posted November 05, 2022 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
The thing is she is giving very mixed signals and I've never had things go well when I was getting mixed signals.

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You might be reading her wrong aquaguy91 😳👽
May e she is on the spectrum too and you both are floundering in a state of not knowing how and what to do and say so you just the just go strange and no one s pp speaks or even he tries to break to the ice👽😭

Seriously just please to say
ANYTHING
to.her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😍

Do you ever see her eating candy or such⁉️
Ask her if she wants some candy yo just happen to hav handy😎

Does she drive a car ⁉️
Tell her you like her car
or her shoes or like anything about her😎

Seriously aquaguy91
No one just looks at another person repeatedly if they are not interested😳😳😳

I would make you go nutters of I was there for hen she stares at you and you state at her 🤣🤣🤣
I would say to both of you What is it with you two giving each other the silent treatment stares ⁉️
Are you telepathically trying to talk to each other🤣⁉️

Or I would say
So where did you two meet ⁉️

Or I would ask around to get her name and then walk up to the two of you who are being silent fools
and blurt out or hand you both a note saying such as;

Hello Lisa Jane Smith
I have noticed that you keep looking at this gentleman here many times
I would like to introduce you to my friend
aquaguy91
Have a great day😎

Then you would also get a note from me at the same time
Hello aquaguy91
This is Lisa Jane Smith
Say hello to her right now because she also just read a note from me introducing you to her😎

You two are both being immature ninnys
Both of you too damn l chicken **** scared or too shy or too snobby or just too plain stupid to even try to just say a freaking simple
Hello, nice day, or wtf) ever😳👽

Just because it never has worked before does not mean it will not again😳👽

You two are not even trying 👽🤬

You put the negative what ifs out front every time and basically kill any possibility of something good happening because you rather he alone and lonely and cry about it instead of giving life a chance or anyone🤬👽

I am tired of trying to help you and I care deeply 💙but you are not even trying to get a life and test the waters to see what and who is out there🤬

Break the damn ice already🤣

posted November 05, 2022 04:34 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
The thing is she is giving very mixed signals and I've never had things go well when I was getting mixed signals.

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You don’t have to go from ice cold to boiling hot from 1 minute to the next. Just slowly warm up to her and then you will notice when you hit a boundary without it getting too awkward.

posted November 05, 2022 12:38 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
You don’t have to go from ice cold to boiling hot from 1 minute to the next. Just slowly warm up to her and then you will notice when you hit a boundary without it getting too awkward.

Couldn’t you just say that she looks familiar to you and if she visited club so and so? That’s not too intrusive is it? If she says yes, just ask her a little bit more. If she likes that club, if she knows any other clubs she would recommend. Just small talk, you could talk about clubs and work as that is something you have in common. That doesn’t make it weird at all. It just takes a bit of time to see if you could be a match (I mean weeks here, not minutes). That’s important for you too, she may look pretty but not everyone will be good for you and you’ll get your feelings hurt if you’re already making this a big thing.

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However as we all have witnessed he will make more and more
totally illogically excuses to avoid even trying as we have seen him do repeatedly
and then boo hoo wah wah whine oh my my my poor him woe is him jackass chicken shite
crap will spew forth from him yet again because
he will not even try to give things a fair chance and we are wasting our time trying to convince him to make the ice breaker move with any woman👽
How the heck he had the wild sex with that
woman he posted graphically in raw sex details the sexual acts he performed on her👽
Who broke that ice her or him⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️👽
I am thinking he just loves the super safe attention we have got ven and give to him here for years and he actually does not want to bother with realty and maybe he has never had sex with anyone which would explain his over the top rather creepy attitudes concerning women 👽
That wild raw sex thread where he bragged on about his amazing passion and virility may well be nothing but a huge fantasy he dreamed up and wanted attention from folks here
and wow
he got the attention👽😳
Looking close there is definitely
something very off about all all
he tells us 👽

Feels like it all might just be a huge pile of head games
from a man who claims he wants a real relationship 👽

Not thing makes any sense from him👽👽👽
We know st might be being jerked around it seems after all and there he is laughing as he types in the safety of his space
laughing whilst he continues to get his jollies playing us all for fools👽👽👽🤬🤬🤬

PlutoWasHere💙
See his reply to you quoted below 👽👽
Creepy ugh wtf⁉️⁉️⁉️😳👽🤬

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Plutowashere,
That's what you and others don't get. Everything is high stakes when you've never been treated right in your entire life. It's ******* brutal for an average or below average looking introverted man because most women play games and toy with men's emotions. I'm living proof. I've been so burned by women that I'm not willing to try and play those stupid games anymore. That's what people don't get get. I've been so hurt it's just not worth the risk. Of course it's high stakes because I only get treated badly. It's all I get. Women do not come into my life with love and kindness and help co-create situations where we can both have self esteem. No. They come and they take. That's my experience of trying to meet and date women. It's very simple, I've been conditioned to view trying to interact with women as unpleasant and it has worked to perfection.

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posted November 06, 2022 01:10 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Uh Lexx,
I was able to get to a point with that woman because I felt safe to get to that point. There's no contradiction there at all, actually
There's a big difference between a mutually understood dialogue and a stranger playing games with me at my work where I don't feel safe or comfortable trying to engage in that way.

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Give her a chance please💙💋
PlutoWasHere gave you excellent
advice too so break the ice
with the lady
It will either work out or not💋💞👽😳
You cannot know the outcome
until you
take the plunge to break the ice 💙

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Okay,
I think it's time for more context. So I first ran into this woman at a night club back in September. I didn't even speak to her then and she didn't speak to me, but we made very strong eye contact as we passed by each other several times. After that, I passed by her at my work less than a week later and it was undeniable that she was the same woman from the club because she had a very unique look about her. I also have a unique look and we both seemed shook up upon seeing each other randomly again like that. I suspect she remembered me because I was wearing my strong and distinct cologne both times. Any ways, ever since then she appears by my work station when I'm working. Mind you, this whole thing is playing out in a busy place in a city of half a million people, so it definitely is strange. Like I said she never smiles but she will make eye contact if I look at her.

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can we meet for
coffee after work⁉️😎

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posted November 07, 2022 02:33 PM            

Also I courted my husband in the library
where he worked
and and it was amazing
to say the least 😎💞💋

It is easy to quietly slip a
note or a whisper or ask to meet
after work😎
Or ask if there is anything library
wise she needs help with😎
Ask her what sh likes to read 😎💋📚📖👓

I just do not know what else to say or suggest 😭👽😳

If I were not disabled I would
come down to see you in person
and I would try to discern what
the beautiful lady is intending 😎💋