉️👽 Seriously you did not try to engage her in conversation⁉️👽 Why not⁉️⁉️⁉️ quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: But the hilarious thing is my dad and brother, who both get treated way better by women, are way more shallow than me but you are calling me out for being shallow. Life is funny. Lmao 😂😆😂
sounds again that your brother and dad are both chauvinistic idiots and man pigs🤬 You explained that you are not totally hung up on appearances😎 However you seem to miss and enen throw away many opportunities to engage women in conversation because you assume that they are not sexual or might reject you👽💙 Again a woman has many reasons to not be radiating sexual energy at the moment that you are wanting to sense that from them 💙👽 It might just be her mood or health that day and has absolutely nothing to do with you💙 Must go to hospital in a little while so going from here for now💙It is also My 68th. Birthday today😎🥳🎂🎈 IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 03, 2022 09:46 AM
Lexx, I don't feel comfortable talking to her because her energy is conflicted and I can't read her or her intentions. Keep in mind that a lot of young women today play games just like that. Heck, there was one woman on this very forum who said she used to make eye contact with men just to see if they would try talking to her. And I didn't mean that I wouldn't be interested in a woman if she isn't overtly sexual in the first conversation. It's all about energy. It's all about warmth. It's all about how they interact and look at me and touch my arm etc. In the case of this woman, I actually find her very attractive, but the problem is I can't understand her so there's no hope for things to even get off the ground. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 03, 2022 09:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lexxigramer: [QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91: [b] : Lexx, Thanks for the kind words.
You are welcome 😎 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: : I am not shallow and I'm not unreasonable, but attraction is mandatory. For a man, it's especially important because things don't function properly unless the attraction is there. It's just a reality.
That is ridiculous aquaguy91 👽🤣 Men and women get aroused and can function without any attraction to another person 🤣 Erections and female arousal happen even in sleep and for many other reasons 😎 However the presence of another person to arouse one is not required and definitely not mandatory🤣 You need to see a doctor about this issue because you should be able to get an erection by your own hand and or using your imagination 🤣 Unless you find the other person is a total disgusting turn off, Just having contact with a man's penis should cause an erection🤣 The penis has no mind only very sensitive easily aroused nerves🤣 Geez dude men even often orgasm or at least get and erection from various medical examinations that involve the prostate and often the doctor is male and the patient does not need to be gay to become aroused🤣 How about making the first move to communicate with the ladies⁉️💋 Just freaking open your mouth and at least say hello and see where it goes or not😎 Like the woman who weirded you out because she made eye contact but does not say anything👽 Why didn't you just say hello to her and give her a big friendly approachable emile⁉️😎💋 I have done that staring thing not speaking eye contact thing to folks because I was afraid and did not know what to say and afraid of rejection👽 What is the worse thing that could happen if you had bothered to say hello to her⁉️ Just make the first moves and see if anything comes of it🤣 Sounds like you get many chances to make the first move but for some strange reason you just sit there and say nothing👽 The waitress you said was sweet😎💋 Did you just sit there or did you talk to her and did you ask her out or did you just sit there mute⁉️👽 A casual hello and thanking her for waiting on you would have been very appreciated by her I am sure💋🥰 Take more chances aquaguy91 and start just saying hello to the ladies and try engaging them in simple non committal casual conversation and see where it goes from there😎 Women can be hesitant or shy or afraid to make even a simple small first move😢 Never assume the women are ignoring you especially when you say nothing to them👽 Compliment them if you like their hair or clothes or any small thing😎 You could make their day😎 Additionally saying such things to a woman if you notice that she seems tired like a waitress often is, say you look tired⁉️ Rough day⁉️ Sound sympathetic,😎💙 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I'm Aquarius Venus for crying out loud. But that doesn't mean everyone is my type. For example, my body may absolutely light up when I come close to a woman but if I get the sense she isn't sensual and has sexual hangups my interest will dry up fast.
that is strange👽👽👽 You go all dry right off without even trying to have a conversation That is a big load of assumption that she is not sexual aquaguy91 😳👽 Seriously why should she be oozing sexual energy⁉️👽👽😳 She might be having menstrual cramps or tired or just not feeling sexuall at that moment💙 Why should any woman automatically radiate sexual energy energy just because you look at her⁉️ 😳👽 Never assume a woman's lack of radiating sexual energy put to you has anything to do with you😳💙👽 People are not always feeling sexual but that does not mean they are prudes or hate sex 👽👽👽 You assume too much👽 Sounds like you rarely give any women a chance👽👽👽 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I was eating out with my brother and dad recently and they jokingly criticized me for picking a table with an unattractive waitress and they pointed to a "hot" one that was tending a table nearby
Your dad and brother sound like an old jerks pig guys 🤬🤬👽 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I looked at her and saw a very conventionally attractive young woman with a conventionally attractive body and I felt nothing because I hadn't interacted with her and had no idea what she was like as a person. With my poor vision I couldn't even get a sense of whether her eyes were kind or not so I didn't feel any attraction for her.
ylYet you never bothered to to say hello or see if there were anything there did you⁉️👽 Not her fault that you never said anything to her 👽 As to you having bad eyesight get glasses dude🤣 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91:But I did feel attraction for our ordinary looking waitress with glasses because she was sweet and I felt chemistry when we made eye contact.
Yet again you said nothing to her even after the eye contact⁉️👽 Seriously you did not try to engage her in conversation⁉️👽 Why not⁉️⁉️⁉️ quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: But the hilarious thing is my dad and brother, who both get treated way better by women, are way more shallow than me but you are calling me out for being shallow. Life is funny. Lmao 😂😆😂
sounds again that your brother and dad are both chauvinistic idiots and man pigs🤬 You explained that you are not totally hung up on appearances😎 However you seem to miss and enen throw away many opportunities to engage women in conversation because you assume that they are not sexual or might reject you👽💙 Again a woman has many reasons to not be radiating sexual energy at the moment that you are wanting to sense that from them 💙👽 It might just be her mood or health that day and has absolutely nothing to do with you💙 Must go to hospital in a little while so going from here for now💙It is also My 68th. Birthday today😎🥳🎂🎈 [/B][/QUOTE] Happy Birthday Lexx 🎂🎉🎂🎉! Hope you have a nice day! 
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posted November 03, 2022 02:10 PM
quote: originally posted by aquaguy91: Happy Birthday Lexx 🎂🎉🎂🎉! Hope you have a nice day!
Bad horrible birthday ever 👽😭 I had to go to chemothetapy this morning on my 68th. birthday 👽😳 Not a happy thing for birthdays👽 Whilst there my younger sister died literally today on my birthday from bone cancer after she had just survived breast cancers👽😭So not up to giving much of a damn about other people's life dramas at this time ugh👽👽👽 I am saying one thing to you before signing off for do not know how long,😳 Talk to that woman damnit 🤬 Wtf aquaguy91 👽👽👽 You are giving up before you even know if anything good could happen👽👽👽🤬 Freaking stupid stupid chicken shite of you to not even try🤬👽 You can never know what her intentions are if you do not talk to her you freaking fool🤬 Go ahead waste your life not making at least some efforts to try and communicate 🤬👽 Talk to her already😳 What could she possibly do to you that could be so freaking horrible⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️👽 I am done trying with you for the time being 👽 Despite all my serious woes I am trying my very best to live my life 😎 just as I watch you going above and beyond working to destroy your life🤬🤬🤬 You do not want happiness it seems nor do you seem to even want to try to find it👽👽👽 Disgusting ugh 🤬 quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Lexx, I don't feel comfortable talking to her because her energy is conflicted and I can't read her or her intentions. Keep in mind that a lot of young women today play games just like that. Heck, there was one woman on this very forum who said she used to make eye contact with men just to see if they would try talking to her. And I didn't mean that I wouldn't be interested in a woman if she isn't overtly sexual in the first conversation. It's all about energy. It's all about warmth. It's all about how they interact and look at me and touch my arm etc. In the case of this woman, I actually find her very attractive, but the problem is I can't understand her so there's no hope for things to even get off the ground.
Again freaking beyond stupid aquaguy91 👽🤬 You have given up without even trying to take a leap and give conversation a try 👽🤬 Creepy stupid cowardly ugh👽🤬 See my replies before quoting you here at end of this year reply👽 IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 03, 2022 05:06 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your sister Lexx. Hugs. IP: Logged |
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posted November 03, 2022 10:35 PM
Lexx, For one thing she puts herself in front of me when I'm at work. That alone complicates things and makes it a delicate situation. And like I said, her energy feels off to me. She doesn't smile at all and her energy doesn't feel inviting, so there are a lot of mixed signals going on. IP: Logged |
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posted November 04, 2022 01:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Lexx, For one thing she puts herself in front of me when I'm at work. That alone complicates things and makes it a delicate situation. And like I said, her energy feels off to me. She doesn't smile at all and her energy doesn't feel inviting, so there are a lot of mixed signals going on.
Well that seems rather super creepy strange 👽👽👽 Is there any other co-worker, another guy perhaps, whom you may ask if he knows why she stares at you and doesn't smile⁉️👽😳 Or try this tact; Ask her if there is a problem ⁉️😳 or ask her if you are bothering her in any way⁉️😳 Or ask her if there is anything you can do for her⁉️ Or ask her a question or comment about the job you both do⁉️ Break the ice with something or you will not know what the heck is going on or not👽😳Or this idea; Ask you boss if they know why she states at you without speaking👽😳 She might be a nutter 👽or just not socially mature💙 Does she stare blankly and how long⁉️👽 Does she glare or show no emotion⁉️👽 Seriously you must find out why she is doing this 👽⁉️ She could be dangerous👽😳 Do you stare at her when she does this ⁉️⁉️⁉️👽😳 Just smile at her next time and look away or perhaps say "hope you are having a good day" and be sure to speak her name like; Hope you are having a good day Lisa😎 and then look away and go back to what you were doing before she got in your face😳💙 Seriously what is the worse thing that could happen⁉️😳💙🤣 I am extremely curious about what she is doing and why👽😳🤣 Or as you leave work call put to her casually and say such as these things depending on whether it is the workday end or the end of the he work week😎 Have a great evening😎 Or Have a great weekend😎 Or if a holiday coming up; Happy holidays😎 Merry Christmas🎅 Or whatever greeting or salutation would be casually appropriate but safe to utter😎 IP: Logged |
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posted November 04, 2022 01:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I'm sorry to hear about your sister Lexx. Hugs.
Thank you our for caring aquaguy91 ❤️💙Also thank you for saying happy birthday to me😎❤️💋💞🥰 No one else said it here at all 😭😭😭👽👽👽 I feel so forgotten and like my birthday means nothing and I am being shunned because of cancer and all🤣😭 Folks use to wish me happy birthday here but do not even bother to say boo about my birthday any longer 👽😭 I am old but my birthdays are still very important to me especially being that I am fighting hard to survive cancer and hope to have many more birthdays 😳💙😎 It is like most want me to just go away or disappear or even die👽👽👽😭 Getting old sucks 👽😭 So again thank aquaguy91 for giving me the ONLY happy birthday greeting that I got for my 68th. Birthday🥰💞💋❤️😎 Blessings and love to you aquaguy91 🥰💞❤️🌈😎
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PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 744 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted November 04, 2022 01:56 AM
Sorry Lexxigrammer, it feels difficult to congratulate someone when they just lost someone. I don’t think people mean anything wrong with it. It’s a day late, but still I would like to wish you a happy birthday. May there be many more. ❤️IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 744 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted November 04, 2022 02:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Lexx, For one thing she puts herself in front of me when I'm at work. That alone complicates things and makes it a delicate situation. And like I said, her energy feels off to me. She doesn't smile at all and her energy doesn't feel inviting, so there are a lot of mixed signals going on.
Often it takes time for people to open up. If this is someone you really like, and I mean more than just attraction, someone who could also be a friend, put in a little more effort to get to know them. Maybe tell them you really appreciate something they did for you and you would like to buy them a coffee. Yes, attraction is important but people want to be liked for who they genuinely are as well. IP: Logged |
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posted November 04, 2022 02:07 AM
Happy belated Lexx. I'm sorry, I've been mostly away from the board, and social media. IP: Logged |
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posted November 04, 2022 02:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: Sorry Lexxigrammer, it feels difficult to congratulate someone when they just lost someone. I don’t think people mean anything wrong with it. It’s a day late, but still I would like to wish you a happy birthday. May there be many more. ❤️
Tjank you PlutoWasHere 🥰💞😎 It was not a good day and I really was not coping well with good reason 😭 Selfish of me to expect folks to just jump in and say happy birthday and give sympathy too for my sister's death that weirdly happened at about the time that I was born back in 1954👽Thank you for the belated happy birthday PlutoWasHere 💞🥰💋❤️😎 Greatly appreciated😎❤️ And thank you for caring😎❤️ By the way I love your username 😎❤️ What does it mean⁉️😎 IP: Logged |
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posted November 04, 2022 02:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: Happy belated Lexx. I'm sorry, I've been mostly away from the board, and social media.
Love and blessings to you dear teasel 🥰💞❤️🌈💙 I am just being whiney and pitiful but who would not be with all that has and is going on in my world ⁉️👽😭Thank you sincerely for the belated happy birthday wishes ❤️💞🥰💋😎 You are the first one way back in 2005 who sent to me an ecard😎🥰 I still have it somewhere🥰😎 You and Randall are my only fb friends too😎🥰 Many left because of a religious persons blackballing me and more crap 🤬 Not going into that at his time 🤬 IAd far as my birthday yesterday I was also greatly saddened because my only child age 41 totally ignored me on my birthday 👽😭 He is refusing to acknowledge that I am strugglng with cancer and selfishly shunning me because I cannot have physical contact with him or his wife or my two grandchildren because I am severely immunocompromised and also am unable to take the trip far away to visit them all👽😭 So he has pretty much disowned me😭👽 I wish him a good life but I have to let it go that I have a family👽 I do need to in practical reality👽😭 I was in the hospital emergency room during his first wedding and he never forgave me for not being at his wedding👽😭 I was too ill to travel and he knew it and he and his fiance put on their wedding announcements that his stepmother and not me is his real mother👽😭 I am proud of his accomplishments and wish him well but must accept that he simply is uncaring and selfish 😭 I did not even know that I have two grandchildren until years after they were born👽😭 Okay enough of my hijacking aquaguy91's thread again 💙
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posted November 04, 2022 02:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: Often it takes time for people to open up. If this is someone you really like, and I mean more than just attraction, someone who could also be a friend, put in a little more effort to get to know them. Maybe tell them you really appreciate something they did for you and you would like to buy them a coffee. Yes, attraction is important but people want to be liked for who they genuinely are as well.
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posted November 04, 2022 03:16 AM
Happy Birthday Lexx, Best wishes for you. 🙏 🌹IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 04, 2022 07:39 AM
Okay, I think it's time for more context. So I first ran into this woman at a night club back in September. I didn't even speak to her then and she didn't speak to me, but we made very strong eye contact as we passed by each other several times. After that, I passed by her at my work less than a week later and it was undeniable that she was the same woman from the club because she had a very unique look about her. I also have a unique look and we both seemed shook up upon seeing each other randomly again like that. I suspect she remembered me because I was wearing my strong and distinct cologne both times. Any ways, ever since then she appears by my work station when I'm working. Mind you, this whole thing is playing out in a busy place in a city of half a million people, so it definitely is strange. Like I said she never smiles but she will make eye contact if I look at her.IP: Logged |
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posted November 04, 2022 10:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries Eagle: Happy Birthday Lexx, Best wishes for you. 🙏 🌹
Thank you muchly Aries Eagle🥰😎 IP: Logged |
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posted November 04, 2022 10:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Okay, I think it's time for more context. So I first ran into this woman at a night club back in September. I didn't even speak to her then and she didn't speak to me, but we made very strong eye contact as we passed by each other several times. After that, I passed by her at my work less than a week later and it was undeniable that she was the same woman from the club because she had a very unique look about her. I also have a unique look and we both seemed shook up upon seeing each other randomly again like that. I suspect she remembered me because I was wearing my strong and distinct cologne both times. Any ways, ever since then she appears by my work station when I'm working. Mind you, this whole thing is playing out in a busy place in a city of half a million people, so it definitely is strange. Like I said she never smiles but she will make eye contact if I look at her.
say something to her 🥰💋💞❤️😎 I sincerely feel. that hoth of you are too afraid to say anything 👽💙😭Take it this way seriously; quote:
It is better to regret what you do in life than to regret what you never did do
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